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SarutobiEky:
The dude you're crushing on.

Hey, you in Lagos??

That's a wrong starting line. Women have bloated ego

devilmaycry:
U will suffer for 600 years

Iseeee

fatymore:
Be the first customer and thanks for the insight...I loff ya

Fake loff.

Coldplayyy:
taah.. Russia - Alabovich / Alabinsky

China - Ala Bi Hoo

Coronavirus84:
You took it personal

Lolz. Nah. We're good.

fatymore:
Nonsense and samakus

Don't advertise your goods in peace. Be there and be asking what offense she committed when she's showing her dumbness all over the social media.

Harmattan is here by the way. Aggressively advertise your goods. Make single men like us buy, use am chase cold. Before we begin reason using the other one as alternative

fatymore:
What's her offense?


If I have a maid I shouldn't be able to send her on an errand?


Awon twitter influencers with their cancellation and their gullible followers will join them

Posting this shit online. What value did she just add?

Nonsense and fatymore

joecabbage007:
Gee nobody sabi the outcome of today's matches, that is why we just predict, a bird in hand is better than ten in the bush. I will advice you to cash out, I believe you have gotten more gain than what you staked.. Cashout and use like 1k or 1500, stake the remaining games.. It is better not to lose than lose all. Thanks

Best advice. I have done that. Voom beta pass writing statement

Vecto:
Cashout is just 6k+ and potential winning is 200k+. The margin is too wide, don't cashout.

Ok

10 played, 10 more to go but the spirit keep urging me to cashout this small one first.

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gunners160:
just as I told u. Oya all d best

Yeah. Thanks

Sorry I can't reply all that mentioned me.

UPDATE::::

After long talks and going back and forth, babe told me she's ready to come to my house instead of going to the place I suggested. And she means it. In fact she's talking about coming this Sunday.

Told her we will discuss that further. I don't just wanna 'chop and go'. I have good intentions about her and I want to think

So, what sayest thou? This is a pointer that I was close to right with my suspicion

Christian07:
Am not ganna lie to you bro the truth of the matter is the place you say to take her to doesn’t seems friendly it sound like a place you take a girl to and end up at your house you should have considered other places like kfc, dominos to lick ice cream or mega chicken etc beside it’s ur first date and for er ppl not to see er is a place Nt meant for everyone


Are you suppose to be drinking beer on ur first date am confuse

The bolded. What tha hell?

Cptflint:
For 10 months now. Some non academic staff of universities has not been paid their salaries.. They have submitted their bvn. Yet ippis refused to pay them.. Their various school administrator has written severally to the accountant General of the federation inviting ippis to their various schools for capturing of their remaining staff. Ippis refused to honour the invitation. And these staff has resigned from their various workplaces and now are suffering in penury. 10 good months without pay.

And u ask if the FG actually care about their workers at all. Ippis should as a matter or urgency.. Go to various universities especially nnamdi azikiwe University and capture these staff.. Their suffering is terrible.

See how you're spreading lies. Can't you say the truth for once eh?

After IPPIS capturing in December/January, Unizik went ahead to employ over 2k staff. Some where even employed in June this year. Because the management allegedly were hurrying to cover slots of ghost workers they have been defrauding FG with since.

Those new staff that went to Abuja to get captured were asked to bring letter of identification from their school and bank statement showing that they have received 6months salaries. Of course, they couldn't provide that.

Blame your greedy institution management for their greed and corruption. Not IPPIS.

Cptflint:
For 10 months now. Some non academic staff of universities has not been paid their salaries.. They have submitted their bvn. Yet ippis refused to pay them.. Their various school administrator has written severally to the accountant General of the federation inviting ippis to their various schools for capturing of their remaining staff. Ippis refused to honour the invitation. And these staff has resigned from their various workplaces and now are suffering in penury. 10 good months without pay.

