MyVILLAGEpeople:


The battle line has been drawn.

Oshiomole will deploy everything within his arsenal to make sure Obaseki doesn't actualize his second term ambition. But of a truth, Obaseki really fuucked up by going against Oshiomole who brought him into power. Oshiomole fought against forces to make sure he became governor. Nobody should quote me and start saying nonsense. Nigeria politics is full of murky terrains.

obaseki should have secured his place for the second time before fighting osho. It will be tough for him.

Who took the photo while they were playing those days?

Queenyprinxex:
They can't snipe nada.

lol, these guys are good, cos they well trained. Their bosses sabotage their efforts.

For me the guys choice should be easy to make , that is to move to Canada, he's still quite young. I'm also. In d same dilemma unfortunately I'll be 40 this year work a federal establishment . Annual salary after tax over 12m . It's a ministry that will continue to exist as long as nigeria exists so job security is 100% even if d country is shut down for 6 months d ministry where I work will continue to pay complete salary without shaking. But I'm fed up with nigeria , u wake up and here how people still billions and u know perfectly well they won't be prosecuted, u hear how poor villagers are massacred in their sleep and u know perfectly well that no one will ever be prosecuted for the killings, you see nepotism in high places and u know that it will never end in nigeria. As we draw closer to 2023 again d whole country will be set on edge again over which region d president should come from. The cycle of uncertainty just continues. But the thought of starting all over again in canada can still be scary. So a lot of us are in the guys shoes. My prayer is that God continued to direct our steps.

True, not easy starting over. Naija takes the Sanity of a man.. A lot of crazy stuffs!, Better to move out.

BlissB:
and that woman should be your friend....more reason you shouldn't marry because she is very pretty you con forget the friendship part...... Perilous times will definitely come and that love and friendship will guide the both of you in those times.

yeah,always best to marry your friend!

BrownLondon:

Would you rather look for a new job or be a slave? Even if it's labourer

Remember you were once the provider?

lolz, u talking to a female. She's a girl

What are your own Flaws

From their comments you will know who the average thinking Nigerian is. Truly, Nigerians deserve the kind of govt/politicians they get, the difference is just the opportunity to get the same power the politicians hold. OP find a way to let the Mgt bring in an auditor, I think that's best.

Michelle55:

That's not the biggest mistake huncle..
What if she's working and not supporting the home front in any way?
What if all the responsibilities still falls on you as the man despite having a working class wife?
What if she doesn't encourage nor inspires you to soar higher than you were before ?
What if she doesn't give you the maximum peace of mind you deserve as a man?
What if all she does is spend all her earnings on herself, buying the latest bags and clothes and attending high societal functions and not caring to acknowledge your presence in her life?
Trust me, there's a lot to marriage than meets the eyes.
Just ask your maker for direction when you want to settle down.
She might be working yet feels entitled to your money..
Marriage is 50/50... All hands must be on deck to ensure the smooth sailing of the homefront.

Nice one Mitchell, it's a 50/50 thing. Well said girl.

Acmepreneur:

I can do that for him, but I don't have. Hes the one that can do that

well if u got the bizness plans he should get the funds, cos u got the motivation and things will get better before the marriage. You know him better though, wish u luck girl.

Lol, u sound like a nag. If u so love him, gather money from him with what u got and start a business and then you be in charge. Don't kill d brother.

Marine54:
I prefer opening Bank act with out ATM because of temptation....

lol, but u can still go and collect your ATM whenever u want. Just like OP cut open his piggy bank cos of Hunger. Bank is still better.

MrBrownJay1:


whether out of anger or not, the minute she says the above you better watch out as she has completely lost respect for you...

as for you saying this man should step up his game, thats rubbish! this man should be himself and not try to be someone else. if she doesnt like who she is, let her gfto, as any smart man knows that there will always be richer/better/ more comfortable men out there, and if thats the type that your babe is seeking, then let her go and be with them...

as if men knowingly make less money in their lives as a "choice", lol!

well said

MrBrownJay1:


whether out of anger or not, the minute she says the above you better watch out as she has completely lost respect for you...

as for you saying this man should step up his game, thats rubbish! this man should be himself and not try to be someone else. if she doesnt like who she is, let her gfto, as any smart man knows that there will always be richer/better/ more comfortable men out there, and if thats the type that your babe is seeking, then let her go and be with them...

as if men knowingly make less money in their lives as a "choice", lol!

well sais

pansophist:
All of you blaming the man, the woman is also to be blamed here. She left a guy with potential for the poster, perhaps, she is trying to secure the bag, and finally realized that the bag she left was filled with gold, while the present bag was filled with, well, make I no talk

The real question here is, if her ex haven't improved financially, will she have any regrets? If her present husband suddenly becomes richer than her ex, will she still have regrets and wish she was with him? Both of you got served. For you the poster, you dont snatch peoples gf for conversion to your wife, and for your wife, she is greedy, instead of watering her own greens, she believed it's better on the other side with you.

