₦airaland Forum

Christianity is a religion whose watch word is faith hope and charity. The santa you talk about was just one person's means of doing charity but don't want to be known. Not everybody likes it when people they offered help start thanking them unendingly, some just want to do it without notice. That was the intention of the person that started it till some persons start using it for monetary gain.even without wearing a costume, I can just drop gifts on people's door at Christmas, doesn't that make me santa clause?

rusher14:
When you made accusations of me supporting SARS because I probably had a relation working in the unit, you didnt think it was an innuendo?

What exactly do you mean by reform?

You mean when government caved in to the demands of the protesters, disbanded SARS, initiated reforms, elevated an armed response unit called SWAT, which some section of society namely the protesters opposed vehemently, it wasn't reform they initiated?

Let's face it, the daftest protest that has ever taken place in Nigeria is the protracted ENDSARS protest.

It may have been excusable before government caved in, but it was highly condemnable the instant government acceded.

The youth got carried away and the side effect of their exuberance is what we are witnessing.

you both have a point. Finding a common ground is the main thing now

Matrixoba:
You can make your point without being insulting. That tells so much about your background.
Back to the issue. If an armed conflict police unit is not functioning properly, can't it be reformed or totally scrapped? You are saying all these because you or someone close to you was not a victim of their brutality. May it never happen to you.
For your information, I was robbed by SARS in a checking point along Warri road in 2016. I will never forget that experience. The country is really something else. So stop insulting people for airing their views. Kidnapping was even rampant during the SARS era too. Abi?

you nor lie Sha, sars goofed big time. They forgot their main purpose, but I don't blame them, i blame the head. If you are in the force or close to anyone it it, you will understand

fredoooooo:
Kidnapp and kill politicians i support that 100%

when no more politicians to kidnap and kill, the chicken will come home to roast. Hope you grab?

SilverNorGold:




Holy pervert! Make him remain there until "Holy Spirit" come bail am...

Na only God go fit help us for this country!

I agree. Make he wait for holy spirit

Kondomatic:
But he also does everything for himself.




With no support from you.




In fact, you guys are compatible and must marry

GofuckYourself:
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You are a leech
A shameless on at that

Is his role to be your financier ?

Rubbish
It's ladies like you that made us loose respect for women

So he doesn't give you advise ?

Keep you company?

He doesn't listen to your rubbish explanations?

He is more than you deserve

Shameless opportunist

Poverty has ruined your sense

Thief .. carry gun na
I pity any man dumb enough to date you

You are the epitome of a gold digger a liability a two penny trick

You don't understand his role in your Life?

All the times you where sad he cheered you up nko?

Kai this shows you are very very low level
Go online and read what a relationship is ..it doesn't state anywhere ehe takes care of your bills you ingnorant grasshopper

Better go back to your village and look for who will send you to hairdressing school

I blame him for reaching so low to take a partner

lol, this one is clearly a pained, retired wannabe feminist. Why sound so bitter? Did she eat your children?

OOzz:
Can't waste my RIP for a police officer. Wicked people they all are

who asked you for rip?

Pierocash:
Rip to him.

But each time I hear about the death of police men, I pretend like I am sad. But the truth is, I feel kind of happy because this monsters in uniform has caused us more pain than good.

sounds like a broken record. Who cares if you are happy or sad? Will it bring back the dead? Abeg shift

Kondomatic:



Women are more violent then men but women think men are more violent because women don't count violence against house helps as a domestic violence

I am forced to start thinking in this light. Recently, a young boy of 7 was carried away by erosion in Benin, thankfully, he was saved by two women and taken to the station. When questioned, they found out he hawked pure water into the night and when they sent for his guardian, it happens that the man of the house is not even aware of it. It was a young woman who have a 2yr old child that is using this child to sell Water for her. She kept crying saying it is the work of the devil

It's funny how such topics keep being discussed. If not for stupid pride and crazy mentality, why would anyone want to believe he is better than another person because he was born with a d!ck? Or believe she don't need to work, pushing her needs and whatnot on another person, simply because she was born with a hole?
We better wake up and come to terms with the fact that a much as both genders have their vital roles, financial care and domestic works arent gender based. Both genders have to come together to reproduce and reproduction comes with responsibilities which should be catered for by both parties. This is what both gender needing each other means. Not who to clean house and who to provide money.
Talking about gender based violence, it goes both ways but in truth, it is more on the women because of strength factor, that said, women are not weak, their strength lies elsewhere and a woman who knows how to utilize her strength will never feel weak.
But then, when you are married to a lunatic, better know when to move instead of sitting there crying foul, looking for sympathy. Many of these women endure it because of dependency on their husbands wealth, they have nothing on their own. A woman who decides to depend on her husband finance is nothing but a slave`.

