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IslamRe: A 3-year-old Nigerian Girl Memorizes The Quran by Sagamite(m): 5:21pm On Feb 16, 2013
Babaji111: Allahu Akhbar! This is a clear sign that Quran is a miracle sent through our noble Prophet, Muhammad (SAW) and Allah (SWT) Has Powers over all things. Baarakallu fik, my three year old sister.
Illiteracy is a mental disease.
FamilyRe: Help Me Out. by Sagamite(m): 5:19pm On Feb 16, 2013
It is funny how every woman always claim to have been "so loving and caring to my husband and above all VERY FAITHFUL" to their man but he still left them. grin
PoliticsRe: UK Guardian - Nigerian Army's In A Shocking State by Sagamite(m): 5:16pm On Feb 16, 2013
Chongaiman: @Sagamite
Your muddled thoughts are getting the better of you again. This is no place for the insane. What deludes you into thinking you are rational or logical? Wetin consign me with mad pesin? The day you learn to wash your hands properly would be the day you would be PREVILEGED to dine with ELDERS. Omo were, from the moment you decided to contaminate the thread with your fucktardry and anti-social mannerisms, so also did I decide to bring your madness and sociopathy to the fore via ad hominem posts ad infinitum. GET HELP FAST!! Now, run to your sexuality section.
person, no your ad hominem posts ad infinitum by ad idiocity just proves to us that you are a person as I claimed. grin

Now look at another uniform unit of South Africa:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-21455843

Can you see the professionalism she used to answer the questions? Can you see how professional they are in their processes like investigation?

I bet your moronic arsse will claim they are begging too to be trained by Nigeria's Police Force. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Let me show you the investigative professionalism of Naija police:

https://www.nairaland.com/1087891/armed-robbery-experience-thoughts-nigerian

AH! Naija professionals in uniform! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Fucktards like you are unfortunately the illiterate beasts we give guns to in Nigeria.
FamilyRe: Best Way To Correct Children by Sagamite(m): 5:24pm On Feb 13, 2013
JallowBah: Smacking your kids does not mean you will have good behaving kids. Nigerian boys in Oslo are known for beating their women, beating women who say no to go home with them from a pub, trash-talking women who turn them down, and selling heroine in the streets. ( No, not all, you get the point here. )
What did their parents do wrong...? A child who grow up with being beaten, will think it is ok to beat others when they do as they want them to do.
I do NOT want a daughter, or son, who walk around beating other kids because they did not get their way.
No 1, I never said smacking your kids will unfailingly give you weeell-behaved kids. I said odds.

No 2, I can't for the life of me see any link between beating women and corporal discipline of kids. This is as ridiculous as the link I put in my last post when someone was linking violent societies to corporal punishment. Lets apply better root-cause analysis. It is more likely cultural (perception of women), not the corporal punishment.

No 3, there are many non-Africans that engage in domestic violence despite not smacking their kids.

No 4, as I said in the link I provided in my last post. They apply corporal punishment in Singapore, South Korea, Botswana and Japan, and the kids don't go about beating others. But the kids in London do; they beat both other kids and adults impunitely. So that is another silly, unproven and conjectural deduction.

https://www.nairaland.com/1118061/buharis-first-daughter-zulai-dead/9#14263278
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Burkina Faso - AFCON 2013 Final (1 - 0) - On 10th February 2013 by Sagamite(m): 5:16pm On Feb 13, 2013
iykmora: delete what? You just aided d Mofo by quotin him
Both can be deleted.
FamilyRe: Best Way To Correct Children by Sagamite(m): 5:01pm On Feb 13, 2013
JallowBah: ...why are many people writing "the white people"?
What, you mean we can`t raise our kids, just because we don`t beat them?
What about the african parents who do not beat their kids?
The social pioneers, promoters and norm practiioners of not smacking kids are Westerners.

By and large, the philosophy is an alternate way of raising kids but it has a higher odd of having rude and disrepectful kids who have limited regards for the parents and other adults.

Secondly, it is a more expensive philosophy it terms of time and money which does not necessarily bring any superior returns.

You can raise a well-rounded, respectful and disciplined child with that philosophy but the the odds are inferior. To me, it is generally inferior.

Even though there is room for improvement in the way Africans and third world people raise their kids and actually smack them, it still gets a far better parent-child relationship and dynamics.

https://www.nairaland.com/1118061/buharis-first-daughter-zulai-dead/9#13207371

Unlike funky people that have an insatiable appetite to copy anything done by whites to show they are "modern and progressive". I will take the best of the Western philosophy and mix it with the best of my traditional philosophy (which will be dominant based on observe existential outcomes) in raising kids. That means I WILL NEVER rule out smacking. I am not funky!
FamilyRe: Best Way To Correct Children by Sagamite(m):
Krucifax: Gaddam!!!! I read about the texts in the news but couldn't be bothered to read the actual texts,followed your link and all i can say is OMG!! I don't know what Chris Hunhe could have done to deserve that but it seems the son is a horrible little sh*t!! Point of note don't try to be your child's friend be your child's parent!!!
Ah! Let them go and be their child's BFF (best friend forever) because it is the cool philosophy.