Hypergamy is a womans best friend, but also can be her worse enemy. No fuxks given. As as you lay your bed, you shall lie.

well said

Humanoid01:
She agreed to date you while she was dating someone else due to impatience and greed, what made you think she would want to continue now that she knows he's now doing better? What exactly did you expect? You approached her when you knew she had a boyfriend and even went ahead to propose marriage to her. SMH!

The both of you are getting served what you ordered, did you expect any less? Don't even put the blame on her for what she said, you're both responsible for this. It'll only take a miracle for that love that was once there to be revived, 'cause her regrets alone (especially when she keeps seeing what he does) will make life miserable for you both.

You married a materialistic woman, and it's shocking to know that you didn't see that before now, or perhaps you did and you decided to ignore it, which is even more shocking.

Ironically, most guys' experiences that have been told here are actually ones where they are the victims. It would be very interesting to see the victim in this case narrate his story here lol.

True, u said it all. That's if the story is true. They both getting served, people don't know why they getting married lately, they just get married. Most are of age, but not Mentally Fit to handle the pressures of marriage. It's sad!

Nwanyiogwashi:
[[s]quote author=jerryunit48 post=89737474]Oh boy wetin dey happen to Okowa now ehhh ? Delta State na oil producing State o. Kudos to my Akwa Ibom people [/s] our working governor okowa is fixing what Urhobo and itsekiris governors couldn't fix.

Hey he saying the truth... Okowa is sleeping!

Racoon:
This ship is a frigate? Cheap glorification.NNS Aradu is too old hence should be decommissioned.Others like NNS Thunder should lead the charge.

Yeah bro, NNS Thunder is cool. The Nigerian Navy need more sophisticated warships!

Wiseandtrue:
We entered one chance with Buhari!!!

I hope we will be smarter in preventing his likes from rigging themselves in the next election

Military or no military

lol, Nigerians can never be smart. They will vote somebody worse than Buhari.

Naija246:
women don't care about your struggles,they hang around at the finish line and pick the winner's

while a man has to "become" to get anything worthwhile in life, a woman is just "is"
All she has to do is appear beautiful and get stuff handed over to her.
It's really sickening.

On point

africandictator:
Some days ago, my friend who happens to be a tailor nearly lost his young life. A girl he has be wooing for months came over, and in the process of their romance he layed his head on her thighs. They were fully clothed, the stench he told me came out from her private area still lingers with him till today. He has started taking his bath like five times daily, but he is not recovering. Now he has mood swings and I am suspecting he is going into sucidal soon. I don’t even know what to do, bacteria is fucking up every girls sex life especially in Lagos.

OP just bashed ladies more. Crazy guy

That's not cool.

PoliteActivist:


But Oshiomole has money, so does Ned and whole bunch of others

lol, what do I know bro. I feel depends on how it is been used, or priorities. Lol, u got point tho.

Dino looks old, money reveals beauty in people.

oluwasegun007:
Choiii


What a reaction..


Sometimes I just wish living in Nigeria is just a dream and that one day I'll wake up in Canada and be like " what a nightmare"

Same feeling bro.

frozen70:


Am hearing this from a human being for the first time

For the fact that you dont have feelings for both the living and the dead makes you a dangerous species to be with

Seek the face of God first

Then you will gradually appreciate what he created

He is really dangerous! good he knows it is a bad thing now. Maybe it is not intentional his environment and some circumstances made him begin to act this way, Maybe. Hope he finds help somehow

Liliantalks:
To me the problem with us good girls is we want commited men , we do not want to give our bodies to unfit men , n when we meet a man we like we can sex them with out money n that makes us vulnerable so broke guys like decent girls cause they r cheap n vulnerable , promising them marriage n all , knowing they will buy it. but the run girls put money first , think whatever they do not care ,,, n money on a woman’s Pusey validates her worth , that’s the truth

lol, "us good girls". OP good and decent girls don't always make better wives, some are wicked and stone-hearted. Most of them are not even good partners cos they are rigid, runs girls or decent girl, everyone is human, and all got something special!

Trayceey:
Lol...y'all saying lend him, give him, dash him. Am I his mother? Doesn't he have family members? What if I wasn't in his life? The relationship ain't even up to a year. I have sorted him out with some food stuffs lately and also gave him some little cash and he still wants to borrow that sum from me. So easy for You guys to say. guys are not to be trusted.

lol, you just confirmed this is a cooked story.

SSam01:
Better! So that we in the abroad can also receive something though it cant be compared to the $1,200 stimulus checks they are dashing citizens here.

E dey pain me

May God make me a citizen sooner than I expect IJN.

Babythicksme17:
You are wucked

if the story is true, then OP is just a crying baby. , he can't do nothing, but all same wish him well on his deserved journey , stay safe @ #Babythicksme17

Babythicksme17:
Baba said game on!!I pity the girls wey go jam this agbako,he don vex.

he can't do nothing ,girls will still use him