₦airaland Forum

GoshenNLA:
Infact I’m just leaving the scene now, Na wa for we police o
Like I heard, police shot okada rider

are you normal? They said prison guard, you say police. Are you sure you don't see police in your dreams?

jornwhite:
Their is a limit to how low i can go, my friend today is another opportunity make yourself useful now that is an advice bòya kó la orí mo lé. okay

you don't even have an opportunity to be useful, you have been programmed to be useless. Preyi`n` Dani ogeti douni. Idiot!

jornwhite:
whether retard or maybe you are a nincompoop you could go on n on. if you wana barter insults visit the nearest market pepper seller.
For the record, i rather make an opinion than advice any human, i'm not that nice so don't flatter yourself the chances that if your life spoil it will favour me is much. guess my choice

your opinion is as useless as your existence. Crawl back to the hole you came out from

jornwhite:
You are definitely not ok ! confirmed , why will i waste my time advising a nonentity that does not know it takes a thread to make a post.
Open your blocked head n listening, don't waste people's time next time when you've already made up your mind. if you marry how does it benefit me, you dey work sef ur lineage never benefit

you seem to be from a lineage of retards who like to poke their stinking nose where they are not needed. Funny, you are dumb too, who exactly asked for your advise? Did I mention you or you are so jobless and frustrated in life that you have to come online with your borrowed data to disgrace your ancestors? Who exactly released this dog from it's cage?

sapientia:
So the end is what matters again in Nigeria

What if there are no guns?

And the police carried out the threat of shooting their legs?

This policeman should face a disciplinary panel

Enough of shooting before going to Court

your head is not just correct. Oya go and convince them to show you their hideout na

Yamiriflathead:
The headline is misleading..
He said suspect, not boko Haram suspect

In criminal law, you treat everyone as a suspect until they are proven guiltless

actually, everyone is innocent until proven guilty

cococandy:
I’m not understanding.

I cannot have this for breakfast and trek in Nigeria ( I am not mobile). You want me to faint?

jornwhite:
seems you already made up your mind on what to do, don't know why some of you open threads anyways. buh bear in mind as a female their is no achievement you can have that superceeds a family cos that is ur primary purpose every other thing naa jaraa. i was surprise to know a woman like okonjo iweala had more than 3 kids

it's like they are doing you o. Where and when exactly did I open thread or you don't know the difference between a post and a thread? A woman's no1 achievement is not marriage, if it is to you, pls keep the advise for your sisters and daughters (if you have any), don't come here to tell me what my no1 achievement should be or should not be

Yes I did confront my mum. We lost the last child of the house to sickle cell and my mum kept crying for days, she wouldn't even eat. I told her if I were the one that died, she wouldn't have cried that way, in fact, she would have been happy I was no more because of the way she treated me. I always felt so different growing up among my siblings. I only ended up making her cry more, she apologized and tried to explain to me. I pretended to understand though I didn't but I felt better knowing that she didn't hate me.
10years after that incident now, I have come to realize that she never hated me, I was just passing through the stress and problems of puberty. Parents are really trying, everyday I wake up with the fear of disappointing my son, I work hard just for him. Don't know what I will do if he thinks the same way of me as I thought of my mum

apasino01:
Confront Wetin ?

Me sef know say as a kid my ear wasn’t really working.

I no hear Word!

lol, bad type

Smile4mee01:
Here is my take.

The answer to this question depends on age/gender/belief.

Age : In a country where 25yr olds are still writing JAMB/UTME, you will agree with me that upon graduation their priorities would differ from someone who finished NYSC at 21. Employers would be keen to employ the latter. And the latter has many more productive years in business or career.

Gender: For a female unfortunately Nature does not favor them as the longer they push their childbearing age back the more difficult it is. Feminism and education are working hard to make women think a career is more important than family. Many of whom have taken this path of career over family often regret it. So, for example, most of the successful females in corporate Nigeria I Know, started their family early, the earlier they finished having children the better it is for them to now go all out in business or career. i,e look at would you rather be Omotola Kehinde or Toke makinwa.

For men, it's a different ball game. The curse of the man is to work hard to eat and provide for his family. The pressure of succeded is more on the man and he may take longer to find his feet because he needs to provide for his family.

The weight and responsibilities of being married can surely shift your proirties. Haven said that The bible says 1 shall chase 1000, 2 shall chase 10,000. This could very much mean that as a team there are things you will achieve easily than being alone.

Nothing is impossible in this life. However if you say it is not you are right, if you say it is possible you are also right. It is up to you.

I love this

cococandy:
@OP I’m going to assume that “dreams” in your post means the basic Nigerian understanding of completing your education and settling into a somewhat profitable career. In that case, yes it is advisable to complete that before marriage (all things being equal). The truth is that once married and you start reproducing, it gets more difficult to balance everything. That’s the real unblemished truth.

Sometimes, some things have to wait and in some cases, it might be that dream of the specific career or whatever it is you want to do with your life. Unfortunately, women are often on the receiving end of this stall/delay. People don’t often expect men to sacrifice their dreams to build the family. Which is another reason why you as a woman would benefit more from planning and discussing the life you want before you commit to any man.

