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Looks like more men wish to be women.
Any explanation?

Icumsa45:
There are 2 things I want to achieve for my kids, either born them abroad or buy land for them, doing so I have fulfilled all righteousness.

Those are the things you value which may not appeal to them.
Your legacy to them can include quality education, strong religious values and memorable moments of laughter

tpapi:
how does one calculate the ovulation period

Rhythm method: first day of your period to first day of next period is one cycle. Use this to calculate the length of your cycle. Ovulation normally occurs 14 days to next period.

Temperature method: use a thermometer early in the morning taken anally or vaginally. Once ovulation has occurred, there will be a slight raise in body temperature.

Ovulation kit: I didn't use this but I learnt it works

I have 2 girls and 2 boys and I did sex selection. I have also taught many people and they achieved their dream. It is good to have an open mind and to appreciate whatever God gives you because this is not 100% certain but application of Science.
1. Chromosomes: xx chromosome is for girls and xy is for boys. As Obi said, the xy cells run faster but also die quicker than the xx chromosomes. The male sperm cell can also last for 5 days in a conducive environment.
2. Ovulation in the female comes up somewhere in the middle of her menstrual cycle (if you and your wife are highly motivated, she can use a thermometer and take anal readings to determine her ovulation. It is often marked by a slight raise in the woman's temperature). I learnt that the egg survives for just 24 hours within which it must be fertilised or it dies. Also note that ovulation rarely occurs earlier but it can occur later than the anticipated date. The woman's reproductive system is so tied up with her emotions that if she gets upset, it may delay her ovulation. Have you heard of women who stopped menstruating after a bereavement?
3. Getting a boy: to try for a boy, it is advisable to make love AFTER ovulation has occurred. This will give the male sperm cells the opportunity of rushing to fertilise the egg first. A day or two AFTER ovulation is ok since, as I said, ovulation can occur later, rarely earlier.
4. Getting a girl: you can make love 4 days BEFORE ovulation and abstain or use a preventive method for the rest of the woman's cycle. Four days earlier will ensure that all the xy cells have died leaving the female xx to move up to the egg and fertilise it.

I wish you goodluck, but please accept with utmost gratitude what God gives you and love them all

kakaG:
Honestly I was full of tears as I listened to the man speak. Only a married man who has experienced this can relate well with this situation.

I met my wife in 2012 through someone who is supposed to be my best friend. Being a good pretender, she sure covered all her tracks for the first few months after we met. Though we had one or two issues every dating relationship would have we proceeded with our plans to settle down together.

In 2013, marriage plans were already being considered until suddenly my best friend started complaining too much about my wife saying she is this, she is that. He even told me she had bad friends, they flirted, they snatched each other's boyfriend's, they lie etc. I was shocked. I asked him then why he introduced such a girl to me if he already knew she was bad for marriage. Besides, I reminded him we did back checks together when we visited her school at mushood Abiola polytechnic, the area she resided in eleyele and other areas he suggested. Why is he telling me all this now? He had no concrete explanation. I felt it was jealousy because he wanted more access to me than he was getting, probably my wife was pushing him away.

We continued our plans for marriage while my friend pulled out of our lives. I was shocked. Effort to make him reason fell on deaf ears.

In March 2014 I married my wife in Ibadan. My family and I shut down iBadan. We took over fully 4 notable hotels and spent millions. It was a wedding any bride would want to have, in fact, I remember a cousin to my wife who was her brides maid was in the same car with me and my wife when she looked back at the convoy going to our hotel after the wedding and said she would love her wedding to be like ours. I laughed at her comment.

A year six months after our marriage trouble started. My wife would come home from wherever she went to dazed, tired, exhausted et Al. With red eyes as if someone tried to strangle her to death. After many incidents like this I became concerned and decided to follow up. I discovered she was keeping bad company with single female parents old enough to be her aunts. I discussed it serverally with her but she's flair up telling I was trying to cage her. We kept struggling on same subject for another two years or so. She would now come home not only dazed, exhausted or extremely tired but also having horrible armpit smells as well as general sex smell. I couldn't take it anymore.

