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 Family › Re: Help Me: My Wife Has Turned Me To A Married Bachelor! by Samuelgr8(op): 9:12pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
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| Romance › I Am Scared I Will Be Alone As My Relationships Never Last! by Samuelgr8(op): 9:09pm On Aug 06, 2018 |
Dear Jzhane, I have a problem. I am 38 years old young lady. I have a good career,I am smart and my friends say I am beautiful. As I grew older,I convinced myself that I am not the problem,its the men who are. How else can you explain that I am 38 years old and non of my relationships last more than six months? I have come to accept the fact that not everyone will get married. Maybe I am one of those who will not get married so I tell myself that I have made peace with that fact. But ma,in my heart,I have to be honest: I really really want to get married. I feel alone even with friends and family around. There is just a void that I don’t know how to fill. Ma,what is wrong with me? I am beginning to believe my mother who says that it.....more https://livelystones.com.ng/i-am-scared-i-will-be-alone-as-my-relationships-never-last/ |
| Family › Help Me: My Wife Has Turned Me To A Married Bachelor! by Samuelgr8(op): 12:34am On Aug 05, 2018 |
Hello Jzhane, I must say,great job you are doing with your blog,helping people build their relationships. I must say kudos! Please help me and advice me. I am married to an intelligent and hardworking woman. I met Boma six years ago.She is smart and a goalgetter. I love her spirit cos she is a driven woman. In the course of my relationship with her,I found out her upbringing had so much influence on how she is now. She was raised in hard conditions because her parents got separated. She learnt to depend on no one early enough in life. While I liked the fact that she was driven,my parents especially my mom and sister thought she would not make a good wife cos it would seem like my wife was opinionated and a very successful career woman. They feared she would not be humble and they tried to discourage me from going ahead with the marriage. But I was bent on marrying Boma and so we got married. My wife is my best friend but I do have a big issue with her. She is truly career driven and I wont be lying to myself to say that is not affecting our marriage. In five years of marriage,she has risen very fast in her career and this has made her increase financially. she earns much more than me and she takes care of a lot of the bills in my home. I earn well but she just relieves me of a lot of financial bills. She is determined never to find herself poor again in her life. My major issue now is,she got a promotion in February. Her new role sees her traveling all over the country and the world all the time. Its affecting our family. We see less and less of her. I did not envisage it would get so bad. Our intimacy has been affected too. I tired several times to communicate to her but she sees it differently. My wife actually thinks I am am being overly sensitive about her not being around. She feels I am not supportive of her growth cos I complain that she is not always around. Truth be told,I love this woman with my life but she is getting really carried away. I am the primary.....more https://livelystones.com.ng/help-me-my-wife-has-turned-me-to-a-married-bachelor/ |
| Romance › Help Me: My Wife Has Turned Me To A Married Bachelor! by Samuelgr8(op): 12:26am On Aug 05, 2018 |
Hello Jzhane, I must say,great job you are doing with your blog,helping people build their relationships. I must say kudos! Please help me and advice me. I am married to an intelligent and hardworking woman. I met Boma six years ago.She is smart and a goalgetter. I love her spirit cos she is a driven woman. In the course of my relationship with her,I found out her upbringing had so much influence on how she is now. She was raised in hard conditions because her parents got separated. She learnt to depend on no one early enough in life. While I liked the fact that she was driven,my parents especially my mom and sister thought she would not make a good wife cos it would seem like my wife was opinionated and a very successful career woman. They feared she would not be humble and they tried to discourage me from going ahead with the marriage. But I was bent on marrying Boma and so we got married. My wife is my best friend but I do have a big issue with her. She is truly career driven and I wont be lying to myself to say that is not affecting our marriage. In five years of marriage,she has risen very fast in her career and this has made her increase financially. she earns much more than me and she takes care of a lot of the bills in my home. I earn well but she just relieves me of a lot of financial bills. She is determined never to find herself poor again in her life. My major issue now is,she got a promotion in February. Her new role sees her traveling all over the country and the world all the time. Its affecting our family. We see less and less of her. I did not envisage it would get so bad. Our intimacy has been affected too. I tired several times to communicate to her but she sees it differently. My wife actually thinks I am am being overly sensitive about her not being around. She feels I am not supportive of her growth cos I complain that she is not always around. Truth be told,I love this woman with my life but she is getting really carried away. I am the primary.....more https://livelystones.com.ng/help-me-my-wife-has-turned-me-to-a-married-bachelor/ |
