₦airaland Forum

She lost the contest to Sandra Okagbue.
Has Flavour married that one sef?

I would have said super story but what do I know?

What if Tinubu actually pays people to write articles for him, about him and against him just to ensure his name is on people's lips.
Popularity is good. Even negative popularity

ugoboss2224:
Fulani owns what?

Your land. Don't you hear?

Since coro, this man has been rubbing me off the wrong way. I wish he could stop talking

ugoboss2224:
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Size : 3000sqm plots of land

Location: Gwagwalada

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Why sell what you don't own? According to Miyetti, Fulani owns that your land.

OGWILLS123:
change this your mindset ...it's a suffering mindset ...not ever good thing's comes the hard way

Another one! Not every good thing comes the hard way

Cantonese:
Thank you so very much.

Luckily for the young woman the husband by culture has become the father of the baby to be born. Nothing will ever change it even if the child grows up and is told by anybody about the circumstances of his/her birth. The child already has a father, no matter the age of the man. The child will bear the name of the child.

On nairaland you find too many young people with no experience, ready to judge others. I can bet that there are too many here who have found themselves in this same situation and yet the play the ostrich.

Such a move can only be done by people who know what it is.

Maybe her culture doesn't have a place for bastards because every child must have a known father to give the child a sense of identity. Actually better in the long run than the stigma of being called a bastard.
That lady isn't a child. If a full grown woman like her could still have unprotected sex and keep the pregnancy, she's not a victim. She knows what's good for her and her child.

Waiting to read other suggestions

charles009:
Thanks folks, I discussed with her about the paternity test.
She agreed. Will be checking up a few hospitals in Lagos and pricing too.

Will tell wify much later. This has a potential of wrecking my home. I hope it doesn't.

Can I custody the child and atleast my wife wouldn't know, maybe give him to my mum or sister?

Are you all Igbo? If you are, you can't take that son from the man who legally and customarily married the mother. Ask questions first before you destroy yourself

Story story

sisisioge:
Marriages are no longer lasting because times have changed and the incidents are not entirely willing to change as well.

Back in the days, everyone knew their place:

1. Men were absolute financial provider while women were absolutely responsible for house keeping

(Not true. Never. My grandmother was a trader. The few women who were housekeepers were wives of very few civil servants.)

2. Men expected and received total submission, afterall he who pays the piper dictates the tune.

(True. Very domineering men. Length of marriage didn't mean healthy marriage)

3. Men worked, women were either housewives or helped with their husbands businesses.

(Not true. Women controlled trade, crafts and agriculture. I'm disappointed you're repeating these things. Africa didn't have full-time housewives).

4. Men were transparent with their affairs, instead of cheating, they rather take another wife which was totally acceptable by the wives.

(Not true. The men owed no one explanation or loyalty. They ran their lives while the women ran theirs. They only shared children)

5. Men provided the support system required for molding/grooming children.

(Uninvolved fathers. The women handled child upbringing singlehandedly).

6. Because she knew her place, she dared not denied oga seeex. Refer to number 1 above.

(Not true. A wealthy wife said no and nothing happened. The man had other wives to turn to.)

Nowadays, the world has changed. Everyone brings finances to the table. Remember, he who pays the piper reserves the right to dictate the tune. She cant be hustling in the field like you and still be expected to contribute domestic efforts like a full time housewife. Even seex will suffer as shes just as tired as you. It is well sha...Communication and fairness will make things better.

I think what changed is expectations: love came into the equation and faithfulness is expected. The men want their mothers in this century and the women want movie characters.

Many marriages are lasting. Where are you picking your statistics from?
Mine is even healthier than anything my parents experienced

Dubai trip is the funniest

SweetCunt97:
Please let's stop confusing hateful toxic nonsense with love in this country! Wtf! Just imagine the hateful message and you talking BS about love. Mtcheeeew.

Abeg me don't want this kinda stupid love abeg.

