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Health / Re: Leg Ulcer by sandra50(f): 7:06am On Apr 17
I have gotten someone already..thanks all
Health / Leg Ulcer by sandra50(f): 4:10pm On Apr 16
This is for people that have leg ulcer(Acha ere,decayed leg)not diabetes please.
So I have an uncle who treats this very well and I want to open a page for him in regards to that and I want to do it with real videos and pictures of his work..so if you have Acha ere/ decayed leg that is not caused by sugar you should send me a DM..I will pay for your treatment until you are healed..just one person.

The ones he healed before now he didnt take a picture of them because he doesn't use a phone that has camera so I want to document this one but your face wouldn't show..I know how much he charged the people he healed in the past but I'm ready to pay for the lucky one..I wouldn't be answering many questions please just send me a Dm like I said you wouldn't be paying for anything at all..thanks
Romance / Re: When DNA Test Messes Up Beautiful Homes by sandra50(f): 10:32pm On Sep 27, 2023
I don't understand what you mean by sex that you had few days to your wedding or with your ex.will some one have a wedding without knowing about the wedding at least two months to your wedding?why would you have sex few days to your wedding?what is bringing that kind of thing in the first place?
ebubeson:
When the sweetest marriage of a faithful wife is messed up by DNA issue! Do you know that some of these women whose marriages were destroyed by DNA issues may be 100% faithful in marriage? But what messed their marriages up may be the last sex they had with their EX or someone few days to wedding their day, leading to pregnancy....Mind you, when the devil perceives your beautiful Marital future, he may remind your EX to come and assist you in destroying it.

So before you think you are smart, weight the options and the likely future damages you may bring...

Just imagine your beautiful home with lovely kids, loving husband, good prosperity, you all living in a mansion with sufficient things and cars, then all of a sudden something happens and a child is tested for DNA, then the child is not your husband's own but your EX.

Think through!!

Business / Re: Please I Need To Know by sandra50(f): 4:44pm On Jul 23, 2023
Ok..thank you
dbestuncle:
Ibilo is good enough
Business / Please I Need To Know by sandra50(f): 10:50am On Jul 23, 2023
Good day house..please i'm planning of starting garri distribution in bags.i intend to be buying from Edo state(ibillo)who knows about this market or is there a bigger/better garri market in Edo state?please someone should put me through.thanks
Romance / Re: We Broke Up But She Still Calls Everyday. Is This Right ??? by sandra50(f): 8:08pm On Jun 19, 2023
This your comment funny ooo..what do you mean by if you were weak she will still be under your roof?someone that packed out of your house?were you the one that asked her to leave?you were even going to beg her when she left.
After having sex with her new boyfriend severally they first day she visited you had sex with her..you picked her call,booked an appointment with her and had sex with her and you say you are not weak?you actually brought this here because you want to know if she loves you because she never did not that you want the call to stop.they last thing you will do is to say something that will hurt a woman..they woman that has been cheating on you?did she think about your feels too?

My dear she is not coming back because of the sex..she is coming back because you take care of all her needs which the other man is not doing
Webdevpro:


I wasn't weak... If I was weak, she'll still be under my roof till now. I'm just asking of a nice way to stop her from calling.
Religion / Re: Do You Believe Jesus Will Come Back Again To Take His Saints? by sandra50(f): 12:51pm On Jun 11, 2023
Who is jesus?you people really don't want to set yourselves free from the lies the white man told us..I grow up believing in the jesus nonsense because immediately I started questioning and researching I was able to free myself..you people call a man like yourselves..a man born by a woman here on earth your God..don't you have working brains?white men brought lies to us,called your brother(jesus)your God and you all believed and throw away your ancestors..you call their ancestors saint's (saint Paul,saint Barnabas,saint Michael)and the rest but when i mention my grand mother's name while praying you people say the living and the dead have nothing in common but you and dead saint Michael have something in common.
They brother a book full of lies(bible)and their fake God(jesus)and told us to be taking instructions from that book before we do anything but same people that brother the book are the ones that stole our ancestors while they were returning..free yourselves from this bondage
Family / Re: My Mum Bullying My Dad Is Getting Out Of Hand!!! by sandra50(f): 4:07pm On May 28, 2023
If you don't do anything your dad is going to die of BP..this was how my beloved uncle died..he told me he wanted to run away but couldn't and he had stroke which made him a vegetable then he died..if it's the wife that sent him home before his time because she wasn't going to stay at home and look after a vegetable while her boyfriends are waiting for her outside.scolding your mother will not even stop it..you all need to have a family meet or you can have a meeting with your dad and mom and give your mother a serious warning Infront of your dad then have a one on one discussion with your dad that anytime your mom bully's him he should tell you..even your dad needs to get away from your mom.
aidameoryou:
Your suggestions are genuinely needed 🙏

