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You have a family now and you need to carry your cross. Go and learn how to pacify a woman. What you are dropping at home for four people is truly small. You need to know the stress of breastfeeding three kids, postpartum stress, cleaning and stuff. Hormonal changes in women alone after childbirth is enough to be crazy at every little thing. So, if you are not giving her enough money, you need to find a way to be calming her down. All her shouting is due to the accumulation of stress. You need to always rekindle her hope in you. You need to always show the things you are attempting to improve the income of the family.

The deed has been done. You have three wonderful kids. Some people have all the wealth in this world and asking for just one but, the pregnancy is not coming. Keep selling hope to your woman every day and you will see how her attitude will change. Women like hope; won gbebo, dem dey bring am, dem dey bring am.. Show her some business plans that will bring millions, even if the money has not come, she will be so happy that her husband is making moves to change the situation. Don't jinx this for the sake of those three kids.

Most women are not crazy. But, if you want to handle all situations with fire, they are always ready for you. They are incubators. That is, throw a stone at them, they will throw a rock at you. Speak one bad word, they will give you ten. Give them sperm, they will give you kids.

Use wisdom, not power. Trick her and play along. Tell her you just saw some testimonies of the Ponzi scheme on Nairaland. Tell her it's very real o. Tell her to return home so that you can plan together on how to invest big in the Ponzi. You can also tell her that your Brother has some 500k that he's not using and he'll like to also join.

Man, sound very real and put your emotions aside. Even when she returns, continue to play the trick for a few days before you unleash your true color. Once again, drop your emotions and let her feel relaxed.

I doubt if she will fall for this especially if the level of threats you've earlier displayed was high. Who knows, she fit be mumu. This style would have entered if you apply it immediately. You kids nowadays like to use force more than wisdom.

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Lorayne:
boss.... pls log out of your acct and book the code for us abeg

I've asked that question a few times here. So, I have to log out to generate code. Great. I will try that.

Lorayne:
boss.... pls log out of your acct and book the code for us abeg

I'm trying this. There are a few games that I think worth it. I think this parlay is a low risk

Lorayne:
won't play today?

Look at the environment. Can we ever get one thing right in this country?

Sorry for the late reply. No, I didn't

Lorayne:
boss, did you play today's games?

If he is not a fanatical Muslim and you are not really a devoted crazy Christian, the relationship will work. There are a lot of successful mixed-religious families in the Yoruba land that I have seen. Signs of non-fanatical Muslims;

- He can enter a Church with you, if necessary. Maybe for a child's dedication.
- He doesn't care about praying 5x daily
- He doesn't have any Alfa or Sheik he's crazy about or seeks spiritual help from.
- He's not from a crazy Alfa/Sheik family. If he is and his parents are still alive and active, it is a no-no. They will frustrate your life.

Terms and Conditions if eventually the relationship leads to marriage;
- He must not attempt to convert you to Islam, and you too will not attempt to convert him. Either of you can be convinced to switch in the future but, it must not be coerced.
- Because women stay longer with the kids, he must allow the children to follow you to Church. A mother needs to keep an eye on what the kids are learning. If some of the kids naturally fancy Islam, you must not stop them. From the experience that I've got from mixed religious marriages, children always pick their mothers' religion. All of Ajimobi's children are Christian. All of Remi Tinubu children are Christians.

Love transcends religion, ethnic group or colour but, you don't want a complicated life. While you are in love, use your brain to analyze all the points I listed above. If you see any sign of fanatism in him, run cos he will attempt to convert you after marriage. If you don't mind Islam, then don't care at all. Just watch his morals.

Igbo's are not joking o.

That's unprofessional of him.Sometimes,players think they know their perfect position, but it's a lie. Some of them have abilities that they've not discovered. It takes a great Mgr to unleash them

I don't know why a Pastor could be twisting his own words when there is video evidence. This depicts this man is a chronic liar and he can't help it.

These are his words;

"In COVID, I bought a jet
In COVID
The third, I have three
The third one
In COVID
I was praying for COVID not to end because I was resting"

The video evidence is on Youtube.

To be fair to the South East, Igbo must be President in 2023. If it's competency, we can find competent people in every region. As much as we want an Igbo President, our parties must nominate a young progressive one. Kingsley Moghalu is still my favourite. I wish a big party capable of winning can woo him. Moghalu has the capacity to turn this country around.

Nigeria is the easiest country to fix. We already have the recipe for greatness. Our youths have great energy, passion, and intelligence. They only need a little help to break boundaries.

The story no balance. They didn't tell us the value he single-handedly adds to the club's stock. Most of these clubs are not father Christmas. They always do their calculations before committing to expensive deals. It was COVID that messed all of them up. Having these great players is beyond 90 minutes on the pitch. The guy has added millions of people to their fan base and they will forever earn from that.

How did your wife know your mum is fetish with your money?

Please, be careful. It seems your wife has been visiting spiritual houses. Try to be wise here. Tell your wife you've accepted what she said but jokingly ask how she discovered it. From the joke, you might be able to know the kind of wife you married.

Again, be wise. You don't want trouble between the two most important women in your life.

You are judging a whole ethnic group with a few comments online. That shows how shallow you are. If they hate Chukwudi so much, they won't even give him a chance or peace of mind or the enabling environment to own three shops in the first place. Can you see how you contradict yourself. I have many Igbo brothers enjoying their stay in Yoruba land. In fact, many Igbos feel at home in the South West than in the South East.

Fr33born:
I'm telling you. The hatred is too much.
I didn't know about this tribalism that exist between Yorubas and Igbo until I came to the West for service. The hatred is too much and they don't hide it even in your presence.
90% of Yorubas (adults) will choose Shekau over one peaceful Chukwudi that owns 3 shops at computer village.

