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Legionss:
I work in a company where 90% of the staffs are the best any serious minded business person will be proud of. They’re hardworking, intelligent, and know what to do even before you tell them. Yet our ogas still went ahead and import a Lebanese man who spend most of the company time watching porn and knows absolutely nothing about our kind of work to be our overall manager..
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Nonsense!

Show us the work your serious-minded, hardworking and intelligent people do.

niyi20:
You are so on point just last week my company which is a dutch base company introduce the new project manager to us as an expatriate the guy look to young to me so I decided to do my own findings by questioning him . The guy told me he just finish technical school in Holland they sent him to Nigeria straight without any experience .

Because he is more likely to do a better job than most of you in Nigeria.

He would try to also produce the best he can produce at everything he does.

Truckpusher, come and tell this guy o. At least you have been a witness for a while now.

dtjns37:
These are screenshots of a comment on facebook about Nigeria that broke my heart. I felt as if the insult was directed at me.

This man worked in same company with me as an expat for a few months. He's my facebook friend, and he's Indian.
Someone asked him to bring something from Nigeria, then he went ahead and lashed the country in his comment.

I want the world to see this careless post. I hope he repents of such a stinking mentality about Nigeria.
He posted the update on sunday afternoon.

Source: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10206127715965895&set=a.3319052689141.2146517.1052989290&type=1&theater

You are a moronic fuuktard!

Instead of you to focus on your leaders, you are wishing he repents.

Did he lie?

Repent to start telling you lies to save you face?

You Nigerians are the ones that have a stinking mentality. The same you just demonstrated here.

Would he say the same thing about USA?

About UAE?

About Morocco?

About South Africa?

About Malaysia?

When we tell you your country is a shithole cesspit, you will think it is an exaggeration.

People can smell the shyt the minute they step into your embassy for a visa.

GEJ till 5699!

bukatyne:
I agree very much with you

What of husbands and wives?

I am afraid I am not the best person to ask that.

My answer would be of little value except you are married to me because I am quite different from most men, hence my expectations are different.

Most men either are confused about what they want or are "real men" that are well trained to sacrifice their happiness to please a woman and think that makes them "mature".

I don't fall into those categories. I am a Professor of Womantology and have different needs.

cococandy:
This first video is so touching. Aww.
I could totally see myself being that kind of mom.

And the little girl is so adorable.
When I was little, my greatest fear too was for my mom to die.
Now I know it will happen someday but still not prepared for it to ever happen.

Continues watching.
You don give me work this morning

The little girl was just purely lovely.

As for preparation, that is where we are different. I am not that much of an emotional soul because I am realistic with my expectations.

I have been lucky to have my parents up to my adulthood considering they lived in Nigeria. I have age figures in my mind, once they pass it, I am prepared. I am already expecting it.

Wouldn't tell my mum this though, because she is quite emotional.

cococandy:
Sagamite get out of here.
You gon make me cry.

Don't tell me after seeing these folks, you don't want to urgently find that your missing rib?

Babes, I am a very strange being.

Actually, I think it is a bit psychopathic trait. I am not very emotional. I am very very realistic and matter of fact, which means I don't judge things or make decisions with emotions.

So I don't see this and go "awww".

I think it is nice and actually laughed with them, but the guy is a complete opposite of me. He is obviously someone that is emotional and connected to his feminine side.

I suspect my connection to my feminine side is provided by NITEL. Very poor connection.

I think I have always been like that because my uncle stayed with me on his recent trip to the UK and when something happened he looked at me and said "God! You have not changed. Nothing fazes you and you just brush off all adversity and get on with it". He then regaled stories of when I was young (less than 13) and how I just take adversity in, think about it, try to solve it and if that is impossible, I brush it off and continue. In a short while, I am smiling and getting on and laugh at the kids who moan.

I also remember when my parents took me to boarding school on my first day. I was a late starter in the school because I was originally posted to the North, but my father was like "I know this boy can survive in the North, but he is the type you have to keep an eye on, so I want him closer to home". So he used leg to change my school. By the time paperwork was done and I started, it was already one month into JSS1.

So when they took me to school, I was the completely new boy and others had already formed relationships. My mum still always remind me that when they (my parents) were about to go, she was expecting me to start crying considering I had never been away from my parents for long, I had no friends and I was seeing all these big seniors in a school notorious for bullying (boarding schools back in the good ol' days ). Worse still was that the only available bed for this late comer was not with my mates but with the SSS3 students.