Would I rather be pursuing a dream degree as a single 20 year old whose major task in life at that point is to make sure I pass my classes? Or would I rather be doing it as a 30 year old with a spouse and 3 toddlers/school age children who I have to factor into every single plan I make? As someone who’s been on each side of this, I can tell you doing it before marriage is easier.

Will marriage stop you from achieving it? Maybe or maybe not. Depends on who you marry + other factors.
More than likely, marriage will throw a wrench that can cause delays to those dreams of yours. On the other hand, marriage can also open doors of opportunities for you to achieve even more than you initially planned to. Again depends on who you marry.

What matters is that you enjoy the journey whichever route it takes you

If you have the choice and have nothing to lose, do it before marriage.

thanks for this, I am actually in the middle of this situation right now. Pls don't bother about the sex, this is nairaland I have decided to keep marriage aside, if after getting what I want, marriage eludes me, then I will just stay single. But being poor is not an option

Ritapearlydove:
Mn.

pls invite me over, I won't ask for transport fare

cococandy:
Breakfast

Coco, you definitely not in Nigeria right now. If I eat this one trek for the kind sun when they shine right now eh, and you know we don't have functioning ambulance service in nigeria

fergie001:
They weren't shot at directly, according to the eyewitness and video (don't know how to attach them).

Probably to register their "Presence" like they do often...."stray-bullet".

it is very stupid and unlawful for policemen to "announce presence" with gunshots. This is pure stupidity so he should face the consequences

Gbest90:
In as much as must say this is bad, I think this report is inconclusive.

After all that's happened recently, no security agent would just shoot at innocent and unarmed men; just to announce their presence.

RIP TO THE DEAD THOUGH

don't say that o, some are mad and I am happy they are bringing out theirselves like this although I feel bad for the victims. Let them he dismissed and charged for murder

Judolisco:
that's because they are classified.... Where are you from?? .... D protest was about Sars

the policemen killed, were they sars personnels? I should be ask where you are from

valentineuwakwe:
stop saying wat you don't know, wen DSS begin turn to excort to follow Nigerian leaders? You forget you are in a country where red is called white....you heard wat the speaker narrated but the real story is different.

the DSS waded in just to cover up the policeman involve, perhaps he has a higher person in the force.

higher person in the force doing escort duty? Another man covering for someone in Nigeria? Who is this idiot? Anything just to drag the police gives you orgasm. How much are you being paid for you to be this stupid?

Judolisco:
dss is secret police... Get ur facts right

during the protest, did anybody go after them? Are they attached to any division or unit if the police? Are they reporting to police headquarters? You need your head thoroughly checked

Longman8:
Tell me that the hatred to police men will not linger in the heart of this innocent child if he/she grows up and found out how or what really killed his father die.
Accidental discharge reducing our population.

cry me a river, he was killed by a dss personnel but your stupidity will not allow you read.

Zurich1844:
Oga reader, all na family members.

but when the police are at fault you call them out solely. Stop being stupid

Whoube99:
Mr.man before you comment, read well first, it will sure help you.
When did the SSS (DSS) agent becomes the police
The killer is a DSS agent and not the police this time okay!

they get orgasm whenever they see the name "policeman".

BigSarah:
Some one is saying well done, nice gesture?
If Femi's security aide didn't kill him, would he have ever known the home of a newspaper vendor called Ifeanyi,... Until Femi ensures the police man is served the right sentence then he hasn't done anything

idiot he is not a police man but a security aide from dss. Your hatred for police have blinded you. Lemme ask you, how many beggers on the street do you know their names? Hypocrite

DontBullshitMe:
He needs to automatically adopt the man's children.

Anything less of that is unrefined bullsheeeeeet.

say na him shoot am abi he send him security man to shoot am? Let the security man adopt the children na

Shadysen:
Ass licker motherfucker.

cry me a river

SenecaTheYonger:
A salty police man Still crying from the protest? Just 12 days protest? Meanwhile you guys have been making lives hell for Nigerians for the past 6 years and you’re crying because of 12 days protest. SMH, you better act right.

why are you wailing? Lemme know when you are done

SenecaTheYonger:
Defunct SARS have now started kidnapping people.

cry me a river

seyi072000:
I don't trust Nigeria Police a bit.... Don't believe anything that comes out of their mouth.

That was how they charge two ladies for trying to osun state governor

yes you don't trust them because they are the ones being killed, but if you hear that one police man shoot a civilian, you won't even ask for proof before raining curses. Hypocrites

allcomage:
I watched the clip and I was shocked beyond belief to see them eating roasted officers. I was wondering how it didn't go viral but God is faithful, it will never be suppressed. You can imagine if it they were Igbo,your guess is as good as mine.

it didn't go viral because it was the police being killed. If it was the police that shot one protesters now, the video will have 1million retweet on Twitter

bptc10:
Who told you that this is ritual, this is pure manifestation of the kind of hungry in the land, so please don't attribute it to ritual

which hunger? Just shut your gutter if your brain can't produce anything better

Shadysen:
Shut up!

why? The truth bites uh?

Keep donating vehicles without fuel and maintainance. Lol what am I saying sef, police boss them don chop the money, nobody questions them