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fellis: See, many women myself including he he he, would like to chase guys that they like, but societal conditioning makes it seem like women that go after men are whores or are shameless. The consensus among the majority is that men are meant to chase women and to seek their hand in marriage form their fathers and to take them to the alter and all that.
This way of thinking is what prevents women form being able to make the first moves and that is why they want men to ask them instead.

So you come up with moronic excuses.

So what of the fact that evolutionary conditioning makes men seek a woman that only wants them and hence their spermatozoa does not have to compete?

And it is not consensus among majority that women should be chaste?

Cut the moronic feminist crap. This is not your bf cap28 you are debating with. I take no prisoners.

You talk about hypocrisy but yet you rant about one rule for women and another for men.

cap28: That is the convention that men and women have been following for years and that is the way normal society works - unless you want to tell me that your mum approached your dad and instigated their relationship - come to think of it, knowing my experiences with your mum that may well have been the case

You are a liar. Your mother would have killed you if you ever gave the only deeck she ever gets to another female.

A crazy woman raises a crazy child. Adam Lanza proved it.

fellis: So it is okay for the man to be a hypocrite because society expects him to be the one chasing the woman?

Does that answer my question?

Is it not hypocritical (by your terms) to demand men approach you when you wouldn't approach men?

fellis: Sagamite has some serious acrobatic skills.

So you know!

Avant garde sexologist!

fellis: Are the men themselves virgins?
What I don't understand is why men that are not virgins insist that women should be virgins before they will be able to marry them. The hypocrisy of some men is legendary.

Do men demand women have to approach them? Why would women demand men have to be the one to approach them?

cap28: let me guess - because you are delusional and suffering from the personality disorder known as narcisstic personality disorder?


According to Wikepedia: Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a personality disorder[1] in which the individual is described as being excessively preoccupied with issues of personal adequacy, power, prestige and vanity. This condition affects one percent of the population.[2][3] First formulated in 1968, it was historically called megalomania, and it is closely linked to egocentrism.

symptoms:


Reacting to criticism with anger, shame, or humiliation
Taking advantage of others to reach their own goals
Exaggerating their own importance, achievements, and talents
Imagining unrealistic fantasies of success, beauty, power, intelligence, or romance
Requiring constant attention and positive reinforcement from others
Becoming jealous easily
Lacking empathy and disregarding the feelings of others
Being obsessed with oneself
Pursuing mainly selfish goals
Trouble keeping healthy relationships
Becoming easily hurt and rejected
Setting goals that are unrealistic
Wanting "the best" of everything
Appearing unemotional


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder#Symptoms

A SNAPSHOT OF THE TURMOIL RAGING INSIDE SAGAMITE'S MIND IN A FEW BULLET POINTS-

Have you checked wiki for what your mental problems are?

fellis: Improve your personality, maybe girls will want to be with you then.

Okay tell me what else I could have done to not let all those 113 girls break my heart.

How can I be friends with them like cap28 is your friend?

Vikin: Everyone is entitled to his/ her opinion.

Am female, and I don't like being chased! You should be able to tell if you like a guy or not the first time you meet. Straight to the point.
I remember a past experience whereby this guy kept on chasing me, after refusing him and giving my reasons, he never gave up. Sending crazy text messages, calling even at odd times. I blocked his number, he use another one. He mentioned that, he realized when ladies says no, they actually don't mean it but waiting for the guy to chase them more. That day was the last day I declared him a lunatic,. WTF

Ladies, forget this chase or being chased,if you like something, go for it...if you keep pretending, one day you will regret what you have missed in this life.
Let your yes be yes, and no be no.

Forget about let me think about it,(after3months, u still dey think). Abeg, life is too short !

Well said!

Empathy for the psycho that was harassing you.

fellis: No one wants to be with you. The girls are not to be blamed for your aloneness

Oh, God, I am so lonely!

cap28: fine, unlike you im not so delusional that i hinge my self worth on what people say about people they have never met online. the fact of the matter is people can say anything online - this is virtual reality but i know reality is something you are unfamiliar with.