As they were driving off, my mother was sobbing, I smiled and waved my little hand about 3 times. Turned around and went straight to get to know the niggas and my new hood. Had the best year of my life.

Six years later when she came to take me on my final day in secondary school, about 30 junior kids were running behind the car for about 200m to say good bye to this senior. Mum was surprised I was that popular and liked. Again, she was sobbing. Again, I was smiling and waving at the juniors.

By now, my mum knows her son is not an emotional one. I am only emotional with people who can't help themselves e.g. babies, toddlers, disabled, sick, old etc.

What I liked about the couple in the clip is that they can laugh about their little foibles, not start arguing or creating a sour atmosphere. I would rather be laughing with my girl than be fighting everytime.

That said, I didn't believe him one bit when he said the best sex he ever had was with her. I think he said that to please her and because he thought saying any other thing would hurt her.

I am sure he enjoys sex with her and he is happy having sex with her, but his body language suggest to me he has had better sex with some other girl. But he is obviously genuinely crazy about his wife.

As for finding my missing rib, I have found my missing rib. Called those chinese mudafuckers last week that one rib was missing from my takeaway. They put 5 instead of 6 spare ribs. Murrafuckers! Won fe sheet mi! (Dem wan cheat me!)

ndnuray:
Following that the HKN crew inspected on-going construction at the Adeleke University’s permanent site which is being describes as an “ultra modern educational facility worth many billions of naira.”

Truckpusher, do you believe this nonsense?

Can you now see how your people moronically brandish words they hear (without understanding it) inappropriately?

Can you see the culture I am challenging?

bukatyne:
How will you balance responsibility and expectations?

E.g.: A parent should sponsor his/her ward into school etc.

Cc: cococandy, sagamite, babygirlfl

As for with your kids, my philosophy is:

- Give your child everything they need but a little of of what they want. Most of what they want, they have to earn somehow.

- Let your kids know that despite the fact that you are friendly and can joke with them, you are their boss (if not even their God as long as they are young). I don't do all that Best Friend with your kids shyt. That said, give them the freedom to explore things that interest them that you might not particularly agree with (only if they show some level of proficiency in this thing). I can joke and laugh with my kids all day, but when I decide to be stern and serious, they have to know who the Boss is.

- Never rule out smacking and corporal punishment. It must be part of the repertoire of tools available if you need it. That said, it should be last or the most deserved resort. You might actually even have kids you never need to smack. Smacking kids most of the time is madness, saying you will never smack your kids is madness.

A lot of the modern, "progressive" child-rearing is pathetic.

EfemenaXY:
OMG!! This is really scary. Horrible video.

Such wanton, needless violence.

freecocoa:
Jesu! That nigga is crazy and did the presenter say his name is Lee Lee Lee ? Hian!

Got my heart pounding heart.

These are the moronic monkeys I am supposed to be associated with and allow my children grow up around?

Fck that!

That America self, I doubt I can live in it.

What shocked me the most was after he was told he was a prank, this useless lowlife was more bothered about promoting his rap on youtube and was exposing who he was.

What a completely useless soul that I would be happy to hear that he has been short multiple times by the police, legally or illegally.

And these kind of monkeys would say it is the white man holding them back.

It appears everyone got a chance to chop something during the Cretin of Otuoke's "Corruption is not stealing" and "Goat must to eat yam" government.

They are all flying all over the world to enjoy "the Nigeria they transformed". They can't enjoy the transformation in Nigeria.

Transformation Ambassadors of Nigeria.

GEJ till 3599!!!

ammyluv2002:
Season of baby mamas



Congratulations!


Btw, She's way too young now

You are so proficient at chatting rubbish.

Lucky guy.

Lithuanian girls? .............Very nice girls.

bestest001:
As President Muhammadu Buhari looks into the Boko Haram war efforts of the last administration, information has emerged that Nigeria’s traditional allies in the West deliberately frustrated the efforts of former President Goodluck Jonathan’s, towards bringing an end to terrorists’ activities in the country.

A security source disclosed in Abuja that Nigeria, during Jonathan’s administration, 25 letters were written to the United States of America and other Western nations, seeking to acquire weapons to combat the terrorists, but they all turned down the requests.


