₦airaland Forum

SimonAndal: Hope he doesn't go cold turkey! On another note, do they all attend airforce secondary schools?

I have always said those parents that sent their kids to private schools in Nigeria, where they are charged ridiculously exorbitant prices, wasted their money.

I am yet to see any kid from the top private schools from my time making waves.

The ones making waves are from KC, QC, FGCs, Unity Colleges, Military Colleges, ISL/I etc. Usually public schools.

The ones that went to private school just only got the advantage of eating good food and speaking silly fone.

lagerwhenindoubt: You dey mind dem, they just head up to to virgin university and dis-virgin them

He is the first African to obtain this status from his department. He obtained a degree in Computer Engineering.

He is probably the only African that has been in the department.

Claus: I have to admit, your style of educating them entertains me constantly. Nothing do u.

You need to see the fucktardism of our youths.

https://www.nairaland.com/977473/samuel-etoo-accused-tax-evasion

Nigeria is fcked if this is the next generation.

ebamma: so dem wan tell us that the only footballer were evade tax na eto'o or dis is all about him being a popular black player.

Professional person!

Conjecture is the foundation of their arguments and debates.

ronkebp: So Saga-pumping did you miss me.....?

Lets come to the conclusion of the matter.....short courtship of say 3 to 6 months, is not enough to get hitched or married, long coutship of 2 years maximum....is the best, anything longer than that is a pure waste of time and avenue to breed pre-marital sex and abortions and an eventual heart break...simple!!!

If you cannot fall inlove within 6 months of dating what makes you think you will love the person in another 5 years...??

I missed you but I miss your sister more.

You are close to the answer.

- Long courtship of 2 years is just about the bottom range of being sufficient and is very good.

- 2 years courtship seems apt and in the best interest for a woman, that does not mean it is in the best interest of a man. You have to balance those interests.

- You can almost definitely fall in love 6 months but love is not all marriage needs, you need the extra months to discover and deal with the other needs.

otumfour: ^^^ this fo0l is prolly more tribalistic than any other.... why do nigerians always find excuses for bad deeds? if this were a white man....y'all wudn't be screaming rasism now wud u

wit a generation like this, ur future really looks HOPELESS

A bloody generation of bloody cretins!

Nairaland has opened my eyes.

bisiaet: This people has started again. White man with bad belle against black man is very appauling. The moment any blck man want to make a difference then from just a blue moon a masterminded case will generate from nowhere.

All is about hatred and racism that is all. If they do not use woman they will say tax invader or abuse case by all means something must be cooked up. People who has not live in the West may not understand what i'm saying but for those who has lived and still living among this so called white will understand me well.

God will save Eto'o let him just be strong and be courageous all they want from him is to cripple him financially and to demoralised him. God will help him.

You are a person!

aweaweawe: i don't knw why they hate black so much.those son of a bitch.

Detongue: Dis oyibo ppl will never allow a black man to succeed

uihebom: When its a black man, ohh Oyinbo will make sure they drag him down. But when a white man is accused of tax invasion,they won't mind. they will find a possible way to make him a free man. Example Harry redknapp tax invasion later a free man.

[quote author=Skmoda-360]sometimes if i'm reading all this news i feel like hating white people.........[/quote]More fucktards!

Cretinous products of our dilapidated education system.

waja: Like what they deed to Mike Tyson, they want to reduce his wealth. Racism still on high.

You are a person!

How is making sure you pay your taxes racism?

FOOOOL!

[quote author=bomb-war]dickhead i didnt see any sensible question frm u,so go fuk urself[/quote]You are a person!

So what if he is one of the Deltans that cannot afford 3 square meals?

Cretin!

sexkillz: [color=#000030]LMAO @ 2 chics with zero votes. . .


No offence.
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And you feel the need to laugh at or humiliate them?

Are you a fcking kid?

Tgirl4real: Sagamite is just out to debate anyone who has a contrary view on this issue.

I just need to drive it home that long courtship is better.