And u ask if the FG actually care about their workers at all. Ippis should as a matter or urgency.. Go to various universities especially nnamdi azikiwe University and capture these staff.. Their suffering is terrible.

See how you're spreading lies. Can't you say the truth for once eh?

After IPPIS capturing in December/January, Unizik went ahead to employ over 2k staff. Some where even employed in June this year. Because the management allegedly were hurrying to cover slots of ghost workers they have been defrauding FG with since.

Those new staff that went to Abuja to get captured were asked to bring letter of identification from their school and bank statement showing that they have received 6months salaries. Of course, they couldn't provide that.

Blame your greedy institution management for their greed and corruption. Not IPPIS.

gunners160:
She likes you but scared of ur reaction. Its normal to feel insecure and hide certain things because not all men are matured. Some men blow out of proportion. For now, avoid the date so u won't waste money on what you are not sure of. visit her at her place or she visits u at ur place. Joke about the disappointment in d date and how you wish to date her but scared she might not come out plain with you . Attack her conscience..... That all.
I am also planned a date with a Lady, the first time I invited her, she was acting funny. I Snubbed the date idea and start talking on something else, now she is d one begging for the date but I am also using the opportunity to set my own rules. She likes you do be the one to set the rule..

That's experience talking. Thank you bro

victorian:
I honestly dont care

But it sure hurt when i remember once in a while , how i was played .

In this life ehn? Its safe to date from ones state of origin, than take a relationship outside serious . Too many lies here and there

Well i cant be deceived or brain washed anymore . Ive experienced all the lies , guys have to offer. No guy can deceive me to think the grass is greener out there . I thank God for what i have now .

Do u know it took me since 2008( after i graduated from school) till 2020 before i finally got it right in a relationship. Mehn im indeed patient. I told God last year, its either all or nothing. I aint settling for less.

You graduated in 2008? O boy . I was in SS2

You really are indeed patient

gunners160:
To be Frank with you, you are over reacting . And all those yeye advice "like let her be" she has a skeleton in her cupboard etc are what I call children advice. Wait, if she has a bf, is it a crime? Do you expect a grown up lady not to have a bf b4? Habi who goes to. buy clothes in d market naked? Date is an avenue were two adults get to know each other and if you Carr about her, get to knw her beta and ask questions. The answers to those questions is what will decide if she is worth it is not. Tell her you are disappointed in what she did but she should choose the next venue. Shallom

Fair points. Of course I wasn't expecting a boyfriendless girl. Her relationship status matters not to me. I was expecting a little sincerity by the way.

We spoke at length about it and the initial excuses turned to lies. So what sayest though?

EmmySparky:
Op to catch monkey...behave like monkey...atleast compromise before u lick plate...it's just a date...she might have some guys f*cking her there too sha...

What if op doesn't just want to lick plate? What if there was a genuine interest in her?

Mcslize:
If she likes you don't just bother taking her out. Just invite her straight to your grib. She will definitely come.

Once a girl likes you, it makes things easy. You won't do much.

This doesn't work for every girl especially ones you don't just only want to 'chop and run'

StacyO:
Lol
Funny

I guess she's not alone then,though I'm not that holy than thou type,I really do hate it when men invite me to a hotel,popular restruant or what have you for a date.
Strolling or making use of a not too popular place will be much appreciated.



In her case,

1) She might be an introvert,
(I remember when I went swimming at a popular cool spot then,came out and all I could hear was okpor okpor from those around. Didn't actually know the meaning. More like an embarrassing day of my life).
She might just be the shy type and definitely wouldn't want to be seen by familiar eyes or mingle with the crowd.



2)She is a popular aunty there. honestly, she might be well known around that area. Probably trying to not display herself to the other guys she have chopped on a chopping board.



3) She thinks you are after something else entirely. Why invite me to a rowdy place on a first date??
Doesn't make sense



4) She doesn't like the place.
Come on,kill the pride and give her that benefit of doubt.
Not everyone has the same taste or choice as you. It's your money fine,actually makes me think you might be way too controlling and proud.