| Romance › My Husband Betrayed & Lied To Me & Got Arrested On Our Wedding Day by Samuelgr8(op): 12:46am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Hello all, I am a newly wed who is thinking of getting a divorce. I met Fola in Abeoukuta two years ago. He was working with one of the government ministries there. I came on a business trip. We hit it off and started a relationship two years ago. We were able to make our relationship work by making sure we saw each other every weekend. I would either travel to see him or he would come to Lagos to see me. We both agreed that after our marriage,he would resign from his government job and join me in Lagos since I was making more money than him. We planned that he would join me in my business until he is able to get a steady job or start something for himself. My wedding was in April 2018. It was the happiest day of my life. All was going well until that evening of the wedding. We were still enjoying our wedding party after we had changed into our evening wears. Some of our guests and family members were still around. But all of a sudden ,we heard commotion and the.... https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-betrayed-lied-to-me-got-arrested-on-our-wedding-day/ |
| Romance › Re: My Husband Left Me – Twice – I Can’t Get Past The Heartbreak by Samuelgr8(op): 11:49pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
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| Romance › Re: This Illicit Affair Has Been Going On Too Long..what Should I Do? by Samuelgr8(op): 11:48pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
| Romance › Re: My Husband Left Me – Twice – I Can’t Get Past The Heartbreak by Samuelgr8(op): 5:52am On Aug 03, 2018 |
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| Romance › My Husband Left Me – Twice – I Can’t Get Past The Heartbreak by Samuelgr8(op): 12:11am On Aug 03, 2018 |
Mid adult woman sitting on the bed and suffering from a headache My husband and I have been having issues with his endless drinking and womanizing but I stuck to my marriage cos of my children and family who didn’t believe in divorce. In the course of our 11 years marriage,he has left me twice to go live with other women but he came back the first and second time and I took him back. He left me again last year and he is trying to come back but this time,I put my foot down but my family is giving me so much pressure. They believe that..... https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-left-me-twice-i-can…/
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| Romance › This Illicit Affair Has Been Going On Too Long..what Should I Do? by Samuelgr8(op): 10:12pm On Aug 02, 2018 |
My grandmother passed and my dad forced all of us to travel down to Nigeria for the burial. I haven’t been to Nigeria in the last 17 years and I was not looking forward to it. My friend from College,Uman, a Ghanaian thought it would be fun so he convinced me to allow him come along for the trip to Nigeria. Uman and I have been roomies and friends in college for two years now. He is a fun guy. Ladies man and I always joked that his downfall would be a lady. I didn’t know however that day would come under my watch. When we arrived Nigeria,Uman and I hung out a couple of times before the day of the burial. We met several ladies and had a nice time. Finally,we all traveled to Ijebu Ode for the weekend long burial of my grannie. One of the ladies that Uman slept with in Lagos turned out to be my father’s youngest brother’s wife. It was a huge surprise. I mean,this lady is married to my favorite Uncle and she was actually messing up with my friend just a few days before. I felt sorry for my uncle but what could I do,I was not about to be the bearer of bad news so I kept my mouth shut. However,I became conflicted within myself after I found out that this lady was still hooking up with Uman even after we found out that she is a married woman. I asked Uman to stop seeing her but he said.....Read more https://livelystones.com.ng/this-illicit-affair-has-been-going-on-too-long-what-should-i-do/ |
| Romance › Re: First My Buddy,now My Cousin:is This Babe A Runs Babe? by Samuelgr8: 10:34pm On Jul 31, 2018 |
