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nairalandbuzz:Most absurd recommendation I've seen. You want touts recruited as military personnel when it is a known fact that the military lacks the capacity to reform such individuals. They are already there anyway. |
They want to further complicate the already complicated system. In a country where our military personnel feel and act like gods before civilians. Make we watch. |
Smazlexander:No one called you a fool. My point is, it's better to avoid last minute rush. 2015 till now is a long time for any anomaly to be rectified. |
franchasng:Even that is not an offence. Check the CCB act again |
sotall:I understand that. But given that this is Nigeria and records are hardly kept for long, he ought to have gone there when the window for registration was still open, so in case of any anomaly, he could reapply. Why wait till few weeks to election? |
I blame you. Why did you have to wait till now to collect a PVC that ought to have been due since 2015? |
This is the most hilarious scam play I have ever read . geek4k are you for real? Well I don't blame you for this. I blame ministers that have twisted the gospel into what it's not. If you had a true understanding of what the gospel of Jesus Christ is, you wouldn't fall victim to fortune tellers and magicians. The difference was clear. You only didn't see it. Get enlightened! |
SR hasn't said anything we haven't already conceived. All we see here is speculations.This is not investigative journalism. They should go do their homework. |
The guys are the fraudsters. The ladies? Wrong place, wrong time. Don't date yahoo boys, they won't listen. |
The Facebook poster's condescending tone on the wife is a pointer that he/she may have had some grievance towards the wife. Or else he just wants to vilify her for want of who to blame for the incident. How do we know the husband was not aware when she took the photos and posted online? They may have been in it together. That he was shot dead could have be due to stubbornness in releasing the money. Else this would have been a case of assassination. We can't blame the dead and shouldn't heap all blames on the wife. |
Yigiyaga:I'm elated you've come so far to this point. It's very commendable I must say. However, I'm not in the best position to offer you the quality help that you seek. You've come a step further in reconciliation by taking responsibility and acknowledging you've done things to hurt her. At this point, you need to build trust because it's been broken. In doing this, you not only promise not to repeat such action again, but take a step further by addressing those issues behind your reactions, one of which is trust. Due to your past experience, you find it difficult to trust ladies again, especially when you are romantically linked. To address this, I think you could consult with a qualified psychotherapist. Book a session, maybe during the weekends. With time you will heal. Divorce is a traumatising experience. Also, on bringing private issues to the public space, I need not advise you further as you can attest to the fact that it does more harm than good. We learn everyday. At this point, whether you two get back to each other would be up to you both. If you do break a truce, then I advise you spend time getting to know each other better; get to know your flaws; admit you are not perfect and can make mistakes in the future.Then turn these breaches around and let it build strength in your relationship. I see you scaling through. NwanyiAwkaetiti! That name is a mouthful . I admire your composure in the face of all these. I've seen it before in your reactions, not even on this thread. I believe you two can still work things out. You won't be diminishing your worth if you give it another chance. No, that would be the greater display of maturity as you've consistently shown.Give you two a chance and I would be there to Christen your twin babies after the order of Awkaetiti . Yes, I like to dream big .To your comeback. |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:Nwanyi calm down. You've been cool until now. Don't blow your top and resort to name calling. There's nothing wrong in wanting to see someone you've been having an online relationship with. You did nothing wrong in wanting to see him. I even don't see anything wrong in asking for transport fare. What was important was timing. In my opinion, you hastened to smoothen things up without having a better understand of who you are getting on with. Different people react to issues differently. Given that you are knowledgeable on the human psychology, I think the onus lied with you to know when to press and when to tarry. Did you factor in what led to the crash of his last relationship? Could it have had a little to do with finance? Then you could have tread with caution on that subject. You get my point? Count your losses. Forgive and let go. He is not wrong, neither are you. You both were just not right for each other at the moment. To the success of your next relationship. |
Yigiyaga:Okay I will. I've read through many comments on this thread and have decoded some personalities. Based on the understanding of who you are, I think the Nwa girl moved too fast which made you suspicious. By your personality, you value rationality over emotionality. And also, being a sensitive person yourself, you saw the act as one that seeks to play on your emotions. What you saw may or may not have been real, but your perception holds it valid. That's what matters to you. My opinion on this is that you lower your expectations of people just a little, as they may not meet up to your standard a little. Also, I don't know for how long you've been divorced, but I think you're still hurting from your past failed relationship which has further heightened your suspicions. I think you should take time to heal, and also give a little room to trust people; but that must not be at the expense of rationality. Lastly, you can shut the door on this thread and refrain from granting further public audience on this issue. My regards. |
Yigiyaga:I've been watching in 3D . Want me to comment? |
UyaiIncomparabl:Finding a partner that shares similar values with you is definitely not settling for less. But if you should focus on similarity in personality, there's bound to be friction. From OP's description, he probably has a dominant melancholy trait. These people are perfectionists that don't need another perfectionist in their life to complement. I think he can broaden his search. |
If you find one with the exact specs, chances are you both won't find yourselves compatible. Likes repel, unlike attracts. Focus on similarity in values and not personality. Good luck on your search |
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Nothing wrong with what she is saying. If you must hold a ceremony, do it in a way that adequately caters for your guest. That's how I attended Nigeria Society of Engineers Induction ceremony, of which invitation was open to the general public. After all the do and do, dem begin look face share food. I just waka |
Meanwhile my ekuke bingo dey tear race when e hear ordinary knockout ![]() |
Wrong. God does not use disasters to warn his children |
franchasng:Really? Is it the book with hard covers referred to as bible that rebukes the attacker or the knowledge of the Word you have in your heart? I think you watched too much Nollywood movies when you were younger ![]() It was technological advancement that saw the use of paper in keeping the bible. Same technological advancement sees to the use of electronic devices. Why accept one and reject the other? |
OP, what's the difference between you and an herbalist? Someone said Jesus came to die for sinners but he didn't come to die. So he has discarded Jesus' statement about the need to love our enemies down the drain. How did we get here ? |
fkj950ax:You are quoting the wrong person. Now take it and have sense.
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fkj950ax:When you are not knowledgeable on a subject, and you meet a professional who is, you shut up ![]() |
There is a rot in the judiciary; we know that. But the stinking rot in the executive arm spearheaded by a self acclaimed Mr integrity is totally unacceptable. To see a change, it's up to the legislature to enact laws that would plug loopholes in all three arms. |
An uninformed graduate is no better than an illiterate |
Lol, the zombies are wailing over matter wen nor concern them. This is the reason they are called zombies
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Beer palour gist . This is simply the opinion of an unenlightened blogger |
keneryhark:Lol, your foolishness is irredeemable. 'engage or participate' there is the VERB. 'the management or running of a private business' is the OBJECT. If you did English in school, you should understand where you ere in comprehending what the act says. |
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. geek4k are you for real? Well I don't blame you for this. I blame ministers that have twisted the gospel into what it's not. If you had a true understanding of what the gospel of Jesus Christ is, you wouldn't fall victim to fortune tellers and magicians. The difference was clear. You only didn't see it. Get enlightened!
. I admire your composure in the face of all these. I've seen it before in your reactions, not even on this thread. I believe you two can still work things out. You won't be diminishing your worth if you give it another chance. No, that would be the greater display of maturity as you've consistently shown.
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