It has all the benefits of short courtship plus more.

It is like comparing flying economy to flying first-class.

Economy class might do the job, but first-class does it better.

More leg room, better food, more attentive service, quicker to get on/off the plane, wider seats etc.

Those of us that only fly first-class would know. (Kai! Make chaircover no see this yeye claim o)

chic2pimp: Unless ofcourse you are a Real Man like this poster below.

What a dunce!!!

He is a reetarded dunce!

ronkebp: Oh!! so you have to spend a longtime with that person before you actually make love with person, so it is slamming first and love making next?

Yeap!

It gradually turns from lustful intimacy to bonding intimacy. You don see and do everything but you like the person so much you still want it.

ronkebp: Why can't you have majority of your fun in a marraige, why have it outside the marraige, what is wrong in marrying early and spending so much time with your spouse before having kids, as in doing all those things you will normally do in a relationship in your marraige

Because you can make a mistake and you can't walk away easily and it wouldn't be fun then, it would be misery.

ronkebp: As if nature is also not letting the men go, not that i am comparing, it is just that, the men also grow older, that is when they have a bigger tommy and their john -thoms would disappear beneath their stomachs

Looks is not the main, unsubstituteable or singular attraction tool of men, it is for women.

Men can attract partners with money, power, intellect, sense of humour, smooth talk etc even without much looks and a woman would still fall head over heels for them. Women have to have looks and personality. The former is the dominant one and fundamental in attracting a mate.

God is not politically correct. He does not give a shyt about PC.

ronkebp: There is no way, you will not loose the spark in a marraige, but to loose it in the first 5 years of the marraige, is calling for trouble, even the first 10 years....we get tired of doing the same thing over and over again....but the love you had for each other and shared will pull you through those times, that is why it is better to marry the person you are inlove with and not just attracted to. One of my uncles' was attracted to his wife's ikebe, now it is the ikebe that is driving him crazy, it is the ikebe that is pursuing him outside their matrimonial home, because it was never love in the first place, but mere attraction, he has eaten of that ikebe, he is so full and the ikebe is making him purge..

That is why it is fundamental to build the love before you marry.

That is why it is fundamental to take enough time to ensure lust is not mistaken for love.

That is why you need to test the durability and sustainability of the love before you marry.

You will hardly do those in 3 months.

GenBuhari: @ toth,

Now you can see why we cannot get any reasoned argument or debate from Sagamite?

@ Sagamite,
In all seriousness, all our past leaders easily outperformed Obj (with possible exception of IBB who may be equal worst with Obj).
I would even rate GEJ far better than Obj.

You are a person!

I said you wouldn't make sense.

Mental patient.

GenBuhari: @ Sagamite,
In fact Abacha was a great African leader, other African countries realised this before many Nigerians did.

Sagamite are you still convinced that Obasanjo is the greatest Nigerian leader?
When you told me that, I never stopped debating with you, I just tried to help you see reason.

You are a person!

Name any of our poor leaders that has been better for the country than OBJ.

Actually don't, you are too fcking stewpid to make sense. So don't waste my time.

ronkebp: It did not work jare....i kept on modifying it....and it will take you 5-10 yrs to build the love??, another 5-10 yrs to know if it is true love or lust? when you really love someone and if it is genuine it will not take you long to know for real if it is the real thing or not.

Where did I say that?

There is no way I can love someone after 3 months.

Love is one thing, apart from love, you have to think of compatibility.

No way you are doing all that in 3 months and not be at a risk of serious errors.

ronkebp: You do not know how to teach jor!!!! it is not working, i have done what you asked me to do but for where? shaa read it like that...till i get the hang of it....

You are an Olodo. I am going to teach you again with examples.

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[qoute author=Sagamite]Hell No.

The longer you spend with someone you are attractive to and have history with, the more likely you would bond and turn it from sex to love-making (as long as they don't let themselves go).

