₦airaland Forum

We continue to castigate and condemn almost every candidate opting to contest for predential election. Who do we actually want to be elected as president of Nigeria?

You need Jesus Christ,not girls for sex Take a wise decision today before it's too late.

The African job seems better but consider how that country is faring currently.

Only God knows the truth. I have nothing more to say.

When has been a slim person has become a condition for marriage? Why are Africans so weired and ungrateful to the work of God. What's wrong with being slim? So, your mum is saying everyone created by God should be fat? I'm suspecting she might have visited a spiritualist where they had lied to her or where she had been manipulated.
Please, go ahead with your marriage plans. If she will disown you because of that sole decision, let her go ahead. After all your happiness is a personal thing.
Happy marriage in advance.

adetula148:
There is this lady I love so much, we work at the place, and we were good but she happens to be a Jehovah witness.

We have been dating for a year and half now but most times I have issues with her texting other guys and she kept saying they are just friends.

You can call me a fool but sometimes you love someone so much that you don't want to loose them.

Anytime I try to tell her about how I feel about her texting other guys giving them impression that she is single and always looking out for someone who happen to be a witness but always tell me it's me she loves and those guys are just her friends . Going out to see other guy's on a date and sometimes lie to me , she get mad and never for once say sorry . And when she says sorry, the same thing repeat itself.

Then I just let go and assume those guys are just her friends and I can't stop her from texting her friends but there is something within me that keeps telling me something is wrong. Like I love her so much but I still have this trust issues ,like I want to be convinced that I am wrong and try work on my trust issues.

Just yesterday I just login to her Facebook because she gave me her phone sometimes to help her format it and restore her apps back but she could not remember her password, so I had to reset it and get them working.

So I login to her Facebook then I realized she has been sneaking out to see another man who happens to be a witness because my place of work . We spend 2 months in and 2 weeks out , even her time off she plan on going to see him yet lied to me she wanted to go write exams and look out for other opportunities and she told me we would see when we out and spend time together .

Like we go on leave and off days same time ,for me we were so close and we even kissed and hugged that same week. Like she was already certain to end up with this guy yet she still call me and tell me she loves me . But one thing about me is I can't keep things to myself I got mad then I texted her .

She greeted me well then I suddenly asked her about the guy . She denied it totally and asked if I had a prove . Then I sent a screenshot then she said "did I not tell you that I can't marry someone who is not a witness then I was like Bleep". This same person we talk almost everyday , see everyday , kissed and do crazy stuffs even at work now say all these to me. Like I almost died yesterday. I told her all this then she said " I just love you as a friend and you are my best friend" .

Then I asked since when ? She just ignored me all through then line busy. I just blocked her and delete her number because she was not even sorry .

Here is my question, why are witness like this ?

This will be my first experience with them and I will say this really hurt me. Like I can't even think well. So a relationship of almost 2 years just a waste?

So all those I love I love you were just jokes? I just pray God heal me fast .

Like I really loved her. Now I don't know what to do. The job I am managing for now we both work there. How do I face her? Like am still looking out for another job but now I just have to leave this job and move on.

I just decided to share this with you all so you can learn from my foolishness and advice me on what to do.

Do have a nice day .

Do, you want to quit your job because of a failed love? Guy be serious and move ahead with your life. Stat praying for your God given wife and put behind you whatever had happened.

Anxiety2022:
I want to know how costly the drugs are. I am not yet on a permanent work. I fear I might not be able to afford the drugs

The drugs are free just like the ones for Toberculosis. Just go to any nearby government health care centers and you would be taken care of. Above all, remember the popular saying,' Doctors care, God heals'
Go to Jesus in true confession and repentance; He will forgive you your sins and heal you.

Only Jesus can help you. Give your life to Him wholeheartedly and He will give power over every ungodly desire. God bless you.

Just keep waiting for other people opinion while you are already seeing the red flag. It's your business and your choice. I have nothing to say here.

Madam celebrity, why attempting plastic surgery when God in his sovereignty has wonderfully created you beautiful. Madam, please, go to God and ask for forgiveness of sin so that your soul would have rest.
This world is vanity.

Madam banker, be careful and always think before you act. You have only heard his own part of the story but had no opportunity to hear from the enstranged wife. Do not allow your thoughts and feeling to push you into wrong decision that you will regret later.
Allow a sleeping dog to lie peacefully. Prayerfully look for your own husband and avoid a heartbreak in future. Let the wise hear and understand.

What you are about to do is an abomination. Don't put yourself in the line of fire please. Go and look for another husband elsewhere and let your sister's marriage be. Enough for the wise.

When will Nigerians learn? I just continue to Wonder.