One night I tried to give it another try and brought up the issue of her kind of friends especially one dark one whom I had now know to have several boy friends. I actually cought her in hotels many times with different men. As usual, she flaired up, took our soup plate (we were having dinner) and broke it on my head. She said enough was enough that she was going to show me. That I was being unnecessarily bossy over her and that I am a control frick. It is a taboo where I come from for this to happen so the issue eventually brought my family as well as hers together for settlement. If only I new, that would have been her marching order. My fear that my daughter (the only child we had then) clouded my judgement and I let her stay after she performed some traditional rites. She layed low for six months and resumed again afterwards.

In 2018 we had our second child, a boy. I can't begin to explain the circumstances that led to this child's birth but thankfully he is mine. She continued her escapade come home very tired to cook or even allow me touch her. When I even convinced her she's use her legs to guide the whole operation making it impossible for me to enjoy intimacy. There are years I slept with my wife only 8-10 times in 365 days. I swear that's correct 2017 and 2018 are confirmed at least. Meanwhile, my businesses of up to 30 million had all collapsed. We were not doing to well financially anymore.

In 2020, I discovered she'd come home and hassle me for sex. I'd refuse her for strategic reasons. She'd try again and again. In two weeks alone it was becoming tug of war so I had one intimacy with her. Boom! After about three weeks or so she bought test strips in front of me and tested herself then told me she was pregnant. My eyes almost popped out. I decided we go to a laboratory for confirmation and it reported she was two months gone already. We argued about the pregnancy at home but I gave way for peace to reign. Every bad thing happened to my wife but two major events stood out. She was crushed to a fence by a car. It was so bad that the fence fell down on her but God as usual was kind. On her dilevry day, she was restorated twice by doctors after she passed out twice. I ran Helter skelter to buy blood for her. She survived.

How we got over 200k to pay for her hospital bill today is still a mistery. She never agreed to share SMS alert of her so called friend Anu in Indianapolis who she claimed sent that money till date.

She was later ejected from her shop which I rented for her on funny claims of eigth thousand naira balance. Can you believe that? I knew something happened between her and her landlady but I had no proof. When I called the landlady she'd shout me off saying I am not a man.

Fast forward. She started working from home. She sews by the way. She'd make Soo much money but will hide it. I was bursting my ass feeding the house and paying bills while she kept her money. I had to start a music recording studio to help meet our needs.

One night on my way back from work, an elderly man near my house and I greeted and he mentioned my wife just entered that do we always plan it? I said my wife at past nine? As I turned to go one of my neighbors appeared in towel greeting as usual I answered and immediately walked fast home. As I was close to my gate I heard my wife gently closing the gate so I wouldn't know she was just entering. I stood and listened to be sure. I then called out for her to open. When she did she wanted to run inside quickly but I stopped her. She was dazed, smelling of sex I confronted her she quickly ran to the bathroom to wash up. Then I knew it was over if didn't want to die Young. I investigated from the Abokis around and they first of all confirmed my wife's suspicious mivents withing the street at night. I also prayed about it and also got confirmation of my wife promiscuity. She had become rude, disrespectful, unconcerned and disconnected. I saw as a mature man she was no longer willing to be a wife. She never bought plates in 3 years. I bought them myself. She'd not clean the house, she'd not buy essential stuff women need in the house. I saw it had ended so I moved out. While I was packing my thing she was reminding me not to forget anything ooo. She was even showing me where my stuff's where. I house I built with my sweat. She didn't contribute a dime chaaiii

She had been sleeping with my neighbor for years and he was funding her.

May God never let you experience what the man above has as a man. It is capable of destroying you.

What an experience! So your friend was right

suffering:
He has already failed. I feel this is OP’s doing. This is Nairaland, sha, nobody asks questions.

