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To start with, your write up is full of stereotype.

The idea you are selling that men are the number one victims of friendzoning brought upon by their cowardly act is wrong. Your personal experience doesn't count.

Encouraging men to kiss, hug or hold her hands when they feel like wouldn't work either. That's because you don't need to take a single action to get friend-zoned.

A woman will discreetly screen you without giving away any hint the very first moment you interact with her. You either pass off as a potential mate, friend or as someone to be avoided. If she doesn't like you romantically, it not about you being a coward for failing to act towards her.

I doubt if this is true.
We all know how tomatoe sellers ply their trade.

The fruit is in the open for any buyer to touch. They'll be easily caught. Besides if you calculate the cost of paint required to paint a whole bag, the effort invested & the price of whatever that is painted, I am sure you'll agree there will be no significant profit. I don't believe this.

Trex4:
Thanks Bro, I've noticed ur great posts on NL, so nice to see u on my thread. But please what more advice can you give me to withstand the inner and external pressure I feel everytime I see a female being

Well... How exactly are you pressurized bro?

Are you compel to take an action and behave in a certain way or is it just your emotions that are invoke whenever you make contact with a female?

Note that it's okay to want that connection as a single guy. But if you have to force a reaction for every female that crosses your path... then it's psychological issues.

Unfortunately, if that's the case, I can't be of help.

Why are you putting your guards up?

You are a nerd, introverted, and a virgin at all orifices. So just keep being yourself brother. You've nothing to worry.

Lack of sex is depriving me so many things in life.

Brother you are in for a rude awakening. Having sex or losing your virginity wouldn't improve your life in anyway.

You'll still have wet dreams...
And your life will still be the mess you made it.

Sex worker, girlfriend or wife? — it doesn't matter.

Whomever you decide to lose it to wouldn't define your self worth. Just use protection if you deem it necessary.

Relationships aren't meant to be some of sort poverty alleviation program. Dump any girl that believes she is entitled to your money. Don't be her source of income.

Guy, start using your brain.
Keep a distance of about 10KM from that single mom.

From being a gentleman to a cad. That escalated fast.

But the lady was actually rude. WTF
There are 999 ways to politely shut him off.

Her rushing to twitter to post their chats answers the question “what Gloria likes to do” — likes being a bítch.

Lol. Who did the counting?
I hope she did the counting herself as punishment.

kevin25:
he did the man anoyance is lack of respect in the side of the woman she wants to be the final say in the family

From what you posted, he wanted her to serve him his food in the presence of a stranger (you). And while she declined, he tried forcing her. (Bear in mind she did the cooking with her own money).

From this it clearly depicts —

1. He felt entitled to her caring and wasn't appreciative.
2. He had no respect for her by trying to emasculate.

Note that I am not saying she isn't disrespectful.
But her husband gave her a reason to disrespect him.

And it's not because of financial status but his behavior.

Love is never enough.
You can't demand respect when you don't give that out.
It's evident he didn't respect and appreciate her doings.

They should catch him and choke that 50K down his phallus. What nonsense. Compensation should be nothing less than 50million and heavy jail time for him.

It'll be very hard to hide your sexuality from your parents especially if they are Nigerian. They have been waiting for this day for confirmation.

I hope they don't disown him.

What manner of fúckery is this?
OP should have added “viewers discretion.”

Now I cannot use my Vaseline this night.
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Life is unfair. I feel so sorry for you.
Let me help you understand the rationale behind this —

1. It's not your fault.
2. She doesn't hate you.

In her eyes, you are like a corrupted “restore point”.

Before your birth, everything was probably perfect in her little world. But then you came, things fell apart and the man in her life left. I can only imagine how emotionally devastating it was for her. She fled from facing the pain.

She couldn't bring herself to accept the fact that it was probably her fault. So mentally she targeted the intruder (you) and directed her pain, misery and the hate as if to say if only you didn't intrude, things would've be okay.

I have to say you're a strong person even though she might have succeeded in shackling you down mentally.

