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Science/TechnologyRe: Please Help by sandra50(op): 1:02pm On Jan 29, 2023
Can someone please respond to me
Science/TechnologyPlease Help by sandra50(op):
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PoliticsRe: Simon Ekpa Ends Sit-at-home Order, Says No Election In ‘biafraland’ by sandra50(f): 1:41pm On Dec 15, 2022
This guy is working for APC..they have given him huge amount of money..by the way there was no sit at home in south east in the first place
FamilyRe: My Wife Hates My Step-Daughter. Please Help by sandra50(f): 3:33pm On Nov 30, 2022
Did you not read that he has done all that and even involved family members..the best thing to do now is to send her to another apartment so peace can return to the family
Sundaycomputer:
Abeg her , talk with her, she can not keep Malice with dead people
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by sandra50(f): 6:34am On Nov 28, 2022
Oh ok..please can he enroll for diploma first?will he be accepted for nursing after it?
shawrygal:
What he studied at his first degree doesn't really matter in Uk pre- registration Nursing course. But his 3rd Class is the main issue. Uk only accepts at least 2:2 for Nursing
FamilyRe: My Mother Wants To Remarry by sandra50(f): 9:56pm On Nov 25, 2022
You are very wrong my dear..a man suffered all his life and built a house for his kids, himself and wife then he does probably while still suffering to maintain his family and the best thing to do is to send his/your kids out of their father's house only to bring one jobless and shameless man
othermen:
Your father would have remarried and that would still be his house. You have to get your own house. A different pursuit from this unhealthy entitlement will only make you better overall.
PoliticsRe: Ghanaians Now Use Tinubu To Banter Nigerians by sandra50(f): 9:24pm On Nov 25, 2022
On a serious note why are we laughing at them for not winning a match when we didn't even make it to world cup?now they are cursing us with the worst thing on earth..on behalf of myself and my family I reject Tinubu for Nigeria
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by sandra50(f): 3:11pm On Nov 24, 2022
Oh really?that's good to hear..please can I contact you pleasseeeeee?I want to send you a mail if you don't mind I want to ask you some personal questions
Fikayo02:
He can study nursing google msc nursing pre registration he will get schools that offeres the program, I’m also going for that course by January is my bsc was in business management
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by sandra50(f): 1:20pm On Nov 24, 2022
Thank you so much for your response..please what should he do to become a nursing student after reading estate management as first degree?or he can never study nursing again?
AdeoyeAdefemi:
Well, nothing is impossible but with my experience in consultancy it is not possible to get masters in nursing with estate management
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by sandra50(f): 6:29pm On Nov 23, 2022
Good evening house...please can someone who did estate management as first degree get admitted in any school in UK to study nursing for his masters?

Again an agent told him he can't get direct admission for his masters since he came out with 3rd class.
Can someone who did estate management and came out with 3rd class apply for masters in nursing?
Thanks as I wait for response.
FoodRe: Export by sandra50(op): 12:32pm On Oct 11, 2022
Please can someone respond to me please?
FoodExport by sandra50(op): 12:03pm On Oct 11, 2022
Good day house..please can some one who does export business tell me the kind of preservative I can add to crayfish..egusi and other food stuffs so it doesn't get infected while being exported because it will take like 2 to 3 weeks to get to it's destination and if it gets infected it is going to be crushed by the immigration..please any one in the business or those that knows about it should advice me please..thanks
FamilyRe: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by sandra50(f): 12:14pm On May 31, 2022
DamnnNiggarr:
My entire family which includes my brothers' wives and their kids and my sisters' families was once a peaceful and an enviable large family but right now, the devil wants to destroy the family through our wives.

My wife and my younger brother's wife who were once greatest friends are now mortal enemies, they don't talk nor regard themselves as humans, this enmity has lingered for long despite me and my brother's efforts and that of my entire family, both extended, to resolve the issues between them, over the years but all to no avail.

It becomes worse by the day as we have tried everything humanly possible that is within our reach to quell the situation, but no success.
It is that bad that as I'm typing this, their enmity is starting to effect me and my brother's relationship, as my younger brother no longer calls nor chats me as he normally does. Even if I called nor chatted him, he won't pick up and neither the missed calls nor the chats would be returned.

I want to try something different, a totally different approach in tackling the situation, that's why I brought it here. I don't want anything to come in between me and my brother nor my family. I don't want anything to happen to neither my brother's wife nor my wife because the heart of man is evil, that's why I'm seeking for a resolution to the ugly situation.

please all your opinions will help a great deal in approaching it from a different perspective.
please save my family.

*Modified*
Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama,
She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.

Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family.
Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude.
you are the cause of the whole thing..your wife doesn't have respect for you that's why she opened her mouth to say such an evil thing..how can your brother keep understanding your wife's rubbish when you as a man is not ready to act as a man ..your brother tried to maintain peace by not taking it out on your wife for saying such evil thing against his wife..what did you do as a man?you are here shouting Obim,Obim..did you ask your wife to apologize to her and make peace or be ready to go back to her father's house for trying to bring problem to the once happy family?no..you kept making your brother and his wife to keep taking her rubbish until they got tired..you married a bad wife and it's only your wife that is trying to separate the family..bye.
RomanceRe: How Can African American Female Find And Marry An African Man? by sandra50(f): 3:19pm On May 08, 2022
NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.
aboki..aren't you a male scammer yourself looking for naive guys to scam.. because you know some guys are looking for a way to run away from this country with the help of foreigners now you want to scam the naive ones..not only did you spell it out that you are nursemaryusa,you also told everyone that you are are black American looking for an African guy..so they should start thinking you are a big catch..abeg shift
CelebritiesRe: BBNaija's Lucy Slays In Red Bikini (Photos) by sandra50(f): 9:38pm On May 05, 2022
Lamanii22:
you got that right and no surgical…. Her body in her full glory…
yes ooo
CelebritiesRe: BBNaija's Lucy Slays In Red Bikini (Photos) by sandra50(f): 8:54pm On May 04, 2022
Beautiful woman with beautiful body and skin..no filter and she is still looking beautiful.
PoliticsRe: Video Of Rally By MASSOB For Yahaya Bello's Presidency by sandra50(f): 9:56am On May 01, 2022
Ddje:
Yahaya Bello is just a God sent. We the IGBOS are lucky to have him as our own.

Thank you Uwazurike for the vision.

Ndigbo4Yahaya
may Fulani visit you soon for this nonsense comment
PoliticsRe: Video Of Rally By MASSOB For Yahaya Bello's Presidency by sandra50(f): 9:54am On May 01, 2022
Hungry sellout..this is one Kanu left your group..you don't believe in Igbo presidency but you believe in wahahla Bello's presidency? someone he has done nothing good since he got into office?he gave you someone of the salary he is owing workers and someone my brother's who are following blindly felt it was right for them to still support you..Anu.
BusinessRe: Help! Money Keeps Disappearing! by sandra50(f): 4:24pm On Apr 27, 2022
Oh really?you are intelligent but can't tell that you have been brainwashed? someone said he doesn't tithe and you are asking me if I believe them,no I don't believe them it's you I believe..does Dangote tithe?

I should watch their lives in years to come?Oga till they die you can never be anything near them..people that church building collapsed on after paying their tithes arent they tithe payers..what about people that paid tithe all their lives and died poor,my uncle inclusive..how did his own life end..its your hustle that pays not tithes..if you like pay tithe everyday you will still die poor if you dont
hustle while those that hustles without paying tithes enjoy for the rest of their lives...otemis post=112320434]
You already demonstrated your lack of basic communication skills by showing you can't hold an intelligent conversation without being rude and insulting.
Most of these people telling you they don't tithe do you really believe them?
Secondly they're not the first neither would they be the last to make such assertions, they may seem to be at the prime of their careers now but watch their lives.
Finally, it was my candid opinion for the one who sort for a solution and not for you so kindly mind your business.[/quote]
BusinessRe: Help! Money Keeps Disappearing! by sandra50(f): 5:39pm On Apr 24, 2022
Bleep off.. idiot..aboki... brainwasher or brainwashed,which one are you..falz doesn't pay tithe same with zubby so take this your nonsense out of here.
DrDunamis:
The God that has been good to you, have you given Him the glory due unto His name?
Is your business connected to God?
The way to connect your business to God is not by calling your business "Blessed hands" e.t.c do you tithe for the business?
Try it and see and come back to share your testimonies.
BusinessRe: Help! Money Keeps Disappearing! by sandra50(f): 5:36pm On Apr 24, 2022
Oga fix a camera in that shop without the knowledge of any of your workers accept your wife..one of your girls is responsible..stop believing one demon is stealing your money no.. put a camera there..do not ask your girls about what is happening again..just keep saying it's a demon and catch the person red handed..not only demon..what about devil?
Deeprooted:
I opened a business for my wife,to the glory of God, the business is doing good.

All of a sudden, money start missing. All efforts to balance the account at the close of business were all abortive. We thought our workers were the one stealing but they are innocent. My wife has been crying after the recent one which was 110k. A friend who had experience same, advise her to put a piece of charcoal in the vault where she keeps money. But that doesn't go down well her even me.

