Please go and take your towel where you had your bath..have I seen you before?they made you a monster and what did they make me?talking about looking for husband,you should read my first post..I'm hurting because he is the one I love..the other guy that was looking for a wild girl for marriage is still sending messages on my WhatsApp that I have been ignoring so if it is only about marriage why can't I accept him
OloshoMan: Women in their 20s- I want to date a bad boy, good guys are boring
Women in their 30s- Where are all the good guys are?
You people created monsters and I'm here for it. When I look back at my SIMPing duys, I just laugh and sometimes annoyed for the good gentle man I was.
Thanks to YouTube content creators for teaching me the female nature. I swear we all need a strong male figure in our lives. The amount of Chicks looking for marriage I've tossed... Oh my! Y'all ain't seen nothing yet. We niggas were good at some point in our lives. You made a monster. Let the games continue.
farady: Sorry for all that happened to you. I will tell you that your Daddy, Almighty God is your father and is ever faithful. Don't I the misbehaviour of one or some men to judge all men. If you believe in Him, go to Him in prayer as your father, talk to Him same way you would converse with your dad and pour out your heart to Him. Tell Him what you truly want. Remember to first have a relationship with Him by being born again and then connect. There's nothing He cannot do. Wish you all the very best of 2022. Cheers and shalom.
You don't know how long I was with him..yes I spoke to him about it and he said it's only a woman that makes marriage work..I can't say every here.
Stenewiser: the bossy guy how long did you know him, if not long(6months) were you expecting him to drop is lifestyle easily, you should've waited a little bit, if he changes significantly, then you accept his marriage proposal, this girls he was taking, have you confronted him on it before, your mind wasn't there at all, Maybe that's why you didn't even care to try something. if I'm to ask what was he doing with these girls, or were you just concluding to suit yourself.
My dear I disagree..I wouldn't do more than 6months again..I know people that got married in 1/3 months and they are still together while those that dated for 12 years separated few months after marriage.
everythinggirly: Kindly say what you can really do. How can you date a man for six months and want him to make moves? Do you want to be used? Pray you meet the right one not saying six months and all that. You can still be in for three months and get married. When you meet a man, be clear on your terms. You don't have to tell him. If he is for marriage, you'll know.
everythinggirly: Sorry darling. Some men always want to play on our faithfulness while they go after the unfaithful. But be the best you and believe God's time is the best. Ikechukwu can never change the plans of God in your life.
Fault finder have landed..Oga did you see where I said the reason why I turned down the proposals is because of ego?I said 2 were older than my father and one was acting like my boss and carrying girls in my presence so I turned him down..now tell me how I wasted those proposals?I should have gone ahead..again the one that left because he needed someone wild is still around..wants to come back but it's not that easy after all he deed that I didn't mention here.
Stenewiser: you turn down three marriage proposal sake of your ego, now you are contemplating cheating, my dear I see you washing church toilet everyday for a husband, some areas of life wouldn't have need prayer but we make it need prayer due to our carelessness.
I stopped that years ago..I have a time limit now and once it exceeds that I'm out..6/7 months is still same..he was meant to come back before the 7 months but needed to get something that's why..
Iyaebe: Never be in a relationship for more than six months, quit that time wasting relationship immediately it hits six months and no concrete moves from your boyfriend.
If we can't be loyal and trust each other how then are we expected to become one?sad..didn't see this one coming,he was too peaceful for this.
BoredBerry: Sorry... I'll rather trust a snake than a Nigerian man... Snakes make more sense... The latter are spawns of the devil... Breed like rats, generally unintelligent, have issues settling down, evil...and the list goes on...
I've never thought of being loyal to one... They don't deserve it
Age shouldn't be the reason for your refusal..these days ladies like older men because most times they treat women better because they have come to understand life better than the youngers that will end up giving someone BP.
newbornmacho: Please how can a 44 year old be coming to marry a 17 year old girl?
And my sister is excited, and my mom is saying if shes happy she has no problem?
What is money?
And I'm looking like I'm a mad man for telling my sister I'm not in support.
I wish I could nail this guy on something...like if he's ever been married ( which he denies) or some sort of scandal.... How will my only sister get married to someone 27 years her senior?
For God sake
Please help me, what should I do
If I talk now they will say I hate women
We've had a very angry family meeting this night and this girl is bent on going... Abi na jazz?
Goats..who are the stakeholders and what are they holding?hungry paid thugs.
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Oga she is not having any problem with the business.. she is using you with the help of her family..she is trying all the money she can possibly get and once she is satisfied she will dump you and move on with the small boy she is cheating on you with now..she is building..if you have a child with her the child might be for another man..for her to put up so much drama just because you want to see her phone you should be very scared for your life because she and that her brother that disrespects you will poison you one day or use an object to kill you and take everything you have in your name..find a way to hack her phone or tap her calls and messages so you will see things for yourself.
Yesterday I asked her I wanted to check her phone and she started to delete some email messages and when I asked her to show me as it was still in the thrash yet to be fully deleted she tried to jump off the balcony of the two storey building.
