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Who is this one again looking for attention?ok you refused and decided to market yourself the way you wanted and where are you now..you disappeared instead

jaybenugo:
Nigerian singer, Eniola Akinbo, better known as Niyola, has opened up on why she left Empire Mates Entertainment (EME) headed by Banky W, IgbereTV reports.

Niyola, in a recent chat with Chude Jideonwo, faulted the defunct record label for marketing her wrongly because of their business strategy.


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See video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhXoTj8wxJ0

See fool..aboki talking as if he belongs to the group

Noerection:
we no dey do biko
we are not aggressive and jobless like you

You have all these problems including being homeless and you still had an erection?

IgiveLadiesBj:
Guys please I need help urgently. I had sex with a girl and her menses started. She feigned ignorance that it just started. When I came I saw blood around the condom and at the base of my pennis...

Please what should I do or take please?


I'm in danger and I'm broke as Bleep now...
.. and I'm kinda homeless now

I'm a woman not a man..back to the topic..most women take advantage of soft men..I do not take advantage of soft men but I don't like a man being too soft..I want aan that will be able to tell me no in something's and stick to it..no matter how much I beg you don't need to bend..some times you say yes and sometimes no..no woman wants a weak man..imagine having to explain how you misplaced 1k and that became a very big issue..

ademidedavid:
Brother, as if you are with me....this is exactly what i have been and it really pays off now and keeping her calm.....anything she believes i do not owe her explanations and i really have peace of mind.

Oga if you don't start correcting your mistakes now you might end up dead..how can you be taking your family along with you every time you are going out(every time is bad)those people you hang po it with do they come with their families too?you can take them along some times but not always..how can you be explaining missing 1,000? women do too much..when they have a good man they would want to take advantage of him.. imagine having to explain how 1,000 got missing and it even became a very big problem..I can't imagine how many times you explain things in that how and how much you do to avoid problems..
If I were you I would change.. sit her down and give her a serious warning..that she needs to stop nagging and picking faults thereby making the house uncomfortable for you,that any other day she tries it you wouldn't take it lightly with her and if she dares any rubbish again just leave the house for days and come back when you like..when you come back do not explain anything even if you make peace with her..be ready for the malic that will come with this correction you are about to make..if she decides not to talk to you for days just let her have her time and any time she decides she is done with her malic then you start your own until she begs and promises to change..you are weak and she knows this that's why she is treating you like a child.

ademidedavid:
My greetings nairalanders,
I am married for 10years now and blessed woth 3 wonderful kids but my woman is a bit difficult.

To cut the long story short, i went out with a colleague on friday and due to the fact that the kids are on holiday, i took my wife along because she was already raising the roof bout my outing ( NOTE: I have never ever gone out without my family to avoid wife's palava).

On getting there, she complained i was looking at some ladies lustfully which was not at all.......just trying to figure out some important things in my head. After which she complained that i was drunk.....lo and behold i wasnt because i dont take beer, i only take red wine, bullet and spinnorf......which i took a red wine and bullet before leaving the house and also took 3 bottles of spinnorff ( I was never drunk with all of those)

Fast forward to today, i am very open with my finances guess one of my mistakes.........she noticed that a thousand naira (#1000) was missing in my wallet and all means to explain to her proved abortive even though i give her money for things she love like body cream, cloths and others but after all nagging, i was vexed and went to the kids room which i politely asked her to let me be at the moment because i cant withstand her nagging over a thousand naira but she persisted and i have to shut the door against her but she opened it and told me she hates me and regret marrying me.....sounded like the rapture sound initially but later realised it actually came from my woman, my mother of my kids!!!!

i still cant place those words.....could it be out of anger or she actually mean the words for real?

Please help a heartbroken brother.

Wrong advice..until he dies?

sola12:
U are lucky boss... She is still crazily in luv with u. She is only trying to protect n preserve her territory. Draw her close n give her better piping. Moreso women could be funny at times wen they are angry. Learn to forgive and forget!!!

Oga what are you really begging for..your untimely death when you haven't found another job?you want to kill yourself by trying to outdo yourself when she returns..you want to think yourself to death because up monthly upkeep?a woman who wouldn't look for a way to help her husband when things are bad and still bags him doesn't love him genuinely.. they are there for the tilte(marriage)

Olivertwist1985:
My wife which we have been married for the past thirteen (13) years and have five(5) children, four boys and girl for me ,just left my house on Sunday to her parent house without informed me.

She left because we have little disagreement about monthly food allowance which I used to give her every month but I failed to give her this month when she requested for

She left with the girl which is six months old and a boy two years and left three boys for me.

Please I need your advice, should I go and beg her or I should forget about her and continue with my life. According to my family members, they said I should forget about her because of the manner she left.

