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So OP, you want this marriage at all cost even though your man has valid reasons why the wedding should only happen in two years' time? DO NOT let your friends put pressure on you. . . . .this is not about them but you and your man! RELAX!

Hey Gangsta. . . . .how are you doing? How is Mantra?

Don't get me wrong Ejadamen, I love my hair natural but don't know what to do with it in terms of styling, you know when it is not long enough to plait/braid yet not short enough to look cute. . . .I am determined to stay natural though, a break from chemicals is needed so I am sticking to this, hopefully to last a life time!

Hmmmmmmmm, I see you lot had a party in my absence 

Anyway, I am ashamed to be put in the same bracket as ZUMA (shower comments, sleeping with a woman he knew was infected without using protection and MORE and DR Beetroot who happened to be an alcoholic, the woman said the most absurd things about AIDS/HIV and our then President, Mbeki supported her, a low point in SA politics and how the world saw some of these idiotz in charge of the country!  SHAMEFUL! You would swear she was a RUNNER before she became Health Minister!

Bye guys

It's the truth guys, he is probably thinking 190 and dobodobo, Cock and Mobo are busking in the limelight alone so he has to get some shine too

I see centD is on a self promo mission      

I hadn't even noticed your name until now, well done!    

MrLoverMAn:
Thats a sterotype that all Igbo people are light skin lol

Uh, I see! Anyway, we are all black, some darker/lighter than others but it's a non-issue really!

blank:
Your baby is so cute. Looks very igbo to me (maybe cos the child is so fair).

Cheers

Thanks blank, he is still light but maybe a shade or two darker than when he was born. Are most Igbo people light in complexion?

Sorry man, hope you recover soon. . . . . .

As long as the adventure was worth the cost, all is good I guess!

I am a baby when it comes to pain. . . . . .but have a tequila on my tab!

So why are you back with no heart? What happened while you were away?

Sorry to hear that but it too shall pass. . . . . . .have your poison of choice on me

Why are you heartless kpolli?

@ oyinda, surely one is not restricted to dating within the borders of their own country. Love crosses any boundary and a person should be free to date/marry anyone they want to as long they they both want it and are inlove and compatible. . . . .if that is what they are looking for from each other! I just fine it a bit narrow-minded (no offence intended) that you say "Does this have to do with the fact that SA is multiracial? ie i would think that a black SA man who is not satisfied with SA women's attitude have no need to go outside of the country when there are white SA women around."

Ujujoan:
Who is this kill Joy      

Pls some of us need this show abeg. They can always meet up later talk things ova _{and then come back here again with the juicy details!.} Right guy?    

I am messing up a good party hey. . . . . .    

Anyhow, all good!

190 and Omolola, if you guys are trying to get back together, why are you addressing this issue on NL? Is nothing private with you two?

SA Lady:
@PO VOETSEK!!!!

kikikikikikikiki and what brought that on? You know there are immature boys out there so why get mad!

Will do. . . . . .I guess I have to read up on Natural Hair as much as I can. . . . . . .and ask questions when in doubt!

I agree, natural hair is beautiful, I guess I am just frustrated by it's length at present but it is growing beautifully, nice and thick

I will get on with conditioning then. . . . . . . .and will be back here for more tips on how to take care of it, these tips will keep me going!

Silly question from me but I will ask anyway when do I start with the conditioning and treatments? It's only been a month since I went natural, hair still short, ugly short that is!

Inked_Nerd:
Here's a site that can give you a good understanding >>> http://recipes.howstuffworks.com/biotin.htm Its really helps with hair and nail growth.

Thanks babe, I will check it out. . . . . . oh yes, now that you mention strong hair and nails, I recall something from my Biology class or was it Domestic Science

What does biotin do? I am multivitamins already!

This length can't even be braided but hey, I will be patient!

Inked_Nerd:

You know, you can try making your own hair gel to try to help get you through the awkward phase of the hair growth. Hmmm, I don't even remember how I did it. just glad I got through it .

Thanks hun but my problem is not the hair gel but the length of my hair, not long enough to plait and not short enough to look cute. . . . . .and no I don't look like a village girl I brush it and press it down

190:
even if, blade or cutlass sef isnt expensive to buy!!

Then one's sorroundings/environment has a lot to do with the situation!

I dated a guy for a while and every year, he would go on a fast and no physical contact was allowed (for that whole period, 40 days I think it was), it was fine because I knew what his reasons were. . . . . . so OP, if you don't understand the reasons or there is no time frame to the new conditions, then maybe it is time to find another boyfriend!

Bodily hair is unsightly, especially on armpits and legs, eeeeeeewwwwwwwww BUT some like it while others hate it so it is all about what one feels comfortable with!

I can't get a picture of Mo'nique's hairy legs out of my mind!!!

I know what you mean diva, I can't even twist at present but I am determined to stay natural. . . . . .I can't wait to start doing twists and braiding