But your heart is still beating.
If there's life... there's hope. Be determined to succeed.

Just let your intentions be known to your friend.

DP.


What I find annoying is he claims that wasn't her first time and that she's phyically abusive, so I can't fathom why a sane person will keeping tolerating such fúckery.

Davash222:
Sissy men everywhere.

God, abeg, instead of giving us sissy men, we beg you, please create more broilers for us. Make our broliers lay more eggs. You need more chickens than sissy men.

You've a better chance of laying an egg than a boiler.

You are wrong. He's not a sissy.

He doesn't need to hit her back to prove his masculinity or to make himself feel better. That dude simply refused to go down low to her level... Wasn't worth the stress.

The only thing he'd wrong was not dragging her aśs out.

Owned a 140million car but can't even afford to fuel it.

What's the logic in this?



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From your post this girl is —

1. Emotionally abusive
2. The psychotic and violent type
3. Cheating on your aśs
4 . And doesn't love you at all

Yet you dúmb aśs mođafúcker want to commit suicide because of her? Damn. No wonder she called people to come an see the “the idìot and the fóol” she's dating.

How did you even survive up to 300L?

I have no words for dunce like you. But please tell me where the fúck do guys like you keep popping out from?!

Probably because most of them are lazy.

Some consider themselves too classy for petty jobs plus there's a long list of men ready to pay for a warm body.

The pros outweighs the cons.

You'll all be better off financially.
It'll be a mistake to turn down this offer especially since your husband is not entirely against this. Accept the job.

The issue of cheating only comes into play when a man is not disciplined. You know you hubby better than us.

Does he demand sex often?
How close or free is he to other women?
Is he the type to keep secrets? Etc..

If you can't trust your husband, then trust your instincts.

It's not like you'll take her to the altar.
So why does it bother you if she's cheating?

You obviously don't value yourself since you took back a cheat. You forgave her last time around so do it again...

Agreed. It's a scam in the sense that feminism today doesn't advocate for oneness or happiness of women.

Stúpid women are now in control of this once amazing vehicle that was meant to serve as a voice to fight for the oppressed women in countries where even a dog is treated better than a woman!

Now these online ídiots have stride it in a direction of propagating hate against men. Fighting petty things like submission in marriage, terming it slavery and etcetera.

They want women to be treated as men, yet they still demand the special treatment that comes along with being a woman, a mother, a daughter or a wife...

Like Candace said — Ask a core feminist if she's happy.

Cool. We now know why she said “I do”.
He found herself a man that's ready to take care of her.

There's no doubt they'll build a happy home.
If things ended up going haywire, it's has to be his fault.

Tag me when his ministry starts rejecting offerings.

You did this to yourself by marrying a complete stranger.
That was a deadly gamble and look at how it back fired.

Can your marriage still be savage?

Even if you birth his offspring, you'll still wake up to cook his meal, take care of the baby, open your legs for him and still receive absolutely no love from him.

I'd advise you to walk away but your post presents you as someone incapable of making good decisions, lack self esteem and give a too much shít about what people say. This here means there is a great chance you will walk into the same kind of relationship again.

I suggest you take the bull by the horns.

It seems you want to leave so threaten him with that.
Demand a change to his attitude. If you can't face him, just pack your bags. Life is too short to tolerate bullshít.

but am really sorry for killing it...

The way you mashed up it's head says otherwise. :

But seriously bro, the snake you killed actively performs in keeping the population of lizards & rats in your vicinity in check. But now that you have murdered it, prepare to face the invasion of rodents as they'll breed massively.

Soon the competition for food will force them to invade human territory. This means you be taking lectures with rats and lizards as classmates. Cheers.

iamJ:
ordinary 3k
abeg stop wasting our time

if it was 3000 dollars

you will be at religious section, writing a thread on a miraculous find

na poverty go make person still dey carry 50# notes

Guy, start using your brain. You'll not fúcking die.

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Imagine if the roles were reversed. Feminist will...

All religions are branches of the same mighty tree.