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y me: The truth is that I do get where you are coming from, most Nigerian girls especially those in UK have this degrading extremely unpleasant attitude that I for one wonder what they derive from it.
A clean nice dude walked up to me today and half way into the conversation he asked where I was from, I told him Nigeria and he had this wild shocking look on his face that last for seconds and the next thing he said was "be serious, the Nigerian girls I have meant are rather ill mannered in most cases" I kinda felt uneased cos this was coming from a non-Nigerian

Thank you.

Evidential case study.

y me: but at the same time in every given situation there are 'PROS and CONS' and this present generation even made it worse but then again I have met and I am friends with Nigerian girls that are well mannered, intelligent and decent

Yes you have meant some Nigerian women whose attitude disgust you but I am guessing you have not taken time to know more about few of them as they might be the opposite of what you think about them

Let down that unpleasant attitude you have for Nigerian ladies for just one day and explore the well nurtured ladies (not the nicki minajs wannabe o lol) and see for yourself that there is always gonna be the good, bad and terrible

My time is precious.

I would rather look for a needle in Woolworth than for a needle in a haystack.

I take each person as an individual but the minute you step out of bounds (which Naija girls hardly ever fail to do), I put you straight.

ronkebp: hmmmm Akiika!!!! what do they do really?

Tell me abeg.......you see a babe for the first time ....ehen!!! continue from there, i really want to know what they do that makes them so rude and classless...apart from the "never talk to a stranger" attitude....what do they really do

Rudeness is classlessness.

Thinking you have to be disparaging to men is classlessness.

Talking loud and being belligerent in public is classlessness.

Having the audacity to think you can talk rudely about someone to their face is classlessness.

Having the audacity to think because you are a man wooing them or about to woo them, they can behave as they wish or talk as they wish. (You are a witness to that one)

They have their head up their arse.

They are poor conversationists.

They have a sick sense of entitlement.

chaircover: saga seriously where are you meeting these girls?

UK, darling.

The ones in Nigeria love me instantly when they see me but I know why.

I have to say, Naija girls from Yankee and Continental Europe I have met have been top notch. Sweet chics!

ronkebp: yeah but you are making it sound as if 90% of Naija babes are really rude or classless, that i do not agree with.

Whether na 90. Whether na 85. Whether na 52. they are too much to waddle through and be happy with the outcome.

They hardly ever fail me when I meet them in real life. They are rude and classless but yet think you should not even complain because that shows you are a gentleman. Mugu real men oblige them and are taking the dumb training.

Me? If any girl is rude, I put her in her place. Even I am worse with Naija girls. I particularly save the worst of my attitude for rude Naija girls.

Just by a first few seconds of interactions with a black girl, I can tell if she is Naija or Southern African. I aint joking. The difference is 7-Up.

You can take a Southern African or Polish girl out for dinner and not get shyt out of it but you will still enjoy her vibes and respect her.

MRbrownJAY: people like you make no damn sense, its just laughable....but here, let me throw a curve ball at you: look at your silly earning ranking and see where John Mc Enroe/Bjorn Borg/Ivan Lendl/Jimmy Connors are standing, then tell me if you believe that Andy Murray is a more succesful tennis player (or earner) than them, duh!
time change and what players earn today is much different than what they earn back in the days, because in the 70s (or 80s/90s) you could do much more with 100K than you could do today with 1million, triple duh!!!!!!!

shiit, Bjorn Borg is not even on that list, what an heavy fail, as we all know that he IS/WAS a more succesful tennis player than Andy Murray, by a 100MILES!!!!!!!

Curve the ball back to yourself and tell me how it makes sense to say a player that is one of the highest earning EVER (FROM PRIZE MONEY) in his sport is, acccording to your logic and common sense, not successful at all!

Na gba for you reasoning!

MRbrownJAY: bro, unless you are willing to seek medical help for your obvious issues, there is no way i would want to introduce even my enemies to a man who hate married women like you do. i would be the unwilling factor in this poor woman's lifelong unhappiness.

Kai, bros wetin I say?

I just they follow your advise in life na.

I need a woman to turn me to a superstar as that is what makes people.

MRbrownJAY: boys, Sandra would NOT be entitled to half his fortune, she would only be entitled to half of whatever he GENERATES during their union. duh!

Obviously now!!!

Because, according to MBJ logic and common sense, it is her contribution that makes him able to make such money during the union, so she deserves half!

Logical MBJ. Na you oooooooooooooo!

ronkebp: Wow!!!!!! i dey shiver!!!!!......

I am just saying the facts, babes.

y me: stop bad mouthing Nigerian babes ooooooo haba they are every man's dream

Nah, I will bad mouth them!