No, you are a person with a personality that can not attract desirous comments from women.

cap28: i dont think you're struggling - I KNOW YOU ARE STRUGGLING BRO!!

lets face it , if women were queuing around the block for you you wouldnt be on an online forum ranting bitterly about women, guys who have women running them down are way too busy for that - trust me bro - i know

So how did 113 girls break my heart?

fellis: You might as well be alone in your house if you can be in your baby mama's house and still be able to devote so much of your time to Nairaland and not to your non existent baby mama or your baby.

I can multitask ..................................sexually. It is avant-garde lovemaking I am developing with women. Expert here!

fellis: I gave a realistic answer; reading a person's posts on Nairaland is not enough to know whether or not you would be able to date them in real life. How do you not know this?

If I had given the'pity' answer you speak of, you would probably have said I am lying and I cannot decide that I can date him simply because I read his posts.

Stop deluding yourself. You would not touch him with a barge-pole.

You know he is not mentally balanced!

Cut the crap!

fellis: Why does this not surprise me?

Abi o!!!

Women are so selfish and heartless when they want to use a good boy.

fellis: I am also curious about this.

What makes you think I am not at my babymamas' residences when I post?

You think technological access are only in one location in the 21st century, Mrs cap28?

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fellis: Please feel free to twist my reply to give whatever interpretation you are happy with; I won't stop you. People need self delusion sometimes to retain their sanity.

You couldn't even pity him and help him save a little face with "maybe", not even to talk of "I would based on what he says on NL but I would need to know him more in real life".

Stop deluding yourself. You would not touch the mentally-deranged reetard with a barge-pool.

cap28: so why are you STILL struggling to get a date?

if women were running you down - i can assure you, you wouldnt be on NL 24/7 - lets compare posting history - why is it that a busy playboy like you spends most of his waking hours on NL when he should be out banging all his groupies?

any answers?

person, are you espousing your moronic education's "facts" again?

Why do you think I am struglling to get a date?

I get a lot of dates but they just want to fck me and go.

I never get to be friends like you.

dmcdad: Sure! This is Nigeria. They might be guilty of that. If you were in their shoes, won't you do the same? That is not to say they are the ones to blame. They wouldn't have a hand if they weren't given the contract in the first place. So, I think we should focus more(that does not mean they (JB) are clean out-rightly) on the source rather than JB.

If I was in their shoes, I wouldn't.

Don't think my moral values are at your level.

That is by the way, I am more bothered by your statement of saying "this obviosuly has nothing to do with JB".

An organisation that has been enmeshed in the public corruption system of Nigeria.

I don't think you would even spend $100m if you were going to build a residence for the US Vice president that would save him from a North Korea nuclear attack, talkless of a useless third world country where security needs is not as high.

fellis: lol
I don't know him outside Nairaland so I can't answer your question.

So the answer is basically "No" despite all the values he espoused?

cap28: more importantly the question should be: Is Sagamite dating material or just another broken down bitter man whose self esteem has been battered beyond recognition?

Mugu, you see when I said you do not know women?

person, if we just use only NL, I can extrapolate that in life for every woman that you find that would date you, I will (conservatively) find a minimum of 4 that will date me.

And the quality would also be higher. You will get mondi_cheeks.

cap28: keep quiet you daft id.iot - you do not think logically.

what has being the lone male among a sea of beautiful, strong and ambitious women got to do with sex.ual abuse?

If they were beautiful, they will not need to sexually molest you.

fellis: False.
@cap28, don't mind sagamite, the guy has a lot of delusions running around in his head.

Would you date him?

fellis: If you got dumped 113 times then maybe you are the one with the problem.

No the women just don't want a good boy.

Wicked babes.

fellis: You can't really blame the sexist men for having their archaic ways of thinking.
Religion has thought men to believe that they are superior to women and thought women to believe that they are inferior to men, that is why both sexes act the way they act.
It will take some time for these attitudes to fade away.

Kudos for not being one of the sexists, the world needs more of people like you

As mugu friends who never get any action.

cap28: i am a guy sis, but i relate to women on a deeper level because i have a lot of female friends and i am the only male in my immediate family. some id.iots think that makes me effeminate and you get some daft wanna be thugs calling me a mangina - i just laugh at them as i continue to watch as they keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again with women.

cap28: i am a guy sis, but i relate to women on a deeper level because i have a lot of female friends and i am the only male in my immediate family. some id.iots think that makes me effeminate and you get some daft wanna be thugs calling me a mangina - i just laugh at them as i continue to watch as they keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again with women.

