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lynk106: ^
I'm actually not surprised. Now everything is clear
It's not my fault you didn't grow up in a stable family to see love shared between your parents or to experience and learn what love is. You really need to stop projecting your insecurities onto others. Granted, you have never and will never experience a lasting monogamous relationship.



I've checked your profile.You think all those naked pics and p[size=1pt].[/size]orn you were posting all over the forum will fly in naija?. Even if you lived in naija, you just might be shot dead in d street yourself for being a big PERVERT. Look who is talking about deviancy.
keep projecting your insecurities.

Bullying: A bully may project his/her own feelings of vulnerability onto the target(s) of the bullying activity. Despite the fact that a bully's typically denigrating activities are aimed at the bully's targets, the true source of such negativity is ultimately almost always found in the bully's own sense of personal insecurity and/ or vulnerability.[21] Such aggressive projections of displaced negative emotions can occur anywhere from the micro-level of interpersonal relationships, all the way up through to the macro-level of international politics, or even international armed conflict.[16]
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection

You are a person!

I did not grow up in a family where perversion is interpreted as "love".

The experience of love that I learnt was between normal people: a man and woman. Not sickos like you were brought up by!

A sicko fagg is talking about projecting "insecurities".

Jarus: not structured any specially. Total annual pay (exclusive of bonus which could even be as high as 1m), not tied to anything. As in, annual pay 10m plus for entry level. Chevron pays 21-24m pa for 2nd level (3-5 years experience), I have friends there. Do the math for entry level. Shell was paying about 7m for entry level far back 2008. Inflation and other adjustments, it can't be less tha 10m today

Maybe that could be true, but I find it a struggle to believe that can be basic salary for an entry staff or even someone with 3-5 years experience.

Why

- Because even the Engineers in more affluent and developed countries do not make that. So if they are paying fresh local grads that, what will they pay Oyinbo expatriate with 10 years experience moving to Nigeria? N150m?

- Because I wonder how the management can justify such figures to their shareholders considering they can find 4 Nigerian grads for those salary figures and those 4 would be over the moon and bite their hands off. Why pay over market-dictated prices?

- Because the labour market has too much supply and there is virtually not much that adds a premium to the hired students to justify such salaries. Even Harvard grads will struggle to get such salaries for entry level in the developed world. So why pay a Unilag grad more than an Harvard grad?

- Because I have a close older friend that is an experienced oil sector staff. Someone who has experience working in Nigeria and the UK for the biggest brands in senior-mid roles and when he moved back to Nigeria after his stint in the UK to take a regional leadership role with a top firm, he blatantly told me his whole salary package and it was in no way extortionate as these figures (and I knew his salary package in the UK too). The Nigerian job's salary was high but very aligned to international comparative figures. This was a guy with over 15 years experience. Now he is in a new position with another of the international firms in Nigeria where he has only 2 superiors in the entire firm in Nigeria. So if his salary was not extortionate despite his years of direct, international and locally relevant experience, I struggle to believe entry level grads can make that much.

jp philips: @sagamite, 17m annually is everywhere open your eyes

For someone with no experience?

In a country where thousands of graduates would bite your hands off for a fraction of that with a promise of that figure in another 5 years?

scobaba: Sagamite I understand how you feel about that line. I also felt like you some 9months ago until I got my employment letter in one of the top 5 6months ago..............and everything changed.

That figure is reaaaaaaaaaaal.

Really?

£100K for 3 or 4 years experience? In Nigeria?

Please explain to me using your employment letter how the remuneration is structured?

Jarus: There are actually 10m in the energy sector. 2 or 3 IOCs pay more than 10m at entry level.

How is that structured?

[quote author=L.M Ayedun..]The minister was not in the car when the shots were allegedly fired.

The FCT Police Command on Monday in Abuja confirmed that gunmen fired shots at the car of the Minister of Aviation, Ms Stella Oduah in Abuja.

The spokesperson of the command, Altine Daniel, told the News Agency of Nigeria that the incident occurred at about 10 p.m. on Friday.

She added that the minister was not in the car when the incident took place.

Ms. Daniel, a Deputy Superintendent of Police, however, said that the incident was reported to the police on Monday at about 5:30 p.m.

According to her, some metal objects were found in the vehicle which do not look like the conventional bullet.

“The objects will be subjected to ballistic test,” she said.

According to her, investigation into the incident has begun.

Also confirming the shooting, the Special Adviser to the minister, Joe Obi, said that the attack took place at the Ministers’ Hill, Maitama in Abuja.

“Fortunately, the minister was not in the car at the time the attack took place.

“An official report has been made to the police and the police are currently investigating it,” Mr. Obi said.

