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playboy19: The funny thing is, few blocks away from this school is Akala Estate, where in the month of January this year, i bought 2 plots of land for N9.5m. Just see the kinda public school you find in an area that cost that much. Mind bugling!In Nigeria, you pay shyt loads for rubbish. Go to VI, Lekki and likes for good examples. |
[quote author=Miss_Ife]It depends what you call "training for marriage". I believe while training my kids (both boys and girls) for life, they will equally be trained to build, nurture and enjoy an healthy long-term romantic relationship, i.e. marriage. When you train children who are independent enough to take care of themselves (financially, but also cook, clean, rent a place, maintain a car etc.) , know their worth while still being humble enough, respect themselves and others and are altogether healthy and happy people who can maintain healthy and peaceful relationships (with friends, family, at work etc.), I believe you have also prepared them for a happy long-lasting marriage. There is no need to keep marriage in your mind as the ultimate goal for their training, as long as you train them for life and good interactions with people, they'll know how to pick the right partner, commit and be responsible for their choices. As for agiboma, I think the way you view things depend a lot on the sacrifices you had to make yourself to "fit in" the nigerian society, or those you feel you had to make. Though i want to raise my children (boys and girls) to know and respect the nigerian traditions (at least those that make sense to their father), I don't see the need to tune down any "western" character that will certainly show in them. They are as western as they are nigerians, and if my husband and I are able to raise children, it's because we build our family on values that are neither nigerian or western, they are human values (though the way they are displayed can vary, which will be taught to our kids) : respect (for yourself and others), honesty, responsibility, hard work, patience, humility and so on. I plan for my kids to have healthy marriages that work like partnerships, I don't want my daughter to accept suffering or unfair treatment because she is a girl. There is a big difference in doing things in a marriage because you agree and are willing to do it, and accepting the same things because you see no way out, or you don't have the choice. I don't want her to "fit in" just for the sake of "fitting in", I hope she will only fit in with decent, respectful people, no matter their nationality/gender/age etc.[/quote]Absolutely fcking well said. Black belt! |
Kobojunkie: How many of our boys are equally "TRAINED FOR MARRIAGE" in much the same way?Maybe the more sensible thing to say then is that boys should also be trained for marriage instead of saying girls should not. And the training for girls should be more aligned to reality. Am I wrong? ![]() I know a bit about continuous improvement. Lean, Six Sigma, Kaizen and shyt like that. And your approach will not get black belt in them. Because when it fails both side lose but guess which one tends to lose more. If you don't know, don't ask a Real Man because he would not give you a honest answer. andromida: And men do not need companionship? They do not need marriage? Men are doing women a favour by marrying them? This thread is not about feminism but helping parents to raise women with a healthy dose of self worth, helping women to know they deserve to be treated like human beings and ladies/wife.Helping women to develop healthy self worth so they can attract better men and yes real mean.Also how to spot the difference. We all know alone is not good for anyone.Not as much as women. Woman offer sex for companionship, men offer companion for sex. Men are on average less emotional. Men tend to be comfortable with far more multiple partners, and nobody should come with some lame "it is society". When you know it, it starts with a "B". Biological, baby! You can't defeat it. Baba God lo she (Na God make am). One thing that subtlely irritates me sometimes about women is when they think their emotional wish will change facts or nature. As I have always said, I live my life based on reality and try and adjust to it as best as it suits me. A lot of women would do so well and improve their happiness if they did the same. What I keep hearing them say a lot of times is 'should', and I am like, "Shut up, focus on 'would'" (i.e. when it is not a man-made law)! Their lives would improve tremendously if they did. Sit there and keep on hoping men should want companionship and marriage like you want it. |
JallowBah: Lol.I have solid experience, babes. I have been into all females across the continents in my pursuit. ![]() |
