₦airaland Forum

Yorisb:
It depends on your own picks and your meaning of d word - wonderful?

That was meant to be rhetoric!

Anyway, all good, to each his own!

@ Saga, it is easy for people to talk about what they don't know but still speak with authority. . . . some take this so personally it is not funny but hey, they are entitled to their opinion, some uninformed but still. . . . . . . .

@ Lady, o brave moqhotsa yeo kannete, otla ipona kannete, karma is a cow of note!

Yorisb:
OMG And we wonder why the world has gone into comatose?

And when a say skinny I mean NOT a skeleton or some1 looking like a sickler . . .a size 10(mayb 12 as well) is good and anyone more than that might be considered a neighbor or my Sister-in-Christ 

Kikikikikikikikiki, you make me laugh but surely you have seen fat people with wives/husbands?  You talk as though fat people don't deserve love, they do.  The beauty of life is that there is someone for EVERYONE!  Isn't that wonderful!!!

Been well girl. . . . . . .glad you are well too!

No BB, Nokia it is for me    

All good sweetie, hardly ever see you around here, are you well though?

Hau Lady, ke nahanne hore o busy ka di-site visits

Ne ke hloka motho a tlo nthusa ho lwana le basadi bana ba mona

Hey Creamy

Cock is in love and for once decides to write proper English, I like this woman already! Who is she Cock?

Yorisb:
Erm, There might be but that doesn't mean its their preference?

Some people are not attracted to skinny men/women, that is a fact. . . . . . . instead they might even be turned on by people that are obese, it's not for me or you to understand but it happens!

Yorisb:

Why is so shocking there? Have you not seen anyone dating a fat person before?

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
any gal with class will put ANY other gal to shame and in a different league in my book.
YOU CANT BUY OR FAKE CLASS. . . . . . . . . . . its a state of mind.

PS: if you ask what class is then you DEFINITELY dont have any, lol!

Yorisb:
Who likes FAT girls anyways? or is Plump(warreva) different from FAT?

There are people that actually prefer to date fat people, some like it, others don't!

I have been in a situation where I put on a few kilos one winter and my guy pointed that out to me, I did not mind as I was about to start running after winter anyway but personally, I like to look after my body because I like how it feels so I work hard to get it to a shape and size I want. . . . .it is really not about the guy I am dating. I would not put on weight if the guy I was dating told me he liked fat girls because that is not what I want for myself!

justwise:
Its brotherly 'love'

I see, nice one!

For the first time in my life I see a man calling another "DEAR"

Anyway I know tribal lines are deep in Naija so I will reserve my comment on this topic! Goodluck OP with your upcoming marriage!

I see, thanks Nerd, I shaved all my relaxed hair off and just started from the roots! It was brave of me but I am sponteneous like that

I am currently using Dark & Lovely Scalp Soother with Aloe Vera, seems to work nicely, it even makes my hair soft. I am just not happy with this unsightly FRO but I am not relaxing it this time, it would be so easy to get a "Toni Braxton" cut but I am sticking to the plan, NATURAL it is! I will just come here for some much needed cheering on

Xhosachoc, you sound like an intelligent girl so I am sure you know what you are doing is wrong, very wrong but only you are responsible for your life and decisions you make for yourself. No sin is worse than the other so I will not point fingers, it is your life to live the way you want!

Hey guys,

I haven't been here in a little while, nice to see conversation flowed

Naija Diva/Nerd, what is BCing?

By the way, my hair is getting to an ugly stage where I can't plait/braid it because it is not long enough but also not short enough to look good, ggggrrrrrrrrr. . . . . . how did you guys get past this not-so-nice stage? I look forward to braiding and playing around with my hair!

Looking after my body and feeling great when my body is on point is a lovely feeling, I would do it even if the man wanted a fat woman, then he should have gone for the fat woman in the first place. . . . . .should I pick up weight during our relationship, I will work at losing it because I like being fit and having a toned body, nothing to do with the man!

It is MY body afterall!

Oh dear, trouble in paradise!

190 and Lola, maybe you guys should go private on the fights! Just saying!

You guys are used to the cold so you are ok with it I thrive in the warm African weather, I remember being sickly (colds) for most of the winter I was there. . . . . all good though, I enjoyed my stay there!

So what are you doing this semester since you took time of school?

Shopping puts a smile on most women's faces, the thought alone is enough!