I can see the level of desperation. The person is saying may train kill him if he goes back to smoking

Very unfortunate! These people expose the cause of Christ to shame and ridicule

LollySeaSide:
So mammy water now drinks Fanta and Coke?
Issorait!

And counts time after the Christian's Jesus.
Which end of year are they celebrating? Which deity gave them such a way of calculating time? Couldn't the deity choose another time to begin its rival beginning or end of year?

Ultimate36:
I invested my life savings in Agropatnerships and is ending tears

Has agro partnerships collapsed?

BABANGBALI:
check yourself. You’re too troublesome, even satan dey complain about you

Even Satan dey complain about her?
Thanks for making me laugh

Very interesting
I don't like jewelry too

What's her name?

See me smiling. Blood is thick

TarOrfeeek:



If I am a king and I mistakenly marry a Nigerian woman.

She will not stand beside me in picture. She will squat and I will cross my leg on her forehead.

Rubbish people.

You won't smell kingship with this attitude

My story too. Father was a butcher, Mama selling fish. Education changed the story of their child who has now travelled to three continents.
One reason why I feel sad about the collapse of public schools. A child like me wouldn't have gotten to where I am

Source?
Real source not Facebook

potent5:
Anambra no be Osun or Kano.

Mbaka, how market?

I don't know what Ejike Mbaka will tell his followers.

This validates what our mothers told us: that having sex early matures the female too quickly

Finally introducing the real father of her children

Poor girl! She just married an eccentric fellow. Imagine husband advertising your virginity to the whole world

See village!

smartasuen:
No offense but why compare him with Ebuka, why not compare him with yourself?

Because I'm already ugly. Are you now happy?

Isn't he too short?
Not hating but Ebuka beats him hands down

I've downloaded some of the pictures

Good advice

presidency:
As President Muhammadu Buhari visits Imo State, here are few of the infrastructure project legacies of the PMB-led Federal Government:

#PMBinImo
#PMBinSE
#GovtAtWorkNG

Where are the pictures of the project?

helinuesIsaMumu:
Labrotory got me laughing

Ndi quota system

Mulit Purpose

Nuttella:
Yes, I am quite hardworking.

Don't just work hard; work smart too.
Over loyalty can stagnate you.

1Sharon:
Adapted from Dr Peter Hammond's book: Slavery, Terrorism and Islam:

As long as the Muslim population remains around or under 2% in any given country, they will be for the most part be regarded as a peace-loving Minority, and not as a threat to other citizens. This is the case in:

United States -- Muslim 1.1%

Australia -- Muslim 1.5%
Canada -- Muslim 1.9%
China -- Muslim 3 %
Italy -- Muslim 2.5%
Norway -- Muslim 1.8%

At 2% to 5%, they begin to proselytize from other ethnic minorities and disaffected groups, often with major recruiting from the jails and among street gangs.

This is happening in:

Denmark -- Muslim 2%

Germany -- Muslim 3.7%
United Kingdom -- Muslim 4.7%
Spain -- Muslim 4%
Thailand -- Muslim 4.6%

From 5% on, they exercise an inordinate influence in proportion to their percentage of the population.


For example, they will push for the introduction of halal (clean by Islamic standards) food, thereby securing food preparation jobs for Muslims.
They will increase pressure on supermarket chains to feature halal on their shelves -- along with threats for failure to comply.

This is occurring in:

France -- Muslim 8%

Philippines -- 5%
Sweden -- Muslim 5%
Switzerland -- Muslim 4.3%
The Netherlands -- Muslim 5.5%
Trinidad & Tobago -- Muslim 5.8%

At this point, they will work to get the ruling government to allow them to rule themselves (within their ghettos) under Sharia, the Islamic Law. The ultimate goal of Islamists is to establish Sharia law over the entire world.

When Muslims approach 10% of the population, they tend to increase lawlessness as a means of complaint about their conditions.

