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Romance / Re: Groom Takes Off Bride’s Pant, Throws It Into The Crowd At Their Wedding (Video) by saajus: 2:44am On Jun 20, 2022
It's Garter, not pants. It's worn on the thigh. The groom can remove it in front of guests and toss it to all the single men in attendance. It's just like bouquet that the Bride toss to all single ladies.

It's Oyibo tradition, I don't think we need that cos everybody will see Groom's hand entering the Bride's dress. That looks dirty. I think Bouquet for single ladies is enough.
Politics / Re: Obi’s Egypt Trip Will Benefit Nigerians Whether He Is President Or Not- Spokesma by saajus: 5:01pm On Jun 17, 2022
There is nothing wrong with studying a country doing better than you in a particular sector. All your educational qualifications do not make you an umpire in every area of life. Peter Obi was very specific on what he was going there to learn.

shigishege:
grin but I wonder if Peter obi claim to have gotten these educational qualifications from those prestigious institution in advance countries and still need to go and be studying Egypt to develop his country.

Is it that he has not seen any single meaningful concept from all his education and exposure to at least do something meaningful for Nigeria even without going to Egypt??

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Romance / Re: Should I Tell My Male Friend What I Noticed About His Wife? by saajus: 4:52pm On Jun 17, 2022
If your friend trusts you, let him know. A wife that cheats can kill. They might be planning to kill your friend, who knows. Save his life
Politics / Re: Atiku Receives Tambuwal At His Abuja Residence (Photos) by saajus: 4:32am On Jun 03, 2022
Do people know that Sokoto is the poorest state in Nigeria? This man Governs his state into poverty and even beat a state like Zamfara in poverty
Sports / Re: Sadio Mane To Leave Liverpool This Summer by saajus: 6:15pm On May 29, 2022
They have a good replacement in Diaz but I think he needs at least one more season to perfect his finishing. So, Liverpool will miss those Mane goals.
Family / Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by saajus: 12:24am On May 27, 2022
She's suffering from postpartum depression. Her mind is telling her you are the cause of her problems like stretch marks, big tummy, and general body change caused by the pregnancy. That's why u and the little baby are the victims. If many Naija men knew how pregnancy changes the lives of women, they won't make their wives cry for a second.

Right now, forget about the marriage. Be more after her health than the marriage. Persuade her to visit professionals, not PASTORS/PROPHETS. A simple drug can calm her down.

Also, you can be doing some investigations underneath to be sure no man is deceiving her out there. I doubt this cos she just had a baby, but do some investigations.
Family / Re: Not The Marriage I Had In Mind by saajus: 4:09pm On May 22, 2022
- If this is not who he was before you got married, this is the time he needs you most.
- If there is no domestic violence, stay around
- If there is no verbal abuse, stay around.
- You said he's not womanizing, that means, no risk of STD's from him.

Solution:
- Has he agreed he has a problem. Cos if he has not agreed, we have a long way to go. The first step to recovery his convincing him he has a problem.
- He needs a therapy. Find a better therapy program. Also, continue to pray for him.
- You need a therapy too. You are slowly sliding into depression.

Human system is very dynamic. What you are doing occasionally today, you are just one life event away from getting addicted to it. Therapy will find out some inner troubles ur husband got that slid him into alcohol addiction. Remember, the table may switch tomorrow. All of those drug addicts you see on the streets are not all bad ppl. Some got addicted to drugs that qualified Doctors gave them after a car accident or a major surgery. They are on the streets because everybody gave up on them.

If u leave, his Parents will never leave him. They will continue to find a solution.
Religion / Re: Aftermath Of Covid-19: Why Are Some Church Workers No Longer Dedicated? by saajus: 10:59am On May 08, 2022
COVID exposed our Pastors. Most of them make those 4 walls sacred for their selfish reasons, but when Govt close them, people still connect to God from their various homes. We build massive auditoriums, but forget to build people.

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Health / Re: My Fiancee Can't Have Sex by saajus: 6:17pm On May 03, 2022
You don't know what you are doing. Why are you planning an introduction when you have an issue to fix. Do you want to be sleeping around as a married man? The issue is both psychological and physical. A Gyneachologist will help. Minor surgery may be needed to fix her condition. Also, she might need some counseling sessions with a therapist to help her get rid of the PTSD the pain has caused.
Sports / Re: Bayern Munich Are 2021/22 Bundesliga Champions by saajus: 9:43am On Apr 24, 2022
They weaken other Bundelisga clubs by buying their best players or hiring their managers. It will take divine intervention or Arab money for any other German club to win that League in the next 10yrs.
Investment / Re: MMM: Do You Remember This? (Throwback Photo) by saajus: 11:49pm On Apr 19, 2022
If another one comes tomorrow, greedy people will still fall for it.

