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Break up with him let him find a purpose .. a man without purpose should find a purpose and stop been a sex addict . And at the age of 26 you should have a serious relationship that will lead to settling down

Men should learn to have abundance mindset so such things should not occur . I personally don't believe in touching random women in the bus ,if you have an abundance of women and you have a purpose you won't even think of groping women everywhere even though konji na bastard,you have a lot in your hands already. Men we can do better

bjdon:
Stalin is actually overrated. He made a lot of disatrous mistakes in the early days of WW2 which lead to the death/caputure of milions of Soviet troops. He was so paronoid and distrustful that he either arrested or killed most of the USSR's best commanders, that by the time the war started they only had loyal but incompetent generals in charge.
It was only when the USSR was on the verge of total defeat that he allowed his good generals like Marshal Zukov take control of the situation and being the counter offenses that drove back the Germans.

you truly know history

Lordedifice1:
Good afternoon Family
What does it mean?
Was chatting with my gf this morning and I asked her to come meet at my house she said NO! That this year no sex that if i can't handle it i should forget about it. Although we had sex last year but this year she just said no.
Well i am not an addict to sex i just told her it's ok that it's been 2months when last we had sex that i can stay away from sex. But its odd anyways and she never discussed anything like this to me she just said it to me this morning.
What do i do guys, because i am thinking of avoiding any form of hug or kiss from her and also thinking of staying on my own.

Experts in the house
Your opinions please

You're not in charge of the relationship, women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas .. if you're her alpha she will tell you Instantly why and will immediately fix another time for you guys to do whatever.. she has seen someone else bro
So whoever a girl is not fucking is her gf just take it like that ,don't you know that a guy can go from bf to friend zone?

Lordedifice1:
I am not a simp don't mistake me for one i have dealt with her mess ups

no bro you are ..I'm really sorry to say,wanna know why?

Burgerlomo:
I really feel sorry for him because he doesn't really understand what he's toying with, though he has a very good intentions but what he does not understand is that he is at the same time playing with fire, a word is enough for the wise.

I'm telling you

Soffyh:
Bthe man reason well, the family is peaceful right now bcuz the man is well providing for them, nobody's knows tomorrow that's why yu shouldn't put all ur eggs in one crate, the man wants the woman to also work and earn abroad, he only use studying PhD as excuse or to persuade her, the man is planning for future purpose for that woman and kids, but I can see local mentality worrying that woman, maybe sh thinks the man wants to send her away to marry another lady,someone that has masters and 3kids is not lazy,but she need someone to talk sense into her brain, even top big millionaire with financial stability, celebrities wife are abroad working and securing better future for ther kids maybe the wife family are discouraging her or her friends

well you're right in a way but then the woman sees the peace and success of the marriage as more important than going after the PhD. some things should just be left how it is , there can be other options . The man has good intentions but it may bite back at him in many forms and hypergamy is one of those ways too.

Seems this man doesn't like how peaceful his family is.. don't start what you can't finish

Weak men everywhere omo

Henry289788:
We had dated for a few months we were in love and everything was fine. Then one day we had a quarrel and she broke up with me..

She said she felt nothing for me anymore and deserved better. She blocked me afterwards on WhatsApp where we communicated the most.

It was painful for me and very traumatizing. It was even more painful the fact that she blocked me. It made me feel worthless. I cared for her and was always there for her. It's been six months and I am finally recovering and moving on.

Then just today I noticed she has unblocked me. She hasn't texted, but I'm really surprised. What does this mean? Should I text her?

seeing posts like this saddens me because why would you allow a woman control your feelings ,and I'm very sure while in the relationship she was the one pulling the strings and she was in charge and it's not supposed to be so ,she broke up with you and blocked you which means something is wrong you we're leaning in on her what do you expect before. Men can do better please and in your next relationship make sure you focus on your purpose in life first as a man ,have options your woman should not be your first priority in life . In that case she will respect you more and will think twice even if a more valuable guy is on her neck and she wants to leave you

Gave our economics teacher the nickname"benayoun " mama can scratch anywhere while teaching

NtoAkwaIbom:
Christians will lambast Muslims and Traditional worshipers and other religion that their world view is myopic, yet restrictions are placed on what should or what should not be learnt.

Is it not the same thing when Book haram says education is haram because some of the knowledge inherent there leads to self realization ?

I believe in Jesus, but I have read other religions and even a book on the early life if Jesus, books which will make you doubt everything.. Its after you have read this books and still decide that the path you are following is the right path, is when you know that you *"chooses"* the path, not you following blindly because your parents or all those around you says you must..

Else you will be a zombie, as you follow blindly read everything, then subject all of them to good criticism, only then can you come to unshakable faith and believe.

Hello sir I like your kind of person but not everyone will come through like you did..you have the grace of God in you ,it shows that you are really grounded in the faith but don't encourage others to follow this same path

larryking540:
u kw what is called emotional manipulation ? that's exactly what you just described

I swear bro I commented the same thing and I didn't see this your comment. This is how men are manipulated into simping and that's why most relationships and marriages don't work nowadays because men are too weak

The man is feminized

Lies and manipulation

bjprodint1:
It depends on d character of d other partner.some of us love calling it a quit 2 test if d other partner really loves us(we seek 4 attention).sometimes we call it a quit when we are angry(we dont really mean it),but when ur partner uses sweet words like(my queen,babymalt,sarauniya,temi,my diamond),it resets our brain and we realise dat we cant really live without our joygiver...So begging is not simping,it makes a woman feel special.

when one little lad told me "uncle I have two money " and baba was dancing while showing me two five naira

The way this generation celebrates nudity online

And he payed bride price o
See what this world is turning into

Hongkog:
Reno talks too much jare, you can be whatever you what and still be a Christian. Its a free world.

ogbeni go and sit down Christ has put rules don't change the word of God

Pochettino:
Because your mothers could take severe beatings in silence.

you're not smart at all na people like you dem dey talk about

ALMUSTAQIM:
THE FG/RCCG IS GIVEN 24 HOURS TO MAKE NECESSARY CORRECTIONS

A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE

ode you're unimportant

Joan of Arc is supposed to be first in this list

Ubunja may you live forever

Thanks and God bless you Ubunja

With all the problems in Nigeria today this uncle op problem is to remove the cross in health logo chaiii misplaced priorities

Zimri:
DEFORMITY.
CAUSE: OF INBREEDING.

so this also happens to animals mad o

Mastakija:
is she an amaphodite

the thing tire me

Kingscee:
Yes the op is correct, but I'm browsing and downloading freely with my MTN Sim, so Airtel can rest for now, no money to buy data for now

how did you do it bro

What is really wrong with our igbo women ..always maltreating little kids at the slightest grievance calling them witches or starving them .the government really needs to look into this issue and people shouldn't birth kids they can't cater for

You guys have not seen simping in Bollywood yet

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