“What was most painful was the fact that Nigeria was not begging to be given those weapons as gifts. We were ready to pay for them but they turned their backs on us when we needed them most.“ The same people who made all the promises about assisting us to bring an end to the Boko Haram attacks and bring back the abducted Chibok girls did everything they could to frustrate our efforts. “A conclusion was reached that the nation would suffer more devastation should she continue to beg those we regarded as our friends when things were going on well with us. It was at that point that the nation had to look elsewhere, especially towards the East and Asia”, he said.


Source: http://ynaija.com/jonathan-couldnt-end-insurgency/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

The commentator/source is a cretinous fuuktard!

They refused to sell weapons to the government of the Cretin of Otuoke because Nigerian animals (the ones we call soldiers) were killing innocent citizens randomly while the Cretin closed the NE to the media (under declaration of Emergency) and was giving instructions to Abati to misinform Nigerians that we were "dealing with" Boko Haram.

This was while our animal soldiers were running for their lives from Boko Haram (some fled to Cameroon when they heard Boko Haram coming).

The truth only came up the mess the NE was in when 200+ under-16 year old girls were kidnapped and the Cretin of Otuoke dismissed it as "just one of those things" and went to a campaign rally for President 24 hours later to dance. And when APC complained, Abati came out to insinuate that the kidnap was all APC propaganda. This was followed by the Shepopotamus shame we had as First Lady summoning the teachers and parents to Aso Rock to "expose" them as liars who were conniving with APC and her husband's enemies to humiliate her husband (the famous "Dairisgodooo" incidence).

This was when the Western media took interest and the Cretin of Otuoke had to open up access to the NE.

Then it was all revealed how Boko Haram was dealing with the Nigerian army because all the money meant for weapons were being looted by the Generals. Generals that knew they were serving under a government where "corruption is not stealing" and "goat must to eat yam" was the official policy, so it was open ground to loot as much as you can.

And when the junior officers got frustrated and complained about looting by their leaders who were sending them to imminent death with poor equipment to fight against a band of wild religious animals who are well-armed from Libya chaos, what did the Cretin of Otuoke government do? .......................They sentence some of these soldiers to death.

You want the West to sell weapons to such a cretin and his government?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GA7SIbvEO64

simpleseyi:
Immediate past Special Adviser on Niger Delta and Chairman, Presidential Amnesty Programme, Hon. Kingsley Kuku, has asked anti-corruption agencies not to tamper with the account of his charity organisation, Keketobou Care Foundation, which he has been using to help the poor.
Kuku, who made the call in a telephone interview from his hospital in the United States on Sunday, said there was no public fund in the charity account, which has helped to render succour to indigent students, women and men over time.

Kuku was reacting to reports that the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) had frozen the accounts of close allies of former President Goodluck Jonathan, including the Keketobou Care Foundation.

The former presidential aide, who is recuperating in an American hospital after a knee surgery, said there were no government funds in the account, which had a total deposit of N720,484 as at the end of July this year.

According to Kuku, the amount found in the account was the proceeds from the launch of his book: “Remaking the Niger Delta: Challenges and Opportunities.”

He said before now, he had used his personal earnings and other donations by well-wishers to fund the account so as to provide enough funds for buying JAMB forms for poor indigenes of Ondo State and provide support to poor widows, women and traders in the state.

“I have always been using the Keketobou Care Foundation to help the poor and there is no evidence that the account has ever been funded with government money, as the records would show,” Kuku said.

He described as unfortunate any attempt by the EFCC or any other anti-craft agency to flag the account, saying that it was a politically-motivated move to implicate him and others who worked with Jonathan.

Kuku said while he was open and ready for investigation by the anti-graft agencies, it was wrong for anyone to try to cook up malicious and politically-motivated issues to smear his hard-earned reputation in a bid to suit predetermined goal.

Kuku said: “Keketobou Foundation has only N720,484 balance as at today. The proceeds of my published and launched book “Remaking the Niger Delta” went in there for charity purposes as a public officer.

“It gave free JAMB forms to applicants, financial/material support to the aged, widows and the physically challenged and helped in the local rehabilitation of walkways and drainages in my birth-place/town, Arogbo, Ondo State in the determined spirit to give back to my final place of return in life.

