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Politics › Re: Breaking: Twitter User Proves Okada Was Banned To Help Tinubu's Cousin by ruggedtimi(m): 10:46am On Feb 06, 2020
conglomerates
Politics › Re: Omonigbalebo Orogono: 118-Year-Old Woman Appointed As Special Adviser In Bayelsa by ruggedtimi(m): 10:25am On Feb 06, 2020
it is just a means for her to earn some money... such appointment is usual in niger delta regions
Celebrities › Re: Speed Darlington Slams Dino Melaye: 'No Senator Should Be This Wealthy' by ruggedtimi(m): 10:17am On Feb 06, 2020
SweetJoystick:
Na real "an senator"
An nigeria... angry
Celebrities › Re: Meet The First Female ADC To A Sitting Governor. by ruggedtimi(m): 3:17am On Feb 05, 2020
yarimo:
WE attended same uni with ME in Ghana . Habaa undecided undecided ghana tongue undecided
lol typo..
Celebrities › Re: Meet The First Female ADC To A Sitting Governor. by ruggedtimi(m):
the guy on the righthand side whats his duty to the governor? We attended same uni in ghana
Politics › Re: President Buhari To Embark On A 20-day Vacation Trip To The UK by ruggedtimi(m): 1:53pm On Feb 04, 2020
nev
Romance › Re: Just Having A Second Thought That I Took A Big Risk Today by ruggedtimi(m): 5:19am On Feb 04, 2020
czarr:
Lol..... you deserve each other... fake chat btw
you both have poor command of English.
commandant grin
Travel › Re: Another Son From The East Is About To Enter The Aviation World(photos) by ruggedtimi(m): 10:40pm On Feb 02, 2020
na dem... waiting for FBI AND INTERPOL..
Romance › Re: Meeet The King That Left His Throne To Marry A Two Times Divorcee by ruggedtimi(m): 10:21pm On Feb 02, 2020
he gave way for Queen Elizabeth's father
Sports › Re: . by ruggedtimi(m): 9:01am On Feb 02, 2020
una just want spoil Ighalo Joy
Politics › Re: MC Oluomo Shared 8 Cars To His Loyal Staff To Mark His 100 Days In Office(video) by ruggedtimi(m): 8:56am On Feb 02, 2020
lagos money!!! why yoruba people like shout
Politics › Re: Peter Obi: Life Is Not About Owning Billions by ruggedtimi(m): 8:53am On Feb 02, 2020
i can read over this interview over and over again.
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage: ‘I Don’t Check Price Tags No More’. Celebrities React by ruggedtimi(m): 10:49pm On Feb 01, 2020
funke say na "we thank God" grin
Politics › Re: Spot Nnamdi Kanu In This Trump's Picture. by ruggedtimi(m): 10:19am On Feb 01, 2020
make we fly
Sports › Re: Photo Of Ighalo In Man Utd Kit Emerges Ahead Of Deadline Day Loan Transfer by ruggedtimi(m): 10:17am On Feb 01, 2020
dreams do come through
Celebrities › Re: . by ruggedtimi(m): 8:38pm On Jan 31, 2020
home remedies... when i cant get the ingredients easily.
Romance › Re: How My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With Our Caretaker by ruggedtimi(m): 8:29pm On Jan 31, 2020
Onetimepost:
Admin Front Page please

Hello everyone.. please I need your advice

So,I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for over three years now (since my year1 in school) and I just found out she was cheating with me with our caretaker.. He(the caretaker) and my girlfriend are of same tribe, I guess they kinda blend. Am older than the guy he is 23 and am 24.

My girlfriend and I are currently roommate in year 3). We moved in together late October last year.
She also cheating on me with another dude from her town where she resides. Before our academic break (22 Dec 2019) she frequent our caretakers room too often,I try tell her to stop that am not comfortable with it, of which she shrug off saying she is only being friends with him because the speak same dialet,and we all live in the same compound. She would stay late at his room,I had to tell her(sternly) not to visit his room again and she agreed. But she still visit him.

When we return from our academic break,she started to visit him again. She stayed late again with our caretaker Just outside our room and I asked her nicely to to get inside because it's late and she entered and bid caretaker goodnight. She got the bed after taking her bath,and we got talking I told her not to stay out past 9pm. She got angry saying I simply don't like him that and I hate seeing him with her,she started crying. I had to apologize. But she said she won't forgive me because I hurt her.
The next day she refused to talk to me before going to class.
When we got home later that day,we just found ourselves Talking . A mutual friend (female)of our visited, we were eating and my eyes just got a glimpse of her WhatsApp message telling our caretaker that I almost attack her yesterday because I saw them together. I didn't react then,I had to keep my cool. Later that day I told my friend what I just saw (my girlfriend message to our caretaker) she said I should ignore,but anger got the best of me.i was angry because she told him I nearly attacked her.