Don't run away from home, either. Did you see the level of frustration he put her through? He would leave for a different town and stay there for four days without contacting his family. Which responsible father/husband does that for a minor misunderstanding? She didn't commit adultery or steal. She even searched him out and sent people to plead but he still refused at first. I can't live with a person who's not easily placated. Now she drops one unkind word in anger and here he is making a mountain out of it, ignoring his irresponsible conduct which led to her last desperate move.
Op, please grow up!

dapadawee:
You don't know who Jesus really is
Jesus would have blessed her too
Jesus loves sinners
The woman caught in adultery is a good reference
Jesus didn't come to condemn

Jesus loves sinners who are repentant and he forgives them and gives them power to sin no more. The woman caught in adultery was forgiven for repenting, not for playing the victim. Jesus also instructed her to go and sin no more. He called what she did 'sin' and condemned it by telling her not to do same. I think you need to know that Jesus hates sin, but loves the sinner enough to ask him to stop committing sin.

light099:
Bullcrap.
Is this really news? It's some big news to dumb folks maybe.
This record isn't different from my neighbor's, who broke the record for having the stinkiest shiit in the neighborhood. They both have something in common. And that is, they don't contribute anything to human existence or survival, neither do they affect the ecosystem in anyway.

If Archimedes (PBUH), Newton (PBUH), Kepler (PBUH), Leonardo Da Vinci (PBUH), Thomas Edison (PBUH), Einstein (PBUH) and all others were busy tapping ball inside the net in their days, the world would still be stuck in primitive era, why ya'll dumb folks would have been living in huts and on top of trees like monkeys.

Something I've come to realise is that people are not as smart as I thought. Especially the commonwealth of common sense available to humanity depreciates as each day goes by. That is why the present generation is the dumbest so far, in irony to the tangible amount of knowledge flying around.
A nigga once said, "the world shows off it's knowledge by flying faster than sound, but shows it's lack of wisdom by flying in the wrong direction."
This generation is dumb af, to compound it more, people are still too ignorant af to realize how dumb they're.
That is why the world is filled with so many fcktärds randomly roaming the surface of the planet.
Political zombies who lick the feet of their oppressors, sheeples who're dragged with the noses by the gods of men, pussy simps whose brains are controlled by bitches, a population who worship unimportant entertainers. A dumb generation which ascribe all the importance to trivialities but regard the weighty issues with levity.

And what have you achieved by your super wisdom? What inventions?
I forgot, critics don't create anything but criticism.

AfroKnight:


The way he let it out is funny. But it is a heavy thing to end a marriage.


I began to lose interest in marriage years ago when people whom I respected and who “heard from God” had distinctly unpleasant problems in their marriages; problems that should not be found in the home of “believers”. Some people try to paint it as trials and tribulations but I sincerely doubt that is the case.

Someone who is your “God chosen” wife/husband should not come factory-fitted with some scandalous baggage and tendencies. No. But they do. Why?

Marriage no be by calculation. There are rules of thumb to follow but there’s still a flavour of randomness that can upset even your carefully laid plans.

I observed what I believed were good marriages only for the spouses to confess how they are still together just because the endure each other. You see those sermons ministers give on wedding days, don’t take them for granted. They are even understating the challenges.[b][/b] So what’s the point in enduring one person for 25 to 30 years? Is it just so you can celebrate silver jubilee?

I've been married for years and I'm enjoying every bit of it. So is my spouse. Marriage is life. It throws up the good, the bad and the ugly. Where people like the op get it wrong is in expecting to have only the good and blame their partners when it's not going that way. Are you happy with your life 24/7? Why put the burden of making you happy on another fragile individual. We share our lives, not endure each other. In seeking to make another person happy, you derive the greatest joy.
I know that this forum is filled with underaged fellows who are screaming baby mama. Nothing beats the joy of sharing your life in a committed relationship to someone who's exclusively yours.

They look sad. I think that the girl who's not pregnant is his original girlfriend. He cheated on her with the twin who got pregnant. Their father ruled that both them and their stupid boyfriend should go and live together.
The man is obviously a riffraff

dapadawee:
Sorry is this kunle

Not at all. I'm the voice of conscience. Don't use Jesus name to bless an evildoer. She's involved in premarital sex. That's not what Jesus follower does. Thanks for asking.

agboifeanyi242:
Hotel Room 306 and 402 have been declared WANTED on social media and here is why:

The BBC Ghana has spotted an unidentified hotel room emitting “echoes from the grave sound” – pun intended.

Specifically, room 360 and 402 are both hotel rooms and upon the check, it seems the occupants of both rooms were making love and from the look of things, the guy might end up shifting the womb of the lady from right to left.

The identity of both occupants in the room remain anonymous at the time of putting this write-up together.



But one thing is certain, the ladies in the video were heard screaming in excitement as the guys pound them. The video is currently tending number 1 and 2 on Twitter.



