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RomanceRe: Why So Much Hatred On Single Mothers? (photos) by ruffhandu: 5:40pm On Jan 19, 2025
And this same person, if she married a single man with kids, she will either polisonger them, or so maltreat them like slaves.
CrimeRe: Ogun: Husband Bathes Wife With Hot Oil, Stabs Her During Argument by ruffhandu: 5:38pm On Jan 19, 2025
Wicked humans
CelebritiesRe: From Fame To Struggle: Nigerian Musicians Who Fell From Grace by ruffhandu: 2:29pm On Jan 19, 2025
RomanceRe: I Dated A Married Woman Once, And We Were Caught by ruffhandu: 2:25pm On Jan 19, 2025
Scamburster:
Any biblical back up?
You may wish to check
Proverbs 6.23-35
Hebrews 13.4
1 corinthians 6.18
Math 5.31-32, 19.9

As a Christian, you must be very conversant with one of the ten commandments in Exodus.
PoliticsRe: Pro-wike Rivers Assembly Pays Solidarity Visit To Chukwuemeka Aaron Led PDP by ruffhandu: 1:41pm On Jan 18, 2025
Overgrown clowns.
PoliticsRe: I Don't Want Britain To Lose Its 'prosperity' Like Nigeria—kemi Badenoch by ruffhandu: 1:38pm On Jan 18, 2025
Pressning the necks of the political class here.
CrimeRe: Yahoo Boys Kill EFCC Official, Injures Another In Anambra by ruffhandu: 9:48am On Jan 18, 2025
essentialone1:
The Yahoo Boys are the Criminals.
Aha, but that has not been confirmed. They may be innocent.
RomanceRe: I Dated A Married Woman Once, And We Were Caught by ruffhandu: 9:39am On Jan 18, 2025
iSense247:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1EkHnazsiG/
I don't know if this story is fake, but if any man has sex with a married woman, he doesn't need to be cursed by the husband, the curse follows him naturally. See what you can do, you don't need to ask the woman, trace the man and ask for his forgiveness. Then give your life to Christ (because obviously you have not, you just 'took your prayer life more seriously').

Again, even if you do all these, it may not wipe away the curse. Check David in the bible.
You may end up, even after you are married, having your wife cheat on you. It is better you zero your mind now.
Perhaps you should look for that married woman and marry her if she is out of her marriage (even though the bible sees this as adultery) since you found her attractive.
You are even lucky things are still going well for you (it leads to closed doors most times).

I wish young people will learn and stay away from married women. The bible even plays down on hiring a prostitute when it comes to having sex with a married woman. If you have sex, whether with a girlfriend or a prostitute, you just need to ask God to forgive your fornication (even though fornication itself is a terrible sin- the sin you commit with your body, the temple of the Holy Spirit). Asking God for forgiveness and getting free is if the sex is just mutually for fun, I mean with a girl or a prostitute who is not on a mission. But if she is on a mission, you might as well kiss your destiny, or even your soul, goodbye.
So, imagine when the bible says it is better go take all that risk with a prostitute or a single girl than to go into a married woman.
My brother, the matter long o. I tell you.

Recently I got an insight into what happens to people whose soul are taken over by the devil. When they die, they become slaves for the devil. Some of them become spirit husbands and wives.
CrimeRe: Yahoo Boys Kill EFCC Official, Injures Another In Anambra by ruffhandu: 8:29am On Jan 18, 2025
essentialone1:
Too many Nigerians are Criminals. There is no excuse for Crime. All Criminals deserve death.
Who is the criminal here, the shooter or the shot?
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Police Obtains A Court Order To Arrest Reno Omokri! by ruffhandu: 8:00am On Jan 18, 2025
Is this a joke or something? Until he is arrested first.
FamilyRe: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by ruffhandu: 4:00am On Jan 18, 2025
uuzba:
It's like you've never discussed with a mad person before. You think they are stupid or daft?
They are more intelligent than you. But the problem is the health of their mind is bad. They can think some wrong thoughts at times.
A man who cordinated him through university to this point and taggad 'mad' is simply controlled by demons, forget medical jargong.
PoliticsRe: Ikwerre Group Denounces Azuta-Mbata For Accepting Ohanaeze Leadership Role by ruffhandu: 4:20pm On Jan 17, 2025
Gerhards:
Nothing go long, they are paid miscreants
100%
EducationRe: How Do I Solve This Quantitative Please by ruffhandu: 12:36pm On Jan 17, 2025
Malcolm21:
I appreciate
3 is wrong answer, before ypu give your child academic polison. The right answer is 27.