Maybe that is why you were sexually abused.

fellis: Whatever.


Sorry that you got your heart broken sha.
But you should try to forgive and move on instead of seeking revenge with women that didn't hurt you.

How can I forgive after 113 heart-breaks?

Can you forgive all those men that boned you and left you dry despite telling you they loved you and you were their future?

cap28: pete burns -the guy you posted has got more intelligence in his little finger than you will ever have in a million years :



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=86p6xQmIOU8

Intelligence in the world of fucktards and parental sexually abused mental patients like you.

fellis: Sis, you were a bit harsh with your post , you didn't have to call him names

But seriously sometimes I wonder about that Sagamite, why is forgiving the woman that broke his heart and hurt him so difficult for him?

Correction: not woman, 113 women.

They fcked me and left me high and dry. I can never forgive them.

I am a very bitter man for such unfair treatment.

fellis: Wanting to always have your way regardless of whether your partner is happy or not.

Classic characteristic of a sadist.

You sure have the logical process of a woman with your "interpretations".

2 in a roll now.

cap28: no i was too busy jizzing all over your mum's face.

You mother fcked you up so much you are now like this?

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2012/12/22/article-2251978-169DD0DD000005DC-720_634x912.jpg

cap28: no your own mother gagged on my balls and i urinated in her mouth - i must say she really helps me get rid of stress - thanks boy for having a hoe as a mum

Wow! The shyt you do with your mother must have really fcked you up to the point you don't even know if you are a guy or a girl.

Did you also blame the white man for her putting your stuff in her mouth?

cap28: you might want to ask your mum cos last night she gave me a well deserved blow.. job.

Ah!!! Your mother gave you licky-licky?

cap28: Having a conversation with you is as futile as tryign to have a conversation with an orangutan - you are so st.upid, angry and bitter that it is impossible to get through to you - i really do pity you, because there is no half decent self respecting woman on this planet that will ever give you more than 5 seconds of her time, you have absolutely nothing to offer any woman other than pure bile and bitter hopelessness - good luck in your search for a woman.

rest assured that your pool of available women are limited to hungry, ignorant nigerian women trapped in poverty in nigeria and desperate for a meal ticket out of the hellhole known as nigeria. As far as meeting let alone dating any half way decent woman in the western world forget it mate you do not have what it takes.

Mental case, are you a man or a woman?

LesbianBoy: Sagamite bro, cap28 is a girl not guy!

You mean it is a He-She?

cap28: no i have a brain and i have life experience, i have come across so many losers like you who hate women and go out of their way to try and hurt women, "men" and i use that word very loosely when referring to neanderthals like you are like wounded animals - angry, rage filled and dangerous, women have fcked up your heads so badly that all you think about is REVENGE for the pain you are experiencing. Many black men who live in the west are emasculated because white society does not allow you to be men, the white man holds all the aces because he dictates who is allowed to get a job , who can make money,who can become successful, in other words the black man is living in a world where he has no control over his destiny, many weak men (like you) seek other ways to display their non existent power - being powerless many weak black men like yourself pick on an easy target - the black woman - its easy to exert power over the black woman because she is equally a victim of the same power structure that is victimising you.

you are a coward - why? because cowards only pick on those weaker than themselves, try standign up to the person who has deprived you of being able to provide for your family by witholding jobs, education and opportunities from you.

weak man.

You are a person!

The way you talk it is obvious from how you pull "facts" from your arsse and the rubbish you chat that:

- You are poorly educated.
- You don't know women, maybe because of the low intellect and lack of experience.
- You date ugly or old women. They tend to be more level headed.
- Your women get boned by bad boys like me behind your back while you are priding your daft arsse that they like the way you treat them.

And the mental patient goes back to his "blame the white man" for all my failures retardation.

WHITE MAN!!!

cap28: why are you so hateful and bitter towards women?

be honest and tell NL what has really happened to you, have you ever had a successful relationship with a woman? i am really curious now.

Foool, just tell us where you got your well-known "facts" from.

Did you pull it from your arsse?

fellis: Control of what? Another person's life?
So sincere men want to be in control of what their woman and chose how she lives her life for her?
Men like you will never cease to amaze me with your cruelty.

Control of the relationship.

If she does not like that, she can take a fcking hike.