Sogun dogoji.
Religion / Re: Tiffany Trump And Michael Boulos Visit Pastor Paul Adefarasin In Lagos by saajus: 3:04am On Apr 12, 2022
The more you run away from Nigerians, the closer they are to you. Trump won't believe her daughter is marrying a Lebanese raised in Nigeria.

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Celebrities / Re: New Photo Of Nike Peller Got Fans Worried by saajus: 1:49pm On Apr 11, 2022
They are naturally fair in their family. Both Professor Pela and Lady Pela are very fair. It could be a reaction to a particular cream or maybe she's sick. Some ailments attack skin.

Venerable612:
Might be long term effects of using cream, she used to be very fair.

She may not be poor as alluded in the tweets.

Foreign Affairs / Re: UK To Send 120 Armoured Vehicles To Ukraine As Boris Johnson Meets Zelensky by saajus: 1:31am On Apr 10, 2022
Lol. You are right, no place is safe if WW3 starts. NATO can invade the whole of Africa in just one month. Enlist able-bodied men to go fight. All those boys wey dey form cultist will go and meet their match.

Heathrow44:




is like u don't value your life and freedom, Sending fighter jets to Ukraine would be seen in all sense as a declaration of war to Russia that would start the massive war games that's a preclude to WW3 and for ur info nigeria isn't isn't going to be left out, if u think nigeria is going to be neutral in ww3 u re stupid, is either Europe goes back to slave trade and invade African countries,enlist men to go fight as mercenaries or the bomb u all to death, simple!
Foreign Affairs / Re: Biden Announces Historic Oil Reserve Release, To Reduce Gas Prices. by saajus: 9:42pm On Mar 31, 2022
These people always think of tomorrow. Do you know the American present oil reserve can last them for 98 years.

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Sports / Re: Roma Celebrates 1st Half Win Against Lazio by saajus: 1:12am On Mar 21, 2022
I love Tuchel but I think he should have given Tammy a chance.
Celebrities / Re: Lupus: I Have Five Years To Live ― Kemi Afolabi (Video) by saajus: 3:05am On Mar 12, 2022
Hmm. You never know what people are passing until they open up. This lady always smiles on her Instagram page, I never knew she's passing thru a tough time.
Foreign Affairs / Re: We Should Put China's Flag On F-22 Jets & Bomb Russia - Trump Advises U.S (Pics) by saajus: 9:46pm On Mar 06, 2022
Funny Trump. Russian military forensics units are not that stupid not to know who actually attacks them

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Roman Abramovich Puts Chelsea Up For Sale by saajus: 8:18pm On Mar 02, 2022
Bring Arab money. We want people that have the passion for the sport. Please, don't sell to Americans.
Sports / Re: Sunny Ojeagbase Is Dead! Complete Sports Founder Dies At 71 by saajus: 4:01am On Mar 01, 2022
I can't forget 100 Naira Success Digest and 20 Naira Complete Sport then. I attended his seminars multiple times. He's one of the pioneers of Google Adsense in Nigeria around 2005. He mentored Akin Alabi. His religious beliefs made him not really support Akin Alabi's sports betting move. He raised many entrepreneurs. He lived a fulfilled meaningful life.

Adieu, Baba.

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Politics / Re: Roman Abramovich: Chelsea's Owner Asked To Speak With Russia By Ukraine by saajus: 4:44pm On Feb 28, 2022
Exclude Russia from everything. When Russians are frustrated, they will turn against their crazy President.
Crime / Re: We Found Pistol With 13 Rounds On Dapo Ojora’s Chest - Police by saajus: 8:35pm On Feb 18, 2022
We need to also have knowledge of mental health. I've seen Pastors and Christians suffering from chronic depression and commit suicide at the end. Depression is not only caused by tough times, some chemical imbalance in the body can trigger it. So, it doesn't matter if one is a Billionaire or a beggar.

nku5:
Chai cry so sad
Money isn't everything. Knowing God is most important.
Family / Re: My 17 Yr Old Sister Is Pregnant... by saajus: 1:49pm On Feb 17, 2022
If you guys don't handle it well, you will lose her. I don't mean death. This is a turning point in her life. Your family's actions now will determine if she will have a good turn or go worse.

Tell your parents to handle it with care. Yelling won't help. This is not the time to be shouting at her. If you guys want her to have the baby, no problem but you guys need to keep reassuring her that pregnancy is not the end of life. Your mum will take care of the baby and she can continue her academics.

