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Thought mine was gentle. Until she did something very wrong and refused to apologize. I broke up and ghosted her. Babe, had to travel from Abuja to the East just to come and pour away the water in my plastic drum and carried the drum ( mind you, I bought the drum from her and paid cash).

I thank God I wasn't at home when she came, probably she would have damaged my appliances and I will probably disfigure her in retaliation.

Openbusiness:
is there any EXPLICIT law in Nigeria that says if you burn your house, the Government will seize the property. Not like flat oh, house that you own separately, a fenced property that belongs to only you. Please share this law make I learn, so that I can be current, may i no b jjc for Lagos

Good point. I await the guy's answer

HeavenlyCherub:
So I’m back for your entertainment �.

I met this guy on ig. He flew me out to Spain. This man was funny. He did a lot for me while I was there. Most times I would ask to help and he would refuse.( please before the silly comments start. I’m very independent and God has blessed me small. I want a man to be part of my life but I don’t need one. This was my attempt at dating again (first date since I posted my last sob story years ago) but every time I open my heart I get burnt. Why?

What is all this? I think I need night vigil �. This man was so consistent when I was there, he was kind, never wanted to leave me or get off the phone the entire time. Catered to my every need. He made several attempts to kiss although I declined at first I eventually gave in after some days. He made an attempt for sex and I turned him down the whole time I was there. We did nothing sexual, he slept on the couch my entire stay. He wasn’t so happy about this but still respected my decision. - I’m tired of doing things my way and now I decided to do things Gods way.

We laughed the entire time, it was a great time. I left on a good note. This man told me he loved me, made so many promises. I actually started liking him back.

Now I’m back in California and I feel like it was once chance. If I tell you this man has gone cold. I don’t know what I did wrong. Is it my ambition/independence that scared him away? Is it the fact I turned him down? How does a man who seemed so into me go so cold? Is it the case of Yoruba demon?

It’s mood swing after mood swing and it’s like I’m forcing him to engage in conversations. He is no longer as sweet as he was before. He barely communicates.

You guys I need prayer for real. I have toasters but none so far seem like the right man for me. I’m tired of attracting bad guys or good time men.

The worst I have encountered are Yoruba. I tire for una. I wash my hand�.

Those who are married. What am I doing wrong? Do I need to down play my education/achievements? Do men give up easy when they can’t have you? Why do you men give out what they can’t maintain?

To bolded got me really pissed. I'm really trying hard not to insult you but pls and pls, don't arm twist God's name into your narrative pls. When you're making financial demands and being lavishly spent on, you didn't remember doing things God's way. Make I no vex for you o

Wtf

duduade:
Neighbor... Brother ke..

No so e dey start..

Then you return the money

Which one is reluctantly accept

Did he force you at gunpoint

Continue to be acting two minute goody tooshoes there o

Don't mind the babe. She thinks Nigerians don't think. Once any discerning being reads this story, you will know that this story is definitely not complete.

If she still has the money she 'reluctantly' collected and the guy is giving her problems because of the money, what is stopping her from returning the money so that everybody goes home happily?

introvert2:
He is my neighbour.

It usually ends in tears. My sympathies in advance

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Lol. She also deserve the good things in life nah.

We all do.

introvert2:
A guy gave me some money which i reluctantly accepted.l didn't even ask for his money.He disturbs me with his own problems taking things from me without permission.He acts as if i owe him something in return.He tells me to do this and that for him.I still have the money with me.people have a motive when they give you things,be it money,gifts or anything whatsoever.He even went to tell people he gave me some money in the past.I don't want to be rude to him.Today,i declined when he came with with his problem.what should i do?.

This your story get k-leg.

Are you living or working with this guy?

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I won't feel comfortable in relationship where I can't go out and see something nice and get for the guy.
I won't be happy in relationship where I have to ask for money for everything.
In fact, without something to give me small small money, I'm.not going into any relationship.
Even if I'm a saint, the man will always find away to make me feel like a parasite.

Don't bother trying to bend a dry stick. She has her mentality and that's not changing soon. I gave up the day I saw her post crying out for any man that will take her to Europe because she's a woman.

mariahAngel:
Would you be comfortable in a relationship where the lady takes care of all her needs and never asks or takes anything from you even if you offer her?
We all know that it makes a man feel good when he takes care of his woman, and you can only take care of a woman if she allows it.
How would it make you feel as a man if a woman you love don't accept gifts from you? Answer honestly, because not all females are materialistic....

To the bolded, yes I will be. Very much. Do you know the number of people I take care of? My dear, if I gift her things and she don't accept, not because she's angry or feel that the gifts are small but because she's feeling for me, my respect for her triples.