When we got home,I asked her for her phone which she gave me reluctantly,I went through her WhatsApp messages with the guy. And I found out she do tell the guy our personal things ( including when I told her not to visit him) she shouldn't tell anyone. She must have told the guy am controlling her because he asked if am still controling her that I have no shame for trying to attack her the previous day. I went further into their chat and I saw where he told the boy that she missed her period and the boy told her they would do pregnancy test.

I know she might have told a very good friend of her about the guy,so I went to their chat. She told her friend about the guy and she told her she lived him and they had sex already.but her friend told her not to destroy her relationship for just a crush or is she willing to leave me for the boy,she said NO.

I had to check if she still cheating on me with others guys. I got to a chat and my suspicion was right.
She was telling this guy she was pregnant and this dude was ignoring he messages and chats. She later went on saying is is because she was forcing herself on him.

She had sex with this dude 25 December,had sex with caretaker 27december.
After I must have read all chats,I went home and confronted her she denied at first I later told her i read her chats and she started crying saying it was a mistake that it won't happen again ,that she was drunk when the second guy had sex with her and having sex with our caretaker was a mistake. I called her mother and told her what has happened she was disappointed in her but she also begged me to forgive her.
I keep wondering where I got it all wrong and asked her but she said i have been nothing but faithful that she can't explain something what came over her. I have been good to the caretaker I painted his room for Free. He do call me "BRO" when addressing me

To cut the story short. I told her I have forgiven her,but deep down,I haven't..

I don't know what to do..
Please help...

NOTE
I have Never cheated on her.
I believe in equality in relationship. I don't control her. I never Never check her phone all through our relationship. I guess that's why she didn't had to delete her chats.

Kindly ignore my grammatical errors
JAPA JAPA... she will probably tell the caretaker you caught her and they have to becareful next time grin
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Never Put These 5 Things On Your CV When Applying For A Job In Nigeria by ruggedtimi(m): 2:19pm On Jan 31, 2020
In other words no need to write c. v
Celebrities › Re: Comedian And Actor, Okey Bakassi Gets Driven In A Car By His First Daughter by ruggedtimi(m): 10:01am On Jan 31, 2020
i remember this guy's character from the movie mambo and loco. Who ever thought this man go dey this level. Nigeria entertainment has improved.
Romance › Re: I Swear, Sperm Plus Happiness Is Good” – Lady Mocks Her Madam by ruggedtimi(m): 8:37am On Jan 31, 2020
lekki girls dey think say dem dey beverly hills
Crime › Re: SARS Will Beg You If They Arrest You, And You Remind Them Of These New Rules by ruggedtimi(m): 12:19am On Jan 31, 2020
lol!! which time you get to recite this rules for dem?
Crime › Re: ‘They tortured Chima’ — Family of mechanic ‘killed’ by police (GRAPHIC PHOTOS) by ruggedtimi(m): 12:17am On Jan 31, 2020
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



So in this 2020, some men still wear this type of boxers?

I'm sure the Police will say his offence is "a double impersonation of Ejike Asiegbu and Awilo Logomba".
my man look beyond the boxers.... U dey wear gucci boxer?
Celebrities › Re: Bolanle Ninalowo Wearing Bathroom Slippers In Throwback Picture With Wife by ruggedtimi(m): 12:03am On Jan 31, 2020
na the wife be that shocked, bleaching republic.
Crime › Re: Married Woman In Jos Porn Video Commits Suicide by ruggedtimi(m): 11:15pm On Jan 30, 2020
wizkidblogger:
the videos are online na
how can i get it?
Sports › Re: Kobe Bryant Speaking On Why He Usually Flies Private Helicopters (Throwback Vide by ruggedtimi(m): 9:22am On Jan 30, 2020
No matter how much he left behind, Cant put that smile in his wife face. What a lost for her
Crime › Re: Nigerian Kickboxer Agamaye Rowland Disarm A Suspected Armed Robber In His House by ruggedtimi(m): 11:01pm On Jan 29, 2020
haha!! sensei agamaye my kick boxing trainer in secondary school grin grin
Sports › Re: See Tottenham Midfielder, Son Heung-min's Car Collections Worth ₦708 M by ruggedtimi(m): 5:38pm On Jan 29, 2020
Maserati Levante mad car... I prefer Alfa Romeo stelvio
Politics › Re: Buhari Approves Two New Seaports – Railway From Port Harcourt To Maiduguri by ruggedtimi(m): 5:36pm On Jan 29, 2020
so boko go use train enter ph

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