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your comment on the blog story will be fine

ZIMDRILL:
Whats the point of copying a story from a another forum? We can not talk direct with person who wrote it, there are few things that might need clarification directly that speculation from responders like us

Same thought here till i discovered they are shameless and have no dignity

chiommy123:
thank God you accepted that women are gifted unlike your friends that call them LovePeddler. but how do such men face their kids

Women are special and supernatural gifted and i respect that, though we few are....

chiommy123:
its annoying. I wonder how such women cope

think i like this advise

MeeLan:
if you touch her, you are a dead man, man!
Never ever ever get laid with another man's wifey.

Burgerlomo:
I don't know the reason why yah uncle didn't join the Vaseline crew, afterall D membership nah free instead of killing himself over nothing

Hello Admin,

This is a true life story. This is the story of my uncle and his wife. My uncle lost his first wife of almost 30 years seven years ago and since then has refused to remarry. He is 57 years old and all his children are grown up and left the home. Eventually,out of pressure,he married a young divorcee of 32 years old who has a son too.

My uncle suffered a heart attack three weeks after his marriage. When he recovered,he was given strict warning by the doctor to take it easy on himself and that includes having s*x. That did not go down well with his new wife as she is young and agile. My uncle in his bid to satisfy her s*xually began to develop high blood pressure which he didn’t have before..

As a result of his health problems,the wife has become scared that he will die and so stopped giving it to him but to meet her needs,she is started cheating with their Driver. This has caused a huge problem between my uncle and his wife. The woman then asked for a divorce but my uncle has refused that.

They brought the matter to my family to settle. My father is the eldest Son and he told me about this. I advised them to let the woman go but they insist that divorce is.....more



https://livelystones.com.ng/i-was-trying-to-help-but-i-am-in-love-with-my-uncles-wife/

Good Evening Admin,

I read your articles on Facebook and I was impressed by your response as well as your readers response to helping people with their problems. Well done,you people are doing a good job. This made me decide to write you about my problem.

My problem is that my wife left me with my three children since February this year. We have been married for almost eleven years. In fact, this coming October will make it eleven years. I met my wife when she was in school and I helped train her until final year when we got married.

By God’s grace,I am doing ok so I told her to stay at home and raise our children and she did that until we had all three children. My eldest child is now 10 years old.Two years ago,when my first daughter was 8 years,my wife told me that she would like to start working. Our last born was four years old. I did not like the idea but just to make her happy,I agreed.

One of my contacts helped her get a job as a P.A to one lawyer. My wife read law too. This lawyer is a divorcee. My wife worked there for like one year before she stopped working because the woman was not paying her salary on time. I then told her to wait a while to look for a better job but my wife became restless. Every day she would be complaining that she needs a job. That I am not doing enough to help her find a job.

To be honest,that was the beginning of our problems. She had tasted work life and to her,it means her freedom. She wanted to be seen as a.....more


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-wifes-attitude-changed-after-working-for-a-few-months/

Floda:
wow..
sounds like my story....

I met dis 2 lovey girls.. blessing and gift(not their real names though).. long story short... 8 months now and I have been dating blessing 4 d past 5month while gift is almost like my best friend.. I tell gift some things blessing don't know about. later on some of my friends and my bae(blessing) started complaining Dat am always wit gift.. we talk 4 so long on d phone, that when we talk it like we are discussing a very deep stuff Dat no 1 should interrupt ( I don't think dis is true Shaa), dat when ever am wit dem all I talk ab2t it gift. I was accused of different things which are not true. I love my bae, she is better than gift but there are some things I feel if I tell blessing she will over react while gift would just be cool. so I prefer telling them to gift making us get closer(i guess ladies like guy Dat tell dem real stuff) .

well I just had 2 reassure bae Dat I still love her and Dat I will be more open 2 her like I am 2 gift..

case closed



personally I don't think it every girl Dat come into a guy's life that needs 2 be dated, some are there 2 be strong friends. it all about knowing who is for which..

AND WHILE TYPING DIS JUST GOT A TEXT FROM GIFT
#CHEEERs

women and first love are like sugar n tea

chiommy123:
you don't expect him/her to just forget him just like that if it was a little thing that separated them

shocking my dear

chiommy123:
why will a matured man be behaving like a baby maybe cos he never suffer well well

Dear Jzhane,

I am a pained woman of 37 years old. I was happily married for four years to a wonderful man. God blessed us with twins,two lovely girls. I adored my husband and so did he but things were very tough for us. We were having financial issues right from the start. It was these financial issues that made my family refuse to allow me marry him initially.