stillwater: I agree with all that kobo has said. You train your child on how to live life, not on the basis of marriage. What if you don't get married? That is why many girls beat themselves up when they are not married at a certain age. As I mentioned before, some parents correct their kids with words like 'no man will marry you if you did this or that' not because it is just wrong to do so. Values like respect, politeness are needed in all facets of life. Teaching your child these values is just killing two birds with one stone, that you don't need a memorandum for your child to know when she/he is being disrespected before or after marriage.True that you train your child to live life, but marriage would still be a big and important part of that life for majority of women now and in the future. Let no feminist crap deceive most of you. So it should be part of their nurture. Biology trumps over misplaced ideology anyday. Women will always need companionship. That is achieved through their attraction. Physical attraction fades for all humans (although it is less important for men). Women need marriage, or at least it will always be a useful tool, to tie down the one they got when they were attractive. Women will always love and want marriage. Pure facts. I am not a Real Man, I will be blunt. I know a lot of women will struggle with hearing such. You might hate the fact that you are pseudo-dependent, but your hatred wouldn't stop it from being a fact. Call me MisterOgheneist if your like. I don't agree with silly rebukes like 'no man will marry you if you did this or that', but passing on the values of marriage will be useful to most girls. |
MRbrownJAY: i do feel a little sorry for you now, as you are really making little sense, just to try to "look" like you do......Was the AC Milan team he was in Champions League winners? Was Liberia WC winners I did not know about? So how was Weah in a successful team? ![]() Come on MBJ, lets use your own logic now! ![]() MRbrownJAY: again dont mix apples and oranges........ it all depends on the sport: for athletics, the olympics and world championships are the holy grail, but for tennis IT AINT!!!!Cut the BS! ![]() The Olympics is the bigger sporting event. It is the true global one with more sports and spectators. World Championship has far lower coverage, hence prestige! It is like the Masters of Tennis. ![]() Off head, how many people know where the next World Championship is taking place? But they will know for the Olympics, right? Yet, the World Championship is in 2 years time while Olympics is 4 years time. Cut the BS. ![]() So Blake and Tyson are not successful at all like Murray? ![]() MRbrownJAY: again, dont misunderstand my point and dont mix sports, as i wrote above....... and by the way, the guy won 8 masters tournaments IN 8 BLOODY YEARS, how the hell could you call him successful?! on what bloody basis?!I get your logic! So Weah, Blake and Tyson are failures too then, init? They could not win the ultimate in their entire career. Bloody useless sportsmen. ![]() MBJ Logica! ![]() MRbrownJAY: ....and yet you'd rather these courts to use the "assumptions" of some BS psychologist OR bitter NLers (over facts and evidence) to rule in these cases?!Kindly explain to me how stating that all divorce asset allocation should be 50-50 is a fact and not an assumption! Please! It seems you are ignorant of the premise or the meaning of premise. MRbrownJAY: again, as i stated above, you can claim/fantasize about whatever you want, but the FACT/EVIDENCES remain. the issue is that you dont want to see it because you are bias toward women in divorce settlements, so there is no point in me bringing them again. you automatically believe that ANY woman doesnt deserve anything, and thats ok as it is YOUR own beliefs, but the law and logic says otherwise......if you still cannot understand why, then the joke is on you, dude.TELL ME WHY YOU THINK SHE DESERVES 30%! ![]() Instead of all this verbosity, give us the "reasoning" that led you to that thinking! You know you are cornered! A result of pressure. ![]() Stop dodging when you are logically cornered! ![]() |
pofolo: And now WAEC releases SSCE result and only 39% passed maths n english with 4 other subjects.Thank you! But one person product of a failed education system sees not too much of a problem with this: isquar3d3: 4 wat na? I went 2 prolly a worse secondary skul where we kept our bags in d ceiling b4 going 2 d field 2 play football(at least our field beta pass national stadium surulere own). Didn't stop me frm graduating in my beloved computer science, did it? Government wil always b crazy nd nt do d right thngs bt if d students keep deir heads down nd study, i see doctors nd engineers among d 'ragged' lots here.A supposed "graduate". No wonder Naija is fcked if we call such a graduate. His reasoning, level and quality is evident in his inability to write properly. No wonder international companies worth their onions prefer to bring in expat or repats to add to the few talent on ground and then mugus like him will complain of no jobs. https://ejaife./2012/07/22/the-challenges-of-producing-employable-graduates-in-nigeria/ http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/business/2137828.stm |
isquar3d3: wow. Wat exactly is ur grouse wit dat statement? U'r pathetic. U keep generalizing and have nt shown me wit all ur ramblings dat u hv anythng to hold me against oda dan frail looking skul structures. U'v nt constructed a sane sentence in our exchanges, just abuses and oda inanities. I'm guessing it's a fair reflectn of who u are.You are a cretin! And I have to let you know that. There are few things as dangerous to social structures as a poorly educated man thinking he is at the pinnacle of the educated. A hungry man is a dangerous man. An ignorant man is a social palava. |