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| Family › Pained Mother Wishes Her Kidnapped Daughter Didn’t Return! by Samuelgr8(op): 10:02pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
The mother of Kamiyah Mobley, who was found alive nearly 20 years after she was kidnapped from a Florida hospital, wishes “they never would have found her.” Though Shanara Mobley said finding her daughter “was one of the happiest days” of her life, they do not have contact and the devastated mother has even blocked her phone number, she told the Florida Times-Union. “We were going to be this big, happy family,” Mobley said. Kamiyah Mobley was abducted shortly after her birth at a Jacksonville hospital in 1998 by Gloria Williams, who admitted she took the baby after her own pregnancy resulted in a miscarriage. Williams, 52, raised Kamiyah in South Carolina as Alexis Manigo, a name she has continued to go by. Mobley told the Times-Union that her daughter still calls Williams “mommy,” they talk on the phone and she considers the people she was raised around family. And though Manigo reportedly continues to send Mother’s Day cards to the woman who raised her, Mobley said her mailbox has sat empty on the holiday. “I don’t deal with disrespect,” she tearfully told the newspaper. Tensions had previously come to a.....see more https://livelystones.com.ng/pained-mother-wishes-her-kidnapped-daughter-didnt-return/
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| Romance › Re: Could I Be The Father Of A Married Woman’s Daughter? by Samuelgr8: 9:57pm On Jul 13, 2018 |
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| Family › Re: Yippee!! We Are Now On Telegram & You're Welcome by Samuelgr8(op): 12:43am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Telegram is a place to beeeee!!!!! |
| Romance › Re: Yippee!! We Are Now On Telegram & You're Welcome. by Samuelgr8(op): 12:43am On Jul 12, 2018 |
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| Romance › My Ex Wants To Spend Her Summer With My Family…. by Samuelgr8(op): 12:33am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Hello Jzhane, Adrienne and I dated like briefly when I was in Uni like seventeen years ago. For like 4-6 months. More like a fling when we were in 300 level. Today,I am married with kids and she too is married with Kids.We remained friends over the years and nothing more. We just say hi to each other once in a blue moon on Facebook. Out of the blues,I received an email from her last week saying that she and her family are coming to the US for summer holiday and she asked if she and her family can put up with my family during her holiday. I asked her if her husband knew we dated in the past,she said no and found no reason to tell him. She told him I was a distant relative and the husband does not mind. I asked her why didnt she find another person,she said the friend they wanted to ask just moved to Paris two months ago….. While I know that its been almost two decades we dated,I don’t feel.....more https://livelystones.com.ng/my-ex-wants-to-spend-her-summer-with-my-family/ |
| Romance › Re: I Feel So Horrible That I Am In Love With My Soul Mate by Samuelgr8: 12:27am On Jul 12, 2018 |
Soul mate indeed! |
| Christianity Etc › Re: The Ignorance Of Generational Curse & How It Is Affecting My Marriage by Samuelgr8(op): 11:42pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
True talk CodeTemplar: |
| Family › Re: Please Help Me Jzhane: He Wants His Wife Back! by Samuelgr8(op): 11:40pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
| Family › Re: I Feel So Horrible That I Am In Love With My Soul Mate by Samuelgr8(op): 11:36pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
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| Family › Re: My Friend Is Stuck With A Man Who Is Deceiving Her,please Help! by Samuelgr8(op): 11:34pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
i quite agree with you. experience they say is the best teacher frozen70: 1 Like |
| Family › I Feel So Horrible That I Am In Love With My Soul Mate by Samuelgr8(op): 8:07pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
Bankole and I were first best friends from school. It was such an amazing relationship. It was the happiest I was ever. We kissed when he came to see me in my hostel one day and that was how we began to date. Bankole,a basket ball player and myself, a football player had our lives set before us. We got signed on professional clubs after school and we got too busy,we couldn't keep up with our busy schedules. Our career was going very well. Eventually,we broke up. Not formally but the constant distance made it difficult and we drifted apart. I don't think we actually believed we we over but it was normal for athletes to have people around and date either casually or otherwise. We kept in touch once in a while so I knew Bankole was in a relationship with an actress. I felt jealous every time I saw pictures of them on social media but I tried to put it behind me. When Banokole told me they were engaged,I pretended to be happy for him but I was so down with hurt and....more https://livelystones.com.ng/i-feel-so-horrible-that-i-am-in-love-with-my-soul-mate/ |
