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Babaji111: Allahu Akhbar! This is a clear sign that Quran is a miracle sent through our noble Prophet, Muhammad (SAW) and Allah (SWT) Has Powers over all things. Baarakallu fik, my three year old sister.Illiteracy is a mental disease. |
It is funny how every woman always claim to have been "so loving and caring to my husband and above all VERY FAITHFUL" to their man but he still left them. ![]() |
Chongaiman: @Sagamiteperson, no your ad hominem posts ad infinitum by ad idiocity just proves to us that you are a person as I claimed. ![]() Now look at another uniform unit of South Africa: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-21455843 Can you see the professionalism she used to answer the questions? Can you see how professional they are in their processes like investigation? I bet your moronic arsse will claim they are begging too to be trained by Nigeria's Police Force. ![]() Let me show you the investigative professionalism of Naija police: https://www.nairaland.com/1087891/armed-robbery-experience-thoughts-nigerian AH! Naija professionals in uniform! ![]() Fucktards like you are unfortunately the illiterate beasts we give guns to in Nigeria. |
JallowBah: Smacking your kids does not mean you will have good behaving kids. Nigerian boys in Oslo are known for beating their women, beating women who say no to go home with them from a pub, trash-talking women who turn them down, and selling heroine in the streets. ( No, not all, you get the point here. )No 1, I never said smacking your kids will unfailingly give you weeell-behaved kids. I said odds. No 2, I can't for the life of me see any link between beating women and corporal discipline of kids. This is as ridiculous as the link I put in my last post when someone was linking violent societies to corporal punishment. Lets apply better root-cause analysis. It is more likely cultural (perception of women), not the corporal punishment. No 3, there are many non-Africans that engage in domestic violence despite not smacking their kids. No 4, as I said in the link I provided in my last post. They apply corporal punishment in Singapore, South Korea, Botswana and Japan, and the kids don't go about beating others. But the kids in London do; they beat both other kids and adults impunitely. So that is another silly, unproven and conjectural deduction. https://www.nairaland.com/1118061/buharis-first-daughter-zulai-dead/9#14263278 |
iykmora: delete what? You just aided d Mofo by quotin himBoth can be deleted. |
JallowBah: ...why are many people writing "the white people"?The social pioneers, promoters and norm practiioners of not smacking kids are Westerners. By and large, the philosophy is an alternate way of raising kids but it has a higher odd of having rude and disrepectful kids who have limited regards for the parents and other adults. Secondly, it is a more expensive philosophy it terms of time and money which does not necessarily bring any superior returns. You can raise a well-rounded, respectful and disciplined child with that philosophy but the the odds are inferior. To me, it is generally inferior. Even though there is room for improvement in the way Africans and third world people raise their kids and actually smack them, it still gets a far better parent-child relationship and dynamics. https://www.nairaland.com/1118061/buharis-first-daughter-zulai-dead/9#13207371 Unlike funky people that have an insatiable appetite to copy anything done by whites to show they are "modern and progressive". I will take the best of the Western philosophy and mix it with the best of my traditional philosophy (which will be dominant based on observe existential outcomes) in raising kids. That means I WILL NEVER rule out smacking. I am not funky! |
Krucifax: Gaddam!!!! I read about the texts in the news but couldn't be bothered to read the actual texts,followed your link and all i can say is OMG!! I don't know what Chris Hunhe could have done to deserve that but it seems the son is a horrible little sh*t!! Point of note don't try to be your child's friend be your child's parent!!!Ah! Let them go and be their child's BFF (best friend forever) because it is the cool philosophy. Awon funky funks. I am a blunt and vocal murrafcker, who would not hesitate to talk back when things are not right. But I dare not and do not have the liver to talk to my parents like that in my life. I would state my view strongly and assertively, but never in my life would I dare talk down to my parents like that. And the funky father was pandering to him. Funkies! ba7man: True talk, a lot of parents want to act like what they see white folks do on TV without realizing the downsides. When their kids start talking back rudely at 11 yrs old, they'll get the picture. I'm not saying you should give the kid a "beat down" but there's a balance to it.They think raising a child is like a hollywood script. Just like Disney has distorted the average Westerners views on animals to the point of delusion, that is how hollywood parent-child relationship is distorting a lot of people's views to the point of delusion. That is an upper class man that is sending his child to Oxford that is facing that. Think of what lower and middle-class are facing. Let them raise their child funkily, when he starts slapping