I called my parents as she said she wanted to jump off and commit suicide, she said if I leave the balcony for her to use her phone she would not commit suicide.
We managed to drag her back and then she asked that she wants to be alone in her room and speak to her dad, we allowed her as we knew she was going to delete the email.
Nairalanders please what do you think she is up to please, bear in mind that I also observed she records our conversations when we have issues but that had been settled. I am still in the Marraige but sincerely I am shocked, this her move was really extremely sinister. Please advise me on my next steps, though I have started some already.
If she is having sex with someone else she wouldn't feel the need to do all that with you..if she gets it better from someone else she will like to have it with you any more. She is talking to some friends or belongs to a forum where they teach them how to keep your man for those new in the dating world..she has been watching lots of sex video online just to satisfy you as she was taught..she is even expecting you to complement her for all that she learnt and you are here complaining about things that are not important.
Zeal0000007: Pals just don't know what to think, here is it, my fiancee's sex libido increased rapidly than before, I work at sea returning back from work , the way my woman has been spinning during sex is disturbing. I know she must have missed me but she is not a very sexy driven person. This time around during sex, she can raised her legs up to her head, and its shocking, the way she moans its unbelievable, this time around she loves doggy style, like say tomorrow no dey, she wants to come up top me and alot more.
My imagination is trying to tell that she might be having it with someone that is very good in bed while I was away, pals this is giving me a lot of concern. Soon I will be going back in matter of days, from my observations since I came back I have not seen strange number calling her.
Madam when he comes back from where ever he went to make sure that is when your own anger will start..do not call or message him even if he decides to stay there for years..begging him or wanting to make peace with him now simply means you are accepting him to employ this lady and she is going to be your husband's second wife soon because she will soon get pregnant for him..infact when he comes back make sure he tells you where he has been with that girl..what nonsense..some women are suffering in this Nigeria
My husband took his bag and left the house after an argument and have been gone for over a week now, trouble started when he came back and told me he wanted to hire a particular girl to work with him,this girl was working with his friend before he closed up.he told me his friend beg him to hire the girl. Earlier in the week my husband told me he was going for a convention,I checked his phone and saw when this particular girl was asking him when he will be leaving the house at 7:44 in the morning,I didn't talk or made a fuss about it,so when he told me he wanted to employ this girl my suspicion grew,I asked him how does he want to pay her he told me the lady said she would work for free. I started laughing,which girl on this island would want to work for free if you don't have anything to do with her.i started bombarding him with questions; If the girl is your friend's employee how did she know about your business?My husband said he has not talked to the lady since last year but he never knew I saw the messages.
I told him to give me his phone only to see that he has been exchanging Whatsapp calls and phone calls with her.i got angry and was asking him questions he took his bag and left that night.
That was when I confronted him about the messages I saw the week before only for him to say he doesn't owe me any explanation.
I am deeply hurt that he would want to employ a person he has a secret relationship with and has the mind to tell me about it.he deletes any conversation he has with this lady,he hides his phone and would never pick a call in my presents.
Pls how do you think I should handle this,I told him the only way I would ever listen to him is if he tell me where he went with that lady on that Saturday. Calling her sounds desperate and I don't like fighting my fellow lady because of a man.your opinion pls
You are a criminal..fucking go and do day pay job like carrying blocks in building sites for 2 weeks and pay the money you owe and when you are done paying and want to continue the block carrying just to continue with your messed up betting life then you can continue..I so hate men that bets..so irresponsible life style..you want to break your SIM and break your ATM when you haven't paid the money you owe them and that would be the biggest mistake of your life because if you decide not to use your bank in the next 10 years the money will still continue to increase,maybe that time it would have gotten to 100,000,000 and you will still pay it else you will never have a bank account in your life again because any account you want to open will be connected to your BVN..you can't open a new account without providing your BVN.. never.
1sherlockHolmes: I don't think I am yet addicted to betting. I started sport betting last year september when i was doing nysc. it was introduced to me by a fellow corper that time i have 200k in my account raised from the 33k alawee in just three month i lost it all.
I stopped betting and move on with my post nysc life when an idea came to my mind which is borrow from loan app and stake on 2odd if you win take your profit and repay the loan. without hesitation i decided to give it a try, but whenever i borrow and stake the game cut but when i play with my little money i win. Because of this now I'm in huge debt more than 5 apps are waiting for my loan repayment while I'm still jobless.
I really need help I think I'm posessed or someone cast a spell on me. Anyway i have decide to break my sim card block my atm and stop betting.
May god help me. #stay away from bet9ja #sportybet and #1xbet they r destiny destroyer.
I can understand the legchain and nosering but what do you mean by double necklaces?looks like you have issues yourself?as for the legchain and the nosering it's a big NO for me as a woman..it doesn't speak well of anyone. Ok let's talk about the family..a single mother who is a party woman brought up a daughter that has become a party daughter and you feel this is the person you want to settle down and have a responsible home with?there some single parents who are not bad examples while there some bad examples but their daughters chose the good part of life..this one didn't obviously choose the right part..and to you,better ler that girl go for your own good and that of the girl..what do you mean by she has already done two abortions for you?how many more do you intend to do with her before you let her go?