Hi my people good day, I have been having a thorough thought all in my mind and have been boiling inside of me on what next step to take.

Over the years, I have seen my mum really been hostile to my dad and it's getting out of hand for me to bear.
I am the first son of some siblings and in my mid 20s.
I live apart from my parents in another state and one of my junior sibling who went home for a little break from school was complaining bitterly about how my mum attitude towards my dad is getting out of hand.

My father has to be the most responsible, respectable, reasonable man I ever know, he doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't womanizer. He has been the sole breadwinner in the family from when we were small up till this time.
His work isn't moving very well as it used to back then and as such he cannot cater very well like he's used to and even though at that, he's been trying his best....
My mum just doesn't appreciate him enough and I've seen this a million times.

My next line of action is to call my mum and give her a serious scolding because she hasn't been warned sternly about this by any of my siblings before.
This is getting out of hand and I cannot bear it anymore, please what do you all suggest I could do in this situation

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Politics / Re: Commissioning Of Dangote Refinery: Peter Obi Arrives Lagos by sandra50(f): 3:05pm On May 22, 2023
Your mama did..
lhordspy:
Who invite am?

Attention seeking clown. Man just like to always be in the news. No wonder his people want to turn the Court house into Big Brother Naija season 10.
Family / Re: My Wife Hates My Daughter From My First Wife by sandra50(f): 9:50pm On Apr 27, 2023
You are just a silly man..from what you have written I already know you are a vegetable in that house..you didn't make it known to her that she must not play with your daughter before you married..someone that treats your daughter badly in your presence has no respect for you and I can't imagine what she does to her when you are out..what kind of love is that that you can't protect your child from her..your type can't even send a woman out of his house..this is exactly what my uncle's wife did to him until he died.keep being a pussy there
Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

Education / Re: IELTS: Share Your Experience, Ask Your Questions, Tell Us Your Score If You Can. by sandra50(f): 5:39pm On Apr 11, 2023
Thank you
slimanyd:


Yes. But the best thing is to write it down as u listen directly to your answer sheet. It really helped me during my time.
Education / Re: IELTS: Share Your Experience, Ask Your Questions, Tell Us Your Score If You Can. by sandra50(f): 6:59pm On Apr 09, 2023
Please are you allowed to write down some key words while having the listening test on the exam day?
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 10:08pm On Mar 31, 2023
Admin please ban this account.
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Politics / Re: Election: Nigerians Get USA's Permission To Hold Protest Opposite White House by sandra50(f): 11:45am On Mar 31, 2023
Which side does falz name show that he is from you bloody tribalist Tinubu paid agent
inoki247:
Lol the organizer names don show which side his coming from....
Romance / Re: Lady In Shock After She Got Dumped By Boyfriend For Not Flushing The Toilet by sandra50(f): 2:27pm On Mar 30, 2023
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 9:35am On Mar 30, 2023
How difficult is it driving her to her father's house if she is not behaving?
frozen70:


You think it's automatic to send a woman with children out and back to her father's house

Its something you have to apply wisdom with
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 10:12pm On Mar 29, 2023
His refusal will react to what thing?did her own refusal react to anything then?if she passes her boundaries then he should send her back to her father's house
frozen70:


I understand how you feel about her treatment to your mum and eventually she passed on because she didn't get the care you have planned for her due to your wife refusal to cooperate with her

Now it's her mums turn, just allow her to come the one let her provide her needs while you focus on the family needs as usual