“The publication is false, untrue, malicious and politically-motivated to smear my hard-earned reputation. What on earth links my face to the alleged story about NIMASA?

“It is still all part of the anti-Jonathan onslaught. I am open to investigation as a public officer but ongoing distortion by agencies and some section of the media creates in the heart of it all suspicion of witch-hunt and bad politics.

“I hope no desperate elements would deposit illicit funds into the Foundation’s account to implicate me because the full details of the account from opening to date are with us.

“Again, what links this foundation to their so-called alleged sleaze of billions and phantom security claims? I sincerely smell a rat. Finally, it’s not my account but a foundation’s account,” Kuku claimed.


SOURCE: http://dailytimes.com.ng/steer-clear-charity-kingsley-kuku-tells-efcc/

Moronic fuuktard, come back to Nigeria and explain how you can afford to fly to America for knee surgery while also funding a charity despite being a civil/public servant all your career life.

Crook!

Shymm3x:
Loool. Illiterate and dirt poor village mongrel, this is all you could come back with, after two days, and watching me smash ya lieutenants to bits, you miserable sod?

Prick, go learn how to SPEAK and WRITE in English language - you're a disgrace to whatever village education you received. Can you see what you never amounted to nothing in life. Like seriously, what the heck is "streety"? You're an unemployable bum, hence you're stuck in a shared apartment, doing odd jobs, and wearing rags everywhere. Yet you come on here running ya putrid mouth about things you have no clue about, you obnoxious primitive urchin.

You're forever my biitch and I sired you - not ya eunuch father. Ask ya mum.

You are a cretinous fuuktard!

So you are smashing people by saying your greatest achievement was staying in a Studio Flat on your own at 17?

Wow!

Shymmex the ACHIEVER!

Why is it that everytime you try to show you are smart, you get humiliated?

Have you forgetten when you were caught plagiarising in a debate?

Or when you tried to argue Caribbeans were performing equally as Africans in education in the UK?



Dumb fuuktard!

Fuuktard, so he was racist when he was saying Adrian Lester would be more appropriate as Bond?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KaZFOx9Xwcc

Kimoni:
apparently, you are a gentleman when you choose to be.

But yes, ladies love men that gist with them, not those that sleep off during bedtime gist and yet will swear they heard everything you said like someone in my house

Most women I gist with get enthralled, because I have what is called arcane knowledge.

So I find it very easy to have good and intellectual conversations.

But to have this knowledge, you have to acquire it. So I do like my solitude too. My time to myself reading/watching this, that and everything.

Kimoni:
So there must be a thousand more girls like Damiso, who will say thank you only once, or will not even bother saying it sef, we need to find them ASAP.
Saga, there are plenty of them even in Sagamu. Cast you net far and wide!

They should buy a net and come and cast it over me.

I know these clips would interest you women on girls night out.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARsN5MftEA0


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u2dw3AyNzdk


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CfdlIMlPmuA


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YTzKY_DOBpo



See me flowing on a thread for girly discussions, and all these yeye women would still be asking me what I bring to the table.

Dem no know say I am a great conversationalist when I choose to talk. (Some women love to talk too much especially when they enjoy my conversations)

damiso:
You are very right .

One of the key things that leads to unhappiness is expectations. I try to manage my expectations and not put people into a box so to speak on what I feel they 'should' do for me. It's a trait I inherited from my father and my mum really reminds me of it 'you are definitely your fathers daughter'. I know no one is truly ever self reliant but I really view most things that anyone gives me as gift and not something I should take for granted.

I will give an example. I was unemployed for a while and my husband was taking care of ALL(ok most) the big ticket bills. I wanted to do a course and I was saving towards it.One day my husband told me that he had put some money into my account and I should go ahead to pay for it. I was soooo happy and i kept saying thank you in short I told everyone to thank him for me. He said I was embarassing me with the thank yous and that if he did not as my husband who should? I got his point but in my head I was already feeling I am the one who wants to do a course, as it is he is more or less footing my bills(ok he lives in the house as well but if was not married won't I support myself) so I really did not in my head think he HAD to do it . I honestly would not have resented him not paying those fees.

I know people who will say its his responsibility as doing the course could increase my earning potential and husbands are meant to help their wives grow. That is true also but sincerely and I am not being insincere here I did not feel entitled to those fees just cos he is my husband. I was happy that he helped out but I also would not have been unhappy if he did not.