This is the time she needs all of you most. Remember, our society has already rejected her. Once again, yelling and rejecting her will complicate the issue. I am talking from experience.
Celebrities / Re: Samklef: Nollywood Movies Are The Reason A Lot Of Young Boys Are Doing Ritual by saajus: 3:37pm On Jan 17, 2022
He has a point. Media can shape the society mindset
Family / Re: Can A Man Give A Lady ₦400,000 Just Like That & Not Ask For Anything In Return? by saajus: 4:18pm On Jan 10, 2022
It depends on the net worth of the giver.
Family / Re: After 10 Years Of Waiting, Woman Dies On Christmas Day After Delivery (Photos) by saajus: 2:59pm On Jan 03, 2022
People should not be dying like chicken during d delivery. The percentage is very low in advanced nations. I beg men in Ng, save a lot of money and take ur wives to good hospitals during pregnancy. They would have seen many things that cld go wrong during d delivery.

We also need to educate ppl on C/S. Ppl can deliberately choose C/S if they don't want to go thru d delivery pain. C/S is not bad luck cos I've seen our ppl always praying for pregnancy women that, they won't use knife deliver their baby

Munzy14:

Shattered is an understatement, similar thing happened to my Uncle, He lost almost everything as he was lost in thoughts and way forward...

Newly married wife died on delivery... embarassed
One bad I cannever wish for an Enemy sef.

It took my Uncle few years to recover...yet that still created small problem as his immediate family is looking like as if it is a polygamous home.

I still have two friends whose wives left them almsot similar situation last year...They are yet to rcover...They amlost cry on their status..

It is painful.


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Religion / Re: First Presbyterian Church Of Bellefonte Holds Last Service by saajus: 10:09am On Jan 02, 2022
They are closing down a building, not a Church. Your home can be a place of worship, can't you relocate. What they did makes a lot of sense. I hope Nigerian Churches can adopt the same style, unfortunately, the greed, pride, and selfishness of our G.O's won't allow that to happen. They want to brag in their messages how they open 1000 Churches in 6 mths. Once those Churches have similar doctrines, I see no reason not to merge.

Expect more of this in advanced nations. Instead of having 5 Churches in a street and each having a few members, merge them together instead of wasting resources to run 5 Churches. Maybe the remaining 4 can be used to house homeless ppl.

Origin:
A place of worship should always be open even if it has declining membership...

It still is a place of reflection, a place to experience peace of mind and a sanctuary...

I beg leave it open!
Family / Re: This Is The Worst Christmas Of My Life by saajus: 6:53pm On Dec 25, 2021
Cry no more. At least you've learnt some lessons on how to deal with Nigerian workers. Can you see what we are doing to each other. Later, we will all be blaming Govt for all woes in the society. We have lost our values.

How much did you lose? Are you still working somewhere? What is your next plan

dedons:
I was born into an average family with my parents always doing their best to make us happy during Christmas celebration very year.

Unfortunately, I ventured into business this year but lost everything due to the evil employees I had. They intentionally wrecked the business and disappeared. I've been weeping since October till date and left with nothing.

I woke up this morning but couldn't say a word of prayers, instead I found myself weeping again. I do hope on God for divine provision and restoration.

It is well.
Family / Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by saajus: 6:48pm On Dec 25, 2021
You are very funny. You think your gifts can stop wicked people from being wicked. If you give a witch 1m, she will say why not 10m. You can never satisfy them.

Back to the crux of the matter. If you can afford small gifts,always give the man. Even if that will reduce (little bit) what you give your mother in law. If you can't afford it, don't kill urself. You Being alive alone is enough for witch to plan an attack on u. The widow (mother in law) is your utmost priority. Don't allow her beg for food.

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Phones / Re: Phone Engineers Will Not Make Heaven Walai by saajus: 1:48pm On Dec 25, 2021
He delivered a value. If the phone owner can solve the problem, he won't come over there. I have no problem with that. He didn't lie that he will go to Kafachan to go buy a phone part to use in fixing it.

That's knowledge for you. You pay for what you don't know or you pay for the time value. I advise upcoming guys who have a lot of time at their disposal to know how to use google/youtube. They can learn how to fix many things from there and that will save them a lot of money.

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Crime / Re: Saudi-Bound Businesswoman Ingests 80 Pellets Of Cocaine To Pay For IVF Treatment by saajus: 4:42am On Nov 30, 2021
IVF kill u there. You want to destroy the lives of other people's children for you to have a child. ko jo.
Celebrities / Re: Rema Calls Out DJ Neptune Over His Intellectual Property (Pics) by saajus: 1:28pm On Nov 26, 2021
He should have allowed his record label to handle the case legally or civil-wise. Don't bring everything to social media court.

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