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EducationRe: IELTS: Share Your Experience, Ask Your Questions, Tell Us Your Score If You Can. by sandra50(f): 6:59pm On Apr 09, 2023
Please are you allowed to write down some key words while having the listening test on the exam day?
FamilyRe: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 10:08pm On Mar 31, 2023
Admin please ban this account.
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PoliticsRe: Election: Nigerians Get USA's Permission To Hold Protest Opposite White House by sandra50(f): 11:45am On Mar 31, 2023
Which side does falz name show that he is from you bloody tribalist Tinubu paid agent
inoki247:
Lol the organizer names don show which side his coming from....
RomanceRe: Lady In Shock After She Got Dumped By Boyfriend For Not Flushing The Toilet by sandra50(f): 2:27pm On Mar 30, 2023
FamilyRe: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 9:35am On Mar 30, 2023
How difficult is it driving her to her father's house if she is not behaving?
frozen70:
You think it's automatic to send a woman with children out and back to her father's house

Its something you have to apply wisdom with
FamilyRe: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 10:12pm On Mar 29, 2023
His refusal will react to what thing?did her own refusal react to anything then?if she passes her boundaries then he should send her back to her father's house
frozen70:
I understand how you feel about her treatment to your mum and eventually she passed on because she didn't get the care you have planned for her due to your wife refusal to cooperate with her

Now it's her mums turn, just allow her to come the one let her provide her needs while you focus on the family needs as usual

What she denied you off is what she is requesting your approval to get, such is life

Your refusal may react to another thing
FamilyRe: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 10:07pm On Mar 29, 2023
Who is this one?are you the wife in question?his mother would be so sad in her grave if she allows her wife's mother come live with them
Dindondin:
Send her away n let your daughter in-law send you away in future
FamilyRe: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 10:03pm On Mar 29, 2023
What fear of the unknown?ok she is scared of her husband's mother not to harm them?well same goes to the man..he is scared the wife's mother will harm him..
Neweramify:
Op your wife was wrong, but try and understand her fear. Most women feel inconvenient around their mother inlaw. Not because she hates her mother inlaw but for the fear of the unknown.

Let her know how you feel knowing she wanna bring her mum in when she rejected your mum. I'm sure she will feel remorse of her action.

Permit her to bring her mum, cause if anything happen to the old woman, she may accuse you of one thing or the other.
FamilyRe: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 10:00pm On Mar 29, 2023
If you ever let her mother come stay with you then you have failed your late mother as a son and she will never be happy with you where ever she is..you allowed your wife send your mother away in your own house and now that your mother is dead she wants to bring her own mother..for me if this is going to scatter the marriage then let it happen but her mother should never come to that house..didn't her mother know when she was sending your own mother away..what was her contribute?she didn't know she would get old some day?
ozalogbo:
I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.

However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.

Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.

Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.

What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?
FamilyRe: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by sandra50(f): 9:55pm On Mar 29, 2023
This your advice does not make sense..what peace?do you know if his mother would have stayed longer if she had allowed her stay?now the man needs to forgive for what peace to return..let the peace go forever if it wants to..let her siblings pay someone to stay with her..if allowed her come stay..what you couldn't do for your own mother then you have failed your late mother.. women always think they can have their way around everything
ojun50:
Discuss with her and remind her how she treated yr mum, then tell her to give you time to think about it.

In the end still allow her mother to come and stay for peace and unity.

Every married man should understand that the wife is not your blood so expect anything expectable but is children is his blood.
PoliticsRe: Protests As Agberos Increase Daily Fee For Buses To N13k In Lagos by sandra50(f): 4:40pm On Mar 29, 2023
It's a family issue.make una settle.igbos better not tell them what to do in their Lagos.
PoliticsRe: Armed Herdsmen Attack Ogbese In Ondo, Kidnap Residents, Brutalise Others by sandra50(f): 11:11am On Mar 26, 2023
Shut up and talk about what the post is talking about..if Igbo's never kill you you no go die..I thought Igbo's are the problem..you are calling the woke Yoruba's to come and see what?to come and see your stupidness for calling Fulani that have been killing your people for years for years.Oga they are coming to you soon and those of you that fought Igbo's
Aldol:
Igbos are rejoicing,they are extremely happy. Foolish woke yorubas,I hope you are seeing
PoliticsRe: Armed Herdsmen Attack Ogbese In Ondo, Kidnap Residents, Brutalise Others by sandra50(f): 10:59am On Mar 26, 2023
Are you among those that fought and said Igbo's should leave your lands that we are taking over?if you are among then forget you prayer because what you people did to Igbo's will reach you all one after the other but if not then God will protect you and those of you that stood for truth
OmotolaBoy:
Heal our land oh Lord
PoliticsRe: Armed Herdsmen Attack Ogbese In Ondo, Kidnap Residents, Brutalise Others by sandra50(f): 10:51am On Mar 26, 2023
You took words out of my mouth..you are really a mind reader..I don't know why Igbo's are this heartless..they have come again,they want to take over Yoruba land again.. elections are over..they have been used once again so now they will go back to their poverty and suffering while the filanu's start killing them again..
loveth360:
Igbos is our only problem because they want to take over our land.