Inked_Nerd:

I'm taking the semester off so no studies for me at the moment. I wish New York could borrow some of your South African weather. . . Its starting to get cold here. Gone are the days when I could walk out my house in short shorts and a t-shirt. . . Now I'm wearing long sleeve shirts and jeans ::[/b]sighs[b]::

NY/Chi Town winter is brutal, I remember wearing coats and hats in winter for about 6 months, I got depressed and just missed the sun in Afrika and eventually came back home!

Enjoy it fully girl, you only live once    How are your studies going?

All good with me, enjoying the summer and minimal clothing   it can get very hot here (SA)!

Hey Nerdy girl, how are you doing?

Been around girl, last week was busy for me so I hardly posted. Are you good babes?

ROTFLMAO

I see I missed a great party!

stillwater:
I saw a video on Nigerian men in SA here on NL, and how the police is always on thier case. Of which many look like sufferhead. If those are the men you guys are dating, I beg you please keep them, hold them tight. We don't want. You can have them for freeeeeeee Besides they are in SA, it's only rational they date SA women.

Those guys have their women, their type, as for me, I would not even look in their direction, my man has to be worldly regardless of his nationality no houseboys/drug pushers for me, thanks!

I see what the problem is with your tpia, comprehension of my posts, you just twist them around to suit you, where did I say I steal people's boyfriends as long as they are nigerians, you are beginning to get on my nerves now, you are beginning to sound really pathetic, NXA!

SA Goddess:
I must say dating married men is a different story all together but if a guy is single and available AND I happen to like him and he feels the same way, Nigerian or not, I will take him thanks

tpiah:
first yall say you steal other people's men as long as he's nigerian.

now you say most nigerian girls date married men.

stick with one script because you sound too confused.


and what's with all the bosom and butt talk all the time? You spend so much effort trying to paint a grander than life picture of yourself it's quite obvious you're trying to cover your inadequacies and shortcomings.




you need to ask yourself what do you have that other women dont. Are your own bosoms three in number while other women only have two? Is your butt square while everybody else' is round?

wetin dey there that makes you think you reinvented the wheel?


it's raining men of all nationalities in south africa yet it's the nigerian men who are always in your eagle eye.

are the other ones invisible or they dont give you the time of day.

Hai maan chick, you got issues and need to see a shrink about it. . . . .I said I was talking about financial gain and you choose to say I said Naija chicks date married men? WTF is wrong with you?  Are you dyslexic or just choose to understand my posts the way you want to? Mxwwwwwm, get a life!

jennykadry:
^^ Yes he must accept the blame as well but for a woman to indulge him in such an abominable act is wicked. Men are silly Hot fellows, ignore them if you know they r married and go for them if they are still single. I dont care if it is modern day prostituion or not but Xhosa should get ready cos another woman is going to take her hsband off from her very eyes. That is why I said she should enjoy it nowwhile it lasts, cos very soon it will come back and bite her so deep and hard that suicide will be on her mind.

What I expected from you was to tell xhisa off in a polite way, telling her or giving her examples isnt right here, she has to know that what shes doing is wicked

And if i can see such a man here as well, he is going to be loosing his manliness b4 nightfall

I get you, I am sure Xhosa is old enough to know what she is doing is wrong, sounds like she does to me but will go ahead and do it anyway!

jennykadry:
Lol as he left his wife for you? nope and he never will, Just stay by anyways. by the time he is done wit you he'd throw u into the trash can. enjoy while it lasts


You are very wrong and misleading here. wACH IT. The fact that most naija gurls are dating married men does not give anybody the right to destroy a home. It is not fair neither is it right,irrespective of the nationality

I was talking about giving cookie for money jenny, (modern day prostitution) I did say dating married men was a No NO for me, it is wrong but people do it anyway! That man must respect his own wife and family and the moment he steps out, he shows no respect and must carry the blame as well!

xhosachoc:
True ,dating married man is a bit base but i was in too deep before i knew what had hit me.I am not out to break the 'happy family' and this is not a permanent arrangement!Basically im just enjoying the attention (emotional and financial) without having to deal with the mundane domestic realities.I dont come from a pampered background so if some Naija dude is kind enough to see me through uni because im pretty and nubile  ,i will lick his backside,poo and all but i will not mess up his family life.I owe him that much and appreciate all he does.Sorry sisters ,this is my personal choice not what all SA women do, so dont judge the whole mzantsi nation.

You are not doing anything most Naija chicks do not do, talking about financial gain while you service the man with your body and he enjoys your perky b00bs!  Some have stated clearly that a man must take care of him if he wants his cookie! I still don't get it but it's not for me to understand!