In Paris, we are already seeing car-burnings. Any non Muslim action offends Islam, and results in uprisings and threats, such as in Amsterdam , with opposition to Mohammed cartoons and films about Islam.
Such tensions are seen daily, particularly in Muslim sections, in:

Guyana -- Muslim 10%

India -- Muslim 19.4%
Israel -- Muslim 16%
Kenya -- Muslim 10%
Russia -- Muslim 15%

After reaching 20%, nations can expect hair-trigger rioting, jihad militia formations, sporadic killings, and the burnings of Christian churches and Jewish synagogues, such as in:

Ethiopia -- Muslim 32.8%

At 40%, nations experience widespread massacres, chronic terror attacks, and ongoing militia warfare, such as in:

Bosnia -- Muslim 40%

Chad -- Muslim 53.1%
Lebanon -- Muslim 59.7%

Nigeria 50% Muslim

From 60%, nations experience unfettered persecution of non-believers of all other religions (including non-conforming Muslims), sporadic ethnic cleansing (genocide), use of Sharia Law as a weapon, and Jizya, the tax placed on infidels, such as in:

Albania -- Muslim 70%

Malaysia -- Muslim 60.4%
Qatar -- Muslim 77.5%
Sudan -- Muslim 70%

After 80%, expect daily intimidation and violent jihad, some State-run ethnic cleansing, and even some genocide, as these nations drive out the infidels, and move toward 100% Muslim, such as has been experienced and in some ways is on-going in:

Bangladesh -- Muslim 83%

Egypt -- Muslim 90%
Gaza -- Muslim 98.7%
Indonesia -- Muslim 86.1%
Iran -- Muslim 98%
Iraq -- Muslim 97%
Jordan -- Muslim 92%
Morocco -- Muslim 98.7%
Pakistan -- Muslim 97%
Palestine -- Muslim 99%
Syria -- Muslim 90%
Tajikistan -- Muslim 90%
Turkey -- Muslim 99..8%
United Arab Emirates -- Muslim 96%

100% will usher in the peace of "Dar-es-Salaam" -- the Islamic House of Peace.. Here there's supposed to be peace, because everybody is a Muslim, the Madrasses are the only schools, and the Koran is the only word, such as in:

Afghanistan -- Muslim 100%

Saudi Arabia -- Muslim 100%
Somalia -- Muslim 100%
Yemen -- Muslim 100%

Unfortunately, peace is never achieved, as in these 100% states the most radical Muslims intimidate and spew hatred, and satisfy their blood lust by killing less radical Muslims, for a variety of reasons.


It is important to understand that in some countries, with well under 100% Muslim populations, such as France, the minority Muslim populations live in ghettos, within which they are 100% Muslim, and within which they live by Sharia Law.

The national police do not even enter these ghettos. There are no national courts, nor schools, nor non-Muslim religious facilities. In such situations, Muslims do not integrate into the community at large. The children attend madrasses. They learn only the Koran. To even associate with an infidel is a crime punishable with death.

Therefore, in some areas of certain nations, Muslim Imams and extremists exercise more power than the national average would indicate.

Today's 1.5 billion Muslims make up 22% of the world's population. But their birth rates dwarf the birth rates of Christians, Hindus, Buddhists, Jews, and all other believers.


Muslims will exceed 50% of the world's population by the end of this century.

See analysis!

TarOrfeeek:
When your Mother In-law wants to continue the quarrels from where you people stopped.

You're very funny!!
Please those with progeria, do they also have adult brains? I expect that grandma to speak in a husky voice

princeSammyz:
Reading through the 3 pages of comments I really feel sad on our destructive disposition, almost becoming typical. Is it a crime she is all covered up? Or that she appears casual? You are there behind a low budget phone typing rubbish about her when you do not know any more about her than her dress sense. God help you. I imagine her going through these comments and seeing all these labelling and obscenity.
Maybe she should just keep her life off social media while she keeps to her calling as a music minister. The hate on here is just too massive

Take it easy! No one is hating her for being covered up. It's just the combination of styles and colours that make her look rather quaint. Those shoes in our very hot weather is a no no