Enjoy the video below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dBl404tidoA
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The trending Room 306

Arewa to the world! Their indices always drag Nigeria backward.
Child marriage, illiteracy, poverty combine to give us our fantastic ratings

dapadawee:
I pray God will restore all your pains with joy. The almighty will make you the head of your adversaries everyone that have mocked or rejected you will come begging in Jesus Christ mighty name. Amen if this is true kunle will come back begging with tears. Sorry my sister

Who is the adversary and the mocker? The victim who's committing fornication and having unprotected sex is her own enemy. Why are you blessing her in Jesus name when she neither believes in Him nor honours Him by her actions?
Tell her to stop committing sin. It has repercussions.

ednut1:
Women need to learn. Men don't get pregnant. Stop having unprotected sex person wey never marry you. Kunle too na heartless being

Thank you! Now Kunle is castigated for not rushing into a marriage he was ill-prepared for.
Those that wait till marriage before having sex are fools to such girls, but they won't have such a horror story to tell.
If you must commit fornication, how costly is condom? Must you risk your womb with abortion or your life in a hurried marriage? Don't you have a better plan for your life?
In fact I'm angry. One silly girl just dropped a set of twins for her exhausted Mom and died. How much is condom if you must have sex so much?

Simplyleo:
Care to mention any state in the East that attracts visitors with proof?

Ochanja Market Onitsha: 3 million visitors daily from Nigeria and ECOWAS countries

All those that came to check if he's pointing at something, gather here.
We aren't disappointed

BusinessCity:
I don't need anyone's money.

I've started it on my little 400k per month income. So quit any antics you're trying to pull

I'm neither on I wise or onmivest. Attack the message leave the messenger alone

You're earning 400k per month, so you don't realize you're among the highly privileged class of young people who are battling underemployment or unemployment. There's no message. You can't identify with the millions who have no capital and no job.

BusinessCity:
A lot


Retail Gas Plant

Food Processing factory

Plastic waste processing

Large scale farm

Garri production

Transportation

Nylon marketing

Yoghurt production

Egg distribution

Paper recycling

Carton production

Nylon and t-shirt printing

Fish sales


Nigerians aren't mentally productive. Give me 2M,i go increase wetin I Don start wey I dey go pay 5N after one year. After two years I go multiply am


Nigerians aren't as smart as they claim abeg

Why will they give you N2m? Use your super intelligence to make the money and keep doubling it from there. Are you not omniwise, omniknowest?

Molahnelson:
Many Nigeria especially the youth are so dump,
Most of them are so short-sighted and visionless.
The always thinking that running to abroad they will become millionaire not knowing that there is already popularize it will hard for you to become a millionaire in US Dollar

It take a smart guy to see that Africa is the last front for breeding millionaires

It weak my heart to see the kind of youth we have here
That why we're still being rule by the same old class, because the youth are so myopic, their thinking faculty is very low, their IQ is nothing, but to Bleep pussy is only what they are good at

So what have you achieved with your super high IQ?
I detest people who talk like this. Many Nigerian youth are enterprising and hardworking. They're the ones coping with unemployment and underemployment. Then someone comes from nowhere to castigate them for being foolish. Carry your rubbish attitude away from here

Tango123:
Listen and listen very well. As for uk, i doubt if what u are saying is true. What usd is what they want to begin to do. They have not started it. I have a student who came to uk january 2020. Her visa is expiringin may. She has to leave. She now is applying for another study. That is her only way of extending her visa

I repeat, what u said is the policy UK WANTS TO START SOON. BUT THEY HAVE NOT STARTED IT YET.

How soon?

Nijagogetsense:
Marriage is not something we rush into like that. Every good thing needs prayer though. Friendships matter a lot, and it's the bedrock of every marriage. I had to be sure, and we got the box ticked. We are taking the walk down the aisle ASAP.

Rush after waiting for eight years! Some women de try

Nijagogetsense:
I don't believe this analysis. My babe get all the full package 100%. To every rule, there is an exception they say. I'm a sapio-sexual being. My babe has a pretty face, front and back 100%, she's smart, God-fearing, intelligent, brilliant, and she has a very good character, she's a philanthropist as well and an empathetic being too. We have been together for more than 8 years now.

8 years plus all these wonderful attributes and you haven't wed her. What's wrong with you?