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CareerRe: Mustafa Balarabe Shehu Elected President Of WFEO by salt1: 11:41am On Mar 16, 2022
Name checker's association members are surprised
InvestmentRe: How Much Should I Take For Hire Purchase In Keke by salt1: 8:46pm On Mar 14, 2022
If I correct you they will say I'm doing oversabi.
The word is hire purchase not higher purchase
TravelRe: The Other Side Of Ebonyi: Through The Riverine Communities Of Ebonyi State by salt1: 8:44pm On Mar 14, 2022
Beautiful scenes
CelebritiesRe: Nigerian Celebrities Mark International Women’s Day With Gorgeous Pictures by salt1: 3:16pm On Mar 08, 2022
JosephXavier:
Women's Day
Girl child's Day
Mother's Day
Mothering Sunday for Anglican Church
Mothering Sunday for Catholic Church
International mothering Sunday
Gender equality day

They should Kukuma take the whole 365 days make we rest
This is very funny ��
They should take all the 365 days?
CelebritiesRe: Trusting God Is Not Always Easy – Davido Speaks On O2 Arena Concert by salt1: 9:58am On Mar 08, 2022
mario2k:
STOP MENTIONING GOD IN YOUR WORLDLINESS,GOD HAS NO BUSINESS IN WORLDLINESS AND MOSTLY ANYTHING THAT DOES NOT BRING GLORY TO HIM.
Take it easy, my dear. There will be surprises in heaven. Davido may turn to God in one sober moment of repentance, obtain forgiveness and go to heaven, while hypocritical Bible-carrying fanatics will not smell heaven's gate.
Christianity EtcRe: There Is No Heaven & Hell - Pastor Abosom As He Abandons His Christian Faith by salt1: 8:11pm On Mar 07, 2022
Poor man! He's confused
Foreign AffairsRe: World War III Trends, Memes (Photo) by salt1: 10:16am On Feb 24, 2022
RapistOnBail:
It already has.

As a matter of fact, no world power except USA wants to put mouth in the case of Russia and Ukraine.

You know why?
NATO has responded. EU has responded too
CelebritiesRe: Crossdresser, James Brown Now A University Student In The UK (Photo, Video) by salt1: 4:20pm On Feb 23, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
She identifies as a lady.. undecided
But became a guy again.
See his dressing
CelebritiesRe: Rosy Meurer Prays For Tonto Dikeh's Son, Andre On His Birthday by salt1: 6:21am On Feb 18, 2022
Lip service! Not a Tonto fan, but she should just leave the mother and son alone. Must she pray for him in public before God will answer?
EducationRe: Has Anyone Ever Left The University A Virgin? by salt1: 6:14am On Feb 18, 2022
Why not? I did. Until I got married.
Not everyone is involved in the recklessness of this generation. Many young people respect their bodies and are also focused and God-fearing
CrimeRe: Man Attempts Suicide After His Girlfriend Dumped Him In Kano (Photos) by salt1: 4:08pm On Feb 16, 2022
So aboki can fall in love.
When they can have many women
CrimeRe: 94-Year-Old Woman Beheaded In Ekiti State by salt1: 10:03pm On Feb 15, 2022
Yorubaland is the headquarters of Pentecostal Christianity in Nigeria. Somebody needs to remind them to evangelize their people before exporting to others.
CareerRe: I Gave My Boss The Shocker Of His Life. by salt1: 1:42pm On Feb 15, 2022
MufasaLion:
I totally understand your situation but I would have not acted like you did, if I were in your situation. People like that should be ignored and avoided at any given chance. You said, he's your immediate boss which means you're probably gonna be reporting to him directly always.

You could have reported him to HR anonymously. Anyways, I'll leave you with two of the Laws of Power :

"Win through your actions, never through an argument."

"Know who you’re dealing with—do not offend the wrong person."

I wish you well.
Win through your actions, never through an argument.
Know who you're dealing with, don't offend the wrong person
FamilyRe: Update On My Husband Leaving Us by salt1: 5:53am On Feb 11, 2022
Crummy:
Amazingbaby I have read both threads and sincerely hope you would listen to what I have to say.