Mrs. Oduah has been in the news recently over her roles in the controversial inflated purchase of two bullet proof cars by the Nigerian Civil Aviation Authority, NCAA, for N255 million; with many Nigerians calling for her sack and prosecution.

President Goodluck Jonathan on Sunday confirmed that he had received the report of a three-man committee set up to probe the role of the minister in the scandal.

(NAN)

http://premiumtimesng.com/news/150323-gunmen-attack-aviation-minister-oduah-police.html[/quote]What utter rubbish!

What a "coincidence"!!!

Is this person Silverback Gorillas lame plan to prevent sacking this criminal, overweight piece of shyt?

Dalazyou: abt ur ideaism

What the fck is "ideaism", person?

THUNDER4real: you know when i explain it to you, you will stiil be there arguing unecessarily. its more of like pouring water upon stones

No, you can't explain it.

I am very sure you do not have the intellectual capacity to explain it.

It is really that simple.

Dalazyou: mr I:T:K,hmmm neva c mugu like u dat always puts a question mark after a conclusion yet u claim 2 b brilliant

Dalazyou: That would be very easy?
instead for..THAT WOULD BE VERY EASY.

What the fck is the person on about?

Idowuogbo: Typhoid/ malaria.

That country is fevked mahn!

What a pure shithole place.

Idowuogbo: Yes!

Wow!

What happened? Any news on what happened to her?

ekeroyal: The last time I saw this list it was entitled: "Federal Executive Wankers Council". Didn't know it meant something else.

lynk106: hahhahaha is Nigeria marching forward into civilization or backwards into savagery? FACT and EVIDENCE shows otherwise.
besides, persecuting homosexuals as "deviant" behavior is ridiculous considering all the deviant behaviors that exist in Nigeria. I guess deviancy is only acceptable (ooppps. I meant 'normal' ) when straight men do it. It all boils down to the idea that only a straight man's desires should be legitimized by society. Why not go plug cameras into bedrooms and hotels to sentence a man to death everytime he has thr[size=1pt].[/size]eesome sex. tell me about sexu.al deviance. You wonder why polygamy has not yet been made illegal by law in naija. I can't think of anything more barbaric than polygamy. Besides, of course, all these old men I see married to young women. I guess that is also deviant oops I mean normal behavior.

but again, if the individuals involved are consenting adults with freedom of choice then what's my business, or your business?
I mention freedom of choice because guess what? trafficked humans exist and guess what? they're 99% women and chidren and probably even homosexuals. All these househelps being r.aped by their guardians also may not have freedom of choice even when they are of adult age.Most victims of r.ape do not report it for this same reason. Again, it all boils down to tyranny of heterosexual male in society. This is changing. Thank God for that.

Last point: what's one's business with what others do with their lives when they are not affecting your property or personal space? Or complaining to you? It is one thing to consider an act immoral [i can consider a[size=1pt].[/size]nal sex,polygamy,po[size=1pt].[/size]rn, fornication(s.ex before marriage) etc to be sex.ually immoral] but another thing to feel entitled to a right to sentence others to condemnation for such acts. ex. women used to be condemned and punished for not being "virgins" before marriage. That sense of entitlement to condemn others (usually a less powerful group/minority in society)to punishment and suffering based on your own personal opinions comes from a place of unchecked power. Unearned heterosexual male power in society. and with power comes responsibility a responsibility to choose civility over barbarism.

Besides, unless you are a secret gay yourself then that will be d only way to explain your obdurate obsession.
The most outwardly homophobic characters in written/recorded history have been exposed to be secretly gay or bisexual.There is a reason behind that.

What a person!

If you see any deviancy that you think offends you in Nigeria, then get the majority to agree with you and ban it.

person, I am not a sick deviant like you.

Superego: Our government and their coterie of elite vampires loot not just from our land, but from our pockets. They have made the nation too poor, too poor to react and they are counting on us soon becoming too poor to even think.

Yours Truly, Dr. Peregrino Brimah
http://ENDS.ng [Every Nigerian Do Something]
Email: drbrimah@ends.ng Twitter: @EveryNigerian

http://saharareporters.com/article/100m-nigerian-destitute-facts-jet-and-bulletproof-bloated-government-total-disconnect

Dr Brimah needs to get online and visit NL.

If he sees many poster on NL, fucktards like Scun, he would realise the Nigerian government have already achieved this.

Majority of Nigerians are fucktards that are too poor to think and too poor in thinking.

kingoflag: You don't have to live on the street to be destitute. You can have a roof over you head and still be considered a destitute. Most of Nigerias destitutes have roofs over their heads.

