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Dyt:
mind u dat pics shows obesse nt fat, im fat n hot,proud 2 b,check out my profile

Aish, some M.A.C would have been great for the shine girl, just saying! Or maybe dermatologist! Don't shoot me down people, I am being honest!

@ poster - Love the confidence though, we could do with a bit more positivity around here

Spyker:
Nowadays people cheat on you when they even leave in the same street not to talk of when there is distance. I believe persons can remain faithful to some extent if only the long distant partner does not stay away for too long.

It takes a lot to make it work, total commitment from both parties but I am sure it is hard work!

Ebonyeyes:
@A.mama

That was so not my intention. I just wanted to show that these women are getting some, usually by black males. I quite feel sorry for her though, she is being used and her poor child will be motherless very soon if she continues like this. How can you really call that true love when the man is enabling her to her grave by encouraging her feeding habit? It just like putting a crack addict in a crack factory.

There was a story on one of our local channels about FEEDERS, they are dangerous because all they do is encourage their women to eat and eat and tell them everyday that they (women) are attractive meanwhile they (men) are just twisted in the head and are trying to fullfil some twisted fantasy they have with dangerously obese people!  I don't think it is love at all!

rapstar:
SA Godesss, yea breaking the word responsibly is ok , what if the area is not conducsive and she is one of this shying type will she give you the attention ?

I sort of follow what you are saying but what I was gathering was that you thought if a girl agrees to chat with you on the street, then she is not a responsible person (read lose/no morals/not brought up well) and yet if you chat up a girl at church, then she is "responsible"

Oh, this thread kept me glued to my PC,

Being over weight is unhealthy for both men and women, maitaining a healthy weight is key but it is almost impossible to maintain the body one had as a teenager, regular exercise, healthy eating and drinking water will keep the weight down for anyone but then again, it's different strokes for different folks!

chinedu78:
IF there is really a widespread of AIDS,whats the cause?is it that most people are having unprotected intimacy or what?am thinking of spending XMAS in SA but just kind of scared though,my gut feeling though is the HIV stuff is kind of exaggerated.

AIDS is widespread because people choose to remain ignorant about the issue, why would you come here or anywhere else and meet a random person and choose to sleep with him/her without a condom? That would be irresponsible and risky. People need to learn about AIDS and its causes instead of messing around sleeping with people off the street and then asking in amazement "WHY ME" If you are careless with your life, you will die, whether you are in SA, Europe, US or anywhere else!

chinedu78:
I used to think that ghanain girls had the biggest booty,till a friend of mine(half nigerian/half ghanain) who lives in london told me SA girls hold that title.i visisted africanbooties.com,i think that site is south african.My question is this,does the average girl in SA have asses like those girls on that site or its a rarity?Am an backside lover and i have being intrigued by booty,i love it and would love to be in a place where there is plenty of it,big booty small waist unlike this part of the world where the girls have average booty with big waist.Its the AIDS stuff really as bad as people say it is.a friend of mine in SA told me the girls are freaks and they 4ck like AA

Yes we got booty, the degree differs from woman to woman but the small waist and a nice round booty are synonimous with the southern region of Africa.

justwise:
And u will land on my waiting hands

I would be happy to find someone to break the fall, chances are I would have changed my mind about dying right after I jump off

I would definitely throw myself off a bridge

Ebonyeyes:
You can meet the right person anywhere from the toilet to the supermarket. People keep saying go to church but uhmmmm church folks can be the worse creatures. Most of them are a bunch of hypocritical fakers.

Tell me about those hypocrites, SMH! I also agree that you can meet the right person anywhere, it seems to me people are so set on following rules that don't make sense at all they forget to live and be open to the possibility of good things coming from anywhere!

@ rapstar,

Maybe we should break down the word responsible, what does it mean to you?

Advice your partner to floss daily and use mouth wash in addition to brushing teeth daily, also pop a mint regularly, eeewwwuuuuu, I can't stand a stinky mouth or anyother odour for that matter!

@ poster

What if that is the first and the last time you ever see her, missed opportunity there, wouldn't you say!

Interesting thread,

I say people that curse and name call when they come across intimacy topics are not comfortable with their own sexuality, their being and want to impose their views on others! Why can't we talk about it if we can do it

It doesn't matter to me, BLACK is BLACK and I love black, I am however more drawn to dark chocolate, looks awesome against my caramel skin, I don't think light skinned chics are prettier than dark-skinned beauties, it is just a misconception!

Metrosexual men are the future, I just love them but there must be a clear line between me as his woman and him being the man, I should not have to doubt his sexuality though!

I am always amazed at how women are made to look like the baddies here when the man is just as responsible, remember the man made a commitment to his wife and he should stick to it, if he decides to go astray, he is equally responsible for his actions, I fail to understand why women are always fighting each other, physically or otherwise when they should be dealing with the man!

bk/babe91 - "Aint nobody ever died from "marijuana overdose"!!"

That's the truth,

I still maintain it's about where one finds love/warmth irrespective of where the other person is from, love is love, knows no boundaries!

agabaI23 - "Someone taught you and was not impatient!" That's true but we experiment in our early 20s, I don't think we should still be figuring out sex in our late 20s or early 30s, just my take on the topic!

Enockia - "nobody taught her she learnt from the street"
Wow dude, you say that like you know for a fact that I roam the streets, I will not entertain you because I don't have to justify myself to you, I don't entertain idiots like you!

I would NEVER leave a man that smokes the herb, as a matter of fact I would be happy I have someone to smoke with LMFAO