You don't need to have the majority of your fun in marriage, you just need to have the fun. So I don't know why you are asking where would the fun in marriage take place. You can have fun without a ring being on the finger and it would still be as much fun as having it in marriage. Fun na fun.[/qoute]

Sagamite, you are right. You are the most intelligent person I have ever seen.


Then the next

[qoute author=Sagamite]If you marry a stranger (lets say even an attractive one) and then after 1 year they start having kids and their body changes, you have less chance of creating the bond or maintaining the attraction. She might not even be letting herself go, nature is letting her go involuntarily. You might stay because you have signed the family-creation consortia contract and you can't get out of it.

Virtually all relationships would lose spark. I would rather we lose our spark outside marriage and see what carries us on, than lose the spark in marriage and be standing in front of a judge giving excuses why we need to break up and why her being married to me is not the source of my wealth or be miserable all in the name of sustaining social expectations.[/qoute]

And Sagamite, you are so sexy as well.

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I have spelt "quote" wrong intentionally so NL does not treat it as a quote.

Spell it correctly and it would work.

ronkebp: There is no way, you will not loose the spark in a marraige, but to loose it in the first 5 years of the marraige, is calling for trouble, even the first 10 years....we get tired of doing the same thing over and over again....but the love you had for each other and shared will pull you through those times, that is why it is better to marry the person you are inlove with and not just attracted to. One of my uncles' was attracted to his wife's ikebe, now it is the ikebe that is driving him crazy, it is the ikebe that is pursuing him outside their matrimonial home, because it was never love in the first place, but mere attraction, he has eaten of that ikebe, he is so full and the ikebe is making him purge..

Did my quoting teaching not work?

That is why it is fundamental to build the love before you marry.

That is why it is fundamental to take enough time to ensure lust is not mistaken for love.

That is why you need to test the durability and sustainability of the love before you marry.

You will hardly do those in 3 months.

GenBuhari: Sagamite,
instead of resorting to name-calling and a verball abuse, why not make you case with reasoned argument?

What thoth described was a conspiracy that really happened.

A number of verifiable events occurred during Abacha's regime which would indicate that the West (UK /USA ) were trying to eliminate him.

What case would I make to a cretin that calls Abacha a hero?

YOU REALLY THINK I have time to waste?

You think my educational level would allow me debate with fucktards?

What next? I would be debating with a person that calls Joseph Kony the Greatest Ugandan ever?

[quote author=bomb-war]U r nt just a little Priiiiiiiiiiiiick,,,,,,,,but also an idiotic foooooooooooooooooollllllllllllllllllllllllllll[/quote]You are a person!

Answer my question.

ronkebp: Seriously, teach me how to break each paragrapgh and comment on each one, i am tired of lumping ideas together!!!

Place each section you want to breakdown between:



[qoute author=Sagamite]My intellectual paragraph[/qoute]

{Then put your own post}


Then the next

[qoute author=Sagamite]My fantastic paragraph[/qoute]

{Then put your next post}





I have spelt "quote" wrong intentionally so NL does not treat it as a quote.

Spell it correctly and it would work.

ronkebp: It might to an extent, only because the longer you spend with someone outside wedlock, the more likely you get tired of that person, except you live faraway from eachother, you have known all that you need to know about that person, so where is the fun when you eventually get married?? And that is why some people are so fond of eachother there is no more spark in the relationship, they just marry themselves for farmiliarity sakes. 3-6 months is not enough to know anybody, even the person you have lived with for 20 years gan sef, you have not known talk more of 3 months relationships.

Mentioning what?

Hell No.

The longer you spend with someone you are attractive to and have history with, the more likely you would bond and turn it from sex to love-making (as long as they don't let themselves go).

You don't need to have the majority of your fun in marriage, you just need to have the fun. So I don't know why you are asking where would the fun in marriage take place. You can have fun without a ring being on the finger and it would still be as much fun as having it in marriage. Fun na fun.