Now this is the attitude that will make me happy as a man and spur me to want to be giving more and doing more for her.

Not some ediot that would look at me and be fuming that I should live my life trying to make her happy and it is her birthright.

What I would not like though, just like your husband, is the repeated "thank yous". I don't even need or look for one from girls. Just the body-language and smile of appreciation is enough. Thank yous are just a bit too embarassing especially after it is said more than once, you become speechless and don't know how to respond anymore.

chocolateme:
"The country's MEDIOCRE government has been replaced by a competent President"
What is the reason behind this statement? I hate such arbitrary use of words. Its not about which political party now.
I hope this same statement will not be repeated by this time in the next four years?
Buhari is trying well but he can never please everybody. Goodluck's administration irrespective of its ups and downs should be given some credit too.
BTW: that Oyibo, is his father from Ikorodu?

FTC
Chocolate cream

The man said two rubbish in one statement there.

First of all, GEJ's government was not mediocre, it is was an utterly moronic and incompetent government, that almost destroyed the nation irrevertably. Led by a man (the Cretin of Otuoke) so dumb, his dumbness made his intentions evil.

Secondly, Buhari can't be described as competent yet. He is a decent and fortright President with good intentions.

Buhari is one of the best candidates to save the nation. I am not too sure about rating his competence as a leader that high but his intent as a leader is very good.

https://www.nairaland.com/2132222/former-dictator-better-choice-than/6#30484386

GEJ must go to jail!

damiso:
Maybe as a way of escaping reality and just living in the moment ? Perhaps? am just aloud here. Because on the flip side some countries/people with high standard of living and standard infrastructure are said to be miserable. I read a survey that said UK children are one of the unhappiest children in the world (one can't even keep up with all these research). Factors like bullying,peer pressure were taken into consideration and this might not be an issue for a child facing other challenges like food,access to education etc.

That's why I said Happiness is such s subjective term and a happy marriage meab different things to different people. Some people can NEVER be happy in a marriage with financial challenges while some couples tend to even come out stronger and closer in those same challenges.

I still had that argument with my mum this morning and she said I am beggining to think like a Brit.quit expecting too much from people if they pull through pleasant surprise. This does not mean that I don't expect my husband to treat me well but he is not the sole source of my happiness. Even my children are not.

They are being painted and taught a perfect world.

A world where they are the kings and queens and everything should revolve around them.

A world where they are the most beautiful thing ever.

A world where they have all the rights but no responsibilities.

A world where parents must shower them with presents and toys at Xmas, birthday and other parts of the year.

A world where they can be instant celebrities tomorrow and be seen as fabulous.

Why?

Because they are special just by the virtue of them being who they are and existing as kids.

And when all these does not come through, and is unlikely to, as they grow up, they are not attaining their aspirations and expectations.

In Nigeria, kids know they are lucky to be alive, lucky to have something to eat tonight, lucky to go to school, lucky to get a job, lucky to etc.

This is often emphasised with the repeated social pressures to go and thank some imaginary Superfly, All-powerful God for these luck.

So Nigerian kids have little expectations and see most things as a bonus to breathing.

What most people don't realise and I have observed from my studying life is that virtually EVERYTHING that upsets you is hinged on "expectations not being met".

If you are expecting something to happen, you are less likely to be upset when it happens. The more certainty you attribute to it happening, the less it will pain you.

Being aware of that has made me a very happy man.

babygirlfl:
Sagamite, please don't answer if you don't want to but do you tell women you are with that you are not so into marriage. I think it will be good if you let them know so they can make an informed decision.

That really depends.

If I just met a woman, of course I would not tell her such a thing. What advantage does it give me? Why will I release information that is more likely to be disadvanteguous?

Women don't volunteer information that is to their disadvantage. I am like that too with them.

If it is after a while that I have met her and we have "had a good time". If she is:

- A girl that is just average, hopeless or bad, I don't tell her. If she asked, I will tell her I will marry eventually or even looking for it.

- A nice girl and/or one I feel potential of long-term things are possible, I will let her know my reservations about marriage. What I don't like about it. And the conditions under which I can engage in it.

I manage my information to my advantage. No be only women fit do that.

cococandy:
I think it's relative.

