Taitee....laughing at your egusi and swallow for breakfast...wow!!! wish i could eat like that....

These days, i eat very light breakfast about 150 - 200 calories, my lunch is usually a bit heavy about 500-900 calories, then i rarely eat dinner because i am still full from the lunch i have eaten, so i just drink a cup of tea or a bowl of cream of wheat (200 calories) or a cup of water.....been doing that for 1week and half now....

Logs for yesterday (sunday) 3 hours in the museum, after church, the women organized an outing for kids under 8 years...it was fun though but tiring, wanted my son to be part of it too, i was walking around for 3 hours calling kids and looking for some, phew!!!!! i am not looking forward to another outing with a bunch of kids....

This morning, 30 minutes cardio kickboxing with Violet Zaki and a good 3 minutes yoga-cool down, that was so great....breakfast, is just half a bagel and butter with a cup of tea.

Sagamite:

Well the would give me an opportunity to unleash my own back if that is the mentality!

If that is really the mentality, I will break a head to cure the mental state.

Someone should never try that kind of shyt with me.

If you do not have a loose family, that thinks they can get away with anything and lack respect, they won't try it at all because that is the height of dis-respect

Moreso, i feel the brother feels, he would get away with it, you know that thought "that i will deal with this babe's f/u/ck-up since the hubby cannot control her"...mentality, now it has back-fired.

Sagamite:

The father is daft!

If your child is living under our roof and something happens you don't like, even if you do not have the brains to broach it with me first, have the brains to talk to the wife instead of slapping her.

I guess it is because the person has limited brain cells is the most likely reason his own child is not living under his roof. He should be grateful.

You are a man and someone else is raising your child, anuofia!

My hubby says, apart from the fact that the girl's father is a useless man "raising his hands against his brother's wife", he is sure, the lady is not well-liked by the husband's family, so he/they got an oppotunity to unleash what has been bothering him/them on the lady.....that there is more to that story than what just a mere spanking would cause.

Sagamite:

I disagree.

If an in-law is living and benefiting under my roof, my wife should have the liberty to deal with the situation in my absence the same way I would have (i.e. smack a child or tell off an adult if necessary).

FFS, she is the Junior Partner, Chief Operating Officer and an Executive Director in that territory! She has enough powers.

I am the Chairman, Senior Partner, Chief Executive Officer and Managing Director! I am saying this to let everyone know I am more superior. Alpha-male here o, not real man. I lead in my house, any woman that does not like it can fck off.

Sometimes using wisdom in a case that involves both families or might involve both families, is better than exercising some rights or power, Many atimes we all have powers but choosing the battle is always the best time to show-off that power. There is nothing wrong in correcting a child, but if it means you will have to beat her to the point that her own father will come and fight on her behalf and would involve the entire family, then it was best she waited for her husband first or reporting the child to her husband first....before unleashing her anger.

Moreso an inlaw...is still another person's child.....

I narrated the whole scenerio to my husband, i wanted to know his opinions in regards to the matter, not that the matter has not been over flogged.

He said;
1. the lady (wife) is at fault, in the sense that, she should have waited for her husband to come back before she started beating up the girl, not that he does not support a child to be disciplined, but the girl in question is an inlaw, to her and moreso, God forbid she hit her out of anger and the girl passes-out, what will she say happened to the girl. She should have waited and reported the girl to her husband and allowed the husband to carry out the disciplinary action, that would have averted all this unnecessary clash in the family.

2. He said, it goes to show how the man's(husband) family is, they preach respect and demand it at all cost, without necessarily knowing how to give it in return. The brother of the husband shouldn't have come over to the house but instead, he should have called his brother and reported the incident to him, let the husband take it up from there.

3. Above all, there is no point allowing your unnecessary family members that have parents, in the case of this little girl, to be allowed to come and live with you, the girl should remain with her parents, if it is money they need, that money should be given to them on a monthly basis to care for their kids (since the man is handicapped, and cannot work) , i laughed at that one.

jennykadry:

According to the OP if I remember correctly, It was the first time this woman has ever disciplined this girl the way she did. That girl's father was just trying to exercise some strength on her, what a weakling. He saw the real fight and he scaled fence. e for sitdon jejely defend himself.

i know right!!! don't mind that man, he just used his position as the older one, to cause unnecessary problem in the family...he has forgotten that the bond between a husband and a wife cannot be explained.

jennykadry: .......

I hope sagamite finds God though, cos he is real.

True dat!!!!! Amin.....

^^^^^^yep...lost 35 pounds of extra baby weight.....still have 10 yo go and that one does not want to bulge at all......

Good morning guys. hope we are enjoying out saturday.....
Exercise for yesterday, 1 hr walk, it was so great, i was swinging my hands up and down to the sides too, just increase the heart rate and burn more calories, it was great....had fun doing it.

Sagamite:

Well, foreign countries or people are not always right you know.

Shebi that is what they want others to believe, that they do not beat their kids, i saw a neighbour of mine, pure white man, hitting his kid, i felt bad for the boy.....but his dad had to discipline him, if you see the back-hand he gave that boy..

Another event happened in the store, a lady had been warning her son, you could hear her from the other side yelling at him, omo, the next thing she was pulling on his ears, as in, turning the ears till it turned red, the boy should be around 10 yrs old and instanta he behaved himself.

Some Nigerian parents with over-sabi attitude, "don't beat a minor", go and live with some of this white parents and see how they really discipline their kids, they know how to reinforce positive behaviours and also know how to punnish negative ones with different methods.Don't take what you watch in the movies to heart at all, all that na for show.