I have always heard that igbos are hate filled people but never took it to heart. this thread has confirmed it

jagorinho:
lol, actually you are right, he shouldn't have sanctioned that union. Most of them have these inbuilt hate for other tribes just because of plenty complex issues they have and by the way, it is not that they love themselves,no!!! far from it, I served in a core Igbo village and I know how they discipline themselves spiritually

spiritual discipline. Lol

Gabe427:
thanks sir for your concern I currently have 10, 000 for the payment but the guy is prolonging the issue hence a 5k would definitely sweeteen the deal in my favour.....thanks again

drop your WhatsApp number

apatheticme:
How reasonable has the conversation been from your own side of the gender divide??

You and your fellows have been using derogatory words for women all over the thread, yet you don't want women to react. Nobody has monopoly of insults! You insult others, you'll surely be insulted. Chikena!


Back to the title of the thread; the only thing constant in life is change. This generation dwells in the Era of social media and wokeness. Marriage could be fashionable in the past, and a day might come it'll be regarded as absurd. People move with trends and times.

You wanna get married, go ahead, no one's gonna crucify you. You don't wanna get married, feel free to stay alone without disturbing our social space with complaints.

What many people like me find distasteful is the desperate attempt by the red pillers and MGTOW group to make other people feel bad for getting married or to criticize them that their marriage will hit the rocks just because they're not ready to tow their line.

Variety is the spice of life, we're not running same race. So y'all need to understand that some will get married others will not. It is what it is!!! Same you alpha males claim women run to you and do your bidding once you ignore them and do not call them, hypergamy blah blah blah, same you come wailing here that no Virgin girl to marry, confused lots!

Quit drinking Panadol for their headaches, face ya red pill and let's hear word.

PS; for those e-alpha cowards and pained pillers that will quote me to say nonsense, y'all probably need to get some more new words, cos hoelosho, Broke bitch and the rest of the songs y'all sing is stale already.

Red Broke pillers

lol, I enjoyed your post. I know they are coming for me with their simp nonsense, lemme relax and drink kunu

JovialJune:
Ryan, I have always liked you here, very unbiased

I'm not angry and i get you, at least yours is just 3 years, the ones I've been seeing here is annoying, especially the 20 years own

How will you be dating someone for 2 decades and you're proud to celebrate it toriolohun? O wrong na, won't the girl be ashamed ni? It's somehow to me sha

P.S apologies to persons involved o, it's just what I think and my opinion.

that 20yrs relationship shock me Sha but what do I know...... Bless up

Happy married life op, your wife is beautiful

JovialJune:
I have to say my mind sorry,

All you men dating women for 5, 10, 20 years, even if you marry her at the end, are simply mean and wicked.


That said, hml.

not really true Sha. My girl and I have been dating for about three yrs. I wanted us to get married this yr but she refuse because she is pursuing something I don't want to explain here. It for her own career success and I don't want to stop her, getting married will be a major obstacle so I let her have her way. I am the one waiting and not her so imagine us getting married later and you will call me wicked? Aunty take it easy na

Gabe427:
A student of a University (male)
I've worked in a factory just to stand on my own.
I plan on learning how to Cut guys hair but the Barber willing to teach me is demanding a high fee but he's really Good and someone worth paying to learn from.

my dilemma is how I'll complete the money cause I don't want to do this back breaking job till school resumes I need other skills so as not to return to it(factory)

5k would go a long way in completing the money I plan on starting before Christmas cause that when I can get to see different customers and different styles and experience alot in a short period of time. and i just hope Im lucky enough .