Awon funky funks.

I am a blunt and vocal murrafcker, who would not hesitate to talk back when things are not right. But I dare not and do not have the liver to talk to my parents like that in my life.

I would state my view strongly and assertively, but never in my life would I dare talk down to my parents like that.

And the funky father was pandering to him.

Funkies!

ba7man: True talk, a lot of parents want to act like what they see white folks do on TV without realizing the downsides. When their kids start talking back rudely at 11 yrs old, they'll get the picture. I'm not saying you should give the kid a "beat down" but there's a balance to it.
They think raising a child is like a hollywood script.

Just like Disney has distorted the average Westerners views on animals to the point of delusion, that is how hollywood parent-child relationship is distorting a lot of people's views to the point of delusion.

That is an upper class man that is sending his child to Oxford that is facing that. Think of what lower and middle-class are facing.

Let them raise their child funkily, when he starts slapping them, dem go know.

I know of a family member raised in the US who called his father (based in America) to invite him to wedding in Paris a day before the wedding.

This is a man that is gentle, modern and raised him to adulthood. Gave them the freedom to explore what they want to do in life, this one was in a band that is popular enough to be on Wikipedia and after exploring, the father sent him to an Ivy League. All the kids went to Ivy League and are top in their professions. But they are quick to anger with their dad (bar one) like this MP's child and would punish him by not speaking to him while he panders to them that "I love you".

Complete lack of respect, consideration and appreciation. They only know their rights, not responsibillities. I am sure they would soon put him in a home and leave him there to only visit once a year.

Continue being funky.

"It is cool. It is what the white man does, so it must be modern, advanced and funky!"
FamilyRe: Best Way To Correct Children by Sagamite(m):
jennykadry: Lmao Sagamilo . I knew your stance even before I clicked on the thread grin
Tscheww!

Some people want to be funky.

*Mimicks in ridicule*: "I love my kids too much", "Ma me love my kids pass", "I can never do anything to harm my kids", "It is human rights", "That is child abuse", "Treat kids like adults". undecided

Dem think say to raise kids like na hollywood script. undecided

That na how dey fairytale to hell the concept of marriage with their mumu liberal, progressive, modern approach.

Welcome to the real world. It is not a cool one, some things are essential to get good results!

I am seeing the inferior outcomes on average of child-rearing in the country I live in everyday.

I am not funky. I WILL NEVER BE FUNKY. I WILL DO MY JOB WELL!
FamilyRe: Best Way To Correct Children by Sagamite(m): 3:46pm On Feb 13, 2013
ba7man: Children are constantly testing their boundaries so a parent has to be sensitive to know when they do this. They try somthing naughty and check your reaction, if you fail to react appropriately, they step up their boundary. Be very quick to spot these moments and nip it in the bud with a sharp reproach before it gets out of hand. Children also have things that make their lives worthwhile eg Video games, toys, new clothes, Choclate etc you normally treat them to. Withdraw these treats when they misbehave and let them realize it was their naughty behaviour that was responsible. If all that don't work, A "HARD RESET" will do.....check below for illustration.....
So fcking well said.

You are not funky. You are unlikely to end up with a child like this:

https://www.nairaland.com/984548/flogging-children-school-home-good/4#14263537

Let those that want to be funky, be funky!
FamilyRe: Best Way To Correct Children by Sagamite(m):
JallowBah: The problem for me here is that what one person consider whipping, I might consider beating.

A smack on the backside, just ONE, is for me ok, if the kid got some warnings already.
To lay the child over your knee and spank, on the other hand, not ok.
For the kind of child I would smack:

Less than 5 and over 2 = maximum is raised voice and two-finger smacks on the hand.

5 - 8 = maximum is hand on the bottom.

8 - 14 = maximum is belt strokes to the bottom.

14 - 18 = No pocket money or anything you need to be cool and slap to the face "If you have not learnt in all this years, are you ready to fight me?"

Over 18 = "Get the fck out of my house if you can't follow my rules"
FamilyRe: Best Way To Correct Children by Sagamite(m): 3:16pm On Feb 13, 2013
Austin G: Its varies with the different types of kids, some need threats, some needs a gentle talk or advice, some need public disgrace to stop it, some need whip.. so first, study the child and know what scares him/her and this has to be done in his/her early stage of life (5-7 years) after this age, u will need to work harder to be able to correct them, for me.. after warning that child on same thing for 3 times, if it happens again, use ur whip..
So brilliantly said.

Funky-wannabees never get this.
FamilyRe: Best Way To Correct Children by Sagamite(m): 2:59pm On Feb 13, 2013
[quote author=Brand_new]A kind gentle talk educating the child on why the deed was wrong and shouldn't be repeated would do.