For number 30 I mean.
FamilyRe: How My 34-Year-Old Graduate Son Killed Self After NYSC Service Year – Mother by ruffhandu: 9:06am On Jan 17, 2025
And the mental health allowed him to graduate from University?
BusinessRe: Bayo Onanuga Invited Peter Obi To Retweet A Report Stating That$1 Is Now N1,550 by ruffhandu: 8:22am On Jan 17, 2025
This bayo sef. When you read about only his doing with seeing him, you will think he is one dull but mischievous 17 year old. I was shocked the day i learnt he is a grandfather. He is indeed shameless. He is mentally very poor, I mean, abject mental poverty.

He is celebrating this? Yuurrrk!
BusinessRe: First Bank Statement On General Hydrocarbons (GHL) Loan Facility by ruffhandu: 4:48am On Jan 17, 2025
The matter is in court and you won't make a statement regarding it so as to avoid 'sub-judice', yet you took your time and gave us all the information about the transaction. I guess you are trying to do PR here. It is business anyway.
Just make sure no criminal elite is allowed to wallop shareholders funds of the like bank again like the likes of dangote did in the past. Many of his ccoharts are walking free today and enjoying the loans that were eventually written off. How can an economy survive like this?
PoliticsRe: White People Bela Bill Protest In South Africa by ruffhandu: 4:27am On Jan 17, 2025
zhike:
Well said.

Black people naturally are born with kindness.
That is why is rare for a black person to buy a land and States that particular race is prohibited to enter his land .

Yes that is true, as South Africans we hate black immigrants because of what most of them are doing in South Africa.
If blacks don't have kindness in them, black immigrants would have been prohibited long time ago.
One example of what black immigrants do, they just catch a bus to Johannesburg, when they reach johannesburg they stay on the streets, rob people, making streets dirty, etc.

That is true, Nigerians always stand up against white people.

Julius Malema once said that racism goes with wealth, for example if a poor white man racist you will you be offended? Obviously no.

Julius Malema said take away wealth from whites, suddenly you will never cry racism.
Lol at Malema's assertion. I beg to differ here. I resent racism, whether from rich or poor. I will agree that the act is louder when it comes from a richer person, and the reason is simple: it becomes racism mixed with oppression. Ordinarily, the rich tend to oppress the poor, and the poor in turn either cowers or rebels (both are negative energies). I HATE RACISM. But unfortunately, this world seems to 'can't do without it'.
TravelRe: Which Country Can One Migrate To With 7m. I Have A Bsc In Sociology. by ruffhandu: 3:39pm On Jan 16, 2025
g17prinz:
I have never been the enthusiastic type when it comes to Japa, but the realities on ground in the country leaves one with little or no choice to look elsewhere for greener pastures. I have about 7m worth of landed properties, and I want to do away with it and relocate before this country leaves me with nothing at all. I graduated with a 2:1 from a federal university.

Which country affords a better opportunity for someone looking for an MSc, putting all circumstances into perspective?
Nowhere, stay there and enjoy the fruits of your labour, you asked for this.
PoliticsRe: Ikwerre Is Not Igbo!; The Way Forward by ruffhandu: 3:37pm On Jan 16, 2025
chidonez:
The obsession with ikwerre is still beyond me even as an igbo man,why don't we allow the ikwerre to identify as they choose and who told you the igbos are recuiting?
Let the ikwerres be ikwerres and igbos be igbos,it was because of this same people we lost the civil war and they stole our properties yet today some igbos still want to co-opt them to igbos
I'll agree that some ikwerres choose to identify as igbos but the vast majority of them like 80-90 percent don't like igbos so learn to identify with people at an individual level
I wish all other igbo people think like me I'm okay with the 5 states God has blessed us with
I don't think anybody is forcing anyone. What I see here is that a group of people want to speak for others. Saying 'we ikwerres are not Igbos' means they are speaking for the Ikwerres that say 'we are Igbos'. An individual can say 'I don't want to be identified as Igbo', which is fine. But if you objectively look at it, ikwerre language is simply an Igbo dialect, simple. Many Igbos see ikwerres as betrayers, sorry this is just my observation.
PoliticsRe: Ikwerre Is Not Igbo!; The Way Forward by ruffhandu: 12:18pm On Jan 16, 2025
Godwin4444:
every sane person knows d reason u Igbos forced ohaneze president on ikwere is because u want to lay claim to rivers state n now it has boomerang

All this Igbo shalaye isn't necessary, ikwere arent igbo
Hahahahahahahahaha. Who are "u Igbos"? And what 'has boomerang'? You should have stopped it from the onset, or do you think betrayal doesn't come with identitet crisis. Dan fodio made your ancestors betray their neighbours, and you were taught to maintain the betrayal.