If you marry a stranger (lets say even an attractive one) and then after 1 year they start having kids and their body changes, you have less chance of creating the bond or maintaining the attraction. She might not even be letting herself go, nature is letting her go involuntarily. You might stay because you have signed the family-creation consortia contract and you feel you don't have the reasonable excuse to get out of it.

Virtually all relationships would lose spark. I would rather we lose our spark outside marriage and see what carries us on, than lose the spark in marriage and be standing in front of a judge giving excuses why we need to break up and why her being married to me is not the source of my wealth or the other option of being miserable all in the name of sustaining social expectations.

thoth: Though i honestly don't understand what you meant by "I'll humour you " i am nevertheless pleased. I will try and provide a short version of it and if after your research and enquiries you still find them lacking i will provide a longer more detailed version.

Abiola- During the regime of IBB Nigeria can be said to be a client state in other words a country which is controlled by the interest of foreign nations rather than the interests of its constituent citizens. The IMF and World bank through IBB and his cronies effectively destroyed the economy of Nigeria, with mass borrowings(even when not needed) ,austerity measures that was carefully crafted to further underdevelop Nigeria, numerous scams like the famous ITT and others. All these schemes were possible because for any client state to function a puppet regime has to be put in place to support the interest of the imperialists and crush any dissent(which must rise as a result) and those elite puppets in turn gets rewarded with wealth for destroying their own nation(you have examples like Shah of Iran, Biya of cameroun and most recently Hosni Mubarak of Egypt). IBB, Obasanjo,Abiola and many others were such assets(imperialist puppets) used to keep third world nations from developing(Nigeria in this case). IBB used to replace the revolutionary Buhari, Obasanjo acquired earlier before as a suitable replacement for another revolutionary leader and Abiola acquired sometime in between. So during the IBB regime these elites were enriched while servicing foreign interests at the detriment of their own nation but just like the regime before theirs a revolutionary leader who would not cower at the western imperialist interest nor borrow destructive loans from the IMF/World Bank and ready to push the nation forward as best as he could came into power, the foreign multinationals and congromelates who no longer enjoy the free hand and reckless exploitation of the nation as under IBB called on their nations to get rid of Abacha. American interest were badly hurt and as a result the CIA went into action and a vicious dis-information and character assasination campaign was launched against the regime and all manners of subversive tactics was employed the aim was a regime change to someone who is more sympathetic to western interests.
As such Abiola already a CIA asset, owns a public media company(a very dangerous tool for subversion) and one of the elites whom a revolutionary regime would not favour was called up and attacked the regime viciously with his other partners with fallacious claims and publications all engineered to get the masses to revolt against Abacha. Numerous subversive groups were funded by the CIA through Abiola .
What Abiola did was am act of treason and of utmost importance to any national policy is maintaining the stability of the state while the goal of any subversive group is to make the state unstable(syria and boko haram). You should try to understand with the interest of the nation at heart(if you are truly patriotic) that certain responses to certain actions though gruesome is extremely necessary at certain conditions.
Now let's not resort to judging the remedies applied by the regime as that would be premature instead you should try and verify the above events then we can now make those judgments more informed and clear.

Fcking reetard with his conspiracy theories!

[quote author=Ejiné]Shut up, you ungrateful child!
Can't you see our beloved governor is picking up stones with 7.4 billion naira, thus creating more jobs and empowering the youth for investments?
What more do you want? [/quote]Abeg someone educate me on this. I don't know the story so I don't get the sarcasm.

[quote author=bomb-war]From ur explanatn ,it shows that u simple hate d babe cos u cnt eat 3x daily ,,,sorry oooo builder[/quote]You are a person!

And so what if he is?

