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nedekid:
Consult lawyer? Does he have appointment letter?

1phone:
Background: I was employed 2-month ago and the job was a full time job. It's more of inventory in a luxury firm. It's a one- man business operated by husband and wife.

I was given a responsibility of handling the inventory aspect which I will submit on an Excel format(which must include all pictures of the stock keeping unit of above 1000) I took my time to study the process and counted every stock and submitted. The company/shop did not have any primary data before now.

Towards mid January, while still on the excel, the wife brought one software which she said she want to use for sale and that I should continue uploading the items. I suspended the Excel and continued with the software. Her culture before now which I got from old staff was to use inventory officer to count her stock and sack them at the end of 3--month and she always get away with that since no appointments letter until end of 3month.

The wife now insist on not paying me January salary with flimsy excuses of not getting my report on time . Is that a valid reason? What should be the next line of action for me now that I don't have a letter of appointment?

Lakebib:
Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.

Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.

An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.

She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her contacts.

My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.

I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome.

Philogeny4:
Mods Please Ensure this gets to the frontpage today due to the urgency and sensitivity of the matter.

It took me a lot of guts to bring up this matter here because I already know the reactions by majority of Nairalanders. I know I will be lampooned, lambasted, dragged, trolled and insulted. But no problems.

In 2018, I traveled to the village and collected some charms. These are charms for fortification and protection against Bullets, Bottles, knives, and other harmful objects. At the time, I had nobody to speak sense into me. Also I felt I acted on Impulse. When I was given, I was tested. A cutlass was used to cut me but it didn't penetrate. A Dane gun was used to shoot at me but it didn't penetrate. That was the first time I ever experienced this, I thought all these never existed for real.

The thing is more like a community thing, we did it openly. I didn't go to a native doctor elsewhere. It was done right in my community, almost all the youths in that community and clan were fortified so as to help them in time of wars and fights against the Fulani herdsmen who come to attack once in a while. Outsiders are not welcomed.

You have the one u can tie around your waist, your arm, neck, rings for slap and others. There's a particular one that tells u of a impending and imminent danger. I was also given some conditions on how to handle the materials. I witnessed one that disappeared from my room immediately I took it home, I went back to the Native men only to find it there. I was told I allowed a woman on her menstrual flow to enter my room reason it disappeared.

I don't fight, I don't look for troubles and I'm not expecting any trouble, fight or war. I'm not a villager. Also, civilization has made me decide that I want to return them, I don't have any use for them anymore. I was told never to burn or allow any pastor to burn them or dispose them if and when I feel no need for them again. That I should rather return them back so that the necessary things would be done on me. My place is very far, I stay in the North. I need to travel home. I want to serve my God now. Even if I don't serve God, I don't see the need for all these. What if I want to get married and my woman sees these charms? I know Politicians do same, but I am not a politician. I need Help

Tjra:
You hate the US but you accept their donations.

Why can't the donation takers start getting their free lunch from China and Russia?

If BRICS can't step up and become the new father Christmas, then what is their usefulness?

Who wan die should die abeg. The world is already overpopulated.

OKOATA:
Who tell you I never marry. Oga rest jare. Pursue your own righteousness no be force. Lol

OKOATA:
Yeah you are right but everyone can't be equally super righteous. Even Isaiah 45:7 said it all. For the world to be good, evil must prevail. So for people to commit formication the seeds of Abraham must spread across the world. So be righteous while we that aren't spread our seed on the Universe.

OKOATA:
Upcoming Mr pastor. Lol 😆

OKOATA:
What if you meet at a public place and she died, they will still say you used her especially make God catch you make two of una just chop gala or coke finish. Dey go say you kpai am. I can't count the number of ladies that have slept at my place. Make God just dey protect us abeg.

DenreleDave:
I said it in 2020

https://www.nairaland.com/5932019/guys-never-invite-lady-pass

And I am telling you again in 2025... Don't allow any lady sleep over in your house...... Even if her family knows you, they can easily deny you..

See this post on front page for today

https://www.nairaland.com/8334888/ogun-man-arrested-after-girlfriend

It better you go sleep in her house ...


Be wise oooo...

Leobankx:
The US President, Donald Trump’s recent order, suspending the United States Agency for International Development, USAID, is currently affecting family planning programme in Bauchi and other states in Nigeria.



https://dailypost.ng/2025/02/07/trumps-recent-order-triggers-major-disruption-in-bauchi-others/

Greenback:
Why should Ishan person be market leader in Edo state?!
What kinda rascality is that?
A Benin person should be the leader..

Man102:
Everything Worked Well Under My Leadership – Ex-President Buhari | #Politicsnigeria


Source : https://politicsnigeria.com/everything-worked-well-under-my-leadership-ex-president-buhari/

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/Senate-moves-against-Japa-syndrome

Josepholome:
*INEC Throws in the Towel: Fails to Defend Allegations of Rigging Edo Governorship Election*


https://www.signalng.com/inec-throws-in-the-towel-fails-to-defend-allegations-of-rigging-edo-governorship-election/

Absuchat:
people get mind oo.
How on earth can u retire people u started work with while you are still working?

givedemwotowoto:
It's very interesting how entitled we have become to US aid, especially Agbadorians.

Some are even saying the US needs us more than we need them.

GistMedia0:
A 30-year-old busty lady has taken to social media to express her frustration over being constantly approached by younger men seeking a romantic relationship with her.

In a viral post, she lamented how "small boys" keep making advances at her despite her preference for older and more mature partners. She questioned whether it was her appearance or something else attracting younger men to her.

Her complaint has sparked mixed reactions online. While some argue that younger men are becoming bolder in pursuing older women, others believe her physical features might be playing a role in the attention she receives.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IWC8tvdufW0

xynerise:
Curses don't work. You need to wake up from your dreams

fergie001:
SOURCE

yashau:
https://x.com/thecableindex/status/1882688726800720345?t=13LQSghV2wez_QWewvSUUA&s=19[/quote]Wicked poster. Lol. Na the highest and lowest contributors face you just paste join the apriko. Shameless Imo state governor. They just sit and share 'loot'.

Starzo:
Nobody can do the right thing 100% of the time

lordm:
This man has started again. He just making mouth. He can't do most of the things he says

EmperorCaesar:


ad hominem attack coming directly from the President of a First world country, on the citizen of his country, simply because she has a different view on his policies and pleaded things be done differently

I know Africa has legions of terrible leaders, but you see this very act, they will never do it

Nothing civil about this

Spits on all White worshippers with deep inferiority complex