them, dem go know. I know of a family member raised in the US who called his father (based in America) to invite him to wedding in Paris a day before the wedding. This is a man that is gentle, modern and raised him to adulthood. Gave them the freedom to explore what they want to do in life, this one was in a band that is popular enough to be on Wikipedia and after exploring, the father sent him to an Ivy League. All the kids went to Ivy League and are top in their professions. But they are quick to anger with their dad (bar one) like this MP's child and would punish him by not speaking to him while he panders to them that "I love you". Complete lack of respect, consideration and appreciation. They only know their rights, not responsibillities. I am sure they would soon put him in a home and leave him there to only visit once a year. Continue being funky. "It is cool. It is what the white man does, so it must be modern, advanced and funky!" |
jennykadry: Lmao Sagamilo . I knew your stance even before I clicked on the threadTscheww! Some people want to be funky. *Mimicks in ridicule*: "I love my kids too much", "Ma me love my kids pass", "I can never do anything to harm my kids", "It is human rights", "That is child abuse", "Treat kids like adults". ![]() Dem think say to raise kids like na hollywood script. That na how dey fairytale to hell the concept of marriage with their mumu liberal, progressive, modern approach. Welcome to the real world. It is not a cool one, some things are essential to get good results! I am seeing the inferior outcomes on average of child-rearing in the country I live in everyday. I am not funky. I WILL NEVER BE FUNKY. I WILL DO MY JOB WELL! |
ba7man: Children are constantly testing their boundaries so a parent has to be sensitive to know when they do this. They try somthing naughty and check your reaction, if you fail to react appropriately, they step up their boundary. Be very quick to spot these moments and nip it in the bud with a sharp reproach before it gets out of hand. Children also have things that make their lives worthwhile eg Video games, toys, new clothes, Choclate etc you normally treat them to. Withdraw these treats when they misbehave and let them realize it was their naughty behaviour that was responsible. If all that don't work, A "HARD RESET" will do.....check below for illustration.....So fcking well said. You are not funky. You are unlikely to end up with a child like this: https://www.nairaland.com/984548/flogging-children-school-home-good/4#14263537 Let those that want to be funky, be funky! |
JallowBah: The problem for me here is that what one person consider whipping, I might consider beating.For the kind of child I would smack: Less than 5 and over 2 = maximum is raised voice and two-finger smacks on the hand. 5 - 8 = maximum is hand on the bottom. 8 - 14 = maximum is belt strokes to the bottom. 14 - 18 = No pocket money or anything you need to be cool and slap to the face "If you have not learnt in all this years, are you ready to fight me?" Over 18 = "Get the fck out of my house if you can't follow my rules" |
Austin G: Its varies with the different types of kids, some need threats, some needs a gentle talk or advice, some need public disgrace to stop it, some need whip.. so first, study the child and know what scares him/her and this has to be done in his/her early stage of life (5-7 years) after this age, u will need to work harder to be able to correct them, for me.. after warning that child on same thing for 3 times, if it happens again, use ur whip..So brilliantly said. Funky-wannabees never get this. |
[quote author=Brand_new]A kind gentle talk educating the child on why the deed was wrong and shouldn't be repeated would do. However children can be naughty for no reason and then they need spanking just to get them back into their senses. I personally can't spank or beat a child except it's absolutely necessary.[/quote]Good approach. @OP, never rule out spanking. If it is necessary and expedient, do it! Don't be a funky parent. |
gluv01: Lol, it all means same thing jor...Pròstitutes? Sèxual workers? |
ferhyntorlah: It doesn't work for some doesn't mean it doesn't work for others.You are right! I should have said: "monogamy, by and large, does not seem to work in that environment especially" |
mrlizo: https://www.newsinnigeria.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/Genius.jpg*Breathes a sigh of relief!* |
Odunnu:The marriage institution has failed and is still failing in most parts of the world, more so in Nigeria (monogamy does not seem to work in that environment especially). |
y me: slut, player, what exactly is the difference?Difference is that a guy can only be called a player, not slut. You don't call a mechanical engineer 'mechanic'. ![]() |
gluv01: Sagamite check the meaning of slut in you dictionary please. But incase you don't know the meaning, Slut or slattern is a term applied to an individual (can be male or female) who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous. The term is generally pejorative and most often applied to women as an insult, sexual slur or offensive term of disparagement, meaning "dirty or slovenly.I am trying to inform you a man cannot be a slut in the real world, he is a player. |
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