Your wife is among the reasonable women the world has ever produced. She's afraid of strange women taking over her home in her absence. Kudos to her. Try other relocation plans that would work for all the family travelling and staying together.
E.g. Canada express entry or Provincial nominee program.

Guy, it's your choice vum liability. So, you have to bear the consequences. Or what advice do you want from here?

It's the demon in you that is about pushing you into destruction. Please, urgently control your emotion and flee from every thought and feeling that is pushing into the death trap. You may not believe me but it's a death trap waiting patiently to catch and probably kill or wound you for life.
And to overcome this problem, kindly surrounder your life to Jesus Christ and receive His pardon and power to withstand temptation.
Please, take this advice and safe your life and future.

You are possessed by a witchcraft spirit unconsciously. Go fy deliverance in a Bible believing church to be free.

Some women of this evil generation will not understand until it's too late.

There's no cause for alarm. But make you receive the document needed to apply for permit/Visa issuance from the employer. This is required by the embassy to be in able to issue you the travel document. Do not resign from your present place of work until the necessary documents is your hand.
Good luck.

olabrinks:
I’m going to be real with you sis, you cannot find the solution you want unless you cheat on your husband. Your husband is stuck in his ways, he’s not willing to compromise or sacrifice his beliefs for your satisfaction. Let me tell you the truth my sister, most men just want to cum and sleep. All this extra gra gra is work for them, and like you said they have other things to worry about. This is how most married women feel, men especially become laid back once they are having sex with the same woman over and over again. Married woman to married woman.

My real advice to you is to satisfy yourself with your hands or a toy when you are Hot. Focus on your child and your career. Accept that you can never have it all in marriage. Your partner must lack in one department, it may be sex, finances, compassion, good looks, hygiene etc.. there’s always something. The easy thing to do is to look for that missing thing in someone else. The smart thing to do is to focus on the positives and try to enjoy your marriage the best way you can. You said you are like friends….go on adventures with him, go out clubbing, go to parties.. you will begin to overlook this missing void you’re feeling. This is feeling is temporary, good luck to you.

Be careful of advice some inexperienced folks give you here. Don't go and do what will bring God's judgment upon you because of sex. Whoever is advising you to use intimacy gadgets to satisfy yourself in the absence of your husband not performing to your satisfaction is an enemy whom the devil is passing through to attck your life.
I want to remind you that God created sex between partners for procreation and not for anything else. I am thinking your past life before you got married may not be too clean hence this problem is playing out now. You cannot force a man into mouth action which I see as unclean and my wife too never assents to it in our marriage. Don't allow your ungodly sexual drive or urge to push you into committing an abomination before man and God. Accept your husband the way he is and pray for him to understand certain things rather than bringing him to nairaland here. The solution to your problem is not here but lies within you. Do not allow your sexual past affect your present and future negatively. Be careful not of you do and think for the sake of your children. They are men and women around us who choose to live a life of celibacy. This is telling us that marriage and sex is not ultimate but option. Please,love your husband ay Accord him a respect of an husband.

The wages of sin is death

You are a joker. So, you are wanting for someone on nairaland to tell you what to do?
O just pray you receive the wisdom that would enable you live a long life on Earth. I won't say anything more than this.

Boma, you are playing with fire. And if care is not taken, you may soon be burnt beyond repairs.
My advice to you is to take your eyes off other people's wives otherwise you wouldn't survive the wound.

Biblically, the answer to that question canbe gotten from the following Bible verses.
John 4 vs 34
John 9 vs 4
With these two Bible verses a Christian should be able to answer that question correctly.

Biblically, the answer to that question canbe gotten from the following Bible verses.
John 4 vs 24
John 9 vs 4
With these two Bible verses a Christian should be able to answer that question correctly.

Iamvetlander:
I don't have money to hire a lawyer.Yeah I will contact the police tomorrow. Thank you. And that's why I am using nairaland as a platform Sir

Contact the police? Hmmm. Like father, like son.

And you think you can change them through brutalization. Those flogging them are free from sins and are the righteous ones because they do not go to night clubs? What kind of deception and hypocrisy is going on in the world today due to religious ignorance/ fanaticism. If not that Nigeria is a no man's land and a lawless entity,can this be done in a Sane environment?
Illiteracy is big disease.

This matter is simple. Since he is matured and likes to do things his way, let him go look for an apartment and live an independent life Rather than be looking for a job he is busy sleeping around with a woman in his family house. It's an insult and lack of respect for his parents in the first case. One of the disadvantages of sending young children abroad nowadays.

benuejosh:
Anything to drag Buhari and the government is what some people are after. This is purely sponsored by perceived enemies of the government (Buhari)

Please, do not defend what is not right. That program is a scan. It is an avenue to siphon the nation's Fund. Truth is bitter.