The business is quite competitive but God has been really good to us.

What do you suggest I do?


Note: She opens and closes with prayers
Christianity EtcRe: Why Are Some Christians Not Following Jesus Closely? by sandra50(f): 10:53am On Apr 24, 2022
Why should we,is he God?it's better you follow your on ancestors well than a white man..he was a prophet and not God..Jesus can never be my God,I'm done with the lies the white people brought for us..my creator is my God and he is not the one on the pictures you kneel to.
Omooba77:
Why are some Christians not following Jesus closely?
PoliticsRe: Bees Invade Alaafin's Palace, Attack Mourners by sandra50(f): 9:16am On Apr 24, 2022
Your dead ancestors project for you family..e go shock u..don't bother replying because I wouldn't respond...I wouldn't even read your reply.
Nigerialabalaba:
Jagaban 2023 na God's project for Nigeria.
PoliticsRe: 2023: Buhari To Endorse Favourite Aspirant Before Primary Election by sandra50(f): 9:12am On Apr 24, 2022
I'm waiting..I can't wait..everything go happen for this coming election.
CareerRe: Am I Going Too Far On This Decision? I Need An Advice! by sandra50(f): 11:41pm On Apr 17, 2022
Oga better sack her..these people are trouble makers..very soon she will turn it to trouble with her people..don't speak to to her about it because she will never listen and when. You sack her she will go around and start telling people you sack her because she prays in you shop
dboY1123:
I have been on/off from my work(shop) for 2weeks now, I have this new worker who is a Muslim and I am a Christian, of course, I am not against her religion or anything, I still grant her the permission to attend mosque every Friday afternoon and I always try to be at shop by 2pm, or get someone to replace her..

Today I came to shop and the first thing I noticed was that she allowed one Alfa that I know very well, into the shop(she knows it is not allowed), my mind told me they were both reciting the Quran before I came in.

Secondly, she told me that she needs to pray (in the shop) that I should excuse her while I had to leave there and go outside..This has never been happening for 3 months she's been here..

Even myself being a Christian, I pray before coming to shop/work.

I wanted to tell her to stop praying in the shop because it is not a praying ground or mosque, should I go ahead?

I am not against her religion whatsoever, even she reads the Quran quietly in the shop and there's no issue about that.
FamilyRe: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by sandra50(f): 3:20pm On Apr 15, 2022
Do not please..if you can help him get a self contain do but don't leave them together..in as much as I don't cheat in a relationship and can never do so in marriage,one can still get attracted to someone especially when the person is not having sex..if I'm married and find someone attractive I will just remove myself from that location but in this case there is nothing your wife can do.. because of what is happening in the world now do not let them..can your wife leave her cousin with you and travel to the UK?
cj1900:
Hi guys,
I won't take much of your time. I have a very delicate matter in my hands and I need diverse opinions please.

Background
I don't live in Nigeria but me and my wife both have a very comfortable 4 bedroom duplex in Nigeria. We have a one year old baby. I have been in Nigeria for 5 months now and I will be returning to UK in a few weeks.

Ever since I've been in Nigeria, my cousin (mid 30s) has been with us. Quite frankly, it is not very easy for him at the moment and i do care about him as a brother. He is in the process of processing his visa, so its not as if he is loafing about.

The plan is that both me and my wife will be taking turns in visiting each other for the next 2 or so years until I return fully to Nigeria.

The problem
The problem is that I do not feel comfortable leaving just him and my wife under thesame roof whilst I return and he is not showing any signs of leaving when I return to my base.

So, this is my situation and I don't know if I am being insensitive.

I married a very good wife and under most circumstances, I trust her. I am just not comfortable leaving my wife with any man atall under thesame roof.

I need your opinions pls.
PoliticsRe: INEC Suspends Voter Registration In Ihitte Uboma, Imo After Attack by sandra50(f): 7:01am On Apr 15, 2022
Only Ihitte Uboma?you people are not serious..so others can go to other areas and check if they will be killed?I have my PVC but I will never leave my house on the election day..na my life Nigeria wan use better.
EducationRe: I Feel Like I Wasted My Time On Education by sandra50(f): 1:17pm On Apr 14, 2022
Of all the mistakes I made in life not being a graduate is the only thing I do not regret in life .why can't you travel back abroad..it's better there because most graduate I know are either land agents or doing one work or the other
shogsman:
I'm in my early 30s, I've got a bsc in sociology, a master's degree in statistics and like a dozen other professional degrees in human resource management, gerentology, demography, financial risk management, oil and gas services, pmp and so on.

