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I disagree a little bit. If Obi capture Wike, his chance of winning increases. Wike has a lot of resources to win SS for him. With Wike, SS is in the bag. I want Obi to quickly capture Nnamdi Kanu's heart. If he has Mazi on his side, SE is 100% sure cos Mazi guys can stand toe-to-toe if any SE politicians want to bring violence. If Kwankwaso also becomes his running mate, the man has a great movement in the North at least that can earn Obi the required 25%. Tinubu and Atiku can share the remaining 75%. Obi can promise to handover to Kwankwaso in 2031, just to get him. 8yrs of seeing what a good President looks like, Nigeria would decide by themselves if Kwankwaso can lead them. At least for now, woo him with that promise.
The real battle will be SW. He can take the battle to Tinubu by capturing SW youths and using intelligence to know where Tinubu thugs plan to disrupt on the election day. Reveal the plans to the media ahead. He shld first captured Elites in Lagos and other SW states. Sure his message can easily resonate with them. Tinubu may outbid in the poor SW neighborhoods.

Hopefully, Buhari will do us just one favor in 8yrs by making the election free and fair. Our security agencies must be fair.

SmartPolician:
Wike, I take God beg you, stay back in PDP.

Obi has been careful not to attack people. His interest is how to solve Nigeria's problem. Every speech is a lecture, back to back. Little wonder his popularity keeps growing by leaps and bounds.

Labour Party doesn't need someone who will be verbally attacking people and unwisely picking battles for them. Wike cannot be controlled.

Is he Inter Milan player now?

Yes, there is no way we won't take some loss but not a total loss. Hopefully, he scores 30 goals in Serie A next season and another club or Inter buys him for 40-50m. He was a bad business. He took about 4m pay cut to force the loan move. His loan takes off about 18m pounds from our Salary book, which is good. Why waste an expensive player on d bench that is not ready to adapt to the Mgr's system and the Mgr too not ready to change his system for him.

olatade:
Chelsea paid 100m for a 1 year loan. Lol

It's Garter, not pants. It's worn on the thigh. The groom can remove it in front of guests and toss it to all the single men in attendance. It's just like bouquet that the Bride toss to all single ladies.

It's Oyibo tradition, I don't think we need that cos everybody will see Groom's hand entering the Bride's dress. That looks dirty. I think Bouquet for single ladies is enough.

There is nothing wrong with studying a country doing better than you in a particular sector. All your educational qualifications do not make you an umpire in every area of life. Peter Obi was very specific on what he was going there to learn.

shigishege:
but I wonder if Peter obi claim to have gotten these educational qualifications from those prestigious institution in advance countries and still need to go and be studying Egypt to develop his country.

Is it that he has not seen any single meaningful concept from all his education and exposure to at least do something meaningful for Nigeria even without going to Egypt??

If your friend trusts you, let him know. A wife that cheats can kill. They might be planning to kill your friend, who knows. Save his life

Do people know that Sokoto is the poorest state in Nigeria? This man Governs his state into poverty and even beat a state like Zamfara in poverty

They have a good replacement in Diaz but I think he needs at least one more season to perfect his finishing. So, Liverpool will miss those Mane goals.

She's suffering from postpartum depression. Her mind is telling her you are the cause of her problems like stretch marks, big tummy, and general body change caused by the pregnancy. That's why u and the little baby are the victims. If many Naija men knew how pregnancy changes the lives of women, they won't make their wives cry for a second.

Right now, forget about the marriage. Be more after her health than the marriage. Persuade her to visit professionals, not PASTORS/PROPHETS. A simple drug can calm her down.

Also, you can be doing some investigations underneath to be sure no man is deceiving her out there. I doubt this cos she just had a baby, but do some investigations.

- If this is not who he was before you got married, this is the time he needs you most.
- If there is no domestic violence, stay around
- If there is no verbal abuse, stay around.
- You said he's not womanizing, that means, no risk of STD's from him.

Solution:
- Has he agreed he has a problem. Cos if he has not agreed, we have a long way to go. The first step to recovery his convincing him he has a problem.
- He needs a therapy. Find a better therapy program. Also, continue to pray for him.
- You need a therapy too. You are slowly sliding into depression.

Human system is very dynamic. What you are doing occasionally today, you are just one life event away from getting addicted to it. Therapy will find out some inner troubles ur husband got that slid him into alcohol addiction. Remember, the table may switch tomorrow. All of those drug addicts you see on the streets are not all bad ppl. Some got addicted to drugs that qualified Doctors gave them after a car accident or a major surgery. They are on the streets because everybody gave up on them.

If u leave, his Parents will never leave him. They will continue to find a solution.

COVID exposed our Pastors. Most of them make those 4 walls sacred for their selfish reasons, but when Govt close them, people still connect to God from their various homes. We build massive auditoriums, but forget to build people.

You don't know what you are doing. Why are you planning an introduction when you have an issue to fix. Do you want to be sleeping around as a married man? The issue is both psychological and physical. A Gyneachologist will help. Minor surgery may be needed to fix her condition. Also, she might need some counseling sessions with a therapist to help her get rid of the PTSD the pain has caused.

They weaken other Bundelisga clubs by buying their best players or hiring their managers. It will take divine intervention or Arab money for any other German club to win that League in the next 10yrs.

If another one comes tomorrow, greedy people will still fall for it.

Sogun dogoji.

The more you run away from Nigerians, the closer they are to you. Trump won't believe her daughter is marrying a Lebanese raised in Nigeria.

They are naturally fair in their family. Both Professor Pela and Lady Pela are very fair. It could be a reaction to a particular cream or maybe she's sick. Some ailments attack skin.

