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Liferace:
I like the way you express yourself SA Goodess, a man will always be a man either white or black or purple or whatever!!.

Hey girl (not sure why I assumed you are a woman)

It really doesn't matter whether one has hips and a butt the size of Mount Kilimanjaro or not, what matters is that people are happy with the choices they make, be it circumstantial or otherwise, life still happens either way!

I guess at the end of the day, a man will go for that which appeals to him, if a Naija man happens to fall inlove with an SA woman for whatever reason, that is his choice, at the same time, you still find Naija men living in SA who go back to Naija to get a wife and bring her back to SA so what works for one man may be a total disaster for another,

"Whatever blows one's hair back" is all that matters at the end of the day, we are all individuals and will definitely have different tastes/preferences/choices, who cares whether a man likes hips or not, as long as he is happy going home to the woman that he chose to spend his life with and share a bed with  !

I am happy with what I got, if that is what attracts a man at first, GREAT but he soon realises that I am more than my curves and butt, I am a woman just like any other but most of all, I AM AN INDIVIDUAL, A GODDESS!   

I buy my own condoms deltalife, because safe sex is my responsibility as much as it's the man's!

I am thinking about, sweet, tender loving!

True, it's a choice!

@ topic - safe sex should always be encouraged and practiced unless one is trying to conceive! Sleeping with people without the use of a condom could send one to an early grave, and 5 mins of pleasure is definitely not worth dying for!

Some of you seem to have some deep-rooted hatred towards SA women, I wonder why!   

Sir DOmbo, are you saying no Nigerian man would marry an SA woman out of love but what they can get out of the union?  I am amazed by such a narrow-minded way of thinking!

What ever makes you happy dude!

chinedu78:
offcourse there is more to a woman that hips and butt,but everyman wants his woman to look feminine and attractive,a beautiful woman makes u want to come home even after a bad day.It also reduces a mans rate of cheating.As for me i will rather have an average girl with big booty than a very pretty girl with average booty.

I get it now!    I will be working on getting this booty of mine rounder

FL Gators:
I really dont know

Interesting but I am afraid my question remains unanswered,

FL Gators:


Lol b/c its more feminine?
Ori e ko pe at all lol

I guess but at the end of the day, we all have the same assets except that maybe our butts are slightly bigger and rounder! It sounds to me like the focus is the hips and butt, surely there is more to us than that?

This is becoming interesting now, can somebody tell me why some if not most men have a fascination with hips and a butt? What is so interesting about them?

I would not want a fanatic, those people can preach at a drop of a hat, and make one feel like an absolute sinner, I don't mind my partner being religious but I mustn't be dragged there when I don't feel like going or can't go, everything has its place!

Are you tall Dyk, I have come across many Naija ladies that are tall with a bit of flesh on them so they carry the weight well, I am not a midget but I am a little lady, most of us are down here though you still come across tall Southern region women!

I really don't see it, we can't all be stick thin, I am not, what I do though is work out (run almost daily) just to keep things working properly and I watch what I eat and drink my 2 litres a day, it seems to work and the goal is not to be like Kate Moss but to be healthy! As I said earlier, we can't still have the bodies we had when we were teenagers in our 20s or 30s!

Dyt:
so wat u gat 2 say abt fat gals

I mentioned earlier that fat is unhealthy whether it's men or women carrying it, and I also acknowledge that we can't have the same bodies we did when we were 20 but we can do our best to keep fit and healthy, a few extra pounds never hurt anyone but dangerously obese is a health risk! I don't think you are fat at all!

Dyt:
free world u know, its ok

peace girl, was just talking from one sista to another, all good!

Ebonyeyes:
Dang SA, that was mean . Mac makeup is really bad for the skin. Girl just get some oil blotters.

My apologies, I really wasn't trying to be mean to dyt,

Dyt:
dude i dont nid u 2 compliment me

I like being called a dude so I will let you continue, I like that!