Infact I'm basically one of the most educated individuals I've met. The sad part is I've never made a cent off my educational qualifications.
Heck I work in a totally different industry and make a good living which I'm definitely not going to trade for social work or psychology, so this past few days I get myself thinking what a waste of Time and resources that was, I literarily spent millions on my education, even relocating abroad to study but it was all a goddamn waste of time, all I got is a useless paper I'm never going to use.

My advice to young ones out there is to set your goals right and stupid untraditional ideas is better than no ideas. You don't necessarily have to pursue a degree to be okay in life.
PoliticsRe: 2023: President Buhari Meets Goodluck Jonathan Behind Close Doors PHOTOS by sandra50(f): 1:03pm On Apr 14, 2022
Are you alright?Ebere is who not Igbo?you need help.
OkoroBufo:
Ibos left the chat. This is why they are desperate to become the President of the zoo, they want to bam with the big boyz.

-Okoro bufo
Nairaland GeneralRe: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by sandra50(f): 12:58pm On Apr 14, 2022
Tell everyone to Bleep off without saying it out..this is the world we live in where the world favours the stone hearted and not the soft hearted..everyone wants to take advantage of you..you give so much and when it comes to your turn everyone disappears..for many years I have not had friends and I have also decided not to date any one again..not here in Nigeria again because being nice here means weakness and they start playing with you.
PoliticsRe: 2023: Give APC Another Chance, Lawan Begs Nigerians by sandra50(f): 7:48am On Apr 10, 2022
May lion eat that mouth you used to make such statement..we should give you losers another chance to continue to do your best?bunch of terrorist with your Fulani brothers
CrimeRe: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by sandra50(f): 10:55am On Apr 05, 2022
My dear it's obvious your girl is lying..the story don't add up..from what you wrote your girl had a relationship with the girl,he didn't rape her..how do you visit a girl you have no interest on at home?to go read Bible or talk about what really?she had a relationship with him and got pregnant alone the line..she only told you all those made up story because she knows you will find out from the breast milk coming out from her breast in not she wouldn't have bothered to tell you..fill a rape case again the guy and watch the truth come out..your girl can lie..why didn't she also lie that he raped her at the office.
IdanNla:
My girlfriend was raped around March but did not tell me anything about it not until I came back from school and I found out she is acting strange and I got to put up an act so she did tell me what happen after much act she didn’t tell me but lied about the whole thing but I still put more pressure and she later dropped a voice note telling me how it happened.

That a co worker of hers invited her to his home after work and the same guy had asked her for a relationship which she said no and the guy lockup the matter. So this fateful day she requested or invited her to his house getting there the guy's junior brother left for school cause they are daily part-time student, after his junior ones left, he rolled up weed and started smoking, so during the process of smoking or afterward the whole thing started and she claimed to fight him and scream but the guy overpowered him and had his way with her after which the guy pleaded saying he’s sorry and she left for home and called her best friend which she suggest she reported to the police but my babe told her she don’t wish to pursue any case that the deed has been done already and they both lockup the mater.

And she even talked to the guy the next day at work and the guy was like he’s sorry and bought her prevention drug which she collected and used. After that day the guy wanted to start a connection which she refused and the guy was like what else she did want cause he had already beg so what is with her attitude and the guy lockup with her.

Some weeks later she discovered she was pregnant and she told the guy which the guy gave her 4K for abortion and she collected the money and did the abortion.

After saying all this she pleaded I should not breakup with her cause she don’t know how to manage the aftermath of the breakup and what happened was not her intention that she was sorry such thing happened!! After hearing all these I simple asked her some questions about the incident which she don’t have an answer to:

*1= A guy asked you for a relationship and you said NO that is the more reason you should not give him chance of being close or being with him alone in a room!!!*

*2= You went to visit such guy at home and you wore a gown like a guy whom ask you for a relationship would not touch you when he had the chance of being alone with you in a room?*

*3= The said guy roll up weed and light it right in front of you and you sat there comfortably!!*

*4= You claimed you fight him but you got no bruises on you or your undies gettting torn nor your cloth*

*5= You talked to the same guy the next day after the incident*

*6= You concluded to act like nothing happen !!!*

If you are to be me what would you decide after processing all this Asin put your self in my shoe or If your Senior Brother came for advice from you stating all this what would you advicehuh

Right now am devastated not knowing what to do cause this is the same girl am planning on marrying next year or so and I love her more than I can actually comprehend.. Right now she is avoiding me etc But what I wanted to do right now is filling a case at the police station as breaking up has not cross my heart yet but to punish the dude for what he did..

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