Venerable612:
Might be long term effects of using cream, she used to be very fair.

She may not be poor as alluded in the tweets.

Lol. You are right, no place is safe if WW3 starts. NATO can invade the whole of Africa in just one month. Enlist able-bodied men to go fight. All those boys wey dey form cultist will go and meet their match.

Heathrow44:
is like u don't value your life and freedom, Sending fighter jets to Ukraine would be seen in all sense as a declaration of war to Russia that would start the massive war games that's a preclude to WW3 and for ur info nigeria isn't isn't going to be left out, if u think nigeria is going to be neutral in ww3 u re stupid, is either Europe goes back to slave trade and invade African countries,enlist men to go fight as mercenaries or the bomb u all to death, simple!

These people always think of tomorrow. Do you know the American present oil reserve can last them for 98 years.

I love Tuchel but I think he should have given Tammy a chance.

Hmm. You never know what people are passing until they open up. This lady always smiles on her Instagram page, I never knew she's passing thru a tough time.

Funny Trump. Russian military forensics units are not that stupid not to know who actually attacks them

Bring Arab money. We want people that have the passion for the sport. Please, don't sell to Americans.

I can't forget 100 Naira Success Digest and 20 Naira Complete Sport then. I attended his seminars multiple times. He's one of the pioneers of Google Adsense in Nigeria around 2005. He mentored Akin Alabi. His religious beliefs made him not really support Akin Alabi's sports betting move. He raised many entrepreneurs. He lived a fulfilled meaningful life.

Adieu, Baba.

Exclude Russia from everything. When Russians are frustrated, they will turn against their crazy President.

We need to also have knowledge of mental health. I've seen Pastors and Christians suffering from chronic depression and commit suicide at the end. Depression is not only caused by tough times, some chemical imbalance in the body can trigger it. So, it doesn't matter if one is a Billionaire or a beggar.

nku5:
Chai so sad
Money isn't everything. Knowing God is most important.

If you guys don't handle it well, you will lose her. I don't mean death. This is a turning point in her life. Your family's actions now will determine if she will have a good turn or go worse.

Tell your parents to handle it with care. Yelling won't help. This is not the time to be shouting at her. If you guys want her to have the baby, no problem but you guys need to keep reassuring her that pregnancy is not the end of life. Your mum will take care of the baby and she can continue her academics.

This is the time she needs all of you most. Remember, our society has already rejected her. Once again, yelling and rejecting her will complicate the issue. I am talking from experience.

He has a point. Media can shape the society mindset

It depends on the net worth of the giver.

People should not be dying like chicken during d delivery. The percentage is very low in advanced nations. I beg men in Ng, save a lot of money and take ur wives to good hospitals during pregnancy. They would have seen many things that cld go wrong during d delivery.

We also need to educate ppl on C/S. Ppl can deliberately choose C/S if they don't want to go thru d delivery pain. C/S is not bad luck cos I've seen our ppl always praying for pregnancy women that, they won't use knife deliver their baby

Munzy14:
Shattered is an understatement, similar thing happened to my Uncle, He lost almost everything as he was lost in thoughts and way forward...

Newly married wife died on delivery...
One bad I cannever wish for an Enemy sef.

It took my Uncle few years to recover...yet that still created small problem as his immediate family is looking like as if it is a polygamous home.

I still have two friends whose wives left them almsot similar situation last year...They are yet to rcover...They amlost cry on their status..

It is painful.

They are closing down a building, not a Church. Your home can be a place of worship, can't you relocate. What they did makes a lot of sense. I hope Nigerian Churches can adopt the same style, unfortunately, the greed, pride, and selfishness of our G.O's won't allow that to happen. They want to brag in their messages how they open 1000 Churches in 6 mths. Once those Churches have similar doctrines, I see no reason not to merge.

Expect more of this in advanced nations. Instead of having 5 Churches in a street and each having a few members, merge them together instead of wasting resources to run 5 Churches. Maybe the remaining 4 can be used to house homeless ppl.

Origin:
A place of worship should always be open even if it has declining membership...

It still is a place of reflection, a place to experience peace of mind and a sanctuary...

I beg leave it open!

Cry no more. At least you've learnt some lessons on how to deal with Nigerian workers. Can you see what we are doing to each other. Later, we will all be blaming Govt for all woes in the society. We have lost our values.

How much did you lose? Are you still working somewhere? What is your next plan

dedons:
I was born into an average family with my parents always doing their best to make us happy during Christmas celebration very year.

Unfortunately, I ventured into business this year but lost everything due to the evil employees I had. They intentionally wrecked the business and disappeared. I've been weeping since October till date and left with nothing.

I woke up this morning but couldn't say a word of prayers, instead I found myself weeping again. I do hope on God for divine provision and restoration.

It is well.

You are very funny. You think your gifts can stop wicked people from being wicked. If you give a witch 1m, she will say why not 10m. You can never satisfy them.

Back to the crux of the matter. If you can afford small gifts,always give the man. Even if that will reduce (little bit) what you give your mother in law. If you can't afford it, don't kill urself. You Being alive alone is enough for witch to plan an attack on u. The widow (mother in law) is your utmost priority. Don't allow her beg for food.

He delivered a value. If the phone owner can solve the problem, he won't come over there. I have no problem with that. He didn't lie that he will go to Kafachan to go buy a phone part to use in fixing it.

That's knowledge for you. You pay for what you don't know or you pay for the time value. I advise upcoming guys who have a lot of time at their disposal to know how to use google/youtube. They can learn how to fix many things from there and that will save them a lot of money.