MRbrownJAY: what the hell are you talking about? how can a footballer be successful WITHOUT A TEAM?!?!?!?!?! the FACTs of this matter are that GW was in several winning teams, and we therefore do not give a flying fukc about all the ifs, buts or maybes......... stick to the facts at hand, bro.But if I was to use you logic, if successful teams are not selecting him and he has never been in a successful team his entire career, then he is not successful at all. MRbrownJAY: do you actually read what i write, or do you just bring out nonsense writeups to feel better about yourself? who said that you need to win the Olympics ONLY to be a successful athlete? who said that if you are not successful then you are automatically a failure?Oh! Oh! Oh, Oh! Oh, shyt, oh, shyt! ![]() So you don't have to win Olympics to be a successful sprinter but you have to win Grand Slams before you are a successful tennis player? ![]() So people that win World Championships are successful sprinters but people that win numerous Masters are not successful at all? MBJ Logicaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!! ![]() If someone is not "successful at all" what are they? ![]() You are now trying to redefine success? ![]() Tyson Gay and Johan Blake are OK and/or Good? They are not successful athletes? The only successful athletes are the Great ones? ![]() Ladies and Gentlemen, what did I tell you about how people chat when they are under pressure and don't accept or use logic and objectivity? ![]() Akara arguments! MRbrownJAY: is that what you tell people? do you actually think you make any sense or that there is any logic to what you are saying? one ant (aka Sagamite) is against the mighty elephant (aka LAW) and decides that his views are the truth without making any sense, and we should all bow to his words? if your words had any relevance, then why dont you fight this case where it matters, instead of coming here where your words have absolutely no weight whatsoever on the issue at hand. you can say/claim whatever you want on the subject, but the FACTS remain that this is the law and you MUST follow it.........but again, you are entitled to your opinion, so i will leave it at that, the day you make any sense, then come holla at me for more discussion on the subject.I am the greatest! The best! The one and only! The God of thinking, logic and objectivity. ![]() MRbrownJAY: who cares what is most likely to happen in this cases, we WILL/MUST/SHOULD judge these cases by the evidence presented, and nothing else. if you want to be the holier messenger on NL for divorce settlements then, pls be my guest and enjoy your superficial glory made out of thin air and mambo jambo.......but let us all who live in the REAL world understand that there is a law, that should be fair for both parties involved, and that the law MUST judge each cases by the evidence presented, and not what some psychologist "assumes", like you do. we couldnt care less what people think is most likely to happen.I court has to set a premise and default position on a serious case that affects lives before any arguments is made and, according to MBJ logic and common sense, no one should care about what is most likely going to happen to base it on! MBJ Logica!!! Abeg make I laugh for one minute. ![]() Ye! Ye! Ye! My belle o, my head o! ![]() And you wonder why I call myself a God! MRbrownJAY: it is irrelevant WHY i think she is entitled to any money, the fact IS: if they cannot come to an understanding amicably and in a mature manner, then the ONLY solution is to bring an independent body to settle the matter. how else would you want to solve the issue otherwise? in a boxing ring? lol!ROTFLMAO! ![]() You are chickening out? ![]() You cannot explain why the wife deserves 30% of his earnings from FB? ![]() I am honestly laughing so hard. ![]() You know you can NEVER defend that logic and common sense so you decided to cop out? ![]() When you chat shyt, I will ALWAYS use logic to corner you. Na me, Saga Saga! God of Thinking, Logic and Objectvity. ![]() |
JallowBah: And what makes you think that?Extensive international experience in chasing women. I also have a PhD in Womantology. |
sarutobie: People saying "this school has been like that since 1994,so it isn't the current governors fault".."The current governor is accessing the situations and will start rehabiitation on his second term".."We can't blame the poor governance in the state by past governors on the current one" are with all due respect hypocritical..we all expect the current president to solve most of the cancerous rots in the country(which has spanned for decades) under 2 years of his first tenure..I mean what is good for the goose is also good for the gander right?..this has nothing to do with political parties.some governors are performing well and some are performing below par.Your current President does not and has never appeared intelligent enough, has not made any head or tail, in accessing the situation, formulating a plan and having the intent of making any change. He is a useless goose! |
MsDarkSkin: WOW!That figure was in 2005 (it is in the first video). Maybe he is in Las Vegas now, I don't know. As I said earlier above, it is people like investment bankers, film directors and heirs of fortunes (sipping on cognac and 500 year old wines) that go and listen to his music, not some hood-hoppers or Alanta dancers. That is cha-ching! I am sure Rihanna probably had twice his audience, so imagine what each audience is paying for a Prince concert for him to have over 50% more years back without even the hype. Also remember Rihanna's figures (which is 2012) includes all her adverts and products, not only world tour. |