However children can be naughty for no reason and then they need spanking just to get them back into their senses. I personally can't spank or beat a child except it's absolutely necessary.[/quote]Good approach.

@OP, never rule out spanking. If it is necessary and expedient, do it!

Don't be a funky parent.
CelebritiesRe: Kim K And Kanye In Rio De Janeiro, Brazi by Sagamite(m): 2:33pm On Feb 13, 2013
gluv01: Lol, it all means same thing jor... tongue In Edinburg, the way you see Nigerian girls stand on the streets at night, the same way you'll see men at night with tight panties. Most of them now do it in a classy style, you go to their website, you'll see more than 50 of them ready to do a live chat nude video with you. You can make your choice of you want, and the person will come to wherever yo want; Hotel or house. As simple as that. So what do you call them? SLUTS OR MANWHOREs!!!
Pròstitutes? Sèxual workers?
FamilyRe: Help Me Out. by Sagamite(m): 2:29pm On Feb 13, 2013
ferhyntorlah: It doesn't work for some doesn't mean it doesn't work for others.
You are right!

I should have said: "monogamy, by and large, does not seem to work in that environment especially"
IslamRe: A 3-year-old Nigerian Girl Memorizes The Quran by Sagamite(m): 12:20pm On Feb 13, 2013
mrlizo: https://www.newsinnigeria.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/Genius.jpg

A three-year-old girl is amazing Nigeria after memorizing the whole Qur’an, becoming one of the youngest Muslims in the world to learn the Noble Book by heart.

“Honestly, I can’t say much but I am very grateful to Allah for this,” Sayyada Maimunatu Sheikh Dahiru, the girl’s mother, told our source on February 10.“This is indeed a blessing from Allah.”

Her daughter, Rukkayatu Fatahu Umar, has completed the memorization of the Noble Qur’an at the age of three year and eight months. The young Muslim girl began memorizing the Noble Book at an Islamic school founded by prominent Sheikh Dahiru Usman Bauchi. “We were using a big parlor, which was divided into classes for the learning of the Qur’an,” Maimunatu, who teaches at the school, said.

“At that time, I always carried her on my back while teaching. From there, she started reciting along with the students and before long, she had memorized some verses.

“That was how she started attending memorization class. Right now, she has completed memorizing the whole Qur’an,” the proud mother said. The Noble Qur’an is consisted of 114 Surah (chapters) of varying lengths. Going to the school between 7a.m. and 6p.m. daily, the young girl found little time to play with her peers.

“It is not as if she does not play with her mates. She does, especially with those who are memorizing the Qur’an like her,” Maimunatu said. “This makes it easier for them, as their focus and attention are directed towards achieving the same goal, which is memorizing the Qur’an.”

The young Muslim girl is now preparing to go to school soon, breaking a family tradition of sending girls to study at the age of ten. “My husband has, however, said that the world is changing now, and that there is civilization all over the place,” the mother, who herself memorized the whole Qur’an at the age of 12, said.

“As such, our daughter will have the opportunity of going to a proper school whenever she reaches the age of six."
The Muslim mother has paid tribute to her father for offering her child the chance to memorize the Qur’an at this young age. “I’m also grateful that I have a father like Sheikh Dahiru Bauchi, who planted my feet, like other people, on the path of Islam,” she said.

http://www.newsinnigeria.org/2013/02/a-3-year-old-girl-amazes-nigeria-after-memorizing-the-whole-quran.html
*Breathes a sigh of relief!*
FamilyRe: Help Me Out. by Sagamite(m): 10:27am On Feb 13, 2013
Odunnu: shocked
The marriage institution has failed and is still failing in most parts of the world, more so in Nigeria (monogamy does not seem to work in that environment especially).
CelebritiesRe: Kim K And Kanye In Rio De Janeiro, Brazi by Sagamite(m): 12:56am On Feb 13, 2013
y me: slut, player, what exactly is the difference? undecided tongue
Difference is that a guy can only be called a player, not slut. tongue

You don't call a mechanical engineer 'mechanic'. grin
CelebritiesRe: Kim K And Kanye In Rio De Janeiro, Brazi by Sagamite(m): 12:20am On Feb 13, 2013
gluv01: Sagamite check the meaning of slut in you dictionary please. But incase you don't know the meaning, Slut or slattern is a term applied to an individual (can be male or female) who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous. The term is generally pejorative and most often applied to women as an insult, sexual slur or offensive term of disparagement, meaning "dirty or slovenly.

While manwhore- They are a ruthlessly charming and breathtakingly handsome breed of men. They always know just what to say and do to get what they want (mostly women), and feel no shame whatsoever.

My four dictionaries i just consulted now all pointed out the same point. I understand you're trying to correct me. Will you please see the dictionary for advice next time?

No harm meant wink
I am trying to inform you a man cannot be a slut in the real world, he is a player.

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