| Romance › Re: I Feel So Horrible That I Am In Love With My Soul Mate by Samuelgr8: 8:06pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
This is deep, love will always find a way |
| Culture › The Instant Noodles Generation: This Week’s Musing By Agie by Samuelgr8(op): 10:26pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Two minutes noodles, pancakes of 5 mins, Pressure cooker to boil the rice faster. Emails to send messages in real time or secs apart. That is the generation I am in. And this bags the question of, with this fast paced technology at my disposal, equipment that my parents and grand parents didn’t have, why does it look like they have and lived a better life than what we have now. Our childhood memories are exactly that memories. The little games that made us children are almost extinct. My nephew will not take his eyes off jimjam and my niece will not stop watching Sopia the first and Lions guard. I remember my growing up days, I always looked for reasons to be outside despite the many slaps that got me. It was fun running down the streets, playing football with tires as the post, skipping robes, tenten etc. Growing up then was not the sole responsibility of our parents. I even have a Yoruba name in my birth certificate. My neighbours chose one for me and my parents obliged them. Maybe I am just ranting and there is nothing to this but I fear daily for what our children are going to be forced to be. Now we dare not leave our female children with....see more https://livelystones.com.ng/the-instant-noodles-generation-this-weeks-musing-by-agie/
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| Family › My Friend Is Stuck With A Man Who Is Deceiving Her,please Help! by Samuelgr8(op): 9:37pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Dear Mrs Jzhane, This one is about my friend o. Please help me advice her cos I have been talking to her but she has refused to listen. I don’t know if she is under a spell or she is just so desperate. Ajoke met Dany in 2012. At that time,he was separating from his wife when they met. Dany has a four year old son from his wife. He and my friend Ajoke started dating. A year later,Dany proposed to Ajoke. Everyone was very happy. Ajoke was 37 years at that time,yes a late bloomer. But the issue was that,even with the engagement,Dany had not yet finalized his divorce with his wife. I mean,they have done introduction and Ajoke wears an engagement ring but the divorce is not finalized. The reason,very flimsy: Dany says he does not want the divorce to affect his son!Can you imagine that? So he and Ajoke were like that until Ajoke even moved into his house cos her parents refused for the wedding to take place cos the man had not yet divorced his wife. On top of that,this man was cheating on Ajoke with several girls. She didn’t believe it until she read his text messages. That was after three years of living with this man as a fiancee not a wife o. This made her......more https://livelystones.com.ng/my-friend-is-stuck-with-a-man-who-is-deceiving-herplease-help/ |
| Romance › Re: My Friend Is Stuck With A Man Who Is Deceiving Her,please Help! by Samuelgr8: 9:36pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
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| Family › Yippee!! We Are Now On Telegram & You're Welcome by Samuelgr8(op): 1:04am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Hello friends & fams, Our telegram group is growing daily and you cant afford not to be in it...We guarantee you, It's the place to be! Learning about intimacy, what & what not to do in your relationship/marriage to keep it healthy. How do you join? Simple, join via the link on the blog stories, alternatively, leave your number here and you be added by one of our admins. Together we are ambassadors promoting healthy relationships/marriages... Note: Do you need help with your relationship or marriage? Send us an e-mail to livelystonescares@gmail.com with your contact we'll be in touch. We believe that true happiness in relationship/marriage is available and attainable if we apply the right principles. Through the word of God.....we are changing the narratives https://livelystones.com.ng/
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| Romance › Re: Yippee!! We Are Now On Telegram & You're Welcome. by Samuelgr8(op): 12:26am On Jul 08, 2018 |
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| Romance › Re: Yippee!! We Are Now On Telegram & You're Welcome. by Samuelgr8(op): 12:25am On Jul 08, 2018 |
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| Romance › Re: I Was Bored But I Made A Horrible Mistake Which Is Unforgivable by Samuelgr8: 8:42pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
No mistake is unforgiveable... |