I am very happy to.

I think we have raised a generation and are still raising a next generation of obnoxious, irritating and annoying Naija women, bar a very few exceptions.

It is pertinent I am blunt about this as it is critical. And we all know I like my shock treatments, hence my bad mouthing.

I do not and will never hide the fact that I don't like most Naija and Jamo girls. They are incredible rude, classless and annoying. When one has the opportunity to interact with babes from other cultures and regions, that is when one can really have the basis of comparison and can unveil the personality miasma of the average Naija girl. If you interact with an average Naija girl, it usually really does not take long before one (with a brain) start thinking "what kind of ediot is this?". I don't hate them all but I pick and choose the ones I want to respect. Majority of them I despise.

They need to check themselves as they are currently wrecking themselves.

chaircover: Very very correct. Having self respect shouldnt be an excuse for bad manners or rudeness

Ah! Thank you o, my sister!

Tell them.

TELL THEM O!

I have been saying this for years.

Majority of Naija girls!

Awon weyree! Awon oloriburuku! Come open dem yeye mouth say "I want a man that will treat me good and worship my feet".

Anuofia! Na oloriburuku like dem dem deserve. Odikwa moorons!

y me: My mum was self-confidence and that made a great impact on us as kids when we were growing up, she always had a smile on her face even when things were rough. She believes and taught us never to depend on a man
she made herself a role model, she would stand in front of a mirror while making up saying mehnnnn your dad is a very lucky man hooking down a beautiful, industrious and virtuous woman like myself and having the most precious kids on earth for him with her red lipstick on her lips and I find myself emulating that act

My dad is a case . he is a very open minded man, he would talk to me about sex, his past relationships etc some of which I find gross, it even got to an extent his friends would say out loud when my dad and I are together that they would love to have the kind of father-daughter relationship my dad has with us . he always told us how beautiful and intelligent we are, how his friends admire us that we are indeed a treasure to behold those words did not only boost my confidence it also made me proud of myself and having the zeal to work hard.

PS: Those things didn't really give me the kind of boldness I needed but it was indeed a great stepping stone. My self confidence improved a great deal due to the outside exposure I had, I made mistakes and learnt from them, it made me very humble and have great respect for evryone especially men but at the same time I know my worth and no man dares take me for a ride (except he wan die )

The first step to make a child have self respect is being a role model to them and the outside world will mould them into what they want to become in as much as they thread cautiously

See babe!

Fine with personality as well.

And she would be lying she is a Nigerian girl!

Olodo, don't come and confess what country you really are from.

slimyem: i could be....but of course will also know what i'm getting into if i am...
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.fstranger..why u dey vex nah??

Thank you!

Haba! I was thinking "So are you not female". How could you not be attracted to men like me.

Now I get it, you are attracted but you like to know what the contract says. [As we say in UK slang] Seen!

As for fstranger, he is still bitter about the intellectual thumping I gave him 3 years ago.

He has not recovered or gotten over it yet.

PUBLIC ANNOUNCEMENT: SAGAMITE WANTS TO BE GREAT!

If there is any woman that can cook, clean, kiss, bone and contribute to my life to beat Nadal and Federer, please come forward now o?

If there is any woman that can cook, clean, kiss, bone and contribute to my life to be a Formula One driver, please come forward now o?

If there is any woman that can cook, clean, kiss, bone and contribute to my life to be a Barcelona player, please come forward now o?

If there is any woman that can cook, clean, kiss, bone and contribute to my life to be a LA Lakers player, please come forward now o?

If there is any woman that can cook, clean, kiss, bone and contribute to my life to be a Platinum record seller, please come forward now o?

If there is any woman that can cook, clean, kiss, bone and contribute to my life to be a Hollywood, Oscar-winning actor, please come forward now o?

If there is any woman that can cook, clean, kiss, bone and contribute to my life to beat Usain Bolt in sprints, please come forward now o?

I dey beg o! I want to be rich.

MBJ do you know any? I am looking for one.

Since I don't have the background or skills for any of these, I might as well fall back on MBJ's theory that a woman's domestic and relationship contribution will get me there.

I obviously don't particularly need the intense ability, hardwork, preparation and nurturing from youth, and which it takes, to get to these levels. 50% of what I need is in a woman.

slimyem: can men be called 'sluts'??
I'd have preferred they be called casanovas..
Besides,how would you even know the number of women a man has really had??
Do the men themselves even count?
I don't need a count to know a man's a casanova..and to know that i have to stay away if i don't want to use my punny to mark record..

So you are saying you are not attracted to casanovas?

antitpiah: A//s/s hole fatherfuker. You think everyone is like you? Why do you like asking stupidd questions? Your stupidd questions are a good refection of what you have between your ears. You are nothing but a pure extract of stupidd with absolute stupidd purity.