I was thinking by now your kinsmen would have paid the Oba of Benin a courtesy visit to reinforce your ancestry. This one don catch una. Make una come denying again. Wike no fit do dis one for una. We dey watch from afar.
PoliticsRe: Ikwerre Is Not Igbo!; The Way Forward by ruffhandu: 10:18am On Jan 16, 2025
För an Ikwerre man to be the president of Igbos, it simply makes a loud statement. NOBODY, and I mean, NOBODY should ever say Ikwerres are not Igbos EVER again. Some people say they choose not to be, just like some Nigerians choose not to be Nigerians. We now know, it is now a matter of an individual denouncing his heritage. Let an Ijebu man also tell us he is not yoruba.
PoliticsRe: White People Bela Bill Protest In South Africa by ruffhandu: 3:52am On Jan 16, 2025
zhike:
Yes, we will continue fighting against black illegal immigrants.
Sometimes I don't understand these illegal black immigrants, they brake laws on daily basis, law such as selling on unauthorized street.
Yeah, by all means please speak against illegal immigrants in your land. But note that, the most you should do is to inform the police about illegal immigrants, never to take laws into your hands. I dislike people entering other countries illegally, I really do not like it.
But when you talk about breaking laws, most times, the illegals are being enabled by the locals. The locals only get infuriated when they feel they are being out-maneurvererd by the foreigners. The last I checked, more locals are into these crimes than the foreigners - the robberies, the rapes (including the raping of virgins and minors to inflict them with HIV because they believe it cures them of the HIV or so), sales of recreational substances, the murders, etc.
Again, I would also opine that the locals simply work with the law enforcement to arrest and deport all illegal immigrants, whether good or bad. Attacking people on the streets seems to me to paint the country in bad and still portray them as being barbaric and uncivilized, it sends a message out that makes people look at SAs abroad in certain ways. I have encountered quite some of them in Europe but they don't sound and look like the ones at home. Then they talk about stuff like 'townships' et al. But, a stereotype hangs around them that takes a while to be erased, only if the contacts lasts longer than that time.
Good luck to you anyway. But I feel a white man occupying a territory in your land and at the same time barring you from entering there is the height of racism, not in Europe, not in America, not in Australia, not in Asia, not in Antactica, not anywhere else in Africa, but in your own SA. No! Never ok. No matter how you paint, this is seems to be pure racism brazenly thrown at the locals.

I read a news in Nigeria where a Chinese store only let Chinese shop and price tags written in chinese. The Nigerian government shut down the store as soon as the news was out.
PoliticsRe: White People Bela Bill Protest In South Africa by ruffhandu: 3:37am On Jan 16, 2025
zhike:
I don't see anything wrong if you don't want a specific race to enter your property.
The minute you show them you don't care, they feel painful.

I think the problem with Nigerians, they like to follow white people.

Remember blacks in South Africa controls the government GDP, and that's all they need.

Fyi, there high rate of poor white persons in South Africa due to the new laws that favours blacks.
I don't think Nigeria is the problem here. I think Nigerian feel less inferior before white people, they see them as equals and resist the trash treatment the white people give Africans, that is why it seems 'Nigerians like to follow white people'. Some other Africans cower when they meet white people. In many occasions in Europe, if you see a black man standing up to the poor treatments of blacks by a white, there is 98% chance that black man is a Nigerian.

But SA's hate towards blacks is not for Nigerians alone, they hate other blacks who are immigrants.