Unfortunately, many Nigerians see sub-standard living and suffering as an acceptable form of living, a result of years of misrule by useless leaders, who then tell them to take moronic pride in their useless nation's situation. So they get enraged when you or, worse, a foreign person/entity label this sub-standard living and suffering as 'destitute'.

Many Nigerians passion for their sub-standard living and suffering is like taking pride in your own faeces.

You must be kobo-less and eating from the bin before the mugus accept you are destitute. In their view, all those Hausa beggars on the streets are not destitute because they get money begging and can eat from it.

Idowuogbo: Dee, she's gone! I called and mumsi told me Vivian is gone. I sent a message to vivi's phone on whatapps, her sis replied saying the same thing. Dee, she's gone!!!!!

What the hell is going on?

You mean the NL poster, VivianC, passed on?

sCun: No scumbag.
They should focus on selling cars that will be unaffordable for a vast majority of their customers.
Did you hear that a brand new Camry might cost as much N20 million when the new policy starts being implemented?

You are a person!

So they should forget variety?

So in your moronic education, you were taught majority of people have the same taste and all businesses should focus on selling only what is cheap and affordable?

Cretinous, illiterate person!

sCun: No scumbag.
They should focus on selling cars that will be unaffordable for a vast majority of their customers.
Did you hear that a brand new Camry might cost as much N20 million when the new policy starts being implemented?

In a failed education system, the person who throws conjectures and sophism is an intellectual champion.

Actually, I am sure a person that says businesses should eliminate their customer's choices is classed as the Michael Porter of the school. A pure "academic" genius of a Nigerian State Poly.

sCun: Guys please do click the link and see how intelligent this scumbag is.

person, go there and prove your assertions.

Go there and show where I said the scheme was optimal.

Products of a failed education system make claims they cannot backup.

sCun: Still waiting for answers

sCun: Bla Bla Bla Bla Bla. Mr Scumbag, is dodging one's questions and getting him to answer your own question in a repetitive manner what you call debating tactics?
Go and call your judges to come and see how ''intelligent'' you are.

You are a person!

Who asked questions first? And who is dodging answering the question asked?

So you think fucktards like you can throw moronic sophism and then deflect from proving it by asking questions?

person Scun come and show me where I said the scheme is optimal.

P*ussy!

lynk106: I completely agree with you here. People confuse lust(or crush) with love.
Imagine what d world would look like if people just followed the dictates of their lustful/crushy feelings. There will be tons of murders, heinous crime, suicides, battery etc all based on selfish desires mistaken as "love" and whatnot. I can't even imagine.
That's what people don't understand. love is a verb. It is an action word. you love by your actions. That's why love is not for the irresponsible or immature.

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/johnmayer/loveisaverb.html

person, love is an action?

So feelings are now actions?

An emotional phase is an action?

Don't understand the comprehensive meaning of a word before you open your cretinous gob?

Cretinous fagg!

So you faggs choose to love? It is a choice since "love is an action" not an "innate feeling"? If that is the case, your deviant arsse should be shot!

lynk106: arguing with sagamite is like arguing with a 4 yr old.
good luck!!

Shut up, moronic fa.ggot!

THUNDER4real: Guy you are really arguing facts that are already there. its only fools that allow history to happen again in their life time and affect them negatively

Facts?

How is it facts?

Facts are not provable?

Or facts are anything a person pulls from his arse?

Please explain to me how it is a fact.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Cohabiting gives the couple the chance to make absolutely sure that they are right for each other. If during cohabition they discover they aren't, what do you expect them to do? Slug it out for the rest of their lives? Does that not defeat the purpose of cohabiting? Yes, cohabiting does and should create high expectations of marriage because it's the reason they get into it in the first place - with the goal of marriage and not on some joyride. They are hoping to get married in the future, so of course, it stands to reason that it should be taken seriously. Or are you advocating that the couple don't take themselves seriously and wait until they're wedding day before they do?[/quote]What makes you think the core reason for cohabiting by both parties is for making sure they are both right for each other?

Are you saying one party, especially the man, can not be more interested in cohabiting with the intention of having a limited and renewable contract?

Lerrie John: I think Couples have enough time to get used to their partners personal habits during courtship. This opportunity arises during vacations or passing weekends together. Is the above said time not enough for anyone to decide wether or not they can live with their partner's idiosyncrasies? After all, months , years or a lifetime is never enough to know someone completely.

I thought part of your argument was that it is the irreligious type that cohabits, so how do you expect the religious, non-cohabiting types to go on vacations together and pass weekends together? Would such people find that acceptable within their religious boundaries?

How will they get to know each other?

