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Making Marriage Work:Marrying Aright–Don’t Trade Your Desires:
https://livelystones.com.ng/making-marriage-workmarrying-aright-dont-trade-your-desires/

anything is possible

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hmnnn

definitely!

its well

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hmnnnn

May the holy spirit the greatest comforter strengthen you and your house hold in Jesus name, amen

Editor’s Note:
This is the concluding part of a gripping story from one of our whatsapp group members. We have shared part 1 & 2 of the story (read them here & here). For the concluding part,I want us to start a discussion:Do you think there was anything the man could have done differently?How would you advice him to move on after this?Is there a possibility of his marriage to this woman to be restored?Please drop your views in the comment sections.
Cheers.
Dear Jzhane
For one year and six months I refused to grant her divorce as I kept on begging despite all I had gone true in her hands and also kept on fighting for custody as i was not ready to give up my children for anything or anybody.
THE EYE OPENER.
One day in court a female lawyer called me aside and said her group has been following our case. She knows my wife and they both lived on the same street while growing up. Said she also knows the politician my wife dated before meeting me, that as we speak now, that politician is also in a High Court in his state to divorce his own wife and that she suspects that it is their plan to get married after divorcing their spouses.
She pleaded with me to let my wife go (Grant her the divorce she badly needs so I can have peace and be alive for my children), that at the rate my wife is going, she can do anything to get what she wants. She said as female lawyers her group have engaged my wife several times to back down and make her home work but she has been adamant saying.......


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https://livelystones.com.ng/divorcei-did-every-thing-under-the-sun-to-keep-my-marriage-pt-3/

been seeing stories not not seen anything like this.

OP ask us not to temper with his writing except for their names.

Some women shaaaa

.......part 2

Dear Jzhane,

I was raised in a very strict and religious home. My parents did everything to protect me and my siblings from evil but in my JSS 3,I got pregnant. I was just 14 years old. My parents found out and they almost killed me. I was messing around with a silly boy who claimed to be in love with me. And wanted me to prove my love for him y sleeping with him.

Abortion was out of the way for my parents. I stopped school and had my baby. I became a mother by 15. Life was hard but I made it. Eventually,my parents came to forgive me and I was able to go back to school after two years. Today,my son is 18 years old while I am 33. Dating and keeping a guy has been an issue for me. First,I am of the opinion that I will not have s*x before marriage again. Most guys want the cookie so bad. Second,once guys find out that I have a son,they kinda loose interest fast.

This has made me very unlucky with men. I feel sad that I am getting older and no one has been coming for me. I wonder most times if it was God still punishing me for getting pregnant at 14.However,towards the end of last year, I ran into my elder sister’s ex boyfriend,Ade. They dated for seven years before they broke up. Everyone thought they were getting married once my sister graduated but he got someone pregnant and they broke up.

My sister has moved on and is married with kids now,living in Lagos. When I met Ade,he was surprisingly.....


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https://livelystones.com.ng/is-this-fate-or-punishmentmy-married-sister-is-in-love-with-my-fiance/

Emvico34:
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A cry for help! May God be with you

hmnnn

Dis parable need interpretations dear

donbachi:
Your sister made the right decision....but,if round table no dey work,tell her to try triangular table.

Dear Jzhane,

My wife has always had issues with me having female friends. I don’t have any bad record with ladies previously.
By way of respect for her, I had to tell two lady friends of mine to stay away from me (according to her wish) by way of her getting to know they didn’t mean anything to me and that I cherish my relationship with her more than my friends. Most at times I have a listening ear to people and their problems and I try the little I can to advice them. Eventually we get close since they see my counsel to be helpful.
However there’s this particular lady friend who is more or less like a little sister to me now. I’ve known her during my secondary school days and we happened to meet in the locality I work now. My wife has complained several times anytime this lady calls me, even when she’s only checking up on me. I’ve never been attracted to her since I made her aware am hooked and married. She’s also dating someone else. She has great respect for my wife from day one.