Think for a second that there is a black community in Europe where a white man is not allowed to enter, not just because he is afraid for his life, but because he is barred from entering there by the blacks. Just think about it.
RomanceRe: Social Media And The Hypocrisy Of Many Nigerian Men by ruffhandu: 9:26pm On Jan 15, 2025
Rapmoney:
I have come across many Nigerian men, both young and middle age, who are always in the habit of criticizing young women on social media platforms such as Instagram, Facebook, Tiktok, etc, for exposing their bodies and twerking. The common lines you hear are 'These ones still get parents'?...'Useless girls'...'Ehen, that's the only thing they can offer'...'See them, fish brain'...'Ashawo'...'Olosho', etc.

When you visit the pages of these same women that are constantly being abused, you will be amazed by the number of followers they have. Some of them have millions of followers while others have followers running into hundreds of thousands.

My question is: Who are the people following these women? Are their followers ghosts? You cannot tell me that majority of their followers are women, because the truth is that their twerking and body exposure attract more men than women to their pages! You will criticize publicly but follow them secretly like perverts, in order to be among the first to see their videos, and end up calling men who say the slightest positive thing about these women names like SIMPS and the likes.

This type of hypocrisy is terrible and stinks like rotten eggs! Make una dey try abeg. Stop criticizing the food that you secretly salivate over.
This is like asking:
1. Who patronizes ashawo?
2. Who marries ashawo?

If you are an olosho, many will see you as a prize up for sale. They know what they want from you. But they want to marry, they know where to look. So, the followers know what they are doing, they can use the pictures or videos to relieve themselves, and may even hope to buy you wares when they have the means. They need to keep tab on you.

The bashngs are what they would do to their sisters, they are trying to be fatherly or brotherly. It pains them you are doing that. But then, they are relieved of that burden realising that you are not their blood. Then they need a piece of the action if possible.
CrimeRe: Woman Scammed Of £700,000 After Believing She Was In Relationship With Brad Pitt by ruffhandu: 9:14pm On Jan 15, 2025
Hezzyluv:
This kind of story is the reason why I believe juju (voodoo) is real. If no be juju be this, how can someone fall heavily for this kind scam even with the poor photo editing?
"At first, I thought it was fake, but I could not understand what was happening to me."

Who go tell am say na the demon/juju 'was happening' to her?
PoliticsRe: Remains Of Drowned Expatiate Recovered As Residents, Council Boss Blame FG by ruffhandu: 1:35am On Jan 15, 2025
Some people are yet to grasp the level Nigeria has sank into. ANd another set of people are trying to, for political reasons, intentionally play down on the situation of things.
PoliticsRe: White People Bela Bill Protest In South Africa by ruffhandu: 12:32am On Jan 15, 2025
zhike:
Yes, is a private land.

I am sure you also have power to decide who comes at your house or land
To the extent of forbidden a whole race from entering your property? I don't want to give form to the voice inside me, but South African's are still under apartheid but they have strength to fight their fellow blacks who fought for them to be free. What a people!
Christianity EtcRe: Primate Ayodele Releases 2025 Prophecies On Donald Trump, NATO, Others by ruffhandu: 11:27pm On Jan 14, 2025
Useless false prophet talking about Trump, Denmark, Canada and Greenland, things that have already happened. Now I know how stupid some Nigerians are because we have not heard that all his members have left him.
CelebritiesRe: Fish Pie Celebrity Cries For Help Again ! (video) by ruffhandu: 7:37pm On Jan 14, 2025
This is a pure scam nobody should attend to. Was he not making money before he became a 'celeb'? What happened to his fish pie business?
TravelRe: Expatriate, Others Missing As Vehicle Fleeing Kidnappers Plunges Into River by ruffhandu: 7:31pm On Jan 14, 2025
Nnamdipapa:
That is a dumb way to think and something is seriously wrong with your education and thought process for you to think in this manner.

Next, you are going to deny the criminals are Igbos but fulanis.

To wipe you Oraimo cord for your bald head dey hungry me.

We should clamour for state policing.
Are the people of Eleme Igbos? I used to think they are Ogonis around that axis.
TravelRe: Expatriate, Others Missing As Vehicle Fleeing Kidnappers Plunges Into River by ruffhandu: 7:25pm On Jan 14, 2025
And many are still shamefully playing down on the security situation in Nigeria.
CelebritiesRe: ‘he Is Losing His Mind’: Fans React To Asake’s New Look And Facial Tattoos by ruffhandu: 9:12am On Jan 14, 2025
I hope this is not what I am thinking. I hope this is not what he was tasked to do to show his loyalty.

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