Huh?



No make laff kill me o!

JallowBah: No. That means he has fooled the hearts of five women, just to get their p-ssy. Acting like he is love, telling them they are the only one, etc, etc..lying is my biggest dealbreaker. I would rather have the cold truth that might hurt, than a lie that probably will blow up in my face later on.

So you don't lie to men?

You want us to actually believe that?

You are always honest and tell the cold truth?

Really?

fstranger: Look at this dimwit calling another stewpid. You are so witless that if you dressed in a wit skin, doused yourself in wit musk, and did the wit dance in the middle of a field of Hot wits at the height of wit mating season, you still would end up witless. Odeshious fellow!

..........BOOO! Run before I catch you and gut you.

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Na lie.

Now post the thing and stop being shy jor [/quote]You are not ready, girl. Lets leave it at that.

davidylan: This post was obviously written by someone who only watches tennis 2 times a yr. To say a player earning $2m/yr from tournaments is not not successful is laughable.

Is is stewpid.

It is pure stewpid!

A man is ranked Top 5 most of his peak career, once ranked 2nd in his sport in the world. He lies 8th in all time earnings in Tennis prize money alone (not yet retired o) and someone says he is not "successful"?

http://www.andy-murray.com/andy-murray-atp-rankings-history/

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ATP_Tour_records#Earnings

That is pure stewpid, you should not laugh!

dayokanu: So MBJ.

let me now throw another twist.

Assuming tomorrow, Andy murray breaks up with his gf and marries another girl called Sandra, So what would Sandra have contributed to his life to deserve half of his fortunes he laid a foundation for before he even knew Sandra

What a stewpid question!

OBVIOUSLY Sandra is the reason he is winning tennis games ................according to the logic of MBJ o!

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Er...that remains for us to judge not you.

Now post your pic make we see. [/quote]If you saw it, you will land on my bed. I am not ready to impregnate you. I still want to enjoy my singledom and zero responsibility.

chaircover: Ashe oo oo ti e le . . . . so you are a softie afterall.

Hmmmmmmmm I think saggy is in love oooooo!! .

When was the last time you called someone a cretin? its only love that makes people go soft like mushy peas

I just did in my last post.

ronkebp: ^^^^^^ Egbami!!! why so much hate?wetin Saga do you? haa!!!!

That is one of the fucktards I have deeply humiliated on NL!

He said Abacha was justified to kill unarmed democracy activists (NADECO) for damaging our foreign reputation and that their request for democracy is detrimental to national security. I gutted and cooked him for such a daft brain. He is still bitter.

chaircover: One person I admire on this forun is sagamite. I have actually heard that he is like that in real life....superconfident. His only problem is that he has a caustic tongue to go with it Only God knows how many cretins he has met in his life time

Yeah, I am superconfident in real life but I don't have a caustic tongue in real life, otherwise I will not be as incredibly handsome as I am.

Ki won wa fi eshe for gbogbo oju mi danu (Make dem come use punches damage all my face).

You think if I had this caustic tongue in real life, I would not be engaging in fisticuffs everyday?

You know how many grown men I have humiliated and made to realise they are dumb on NL?

You think in real life, they will take such humiliation without resorting to pugilism?

The American ones would even shoot me.

I am spoiling show for them. I am showing all the women they are dumb.

Some already have a contract on my head as we speak.

chaircover: saggy pls tell me that you are still not on this thread. Haba!!! and here is me singing your praises on the self esteem thread. Behave now!! U want them to be abusing us ni?

Until you join me in carrying placard to the supreme courts of the West to change the laws and protect my future millions so I can marry, I will not stop.

MRbrownJAY: Bro, why dont you accept defeat and be done with the matter? you are bringing back this old thread up for another round of bloodshed o!



"guaranteed", what did the mother guaranteed if i may ask? so if i listen to you, anyone who raise their child, the way Murray's parents did, that person will win the Olympic gold and be succesful in life?! BWAAAAAAAAAH! do you know how many had exactly the same upbringing and came out with ZERO, not even a ball boy job!

how can you still stubbornly assume that A) the reason he won had ANYTHING to do with his upbringing? yes his parents paid for his tennis lessons but we all know that he hasnt won JACKSHIIT for a LOOOOOOOONG time, so whatever they brought to his life is pointless in terms of winning tournaments..... or B) automatically believe that his GF had absolutely NO INPUT whatsoever in the reason why he suddenly raised his game and won Gold at the Olympics?