All ain't the same, try to see others from their own point of view. I personally, won't mind taken a glass of water so long you take me to a place I'm overtly comfortable.


If you think she's hiding some other things,there's absolutely no harm in asking.

You think she's into you.
Why not ask her why she's afraid to come to the so called popular bar?

An elder who knows what to do,won't go about seeking advice from people that will give him/her same opinion.

The bolded though. Got me kikikiki Whatever that means

Anyways, fair points. Worth considering.



Way too controlling and proud? I don't think I am. Apologies if I sounded like that but my insistence and suspicion heightened when her excuses stopped adding up. More like, it became clear she's running away from something.

Romanoff:
Na guy get this account.

The guy dey catch cruise.

Suspected same. That's a manly undertone in the write up

Babara1994:
I'll be turning 40 next tomorrow, but my fear is that I'm a lady and I have no husband at my age.
I had a couple of failed relationships in the past (I must admit my greed and pride caused it).

I really want to know the age menopause sets in and what signs do I look out for, as I'm already consigned to child adoption later in life. I'm really scared. No insults please.

Chai! Another one.

Romanoff:
I am o. Thank God.

Cool. Ngwanu, have a pleasant night rest

Romanoff:
You've gotten it all wrong. I'm not asking you to gift cause of fear of another man taking her.

I'm saying gifting is a way of showing love.

If you don't do it, someone else will. It's not enough to say you care or love someone. Your action can show it.

It can be taking her to have her nails done. It could be a treat to the Spa.

Little things that makes a girl gush and giggle in her spare time.

. Point noted. We're saying the same thing then.

How are you? Hope you're having a good Sunday

Mcslize:
I had same experience with a girl sometime ago. But mine I invited her straight to my house. I no longer take girls to fast food. So she asked for my place and immediately I told her she said she won't come again. I was surprised.

So I started asking her what the issue was. Why she suddenly changed her mind? But she was just beating around the bush how boys in my areas are play boys so and so and that.

I simply told her, that can't be the reason why she changed her mind. I started pressing forward trying to know why. After so much back and forth talk, she finally opened up to me that she has an ex in my area.

So I asked if she was still seeing the guy so she said no. I tried making her comfortable by convincing her that she shouldn't see that as an issue.

When a girl refuses to come over to a place you suggested, there is 100% possibility that she has someone in that area or she has some skeletons she is trying to hide away from in that area of which she doesn't want anyone that knows her in the area to see her.

Well said. Immediately, she made frantic moves to make me change my mind, I knew that this girl dey game . For her eye, I resemble John .

Anyways we move. She likes me sha. I know when a girl likes me.

baralatie:
Summary

You are chasing the wrong woman

And you are using the wrong protocol

Mad oh

czarr:
OGA it depends on what you are looking for, are you looking for a wife or you want to release tension in your balls? if it's that latter then it shouldn't bother you if she has skeletons in her cupboard. change venue and continue parole.

But if you are already Catching Feelings and you want something serious with her then stop and reconsider because from her actions you can tell she is not only from the street, she is from the Galactic highway.

The bolded, it is. And I'm done

WrittyWritter:
D babe dey disguise..she may have a good reason wen she said 'village people'..she probably did not mean her town people but some people dat must not see her there with a guy..it can be her bf..customers ..or family members or friends..

All in all, wahala for who carry her come

BestAccessories:
I only used Lagos as an example sir.

You see, you still have to meet her at place that's convenient for her for the first date.

If it's church, make it work there.

After the initial first meeting, you can move to your next plan.

If she isn't comfortable with the place your suggest for the first time meeting,find a compromise that's both comfortable for both parties.

If you insist that it had to be the place you recommend and she doesn't like it, forget her and go fish for another gal.

Ciao

The bolded has been activated already. Thanks for your advice all the same