They don't respect host, unlike our Fulani friends grin grin
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by sandra50(f): 3:04am On Mar 14, 2023
Thanks dear
dduchess90:
Hello

Dependant visa fee is £490.

Here's a link to confirm that
https://www.gov.uk/student-visa/family-members

Cheers
TravelRe: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 5 by sandra50(f): 12:24am On Mar 14, 2023
Please how much is a dependant visa for a wife?thank you.
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by sandra50(f): 11:24pm On Mar 13, 2023
Please who can tell me how much a dependent visa cost for a wife?thank you.
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by sandra50(f): 11:43am On Mar 13, 2023
What kind of problem if you don't mind explaining
dduchess90:
Hello

Please whatever you do, don't involve yourself in what people are doing by getting a Dependant and lieing that they are married.

Your dependant should be your spouse genuinely married and not for the purpose of obtaining a visa.

UK will always be there, take your time and save/request family support etc.

You don't want to run helter skelter for an issue that could be avoided with proper planning

Cheers
PoliticsRe: Compensate Me By Supporting Iyan Zazzau To Be Speaker – El-rufai Begs Tinubu by sandra50(f): 10:53pm On Mar 12, 2023
They are using our future to compensate each other and some youths helped them in achieving this.
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by sandra50(f): 10:51pm On Mar 12, 2023
Well it's still better than coming without taking care of tuition
Josh121:
De play just de play, when you get here and wait for months to get the surviving job your eyes go clear.
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by sandra50(f): 9:48pm On Mar 12, 2023
Exactly..if tuition is settled then you are good to go..you can survive it..all the best.
Davsidoo:
Thank you so much for this but I’m single man 😂😂

Me myself and I bro

Mehn, i know I’ll feel it but I know I can survive it man. I’m still trying to raise more money here before I eventually leave.

At least If tuition no be problem again, survival for one year go definitely dey easier right?
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by sandra50(f): 9:46pm On Mar 12, 2023
Doesn't matter
Observer25:
Better if dependent has a degree too or doesn't matter?
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by sandra50(f): 6:35pm On Mar 11, 2023
Are you going alone?don't you have a dependant?no you wouldn't meet up..getting a job alone as student will be very difficult.if you have a wife,she is the one that would have found a job easily without any stress and helped you.my cousin that went since December hasn't found a job yet.go with a dependant that can help you.lets say you don't get a job for 5 months how then will you cope?it's your dependant that would be working because as a student employers don't like to employ people that still study..take my advice so you don't get stranded there.im also applying but I'm going to do that with a dependant.
Davsidoo:
Hello guys,

The tuition fee in Derby is 14,900

The first deposit is 3000

I have 6m, it is going to be enough to take me from here to Derby with accommodation based on my calculations.

But my fear now is resumption is September

50% of the remaining tuition must be paid by OCT 1, 2023 and the rest 50% must be paid by January 1, 2024

My question now is, can I raise this funds over there with part time jobs based on these deadlines?

Getting 4950 by oct and another 4950 by January is really no joke

I don't want to get to the UK and get stranded and yet, I am so convinced that I need to go to the uk.

My course is DS btw so I believe getting a good paid job after school would not be an issue.

Please give me your advise Nairalanders

Thank you so much
PoliticsRe: Pictures From APC Presidential Campaign Rally In Owerri, Imo State by sandra50(f): 12:14pm On Feb 15, 2023
Just shut up..are you from imo state or do you stay there?I'm saying he asked people to come for valentine celebration that he had something for them and you are talking trash..even APC members that are so close to hope wouldn't even vote for Tinubu.. something top APC members are saying all over the place
success1smyn:
You will always find excuses
PoliticsRe: Pictures From APC Presidential Campaign Rally In Owerri, Imo State by sandra50(f): 8:42am On Feb 15, 2023
He is winning in your dreams..check the faces of those people there they are all students..he lied to students that he wanted to do val for them and these ones went out of hunger in the land..no one even knew these two where coming because people wouldn't have gone for his valentine gift..well my cousin's in school didn't go with them..no one there will vote for them on the election day
success1smyn:
Hmmm



Tinubu is winning this election
Science/TechnologyRe: Want To Dive Into Tech? Here Are 11 Most In-demand Tech Skill To Learn In 2022 by sandra50(f): 9:21pm On Jan 29, 2023
Very informative thread
Science/TechnologyRe: Please Help by sandra50(op): 1:58pm On Jan 29, 2023
Thanks so much
Cutehector:
You can do data analytics or product design.

Check dataleum

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