- if she is the reason why he reaised his game and started winning then why shouldnt she get her fair share?
- if they are married and that is the law in that said country, then why shouldnt she get her fair share?



if the parent wants to claim their fair share then let them do so via the right channel (aka court), they may even win some change, but that in itself DOES NOT take away all what his wife "may" have brought to the union (and his new life). as usual, you are not thinking clearly because you automatically believe that a wifey cannot bring anything worthy into a union. here is a clue: some men are completely LOST before they get married, and a wife "may" bring the stability needed to make that man focus and finally succeed. if that was the case, wouldnt you therefore award this lady her FAIR share?!



pls dont put YOUR words into MY mouth.....i said if two people get married, then whatever wealth they build thereafter should be carefully evaluated..... as we all know that a wife at home is equally VERY important to the growth of any family and its wealth, and therefore deserve her fair share of that said wealth (IMHO 30%, at least).



"common sense" should have you look at every case with an open mind, but sadly you keep on being bias on this issue.
- many men have had NO FANCY UPBRINGING, and yet after marriage succeeded. who will you claim is the reason for their success then?
- many men had fancy upbringing from their parents, and then changed that stance completely when they got married, AND ONLY THEN succeeded. would you still claim their parents are the SOLE reason for their success?
- many men have had fancy upbringing and it took them absolutely NOWHERE..... until they met their wife who brought VISION and STABILITY to their life and business. would you therefore claim that these guys parents are the SOLE reason for their success?

i can give you thousands of "assumptions" like this, but we should instead judge a case by its FACTS, rather than speculate like you have been doing all along. let it go bro!

What a silly question to the point I did not read the rest.

What did the mother guarantee?

He would be a tennis champion if he did not get tennis coaching from young and was nurtured in it by his tennis coach mum?

He would even smell it?

It is a cheap sport?

It is a sport poor kids play or have access to and become professionals?

What a silly question!

I guess Lewis Hamilton's parents also had nothing to do with is F1 career, it is his future wife that made him good at driving by cooking, cleaning and raising HIS kids (but which your type will argue are hers but he should pay for in a custody case).

What a silly question! I could not even read past it.

Ogugua, why did you hide my post on the athletes?

Is it not relevant to the discussions on the thread?

fantababy: I am a full time working lady & very hard working, am not boasting about it. All through my pregnancy, I ensured that I did not allow the sickness associated with pregnancy to slow me down. I always cooked & went to the market myself. My hubby goes to work with lunch and eats every night. The very few times when am unable to make his dinner, due to extreme fatigue, my dear hubby wears a long face & prepares only his own food, without asking me if I have eaten. I find that very selfish, but I have bottled it up. Imagine, me curled up in bed, too tired & hungry, and my dear hubby goes into the kitchen, prepares something, and eats alone, without looking at me twice. He makes very annoying statements, like “am pretending or am I the first pregnant woman!”

All through this pregnancy, I have suffered extreme pelvic pain, waist pain & swellings. My feet size went from size 39 – 42. I feel pains standing for more than 10 mins, but I bear it all & pretend, least my hubby makes more annoying statement. I can cope with the physical pains, but I cannot combine this with verbal abuse & emotional pain. I get really uncomfortable most times, and simply requests like pls turn off the AC, give me your pillow, pls open the windows are met with negative responses most times or done grudgingly. Even a simple massage request is always done in such haste.

Some times when I read these sort of stories on NL, I mutter and wander "Where the fck do you women get these men from"?

It just makes me more arrogant because it re-enforces my belief men like me are gold dust to women.

And some yeye ronkebp would be saying I have no value to give.

Some yeye stillwater will say I should go and marry (i.e. any shythead Nigerian girl) and give a shythead the gold dusts she does not deserve.

Fck Not!

The pregnancy period is a period my wife will be laughing that at least she can get away with murder and I can't say shyt.

I was watching after Andy Murray won the Olympic gold how he climbed the stands and went to give his girlfriend, mother and other people a hug.

I looked at the mother that did everything to make him who he is and guaranteed his success in sport that has led to his wealth.

I was thinking, if he gets married to this girlfriend, then people like MRBrownJay will say the wife deserves his part of his wealth because she has contributed to his success and it is money made in a "Union".

a) But the mother and father that raised him, bought him his rackets, drove him every week for training, paid for tennis lessons, sent him to a private tennis secondary school in Spain for £25K a year, there for him during set backs and injuries and attended every match he plays (especially his mother) do not have any right to claim a dime from him.

b) But MBJ argues, if a woman is married to him then she is helping him make money by being his wife or is part of the source of his wealth.

Common sense tells me that if I remove the contributions of one of (a) or (b) he would still have made his wealth irrespective. While if I remove the other, he is unlikely.

Pure common sense!