I met Ayoola in my 200 level in the university. We attended the same fellowship and we were friend until final year when we started dating. He was good and kind to me. We both had big dreams but since we left school,it looks like those dreams never materialized.

I got a job after school as a Teacher and like you know,that does not pay much. After waiting for two years without a job,my husband decided to go into business of selling clothes,used clothes. That was what we were doing when we newly got married.

After I had my twins.my husband mother fell sick and she was brought to come and live with us as my husband is her eldest son. We spent all our money taking care of her and living with her and taking care of her was very frustrating,even though we didn’t have much. This brought about a lot of quarrels between me and my husband. We didn’t have much and taking care of his mon sucked a lot of money and the air from us.

Our problems continued until I couldn’t stand having his mother around. The mother too didn’t help matters. She would.....more


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-marriage-hit-a-very-rough-patch-but-i-want-him-back/

it's good sometimes to seek help

Melison:
Do that which pleases ur heart,na u go live with any decision u make! I get enough for my plate already

it's well.more strength ma'am

Good evening Admin,

I just got back from work and I am exhausted and at my wits end. I got home only to find that my husband who has been at home has done nothing but watch video games all day. He left everything and the children unattended to.It is past 9pm and I am officially loosing my mind.

I work in the bank. I met Vincent seven years ago. He came to the bank to make transactions on his domiciliary account and I was very helpful to him. He flirted with me and I went along. In a matter of weeks,we were dating. I found out he was from a well to do home. Vincent schooled abroad but returned back cos his parents discovered he was using drugs.

Vincent could never keep a job since he returned from the US. He was struggling with staying drug free. Most times he stayed sober for almost eight months,sometimes he failed. I didn’t know he was drug dependent until almost one year of dating. His parents were happy he was dating me . They thought getting married to me would make him become responsible.

I also thought I was in love. He made me feel he needed me. He made promises to stay sober if I helped him. I thought I actually could make a difference in his life.When we got married,Vincent lost his job that his parents got for him in a company due to his laziness. He was always turning up late for work.Sometimes he was absent from work for weeks. His parents got so angry and to teach him a lesson,they stopped giving him any money either. That affected me cos he couldn’t provide for me or my kids after that.

I went to the parents to assist and they put the kids on a monthly allowance to assist me but warned me....more


https://livelystones.com.ng/i-am-tired-of-being-my-husbands-mother-for-six-years/

Dear jzhane,

Please keep me anonymous. Very good job you are doing with lively stones.

Well,I have a small problem. Well,its big to me sha. So I am in a relationship with this guy,we have been together for almost a year now and he says we are getting married before the end of this year.

My only problem is,he has an ex who is also his baby mama. This girl is a model. She is very pretty,in fact,she is gorgeous. Tall,fair,slim and s*xy. I mean,even me as a girl,I cannot help but stare at how beautiful she is.And this is really making me insecure. She comes around to see her son sometimes in my boo’s house and they way she be playing with her son and the way my boo acts around her is so tempting.

I have asked him if he still has feelings for her but he says no. That they are just very good at co-parenting. They couldn’t get married cos they disagreed at her choice of career:modelling. My boo says he cannot marry a model who.......more


https://livelystones.com.ng/should-i-break-up-with-him-i-am-jealous-of-her-beauty/

Good morning Admin Livelystone,


Being in your group has exposed me to many things but currently I am emotionally abused. I don’t know if it is a crime to love someone so much.
I have been dating my boyfriend for five months, everything is fine but now we fight almost everyday. What is hurting me now is, he find pleasure talking to his female bestie than me.
In fact his female bestie will be reporting his funny act to me which is making me to feel more hurt. I don’t know what to do because I am so heart broken now and I cried.
I don’t know what to do

Worried Girl


Source: https://livelystones.com.ng/

Ever wondered if you were in a rebound relationship and if your girlfriend is still in love with her ex? Well, don’t wonder too long, these tips will tell you exactly if she is still in love with her ex.

1. She Talks a lot About Her Ex: No matter how secure you are, when your girlfriend talks a lot about her past relationships. I bet it will never seem to interest you. The best you can do is play along, act like you are listening and wonder deep in your heart “If you effing miss him so much, why break up with him, you can as well grovel and beg him to have you back.” The point is too much ex talk means that he’s still on her mind and seriously if you are smart, you should reconsider dating her.

2. She is always keeping tabs on his activities online. If your girlfriend is still interested in what her ex is doing online – his status update on FB or his new pictures on Instagram or she keeps re tweeting his twitter rants, then you should really be worried. She is not over him at all. Imagine she comes to you and say “do you know I found out online who Michael (her ex) is dating now?” Your answer should be “should I tell you now who my new girl is?”