What she denied you off is what she is requesting your approval to get, such is life

Your refusal may react to another thing
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 10:07pm On Mar 29, 2023
Who is this one?are you the wife in question?his mother would be so sad in her grave if she allows her wife's mother come live with them
Dindondin:
Send her away n let your daughter in-law send you away in future
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 10:03pm On Mar 29, 2023
What fear of the unknown?ok she is scared of her husband's mother not to harm them?well same goes to the man..he is scared the wife's mother will harm him..
Neweramify:
Op your wife was wrong, but try and understand her fear. Most women feel inconvenient around their mother inlaw. Not because she hates her mother inlaw but for the fear of the unknown.

Let her know how you feel knowing she wanna bring her mum in when she rejected your mum. I'm sure she will feel remorse of her action.

Permit her to bring her mum, cause if anything happen to the old woman, she may accuse you of one thing or the other.
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 10:00pm On Mar 29, 2023
If you ever let her mother come stay with you then you have failed your late mother as a son and she will never be happy with you where ever she is..you allowed your wife send your mother away in your own house and now that your mother is dead she wants to bring her own mother..for me if this is going to scatter the marriage then let it happen but her mother should never come to that house..didn't her mother know when she was sending your own mother away..what was her contribute?she didn't know she would get old some day?
ozalogbo:
I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.

However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.

Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.

Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.

What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 9:55pm On Mar 29, 2023
This your advice does not make sense..what peace?do you know if his mother would have stayed longer if she had allowed her stay?now the man needs to forgive for what peace to return..let the peace go forever if it wants to..let her siblings pay someone to stay with her..if allowed her come stay..what you couldn't do for your own mother then you have failed your late mother.. women always think they can have their way around everything
ojun50:
Discuss with her and remind her how she treated yr mum, then tell her to give you time to think about it.

In the end still allow her mother to come and stay for peace and unity.

Every married man should understand that the wife is not your blood so expect anything expectable but is children is his blood.
Politics / Re: Protests As Agberos Increase Daily Fee For Buses To N13k In Lagos by sandra50(f): 4:40pm On Mar 29, 2023
It's a family issue.make una settle.igbos better not tell them what to do in their Lagos.
Politics / Re: Armed Herdsmen Attack Ogbese In Ondo, Kidnap Residents, Brutalise Others by sandra50(f): 11:11am On Mar 26, 2023
Shut up and talk about what the post is talking about..if Igbo's never kill you you no go die..I thought Igbo's are the problem..you are calling the woke Yoruba's to come and see what?to come and see your stupidness for calling Fulani that have been killing your people for years for years.Oga they are coming to you soon and those of you that fought Igbo's
Aldol:
Igbos are rejoicing,they are extremely happy. Foolish woke yorubas,I hope you are seeing

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Politics / Re: Armed Herdsmen Attack Ogbese In Ondo, Kidnap Residents, Brutalise Others by sandra50(f): 10:59am On Mar 26, 2023
Are you among those that fought and said Igbo's should leave your lands that we are taking over?if you are among then forget you prayer because what you people did to Igbo's will reach you all one after the other but if not then God will protect you and those of you that stood for truth
OmotolaBoy:
Heal our land oh Lord
Politics / Re: Armed Herdsmen Attack Ogbese In Ondo, Kidnap Residents, Brutalise Others by sandra50(f): 10:51am On Mar 26, 2023
You took words out of my mouth..you are really a mind reader..I don't know why Igbo's are this heartless..they have come again,they want to take over Yoruba land again.. elections are over..they have been used once again so now they will go back to their poverty and suffering while the filanu's start killing them again..
loveth360:
Igbos is our only problem because they want to take over our land.


They don't respect host, unlike our Fulani friends grin grin
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by sandra50(f): 3:04am On Mar 14, 2023
Thanks dear
dduchess90:
Hello

Dependant visa fee is £490.

Here's a link to confirm that
https://www.gov.uk/student-visa/family-members

Cheers

Travel / Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 5 by sandra50(f): 12:24am On Mar 14, 2023
Please how much is a dependant visa for a wife?thank you.

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