Thank you very much Ma

hello, how much do you have? How much remaining to complete it? I don't have much but I might be able help a little

Franciscabless:
Shut up barren woman

no wonder you are a single and expecting mother. Who would want to marry this thing? Keep your insults to yourself

bigjackass:
stop opening your legs anyhow without any commitment from men. You a single mother of one and pregnant with another, no marriage. Smh

I dey think the matter o, but I nor talk so that I nor go hurt her feelings. I just tire for the matter

stayclearofme:
Yes but she once said " no woman should give birth outside wed lock" So is she not an hypocrite?

I hope you have lived up to all your principles without mistakes

4tomandchi:
Olosho feminist bastards I thought you claimed to be ungovernable and can't leave under a man ?

Who is the father to your bastard child?

You devil's advocate keep receiving young girls and crashing people's marriages while you are enjoying the satisfaction that motherhood brings which can only come about if a man and woman unite.

mehn, this bitterness is too much to dwell in the heart of a person. Hope you are ok cause you sound off

gabazin080:
not surprised we have uniform men among those arrested. will live in a country where law makers are law breakers

but why do Nigerian police always carry life ammunition even for a small operation like this. they will claim it's accidental discharge when they shoot any of those drivers that argues with them

do they have anything aside live ammunition? Nor be wetin they give them they go take work?

sherifato:
I can see how mannerless you are, can't you Waka pass without insulting? You are very stupid and you are a frustrated human being.

lol, I was actually referring to those who jump to conclusion without analyzing the post. Guess you are not too different from them

Ezenwa12345:
Do you investigation before posting, LG , Motorola did one of the best phone 2020 the only thing is that market is no longer coming from Nigeria because Nigeria phone market is flooded with cheap phone, like itel, tecno , infinitx , redmi

you nor want make poor man like us buy phone ba? I am coming for you

CAPSLOCKED:
ALL THESE INSECURE, LOW SELF-ESTEEM WOMEN AND THEIR "YOU MUST ACCEPT ME BY FORCE" MENTALITY IS SICKENING.
ONE DAY THEY'RE CLAIMING TO BE HAPPY WITH THEIR BODIES AND THE NEXT DAY THEY'RE WORKING TOWARDS LOSING WEIGHT. IF NOTHING LOOKS LIKE IT'S WORKING, THEY SWITCH BACK TO "SELF LOVE" SERMON, AND THE DECEPTION CONTINUES.

nobody is asking everyone to love them by force, just don't body shame them. Leave them alone

Blyzz:
Feminine in the house won't comment. They're bitter already. Seeing the truth from their fellow woman, they'll go gaga and call her names (even in their heart, cos many won't comment). Men are scum, men are scum, yet they keep marrying every Saturday. Let them keep deceiving the gullible

lol, calm down bro, same way we shout women are bitches and hoes everyday but these women don't get married to stones weekly na

BadBitch:
First of all, we're still very much in a patriarchal society, where women are shamed and bullied for not being married before thirties, I mean, the males on nairaland, even have a term "evening newspaper" an insult reserved for "single women" that are older than 27... Parents join in the circus as well, and you're wondering why some women "pressure" for marriage in the Nigerian society? For peace of mind, security, going with the "norm" and all the other privileges that come with being a married woman in this country. Anyday I step out without a wedding ring, I see the difference in how men and women regard me. And as for praying and religion and whatnot, we pray for everything in this failed state. Pray for light, water, security, health, admissions, food, so why the heck won't people pray for husband, or wife or children??





Many women are working their asses off, to make income to support the family. Many are even breadwinners, and you're here claiming women don't share financial roles? In Nigeria the poverty capital of the world? You must be kidding. Even the stay at home moms, still do business, and cover chores that would have cost a lot of money to get done if outsourced.
Catering, laundry and cleaning services are expensive services in saner climes. Not to talk of when children are now in the mix. Also the cost of them not pursuing their dreams and career goals, just to keep the home front in check.

And as for red pills or whatever the fok they call themselves, dem go dey alright. This is Nigeria, ignorance is the order of the day. Keep your pills within your borders tho'

this write up made more sense than the op

addictiv:
Truly women display more crab mentality than men....

I tell you bro

Ayula911:
700,000 years of rat poison selling for you even in heaven without umbrella ...