Depends on you as a person, where you're coming from and what your expectations were. If you find your life after marriage to be better because of the kind of person you married and how well they fit your ideas of a good spouse. You will be happy with your marriage.

Maybe because I don't expect too much from people. Always have been like that since I was a kid, I find I'm very easy to please. So I cross from contentment to happiness relatively easy.

I think that's why they say happiness is a choice. As I don't expect too much from a partner just that he respects and is faithful to me, and of course be a responsible partner. I think I've made the decision to be happy without realizing it.

I don't think any other garnish would make it better than the basics being right.

People who end up disappointed after marriage are usually so because their expectations haven't been met and in some cases it's because they expect too much.

Like the marriage was supposed to solve all the problems in the other spheres of their life.

Very well said.

The highlighted is where many women are doomed.

I remember one NL married woman I was advising offline because she was worried about a risk with who she married (they have a very unconventional courtship) that she would be happier if she lived her life not basing her happiness on him or his actions. So if he eventually comes out good, lovely. If not, it has less impact.

I don't base my happiness on women. What ever they do, I find it quite easy to brush it off.

Another thing is that I have a mindset that is set to me knowing I do not own anyone. They are indepedent adults that can do whatever they want at anytime. All this "We are married, so I kind of own you" is just pure rubbish. They can leave at anytime.

My happiness is mainly focused on what I can do for myself. One other thing that makes it easy to stay unmarried.

babygirlfl:
One thing I like about sagamite is that he says things as it is. I don't agree with everything he says but I found out that most things I don't agree with him probably has to do with him saying it a little bit too real without reservation. Like when he said about happily and contentedly married people, I always thought they were very happily married people that I knew but after his arguement, I actually started thinking if people were actually just contented. What do you think coco?

Absolutely, fckingly, brilliantly said.

Look, I am a serious and proficient social observer. Maybe that is why it is hard for me to do things like marriage, because I am very aware and see all the faulty lines and I am not willing to bury my head in the sand to conform.

The things I say are the truth, factual, straight to the point and un-sugarcoated. I keep it GANGSTER!

And I know sometimes it even get ladies on NL that like me a bit antsy that I am saying it.

As you said, it is not because I am wrong, it is because I am blunt that is getting to them a bit.

But the fact there remains, I keep it gangster because I want people to start thinking.

Everything I do on NL is to get people to start thinking. Thinking mostly differently.

cococandy:
I hear you

Look at some of the black men Black America is giving society.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=naUvrPbRz2M

tearoses:
LOL
I have a cousin that said double the things you say here
Double!!! if not triple sef.
His mama was so worried at the things he used to say
Me sef I was worried. I wont lie.

Then GHEN GHEN
Today all I see is FB pictures & wifey and kids all over it
BTW he had 2 kids in one year
We are begging him to slow down.
If I didnt know better I would have said it was juju

I will send that bug that bit him to bite you.

If I find the woman I described above, maybe that miracle will happen.

cococandy:
@bold, yet it is the black men who won't let us hear for 'provision' they provide to their own kids and it is them who make more noise about what a lady has to offer or bring to the table.

Thank god say you know they are the even more prone to disappoint when it comes to being responsible. More prone to leaving strings of kids in their wake than others (maybe rivaled by Mexicans )

I wonder what all the noise is about.

I already said that long ago.

https://www.nairaland.com/1579818/girls-night-out-discussions/30#37014651

That is why I know I am gold-dust!

tearoses:
You will enjoy it even more with Mrs Saga by your side
Trust me

Yeah right.

tearoses:
Haaaaaa!
Beru Olorun o
Fear God
Which community are you talking about
The average God fearing educated Naija black man in the UK is a decent man
. . . . are you not decent? What makes you think that you are in a minority?

You better pick someone now, before you are left with ajeku & bones.
Forget TV01's argument o! The older you get the lesser your chances of being able to pick an "all inclusive" becasue she would have already been snapped up by someone who knows her worth.

You mean the ones that beat their wives, get drunk to stupor and have concubines lined up outside?

The funny thing is how they would pride themselves on not missing church on Sundays in their best dress.

Only someone desperate to marry will pick ajeku and bones.

And by the way, they modern world we live in now, majority of the girls and guys are ajeku and bones by 25.

They should be worried about me being "snapped up".