She called me yesterday around 20:30 GMT, (didn’t know why that urgent call though) since I’d initially made her aware I don’t entertain late evening calls (since my wife isn’t usually happy with that). So I ignored her call. My Wife rather got angry that I should tell this ‘little sister’ of mine not to ever call me again. I was hesitant at first but for the peace of my home I called her and told her call time is very late. She only said “sorry” that she wanted my opinion with an issue bothering her.
The next thing I knew was.....see more



https://livelystones.com.ng/my-wife-has-serious-trust-issues-how-do-i-help-her/



Cc: Lalasticlala

j0rdannkyle:
Eiyah!! sorry!!

hmnnn, this is real o ga oo

make sense though.....

MISEDUCATIONS:
i was born nice and i forced myself to change.
its hard coz you're going against your character, but if enough women ruin your heart you get motivated to change

Airforce1:
You get sense

Good day Jzhane,

I am a mess. A horrible one and a liar too. I need your help before I loose the most important thing in my life: that is,my fiance. When I met Steven,it was too good to be true. I mean,all my adult life,all the guys I ever met all wanted me for my body but Steven is an intellectual who wanted nothing but to love me.

And I screwed up big time. We met almost two years ago. On a flight to Dubai. He is a business Consultant. We met up in Dubai during our trip. He was so nice to me and later made his intentions known to me. He wanted to date me. I was cool with that. We dated and for over two months,he never tried to kiss me or anything. I was the first to kiss him. He was such a gentleman.

With sx,he didnt even try to make moves on me. I asked him why. He said,relationships should not be about sx. He said he was cool without it. I thought he was gay for saying that. That made me not to take him seriously. I admit that was stupid of me. But I have never seen a guy who didn’t want my body. This made me see other guys even while I was dating Steven.

That has been me since I have been with Steven. He may not be giving it to me but I was getting it else where. Me,I thought Steven was a fraud…always nice never demanding anything in return. Well, Steven asked me to marry him last month. That was when I knew he was serious about me. I made up my mind to take him serious too. I ditched other guys and focused on him.

And then,I found out.....see more



https://livelystones.com.ng/being-a-slay-queen-is-stupid-i-put-my-engagement-at-risk/

Taking care of yourself and conquering your people-pleasing ways doesn’t give you license to stop caring about other people’s feelings — especially your partner’s.

This article first appeared on SHE’SAID’ and has been republished with permission.

Someone once told me she was born knowing exactly who she was, and she’d never had a problem being herself. She said if there was anyone in the world who had a problem with her, that was their issue, not hers. I remember thinking that I’d never been less able to relate to anyone in my life.

As far back as I can remember, I’ve been trying to figure out what people want from me, and then doing my best to give it to them. I grew up not knowing who I was, outside of who people told me I was: the perfect daughter my mother always dreamed of, the bratty little sister who made my brother’s life miserable, the straight-A student, the good mom.

The idea of someone not liking me, or thinking I wasn’t a good person, always filled me with panic and shame.

But what was a “good” person, anyway? As far as I could see, it seemed to entail always putting other people first, never speaking up for yourself, and apologizing a lot.

It’s still hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that there are people in this world who are so sure of themselves, they don’t care what other people think of them. I’ve spent my life trying to....see more


https://livelystones.com.ng/is-your-people-pleasing-personality-killing-your-relationship/

hmnnnn, good guyz hardly change to bad guyz, cos its in their character

MISEDUCATIONS:
then BE A BAD BOY

Habaaaa, if he cheat you cheat! hmnnn two wrongs dont make a right my dear friend

xendra:
Bleep him! You don't need that crap of a man, threatening you because of sex? If he cheats you cheat na, when you two get tired you get a divorce. Tchwwww crying for what


You obviously married the wrong man

i like this piece..

futuregovernor:
Sit him down and reason like husband and wife. Not everything you should seek for advice,you can handle it please