Fruitful2: FOR EVERY RELATIONSHIP THE INTENTIONS AND PURPOSES OF BOTH PARTIES MUST BE TRANSPARENT TOWARDS EACH OTHER.THE LENGHT OR SHORTNESS OF A RELATIONSHIP BUILT ON DECEIT WILL ONLY MAKE BOTH PARTIES NOT TO KNOW EACH OTHER IRRESPECTIVEi OF THE DURATION OF THE COURTSHIP.LEADS TO DIVORCE,SORROW,PAINS.ETC BUT WHEN TWO PEOPLE ARE HONEST,SINCERE,TRANSPARENT,TRUTHFUL AND FAITHFUL TOWARDS EACH OTHER,WITHIN THREE MONTHS THEY CAN GET MARRIED.YOU DONT NEED 8 YEARS TO KNOW YOURSELVES.YOU ONLY NEED A TRANSPARENT PERSON LIKE YOURSELF.

And how would you know if someone is transparent in 3 months? How many dates can you have in 3 months?

Would you even get involved in a business investment that has a high potential of bankrupting you if it fails with someone you have only known for 3 months?

ronkebp: Your 4th paragraph makes sense,i like that but there are people who sampled their present wives before marraige and after being married for 10years are tired of eating the same food, some call it "law of diminishing returns", and they are off to find something new....what will you call that??

So is a short relationship immuned from that risk?

Does it decrease the risk or makes it more likely?

So why are you mentioning it?

Reference: And its good to publicize such moves to prove to doubters that Nigeria may be tough but it is certainly viable. And it will only get better as infrastructure improves then the bus of investment will have left leaving the fickle fingers saying how did P&G do it. How did they become a monopoly. Maybe they play party politics. We have seen them aplenty.

Investors will look for a place that is not tough but is still viable.

Infrstructure is unlikely to improve (at least at low cost) if you have cretins like Retardeed Jonathan as president that celebrates corruption and refuses to prosecute corrupt people like Oil Subsidy and Halliburton. Officials will know funds for infrastructure is free to be stolen and even if anything is built it would be at exorbitant cost and the intent to recoup the funds will mean higher fees for users.

ronkebp: The selfish kind of love....abi .....

Call it whatever you like.

Ortis: Agbaya!!!! Na today i begin see or hear of multi million naira project....i guex dy suld revive d dead textile nd power companies b4....twistin our brain towards buildin another one

Look at this bloody product of a failed education system!

They open their mouth and vomit their stewpid opinion without any ratiocination.

Mugu, explain to me why you think it is the textile industry they (whoever they is) should revive?

Who is responsible for power? Ogun state government? P&G?

Since when did building a FMCG manufacturing plant equate is the same as building a textile or power company.

@topic

Being a manufacturing hub and an annex for Lagos is the strategy I have been advocating Ogun state follows but the mugu we have as governor was talking about agriculture.

Omugor is lucky that the right strategy is emerging by accident.

bodejohn: Guys,
Procter & Gamble is a private and multinational company, there is nothing like abandoning the project.
If you care to know, the project is no longer a plan, the contract has been awarded to Julius Berger and recruitment of staffs has already begun.

Abeg where dem dey build am? Which town?

Make I know whether dem don go invade into my land and bring Obatala come fight dem.

ronkebp: Like, know and attraction is not love.....it could be some of the qualities that will intensify or reduce the feelings you have that person.

So your avoiding the question simply means you have not fallen inlove before, ....don't worry you will know the difference between truely loving someone and being attracted to someone.no matter how you try to run away from it

You should know by now that I have fallen in love before and I am still in love....


.....with myself.

ronkebp: You did not put find someone you are "inlove" with....have you ever loved...answer truthfully please!!!! and i mean that pure love, you have for someone irrespective of the person's looks, that feeling that cones from within that you really thought you could not do without, whether now or when you were younger?

I asked only because, so many people who eventually married the spouses they think they are attracted to or who has the best qualities they were looking for, come back to say they are not inlove with their spouse (whether male or female)or have finnaly found the person they think they love with their whole hearts, so that means there must be something wrong with not marrying the person you truely have an amazing feelings for.

When I say like, know, attracted and compatible, that is love.

It is really psychologically and emotionally impossible for me to love someone irrespective of the person's looks. So that is not even a point to debate on.