Keeff: When we started out, we both agreed on her not dressing provocatively or giving negative impression( nose rings, double necklaces and legchain). She stopped the legchain she was using at that time, the relationship is two years old now and she now insists she wants to be using it and her mom who is a single mom doesn't see anything bad in it and believes it's all fashion. Both mother and daughter are the party types, always want to attend parties, I think her mother influenced her on that and now we having serious issues because I told her I can't allow it and I'm on the brink of losing her even tho we've been through a lot together and she even already aborted like twice for me. Dunno what to do
Have you ever had something romantic with your cousin?why are you so pained?is your friend usually like this or just with this one person?is your cousin not ok with the coming?
Iyaebe: My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion.
Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.
Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.
Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out, I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it. I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.
Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?
Looks like that depression is what you are facing at the moment..I don't even have your time..
DonroxyII: This is Depression written all over You . Why cursing a Stranger You never know one hoot about his life or Future other than what he shared here?
Why Emotional on another Person's Life .. Maybe the 32yo lady will even reject him if he proposed you never know. Maybe the 32yo has someone better in her life than him while Oga thinks he is the alpha in her life ... you never know
All shades of Wrong and Obsession from You. Mind You, You ain't the girl in the 32yo ... Don't go Emotional, Common!
You are evil..if I insult with the way it is in my heart you ask if you are the one that gave us buhari..you are beginning to enjoy your siater's husband's company?even if it's your sister that is the reason the marriage scattered you are not meant to look his side..that man is evil..he wants your sister to die and aslo to destroy your family and the bond you share as a family..once again you are so evil for even considering it in the first place.
NovesaTillie: Please I need only matured minds on this. It's a serious matter.
My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.
I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.
He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd. Should I accept his proposal?
DavidHarry: You don't have to make excuse for your age bro. At 36 you still have time more than enough time till you're 45, purpose, achievement and almost every girl will choose you for long term. Stop comparing your age to a woman. She doesn't have your time
Oga you will not find..infact you will regret ever letting her go.
oldienavie: I get y our point, like I said, she has most things I desire in a woman except she is older than I would want my wife to be. I am trying to figure out if I should take the risk, let her go and expect to find another lady that has the same qualities but is younger.
You see one thing with men..they are so confused..you are 36 and the lady is 32,what age range do you want to marry from?22/25?someone that you can give birth to?so it's now a crime being 32 and unmarried for a lady but you can be 36 and unmarried? You want to leave a good girl you have known for years because of age and marry someone that would probably pretend to be good because they want you to marry them..let me tell you something..if you leave this 32 years old good girl to marry a small girl that you hardly know,you might come looking for the one of 32 and that time it would have been late..the age gape between you and the said lady is just perfect..5 years is more than enough.
oldienavie: So I am 36 years and looking to settle down. I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady. She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want). She is 32 years old.
A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.
To the men, what would you advise ?
I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.
Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.
Why is it not happening to her now that her own mother is around?but wait..why did the man's mother come first..what is actually the cause of the fight?
Mariangeles: Have you considered the fact that your wife might be going or might've gone through postpartum depression, which might've led to that behaviour?
Were she and your mum having problems before your wife got pregnant and had a baby?
N.B. Postpartum depression is not an excuse for bad behaviour, it is real.
You people are not serious..what happened during end SARS?please you people should keep enjoying your Muslim brother..after this one we need another buhari.
You are a fucking bastard.. criminals among you kill you there.. buhari has been killing youths in Atta village,same place they killed an IGWE some days back and you are here talking trash..are you from imo state..my family friend has been running from his village and couldn't finish the work that took him there..his parents left the house also and you are here on the internet talking trash..since we are the problem,are you at peace where you are?
anigbajumo: Not DSS again at this time?? The earlier you guys realises this is not time to shed the criminals among you guys the better. Keep on dishing out different excuse to cover criminal among you guys, Reality will hit you soon.
So sad..the way our women treat our mean abroad is very disappointing and embarrassing.
tarantino1: The abuse is probably what she's after. It's obvious she is not a citizen yet, she married OP for the green card and is looking to compete the process without him. One way to do that is to claim abuse. Check the link.
You are a goat..we don't want a blood sucking party.enbrace kill who ever that wrote this.. embracing APC means embracing killer buhari..
AbijaJ: Won't happen. Ibo people all over Nigeria don do blood covenant with PDP. Even if APC gives Peter Obi its Presidential ticket, ibo people will still prefer to vote for PDP if the party gives a dog its own ticket.
Romance › Re: Just Confused by sandra50(op): 1:52pm On Feb 08, 2022
.. Maybe the 32yo lady will even reject him if he proposed you never know. Maybe the 32yo has someone better in her life than him while Oga thinks he is the alpha in her life ... you never know 
... Don't go Emotional, Common!