MsDarkSkin:Different classes and markets, babes. Completely different! This guy is one of the GREATEST! The guy made a poor judgement stopping his material on youtube hence missing out on a generation appreciating him. But recently, he seems to have relaxed his block of youtube. |
sauer: You have no proof for your claim. Is there any evidence that Joan Osborne's bank account increased significantly after she got her grammy? In fact, 50 cent, who is a grammy winner, probably enjoys more black appreciation than white. Joan Osborne probably enjoys more white. If you limited "white appreciation" to "american appreciation", your argument might be a little more convincing. And american appreciation will in no way stop your music from being downloaded free multiple times on cyberspace. If anything, it should increase download frequency.Sauer, this is one of the type of examples I am talking about. How many Prince songs do you know? How many Rihanna songs do you know? People like Prince sell to the upper market. Not kwekwe people. Without an album and public advert Prince is making $87m from world tours only, Rihanna makes $53m from ALL her source of income. Imagine how much each person that goes to his concert pays then. MUSIC is in Prince's blood. A genius, not some commercial product! One of the fcking greatest guitar players EVER! And great in virtually all other instruments. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JGE5hALa--s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OBZeVau0i20&feature=related https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f5xMTKkEg8U&feature=related https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W56iMg1_hUA |
isquar3d3: and ur types graduate? Since wen do u judge intellectual ability by how words r written on a public forum? Sorry, i dn't use abusive language on pple esp faceless internet trolls. Move along.You are a moooron! Publicly written words and the awareness of their reflection on the author is synonymous with intellectual ability. Only so-called "graduates" from these schools and that are products of a failed education system would not know this. Your silly statement of saying you can hold your own against the WORLD is as moronic as an average Nigerian journalist saying he can hold his own in the Economists or World Bank. Go and read the junk written by journalists like Kemi Lawal of the Punch newspapers and compare with an intern in a magazine/newspaper in the UK, and you will see how moronic it is for "graduates" like you to think you are at the standard of the best in the WORLD! Hold your own my arse! No wonder buildings are collapsing. No wonder the police force is releasing email address to report crime. No wonder graduates will join in saying it is winches that are attacking people. "Graduates"! |
antitpiah: You joined to independent clauses together with a coordinating conjunction, where is your comma? person! And, you want to correct others? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-twUCEfzrDk See persin wey wan teach me grammar o? ![]() How come you always let me humiliate you like this? Are you really that dumb? ![]() |
As I said, the foundation of his arguments has not been on logic and objectivity and he has refused to accept these twins when given to him so he is under pressure. When people are under pressure based on silly arguments they start making more and more errors (i.e. silly arguments). He can open his mouth to say Weah is in a team sport so it is OK not to have won the ultimates but he is not looking at the factors that can affect good players from achieving the ultimate. A little common sense will tell us that if Christiano Ronaldo was just born in another era, he would have won World Player of the Year multiple times, but unfortunately for him, someone called Messi happens to be playing in his era. According to him, Thierry Henry would not be one of the greatest players ever in football because he never won WPoY. His argument of Murray as not being successful at all is ridiculous and the kind of argument only a 13 year old boy will make and you will have to correct him by saying he should consider all factors and look at things holistically. |
JallowBah: Lol. You dont think scandinavian women do those things on the list? Of course. But people are different, both here and there.They obviously would do it, but to a far lesser degree. |
isquar3d3: if u had any sense, u'd know dat having a bad begin'n doesn't necessarily mean continuing wit one. I'm sorry bt i'm nt going 2 dignify u wit a response in kind 2 ur silly comment. Inspite of my txt speak, i dare u 2 point out a mistake in my statements here or in my previous post. I'm proud of my background and i can hold my own against d best in d world.You can what? You are cretin! See what you turned out to be and you think yours is not a bad ending? I can guarantee you you will not find a graduate from a quality university type on an online forum in textspeak. You think such poor and mentally lazy habit is a good way to present yourself to people? No wonder we have moorons like you as journalists in Nigeria. Graduates that can't write but they will say they are proud of their background. Hold your own against the World my arse. Mugu! |
[quote author=Efemena_xy]^^ What about love being blind and all that na? [/quote]Not if you a sensible adult male.My love went to Specsavers. It can see. |