Before

Nigeria has already got all the recipe for the second civil war. I wish our stupid leaders could see the writing on the wall.

Watch the tail end of the video. They showed her playing with some guys. She showed good passing skill, ball covering and great stamina. That's just one game but the potential is there.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Nice.....

But hope say she nor just be ball juggler only
Because to sabi play ball different from being a ball juggler

Anyway...na only my real niggarrrrs way sabi football go understand this my statement

We cannot even grow ordinary grass.

Joe Okechukwu, the father of conspiracy theory. The guy has mellowed down after Trump's loss.

I am not in full support of Gumi, but I believe a kinetic and non-kinetic approach can be applied to this problem. We must negotiate from the point of strength. If we have very intelligent leadership, we can technically orchestrate trouble between Boko haram factions and the bandits. The Govt will kill a top guy in the Boko Haram factions and will make it looks like the guy was killed by the most popular bandit faction.

Trust me Nairalander, I can finish these guys in 6 months if I were at the helm of affairs. By the time I finish with them, they will be running helter-skelter begging Nigerian Govt. This thing is not rocket science but our leaders lack the will.

Only if the poor knew how timid these guys are, this nation would have been better.

During the EndSARS crisis, all of them were fidgeting, and they started booking private jets to fly out of the country. They thought the revolution has come.

Oma se o. how the mighty have fallen.

Why are they requesting cigarettes?

Jesu, 527 Billion Naira? Surely, these politicians are not human beings.

What does a man need to live a meaningful fulfilled life?

Honestly, I love their names. They sound nice. Katung, Kayang, Ayang, Gerung, etc

Kriss216:
Veirat Pam


Cecilia Guleng


Plateau people with their weird names.

Are these not Vietnamese names?

When will our ladies learn? So, "mummy favour" deserved to die because she didn't monitor the guy family members.

If your guy exhibits jealousy and bad temper traits, please run away. Those two traits can make people do crazy things. Pay close attention to your guy reactions when you are having breakthroughs/promotions.

I won't judge cos this is a one-sided story. One thing I have observed in many wives is that they can suppress pressure so much. But, when they explode, may God help you. We've not heard from the wife. But, don't be surprised that the man may be the one that brought this misfortune upon himself. I remember a video circulating around a few months ago of a Nigerian man in the UK that his wife threw his belongings out. People were raining curses on his wife. Later the truth came out that the man is extremely wicked. The man left his real wife with three children and move in with a side chick. The side chick was the one that threw his belongings out.

Don't take your wife for granted. If she's ignoring or pardoning your bad deeds, she's not a fool. If you continue your bad ways, she will explode someday and you will regret ever being born.

For now, his friends should rally round him. Help him so that he won't injure himself.

It depends on your responsibilities. Imagine a family with 3-5 kids, maybe 2 parents living with them. If husband and wife have good jobs and they have someone helping with the kids, they can achieve a lot. Education is very important.

Some people achieve a lot at the expense of their mental health. They have no time for some relaxing activities like work out, parties, Church, Mosque, vacation, etc. People need to work and enjoy not work and die.

How was it fixed? He lost but close. Jan's weight was too much for Izzy. Izzy was winning until the last two rounds when the guy took him down twice and he couldn't overturn him. Izzy would have won if he avoided being taken down. In a fight where you know your opponent weight is far heavier, you must try your best not to be taken down. That requires a lot of concentration.

osejie17:
Mcheweteww FIXED MATCH

You are right. First thing first, primary health care centres. Primary health care is not expensive to establish around 774 local Govt. Every 5 mins drive can have a small health care centre that can normalize patients in case of an emergency and then transport them to big hospitals if necessary. We ca learn from Cuba. Their primary health care system is very strong. How can Cuba, a country that is not that rich have a life expectancy rate better than many advanced countries?

That's one thing we will all remember Dr Olikoye for. He tried his best to build us a strong primary health care system even during the military time.

Nbotee:
Will someone jus advice dis clueless FG to stop embarking on white elephant projects dat will only end up wasting tax payers money. Let dem use the money to fix primary healthcare care centres all over the country becos road no even dey for the ubergency ambulance to drive

My problem with our people is that we react. That campaign is rubbish. When I heard it a few days ago, I knew it can't work. You can't tell poor Baba Sikiru not to sell meat. We can't react to a situation like that. If I were them, I will secretly call a meeting of some rich guys in the region and show them a wonderful feasibility study of cattle rearing. It takes years for cattle to mature. If we start now, we won't depend on cow coming from the North in about 3 years' time.

We don't understand diplomacy. We need to play like mumu. That Yoruba group should even be sponsoring media interviewing how Southerners suffer so much during the food blockage. We need to make Northerners feel like King Kong while we are secretly carrying out our food-dependent plan.

Northerners understand politics and diplomacy more than us. They play like mumu, but they know what they are doing. We down here talk too much. I saw several social media saying they lost the food war. Many of our people are jubilating. We should be sponsoring fake media to show we lost so that they can relax and rest on their laurels. While we are holding open meetings now during the crisis, they are just laughing cos they have one oga in Aso rock that will frustrate the efforts with just one policy.

Optional09:
They should go into rearing of cow as Yoruba people we know how to behave. No one is against you selling or eating beef. We don’t want criminals who want to kill and rape us in our communities.

We should invest in rearing of cows, goat and ram so long as it is ranched and kept from destroying other peoples business and means of livelihood.

I cannot say 100%. As you know, things can change on the pitch. Dundee know how to score any team but they don't know how to win, Heart is a better team that can score. Alloa BTTS probability is high too.

Akanimoh 113:
Abeg you sure say those Niggas go play for that Scotland Championship?