See eh, my point is, we all know that a man will buy things, give you money etc but don't ever feel it's your entitlement. Once you start thinking that being a woman gives you the exclusive reserve of asking for money anytime you want or expecting gifts at anytime, your already losing the essence of relationships.

A little story. I met a girl some weeks back. Beautiful lady. We got talking after exchanging numbers. Mind you, due to the nature of my work, we haven't hanged out for the first time. Next thing I saw was a WhatsApp message asking me for money to pay someone she borrowed from. Just imagine that. Someone you met about 2 weeks, you guys haven't even gone on a date and she is already asking for money. I just told her, come to my house and collect it and the rest is history. How can a man respect such a woman?

pocohantas:
Guys think ladies don’t have this fear of social class, we do. There are guys you meet and you will struggle to fit into his class or style of living.

When I told him I couldn’t keep up with such an expensive relationship, he asked why I didn’t tell him and he offered to take over the logistics. It didn’t make sense to me. I am not in 200L. Person suppose outgrow some kind thing. If I need sensible support or giveaway, fine- but I should be able to handle my basic recurrent expenses.

Some of those guys are not even sex-starved, some are just being men. It is in man to provide for the ones he cares about. Except he is an efulefu or he is angered about something.

You're a rare elite in the pool of elitists

Mimiey:
So sad the kind of ladies y'all attract.

Lotta women out here grounding for themselves, so many.

Why haven't you found yourself a decent one who believes in being dependent, who works and also sorts the bill whether she is made, hustling or almost there?

There is a diff between a leech and those who are also trying to make ends meet.

Why are u attracting leeches?

I suppose you're a woman because if you're a man, you should know that your chances of meeting leeches is very high

mariahAngel:
Would a man want to be in a relationship where the lady takes care of all her needs?
How would a man feel when his woman never needs him for anything?

It gives the lady an air of confidence. Believe it or not, a woman whom the man knows that she can take care of herself is revered and respected more by the man.

If a lady can take care of her needs, she will be confident in herself and classy in her personality. It's just natural. I don't respect leeches that much to be honest. I treat them anyhow and if they walk, I move to the next one. Even if you don't have, there's a way you package yourself, and your guy will be giving you at his discretion or when it's important. Once you have a mindset of 'I'm the girl here', my dear people like me won't even tell you. We will just zero our mind, target the fish, chop it, and chill for you to walk

Kalatium:
Classic move

Giving is good. I give. At my own discretion too. But feel entitled to it, I booth you and replace you immediately

She asked me for an urgent 2k, I declined not because I don't have it but because she feels she's entitled to it. Next thing I heard was, 'be there forming fine guy, don't you know I'm a woman and you should be giving, don't go and make money'. I just drew close to her and whispered, this mentality will land you in Shiloh. Bye

Quote your price sir. It saves us all the stress of asking for the price

abdulwassi:
LA Buena Vida is real and life. man making some Cool cash from it. join now and own your life.

Explain the business if you can

Blackaxe16:
Good evening fam.. pls I need advice..... Close to 2weeks now Got bank have not correct my bvn date of birth and I can't apply for youth investment fund. Pls someone should help me.... ( The worst part na the person make do this bvn make mistake oh... See how I they suffer. This thing they give me sleepless night)

Bother yourself not.

It's waiting for onye ajo chi

bukatyne:
I want to understand the rationale behind keeping mute and reacting to issues rather than communicating and responding to them.

Wife doesn't know you are irritated with her dirty habits, you are boiling and will do so till you implode or explode.

You guys would continue till your relationship breaks down and then you both are running from pillar to post.

I love your signature. So damn true

Looking forward to having something like this for SUVs

Their slogan of "BANK OF THE FREE" caught my attention. I'm a customer already and they're living up to their slogan. For now

SUPERPACK:
So Buhari is part of the phishing scam. Visit his twitter account before you make people miss this opportunity.

Don't mind the ignoramuses! Everything in Nigeria is scam for them. Common to use their phone and research about it, na war. Na only to chat woman dem sabi

I have no sympathy for girls. Not anymore. Eye for eye!

Cry me a river

Imagine what one person has. Go to what over 200m people have together, and see the rot. No wonder our politicians don't care about education because they're busy setting up their privately owned ones

A woman that sprays money like that, with that kind of face, most often than not, is evil.

I know! I grew up in the village

Na person wey no know snake dey call am rope

Umuobiligbo ft Victor AD - On God

Nwanne, nwa ga aka nna ya