armyofone: where have ya been and how are you?I am fine babes, still doing my duty dealing with cretins. [quote author=Efemena_xy]Are you both supporting this woman because the unfortunate guy na Oyibo?? ![]() I don't like foools. A foool is a foool irrespective of colour. |
[quote author=Efemena_xy]^^ Abeg decode that one for me. Whose the mugu / cretin here? The woman? Or the man??[/quote]The man! I have no empathy for cretins. |
ronkebp: I never said what she said was wrong, i don't just don't know how the traning of a Nigerian daughter should be different from that of the western countries. Irrespective of where you live, train your daughter well...so that where ever she finds herself, she will excel irrespective of the type of life that is being lived there. And i think that was what Kobojunkie meant.I think that is implicit in aigboma's post. She basically said "If you are in Rome, understand Rome". |
[quote author=Efemena_xy]Must be the handwork of a Nigerian woman, no other. Who else would take such undivided, devoted love as foolishness, to be trampled upon so?? ![]() Stories like this make our male chauvinists (ahem)... [size=1pt]Sagamite 'n Dayo[/size] bash the hell out of our fellow black women for being self-centred materialistic demons. And in this instance, I agree with them whole heartedly... Treat them mean to keep them keen kind of philosophy here [/quote]As a matter of general principles, I don't blame women for a mugu being a cretin. |
[quote author=Rhino.5dm]You are just a lying coon, else how could you mention ACN when PDP wasted 8 years under akala buying bleaching cream with state allocations? The ACN haven't spent more than a year and you are bringing them in to conceal the wanton failure of the PDP blood sucking vampires?[/quote]Come on now! Let the fooool come back and talk before you start eating the suya now. I want to eat suya too na! |
bumps: I pity guys on NL that alwys argue abt PDP and ACN,for me none of our political party or leaders re really working to improve our situation.all they do is propaganda(TV and radio) from imo to lagos and other states aryzgreat: ACN a.k.a Asiwaju company of Nigeria is a highly "SOPHISTICATED" company WORKING for the well being of the HIGHLY SOPHISTICATED south west. yoruba oni baje laye laye!What has ACN got to do with this? Please edjucate me, you guys. I wait! isquar3d3: 4 wat na? I went 2 prolly a worse secondary skul where we kept our bags in d ceiling b4 going 2 d field 2 play football(at least our field beta pass national stadium surulere own). Didn't stop me frm graduating in my beloved computer science, did it? Government wil always b crazy nd nt do d right thngs bt if d students keep deir heads down nd study, i see doctors nd engineers among d 'ragged' lots here.Because of such shyt education is why you type in textspeak and think you are entitled to be called a graduate. I hope never to be in a hospital at the hands of doctors that have passed through the same education you have been through. I hope never to live in a house built by any Engineer that was your classmate. God, please hear my prayers o! Mo ti fe ku o (I never wan die o). |
ronkebp: You know, i thought of telling her this, but i just could not even bring myself to type a word.I don't see what is wrong with what aigboma said. Is the doctrine and paradigm suggested by Kobo what Western woman practice? How many of them are successful and happy in life? Relationships with men is really core to most women's existence whether they like it or not. What is needed is jumping to the other side to educate the men in Africa on how to respect woman and treat them well. Absolutely nothing wrong with aigboma's philosophy. All these woman are equal to men will always end in failure, am sorry to say. God, through his representative, Baba Nature, is not and has never been politically correct. |
When I say some, like deshclones, are products of a failed education system, they will think I am insulting them. |
ronkebp:Am sexy and I know it! Pam parampa parampa! Pam parampa parampa! ![]() |
slimyem: this is my problem with Nigerians...Because I asked a question and someone answers does not mean the answer is true. ![]() JallowBah: I am a white Norwegian womanOh, you are not Nigerian or black woman? ![]() Sorry, I can now believe. ![]() Scandinavian liberalism. Yep, I can believe you. ![]() Your username sounded Gambian/Senegalese, that is why I thought you were black. |
davidylan: you dont have to compromise - find a younger woman. Most women will be comfortable marrying a man at a similar financial level to themselves as long as he is older, more mature and at least is around the same level as she is financially.True! Maybe marry her before she makes it as she is younger but you would see she has the potential already. Seen! |
stillwater: Sagamite go and sleep. You that is as sexy as my nightmares.Haters gonna hate! ![]() If I met you you will be singing this chorus in my ears by the end of the night. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KaasJ44O5lI&feature=fvwrel No be me! Emi Omo Sagamu! Mi o ti slack ri. Super star! Saga Saga! The one they call "look at her and she go get belle", "lokomotiv fcker". Fuku faka fuku faka fuku faka luuuurve machine. https://www.nairaland.com/782873/romance-section-toast-one-been/6#9361652 Gerrout of here jor! |
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[/quote]As a matter of general principles, I don't blame women for a mugu being a cretin.