3....see more

https://livelystones.com.ng/these-six-signs-proves-she-is-not-over-her-ex-boyfriend-fiance/

Abi?

ImaIma1:
Since she rightly said that she wasn't getting sex from her husband, why would he think the child is his own?

definitely

light101:
In life, everything comes with a price.

Thanks

legwa10:
i saw nothing worth commenting na

hmnnn, you never can tell. just my tut

gasparpisciotta:
Please quit the marriage, for you have both violated the sanctity of marriage. The child needs to grow in an atmosphere of love, your husband will show more disgust for you once he discovers he is not the father of the child.

Don't understand why human dont always consider the consequence of what they do or about to do first, even with all the story we see, read and here daily. May God help our marriage institutions all around the world in Jesus name amen

absolutely!

donbachi:
Sugar and salt looks alike.but,taste different..choose the one you want...you can't use both same time.

i agree with you. trusting God is all that's required here and not the environmental pressure

chiommy123:
God will certainly make a way for you even where there seems to be no way. you need to trust him on this

newjosboy:
The best thing to do is to get yourself a small chops.

If you know you know.

yes ooo

segmond:
U try

sure bros

donbachi:
The heart is for marriage as body is for clothes

Dear Jzhane,


Please see email from a friend of mine who needs help. Kindly post so he can sample advice from our readers.
The email:
So I met this girl a while back, and we began dating. After work one day, it started raining heavily and it was cold too. So I escorted her to her junction close to her house. When we got to her place, she invited me to come inside and spend the night but I said No, she pleaded and I had to accept.
I went back to my place,eat and came back to hers. Later that night I touched her but she resisted me, I persisted and made another move again and this time she didn’t say anything. So we had s*x. She didn’t want me to come inside her but unfortunately I did. She went to the bathroom after and washed herself. She began to cry all through the night. After this incident,she broke up with me.
I was heartbroken and did everything to beg her. She initially refused but after a colleague of mine helped me to beg her,she later forgave me and we went back to dating. But I noticed she was.....more


https://livelystones.com.ng/she-had-an-abortion-without-my-consent-but-i-still-love-her/

As far back as I know,I have always been plumy. I got big bones and I got used to being got the fatty and all kinds of names kids used to bully me when I was growing up. I developed low self esteem because of this. Even my family members teased the heck out of me.

As I got older,maybe in the university,I began to use the mockery I got for being fat to be funny and make jokes about myself. Some how that seemed to work and I felt a little better that I was already mocking myself before other people even had the chance to mock me. But being fat was unattractive to guys. They were cool with sleeping with me but they didn’t want to be seen with me as their girlfriends.

I work in the media industry and I get to meet a lot of artists and that is how I met Jude,he is a promoter and has been divorced. he was also very broke.I think he married me because of the opportunities he could get through me: you know,connection in the industry and of course,I was more financially buoyant.

Did I care,not really? I was 36 and its not like I was getting suitors whom I could choose from. Jude is not a bad guy either but I knew we were not together for strictly love. I knew he had side chicks. I mean,even on our wedding night,I know he hung out with someone.I didn’t care. I was married and not going to die alone. I would have a child legally too from this marriage.

However,our challenge started when Jude stopped touching me like four months after the marriage. He said he was not into me. In order words,he was not attracted to me s*xually. He would touch me like once in a month and it would be two sloppy seconds!.I was unhappy cos it would be hard to get pregnant this way. Even when I try to let him know I am ovulating so we could try,he would say he was tired.

This continued for......more


https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husband-is-ashamed-of-me-but-i-got-what-i-wanted/

Good morning Sir/Ma

I was referred to you by a friend in Livelystones telegram.He promised to update me on all comments that will follow my question

I am an adult, planning on settling down before a year time.I have been faithful all my life and even a virgin man until some incidence made me compromise.

I lost my treasured relationship last year and after 6 months. I entered two different relationship (all without s*x), but while the first was highly deceptive, the second was manipulative and emotionally traumatizing.

I gave up on relationships.

In between I had s*x (just s*x) with someone on my street who’s a runs gal.

Then afterwards I met another lady (W) and my fear of previous experiences never made me commit but I was gradually building the relationship and it was promising.

Shortly before meeting her (W),

I met a girl online and proximity brought us together.. We had s*x twice. I usually give her money after s*x.

(Note I really don’t like a thing about her…I just gave chances to express my s*xual urge)

The 3rd time we had s*x, (1,2,3 all protected-I always use condom) I decided was the last.

So two days later I decided to......more




https://livelystones.com.ng/i-lost-hope-in-relationships-but-my-rebound-landed-me-in-a-mess/

I agree with you insecurity wan kill him

romenna:
U dnt knw wat u hav u silly man