1) it would shock you, but I don't think your husband is cheating on you with that girl you are suspecting, though he might be cheating with other girls but not that one.

2) your husband admires that girl, I think he find her easy to talk to and he connects with her. That's why he was always talking about his business to her at his friends place. You don't communicate well with your husband

3) you deserve an explanation from your husband, but not probably the way you ask right now, men are the easiest people to get if you know their password

4) I think you are paranoid and that is because u don't have much on your hands, once u get a job and something you are passionate with, you won't have much time for unfounded allegations.

5) not giving peace in the home is a thing, a husband should not feel bad whenever he is going home to his family, his house should feel like a home not a battlefield, it's not everything you fight about.. and before you demand transparency,ensure that you yourself is transparent.

6) your husband probably doesn't feel loved or respected in his home,it your duty as a wife to do that no matter what anyone says,why marry someone you cannot love or respect? I think he leaving home for you is for u to come to your senses and beg him...

7) you should apologize for your behaviour, promise to change, listen to him and care for him and see if he would still behave the way he is.. please don't give up on your marriage, I really don't think that girl is cheating with your husband,for her to mention she is a minister and answer your questions well she is not a demon,if u meet ladies ready to snatch your husband you sef go fear.

cool your husband would change once he sees genuine change and trust, it's obvious u don't trust him and it's understandable considering what he did with your friend,but u have to make your marriage work..no fun in divorce....

Thanks..
I gave a wife exactly this advice but it's still not working. Instead, the husband is using the divorce threat to terrorize her life more frequently than before. He even makes it more traumatic by throwing her things out of the house occasionally and ordering her to leave with her children.
If the man has fully decided to get rid of her and try out with another girl, even her trying to be nice to him will be irritating to him.

I know a wife that lost her marriage for being too submissive and caring. Instead of enjoying the peace, the man was irritated by the attention she was paying him.

OP, please ignore him, find joy in yourself and your children. Carry yourself with dignity. YOU MUST TALK THROUGH THIS if the relationship is to last. Begging and burying misunderstanding of this nature just means that they will keep resurfacing and he will keep using the weapon of desertion, divorce and abandonment to keep you vulnerable and insecure. What is preferable is a healthy marriage, not just a long marriage.
PoliticsRe: Court Adjourns Appeal To Nullify Buhari's 2019 Victory, Declare Atiku Winner by salt1: 8:05am On Feb 10, 2022
I can't laugh ��
A younger version of me would have said it was impossible, but I can't predict Nigeria any more
HealthRe: What Can Be Used To Replace Weed Smoking? by salt1: 11:09am On Feb 09, 2022
3 BENEFITS OF SMOKING CIGARETTES !!!

A team of researchers just came out with their findings on cigarette smoking. At the end of the research, they concluded that :

1. Smokers don't grow old!

2.Smokers can not be bitten by a dog!!

3. Smokers cannot be attacked by thieves while sleeping.

Reasons accounted for the above findings were later analyzed below :

1. Smokers don't grow old because they will die young due to lungs damage, as warned by the Ministry of Health.

2. Smokers won't be bitten by a dog simply because when their lungs are damaged they have to walk with a stick every time. Dogs fear people with sticks in their hands.

3. Thieves cant break into the house of a smoker at night because smokers are always awake coughing!

If you like these three benefits, keep smoking or stop smoking or stay smoking!!!
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FamilyRe: My Dad Pursued Me Out Of His House Because I Smoke by salt1: 1:36pm On Feb 08, 2022
Oceanjagaban:
For sending his son parking because he smokes
If you're my 19year old only son who takes cigarettes and Arizona, I would have done worse
FamilyRe: My Dad Pursued Me Out Of His House Because I Smoke by salt1: 1:03pm On Feb 08, 2022
LikeAking:
ur fada is a SIMP.

Give am red pill.

He should warn his GF never to report any of his kids to him, because they will only report bad things.

A man should be strong.