Months, years or a lifetime is never enough to know someone completely? Does that in anyway mean the longer you know someone (by increased and longer contact) is of little or insignificant value compared to the shorter you know the person?

makizee: 1.Banana Island: First of all (go down low, couldn’t resist…ha ha ha ), I am not a fan of banana island for the simple fact that it is the most grossly overpriced piece of real estate in the world, I could get a 6bedroom mansion in Beverly Hills for example for what it would cost me to get a 1200sq/metres of land in banana island. FACT. But it is what it is after all, this artificial sand filled island Ssection of ikoyi (surprised !) is the ultimate when it comes to where the average Mike (pun very much intended) would want to build his palatial palace, no matter how tacky and ridiculous it may appear to the general population, underground cable and drainage are some of the perks banana island has to offer.

Some people do have money to waste.

scobaba: If this list is correct, then all those bank MD's don't earn up to heads of dept in the top 5 oil exploration Firms, talk more of GM's and MD/CEO.

For instance, in the oil firm wt the 6 legged dog as logo, the HOD's earn a minimum of 800k$ per annum.(using 155naira exchange rate, do the maths).

Yet, HOD's in chevron, exonmobil and Total earn more than the above mentioned.

A fresh employee with 3 or 4 yrs relevant work experience elsewhere with a professional qualification starts with nothing less than 25m per annum in this top five.

Bankers should not be included in top earners @ all.

There are so many firms out there with small names and big cash.

Absolute rubbish to the highlighted!

sanb: Spot on....the N38M is a small amount for a CEO. There're those with a number of years experience in the Oil and Gas industry that are not CEOs; but they earn much more than N38M; especially if they've improved themselves professionally.

There're starting salary's in some sectors that are more than N10M - N15M; and you can imagine what the salary package would be for someone who has years of experience coupled with a professional qualification.

@Op; all the same though; nice research; but note that there are some other CEO's that are not included on the list and they earn much more than some on the list you've provided.....

I am pretty sure there will be no sector in Nigeria where starting salaries would be up to N10m, talkless of N15m.

Vickii Ro: Sorryy,I knw I'm poke-nosing but wetin dis guy do you?
I've been reading all ur posts since morning nd u've bin calling dis guy a person all day

When Hyena go meet Lion to attack and challenge him, wetin you expect?

Hyena = E dead for being foolhardy.

sCun: They will concenterate on Nigerian made cars. I know some people who use Innoson SUVs and pickup trucks. They haven't had any complains so far.

You are a person!

So you are suggesting that a business should focus on limiting their customers choices, worse still with products of inferior quality?

The person Scun is being tested here and failing.

https://www.nairaland.com/1522402/sure-p-pay-unemployed-graduates-n25000/7#19715506

person Scun come and show me where I said the scheme is optimal.

P*ussy!

wonlasewonimi: Omg not again with all these questions.

Yes, it has to come again. I will explain to you.

When you are going to debate with a person, you can decide you are going to slaughter them clean or you are going to waste your time.

I always choose the former.

Majority of what a person like Scun has in his arsenal is conjectures, sophism and strawmans. He is not intellectually equipped enough to debate well.

I make sure from the word GO that the person knows that I will not accept these by cutting the first attempt into shreds and shaming them.

Humiliate them on the conjectures, sophism and strawmans from the start so they know such idiocy is not available to them in a debate with you.

If you do that to a person, you are eliminating up to 80% of their argument arsenal. These fucktards like Scun have nothing up in their heads so they rely heavily on conjectures, sophism and strawmans. If you don't cut out their conjectures, sophism and strawmans, they will just use it as a diversion tool when stuck or their point is destroyed and waste your time (the latter choice above).

The elimination of their moronic diversionary arsenal is like warfare tactics: eliminate your opponents supply chain and you rout them very easily.

He himself knows he is stuck because he cannot prove I said it. I caught his daft arsse out by not allowing him any conjectures, sophism and strawmans.

So, you see, Sagamite is very tactical.

sCun: Sagamite, I know you are doing my assignment right now. You are working on the questions I asked you. When you get the answers do not fail to let me know.
Scumbag hurry up with the assignment I gave you.

person, I am waiting for you to point to where I said the scheme was optimal?

I know you want to run but you have to answer that because I don't tolerate conjectures, sophism from fucktards.

49cents: Am beginning to understatnd why uou ar ebeing hailed sagamite the dynamite, you!!!

In other words what are you trying to say brother: that women would never cling to a man who has nothing to offer.....but can't same be said for men.....what attraction is there for a girl notorious for being a 'public toilet' or damaged her skin with bleaching skin or looking simply all aged and dry.....

Tell you what: I know of a man, I know him one on one, he is married to a a well known brothel prostitute several years back and they have like four kids....I even saw them in church two sudays back.....point is there are no hard and fast rules

Like isaid I don't have the right to cast anybody into the lake of fire of whatever

So basically you would encourage the women to date this man?