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MRBrownJ:
if you fully believe the above in bold then pls care to tell us again what this thread is about?

@Mrbrownj read between the lines in my last reply, you will realise that I am only trying to express my self. If not for the confused state I find my self I will not be on niraland looking for ideas. I believe in love and I believe there is a few percent of women who re good, the majority that re wicked out there is more which makes it difficult for us to find the good ones. My point is this, in a healthy manner without prejudice, I don't think I can trust again. In my last reply, in reference to the conclusion, that was an idea or a statement from the comment received, which I feel we shld all be prepared. Its a present bitter revelation. Thanks.

missmary:
Am not being spiritual but obviously Where humans fail turn to God

Exactly, that's the path am trying to take right now. Only God can really make this happen right now.

missmary:
ITS NOT THAT I DONT BELIEVE IN LOVE I JUST DONT BELIEVE PEOPLE... ... Its either you've Met the wrong people or you have the wrong attitude..or just in the wrong environment...or you trust too easily its not that you are soft just might be you are an open book or you trust humans too much

I agree with your first statement. From all that has been happening, its obvious I have been meeting the wrong people. About me having a wrong attitude, I can't judge my self, I can only be judged by others but I really don't think I have the wrong attitude, its just that recently all I can say is that I can't trust,wrong environment, I have been through almost all the states of nigeria, meaning I have changed my environment often, environment then becomes a none factor. All I can say is that I don't trust easily but when I do trust, I trust with my whole heart. Maybe that's my guilt, but what is a relationship if u don't trust 100 percent, the reason I am crying out

Let us stop living in denial, gone are the days when we can say if am a good man, working hard and all I would find same kind of woman. Tho the aforementioned criteria has never been the yastic but it gave some guarantee that working on yourself brings good result, that is all in the past now. Men let's always be ready, enough of the pain that they cause us. Especially the good guys. Never let you guard down. Seriously I don't reaLly know how I can trust again. Somebody say something.

MRBrownJ:
if you truly believe the above in bold then A) you can join a monastery and become a monk or B) you can try your luck with MEN

but seriously, the common denominator here is YOU, so look within yourself to know why you are attracted to these no good women!

Going by what you said, it is obvious from my post that I truly wish to find the one despite my lack of belief. About trying men, it means, you don't really understand the post. My brother I have also tried the ones that could be called the good ones, the ugly the beautiful, the average, the wild, moderate and extremely reserved, nigerian girls have very high tendency to cheat. If not the 1st end 3rd year then maybe the fourth year. Conclusion a woman can never stay fateful for the rest of her life with a man. In married or not. So I think men shld be prepared to forgive their women for cheating, just like they would forgive her when she does something else. We should be prepared. Gone are the days cheating is not part of the things you forgive or think of in the african culture.

Kaytrick:
My story is just the same...e don tire me

I told a friend this example, check the whole of your neighbourhood or his circle of friends and if he can find one good girl and it sounded like a joke but when we did a rough research, we found out that we could not pin point any good one based on the little things we knew about them. This topic is not based on sucking or crying or a looser guy but out of a bitter experience. God will help us

Donariok:
av said it b4 .and will keep saying it. 95% of girls double date# if u don't wanno get hurt along d line, u just gotta play along, do ur stuff and allow d next guy do his own...after all ladies er moved wid things that attracts d eyes... so don't take bitches serious, when u see the right person for u, u will know#

Double dating is just a norm and it brakes my heart to realise this at this age.. I just pray that I find one out of the trusted 5 percent. I want to believe we have more good guys than girls right now.

Thank you dear, never forced it tho, I don't even trust fate anymore.

God is good

At d venue nd its going slow.. I wonder how this going to go?

It is said in the interview invite that the start salary is 150. So I don't think is purely on commission. By the way, does any other person know about the coy.

So do anyone know about their interview. Please OP state the name of the coy in title caption. Modify it please.

Finally I have been called, please can someone send the text format to my email. Tomorrow is the text. Limited time. Please my e

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Where is my own invite, I was even called for a chat on phone concerning my cv. Please I need my own invite o. I also applied through jobberman and I have an M.sc too.

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i have a 3.87 in my msc and i need to know if i can get a phd admission in uniben or unilag

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