Drnoel....in as much as i do not like violence of any kind....but i like the way things turned out. There is no justification of any kind where another man will raise his hands against another man's wife, because they feel they are disciplinarians, am glad the husband stood up for his wife and also her family....the husband's elder brother should have waited...how would he like it, if his younger brothers beat up his own wife?, am sure he will pat them on the back since he "beats his wife" if raising your hands against another person's wife comes so easily, then imagine what he must have done or is still doing to his own wife. Anyways, am sure he has learnt his lesson.

It will take awhile for everything to die-down, but all will be well in due time.

Hey guys....how have you all been

No exercise for me for the week at all....had a serious....(infact that time ..issue) so exercising was not it for me at all, but will be back on because i feel so tired at every step i take, my whole body feels heavy so, it's time to loosen up all the tight muslces.

Sagamite:

The traits of the guys in this apex of intellectuals are people who are faultlessly objective, logical and deal with facts. They are also receptive to these 3 things in a debate and are willing to concede a point when based on the 3, not do "I no go carry last" arguments. I have debated with some of these guys before and have observed it.

The next layer are guys that are very intelligent but not at the peak of using objectivity, logic and facts. Not champions in critical thinking, a few holes in their arguments sometimes. This is a very small club of people too on NL. They cannot be more than about 15.

The 3rd layer are the layman's champions (people a layman would call intelligent because they kind of good but it is mostly based on popular arguments and they struggle when the issue because too complex for their intellect). These are the MBJs, coogars, Kobojunkies, maclatunji and the funkadelic debaters. Funkadelics are people that their opinion is always soaked with urban popular philosophy not deep and hardcore critical thinking. They formulate all opinions based on the funky philosophies going on in the Western society, not their own critical thinking.

The next layer are the averages like Beaf.

The next layer are the slows.

Then we have fucktards, cretins, moorons like Horus and deshclones.

Then we have the mental patients. Those that need to be in a mental home like cap28, GenBuhari, Becomerich, queensmith etc.

MBJ had no chance right from the start, I was just toying with him until I decide to use that proposal comparison to finish him off. Some issues are above his level.

I can't stop laughing, now this is an eye-opener, what did you study in college?

Yay!!!! it's friday...time to party....Kola which club are we heading to?

I really do not understand how you can see all the signs of "i don't love you" or "you bore me" or "you are not the one" and still be asking for advice. Like, really??

NOT with that picture of him.....that picture makes him look g/a/y, and i don't think any correct babe would want to settle with a gay-man.

dayokanu:

Even people who do physical weddings do these same thing.

My friends dad was running 2 families in Lagos without his main family knowing. His first born with one wife was like 36yrs the first born with another woman was like 28yrs before the bubble burst

Hmmmmmm!!!!!! what was his reason for living that way?

coogar:

your cousin is guilty of bigamy!
the dude needs to be manually castrated by an androgynist!

well you have forgotten that only the cout marraige is valid.....and he did that with the lady he married, i feel for the other lady...but marraige is not a joke.

A lady did traditional wedding in absentia with my cousin there in Nigeria, my cousin wedded another......

Oh really? too bad for all "dem definitions".....i am number 2 on that list.....no. number 3......if you want to go and have as many ids' to join, please feel free we are a lovely group of "stubborn women".

^^^^^^I only have 1 i.d.....can't do more than 1....

I am loving this already!!!!!

jennykadry: Ok here is a sample of my half written speech, tell me if you like Mother superior so I can complete it and believe I cried whilst typing it. Give me this Job CC, I deserve it


Dear Poppa Richy

There is a time for everything: a time to laugh, a time to cry,a time to rejoice, a time to sleep, a time to sh@g, a time to victoria secret, a time to wear a nice cologne, a time to pamper a man and a time to beg him to stop cheating. Though they said there is time for only one thing at a time, I believe there is time for atleast 2-3 things at a time and this time right here is the time to "rejoice, cry(tears of joy) and a time to laugh and say to my reflection in the mirror-Good riddance to bad yeye. You have been a major contributor on this forum and I must say you should be proud of yourself because you deserve a gold medal whilst standing next to your runner up-Mr Cork. May this day be remembered as the day a nairalander made Jenny Kadry the heartless Biatch cry a river(of Joy). The day I would go hunt for kangaroo and take it to my church for thanksgiving, The day that kpekus has become even most enjoyable for me. The day that I cry(for joy) whilst kpeksuing leaving my husband with the impression that his kpekusing style is the reason for my tears. The day all women on this forum will come together and cry out -"Someone pop open the freaking Moet & Chandon"...............

Pawwwww!!!!!! breaking the bottle while popping it.....lol..... you are krazy!!!!! and you think Papa Richy....is leaving? He will leave as Richy and sign in as a guest.

chaircover: As most of the cabalites are here on this thread I will like to share sonme good news with you all. You are all like family to me now and some of us like Jenny have come along for about 4 or 5 years now.

My son got his GCSE results today and glory be to Almighty God he got 8 A's and 3 B's and has automatically been given a place in 6th form in the school of choice. So E-drinks and E-rice on the house everybody & may we all have cause to be happy over all our children In Jesus Name

Wow!!! Congratulations!!!!!! Am so happy for you and your son...he will be so happy and proud of himself....please "declare plenty-plenty for him oooo" he has done well.

D; D;.....Am speechless...auto-tune generation?? computer making noise? still laughing..........

Kobojunkie:

As usual . . . More insinuations all in a desperate attempt to continue side-stepping the point. So let me see . . . According to you, I am 40, single now I smoke dope . . . WOW . . and this from someone who complained that 9 lines PREDICTING THIS is too much . . . . . If Lying to yourself that I am the enemy and hence needs to be DEMONIZED, go right ahead. . . you really are predictable . . when you grow up, let me know. Till then . . . keep lying to yourself that I am the problem. . . works for me.

Shut-up, 1 line is to 4.....