Stay with ur friend.
SMH
Crazy people everywhere!
Stay with his friend who will feed him and pay his medical expenses?
OP, run away from people who reason like this
FamilyRe: My Dad Pursued Me Out Of His House Because I Smoke by salt1: 12:51pm On Feb 08, 2022
Oceanjagaban:
With all due respect your father is a bleeped up man
How? For not remarrying for years so that no wicked stepmom will maltreat his only child? For asking him to stop a dangerous habit which is costly to his health and finances?
How do you people reason? What wrong has this father done to his son?
PoliticsRe: Garba Shehu Hits David Piling Of London Financial Times by salt1: 3:29pm On Feb 06, 2022
If only Osibanjo is allowed to lead. Sceptics like me might vote for him
RomanceRe: Help! My Fiancee Has Mouth Odour by salt1: 7:13pm On Feb 01, 2022
Interesting thread
PoliticsRe: Buba Marwa Buries His Wife, Zainab In Imo (Photos) by salt1: 5:33pm On Feb 01, 2022
Why were they laughing in the pictures?
It's a burial, for crying out loud
PoliticsRe: 7 Things You Need To Know About Anyim Pius Anyim (Presidential Aspirant) by salt1: 4:22pm On Feb 01, 2022
Go Anyim! Go!
TravelRe: IELTS: English Proficiency Test Cost As Against The French Proficiency Test Cost by salt1: 6:06am On Jan 27, 2022
joyandfaith:
I don't think you are that intelligent to be a moderator. The topic is about comparing cost of ietls and French proficiency test. Learn to focus on the topic without derailing.
This is a very unkind attack simply because he has a different view from you.

I didn't know that IELTS test now costs 89k courtesy of our dwindling exchange rate. Trust Nigerians. Instead of holding their government accountable for the crashes, they're blaming an organized government for looking out for their own welfare
PoliticsRe: ISWAP Declares Gudumbali As Its "Caliphate Headquarters" In Borno State by salt1: 12:39pm On Jan 24, 2022
AlexB300:
Dont mind them. Poor southern mindset on this forum. They don’t even love themselves
Exactly! Unlike the Northerners that so love themselves that they've killed 100,000 and displaced a million. They also formed bandits and kidnappers to share this deep love among Northerners.
Christianity EtcRe: Prince Dele Banjo Protests At Deeper Life Headquarters Over Unconventional Music by salt1: 3:51pm On Jan 23, 2022
sgtponzihater1:
This guy's have suffered alot, and this protest probably comes from a place of pain.
They were made not to watch television for a long time
They were made to avoid flashy cloths and things for a long time
Watching movies was out of bounds, except maybe mountzoin movies
Playing jazz, rock and dance music was forbidden
They could not attend other people's churches for music concerts, relationship talks, youth hang outs etc
Only for the Church to change direction 360 degrees, and introduce the same things they denied members for years, and for the Pastor to dine and commune with those he stopped his members from interacting with years ago.

This will be heart breaking for many, especially the old ones who have wasted years living in false modesty, and are now too old and too out of touch to reinvent themselves.

The lesson will be to follow God and not the way of man. As God is the only force that will never change.

PonziHater
You captured the feeling very well. Deeper Lifers have been feeling betrayed since the wedding of that Kumuyi's son that didn't agree with all that they've been taught
FashionRe: Unimaginable Things Women Did In The Past For Beauty (Photos) by salt1: 5:02pm On Jan 22, 2022
You haven't scratched the African attempts.
The tribal marks, the tough fabrics, the painful hairstyles etc
AgricultureRe: Latvia's Iconic Blue Cows (Photos) by salt1: 2:11pm On Jan 20, 2022
Is that colour blue abi I don old?
FamilyRe: I Am Tired Of My Wife by salt1: 8:06pm On Jan 18, 2022
Prospertochu:
I am an OND holder and I live in enugu
You talk about killing yourself as if you're joking. Please stop that. What's with 'if I get her pregnant again, I'll kill myself?'

You can't even divorce her. That's cowardice because you can't father children and drop them on your in-laws.
This is a new year. Learn how to double your hustle. Tough times require tough people
Christianity EtcRe: Prophet Olujobi: Osinbajo Will Be President In 2023. Kanu, Igboho To Be Released by salt1: 12:52pm On Jan 18, 2022
Osibanjo doesn't attract the revulsion that Igbos have towards Tinubu.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: My Dad Pension Is It Worth It by salt1: 6:53pm On Jan 17, 2022
Informative piece

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