Oga go for DNA before you make the biggest mistake in life by accusing your wife of such evil..carry out DNA test in all your kids but first start with the son you just talked about then when you have money you can take the rest..I don't know why men wouldn't just make it a must to carry out DNA on all their kids.

owenseddies40:
My wife gave birth to 3boys and one girl for me,my last son scares me a lot because whenever I see him, it's like am before my father.they look alike,talk alike and behaviours too, it's really scarry

If it's me I will tell..a cheating and shameless wife belongs to the street..if it's me I will drop a note some where only him will see it..I will just tell him to set a camera in all his rooms and see what is going on in his absence

Kempinski:
Good morning guys , there's this woman in my neighborhood who has been having an extramarital affairs with the bike man that normally use to come and pick her children to school in the morning, she has two kid, a boy and a girl, but her cheating spree is out of this world...

Her husband is a nice person and works in one of the big bank in the country on the island, due to his nature of his job, he leaves for work early and return very late...

This crazy woman has been using this to hit her children's bike man on severea occasion, there's was this day I was at home working on my laptop early in the morning, the window of her bedroom shares the same as mine only a fence blocking us apart, I kept hearing heavy moany and repeated thrust sound coming from the bedroom,

This man in question is a cool headed gentle man, easy going in the estate and doesn't deserve this kind of trouble and heart wenching action the woman is taking him through, I don't preay he finds out and I need help on how to tell the woman to stop doing this and at the same time I don't want their marriage to crash....

After knacking, this woman goes to her shop and pretends as if nothing happens.....

I don't use to receive any money from the government every Monday..whose account does the billions go to?wetin concern me concern money wey Una dey lose..as if you use it to do something for thing for the masses..

My dear you are very wrong..why are you asking me if he should pick any girl from the street and marry?did you mention that he wants to pick just any girl?how can you advice a man of 34 years to wait so such a girl?with strikes he has like 5 years to wait for this girl which will make him 39 to 40 years then?what is it about the girl really?a girl that wants to do girls things(what ever that means)before getting married..
I don't blame the girl for wanting these things but she is not the right person for this guy at the moment..if you had advised the guy to get something that pays more before getting married it would have been better but the guy mentioned that he does business too so the salary is not a problem..he should get involved with someone else..

Vinnie2000:
So he should just pick any Girl from the Street and Marry, abi?

It's marriage we talking about here o..

He loves the lady and if she loves him too, He should Wait!..

Please do not listen to this

Vinnie2000:
If she is cool, fine and respectful generally, Wait..Be patient!

Do not Rush into marriage with any Available young lady because you are 34..
Pple still see Marriage as a Competition!
It's the ability of a Man to bring up a beautiful family and Cater for them, without Stress!

When I see some 29, 30 yrs Guys rushing into Marriage, I just Pity some of Dem!..

My point too..don't drag your kids into those story..imagine someone praying to know how someone got rich but haven't been able to find out how she became poor..no the guy should have died of hunger..you no fit help and you still dey form boss.

falcon01:
Mcheew I'm angry at this, the fact that Parents have to Drag children into their superstitious beliefs, and personal Life choices haba!! Buddy, truth is we all need help one way or the other, what you did wasn't wrong and I want you to know Parents make mistake and because they are our parents doesn't mean they are perfect or know it all. Don't feel bad about what you did

Story..better stop allowing your mother control you..what do you mean by she is praying to know how the man got wealthy,she needs to pray and fine out how she became poor..you are too close to your mother,you tell her everything..at your age?you better start being a man because when you get married there going to be serious fight between your mother and your wife..your mother would want to be telling you what should go on in your home and how to threat your wife and your wife wouldn't like that..that is how mother's make their kids suffer so much when they are no more..allow your kids mix up,you never can tell where their help will come from..you can't help you son and wouldn't allow another do that..I would advice you stop asking the man for help not because of what your mother said but because the help he was accusing you of not asking him looks like a burden to him now after sending ordinary 9,000 to you..you need to start being a man..your mother has so much control in your life and it's bad..since she started the prayer she didn't see anything ooo it's not that you collected money from that guy that everything spoilt..

Supreme145:
Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.

Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.

I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.

When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds.
Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.

I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.

In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.

This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.

I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.

Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.

Which government?aren't they the sponsors?everyone should better be equipped now..do me I do you..las las all of us go run

donbachi:
Naija takeover loading.....if the government no act fast.

Since you have discussed it with your woman and she is against it then she needs to warn her brothers never to ask you for money,that they should only ask her and if she has she helps if she doesn't have they go and work like other men to make their own money.

Golden147:
Good afternoon everyone..
Please I'm kindly in need of advice... ignore my typing ERROR..
There's this girl I love and I want to settle down with her. She's still in school while I'm still in school too. She's 22 while I'm 24 nd also in final YR and we both love each other..my mum has supported me to marry her.
I proposed to her and she said yes...I plan going her house next month next to start official martial rites but I'm afraid.
Here is my reasons

She's the only girl and the last daughter in a family of 5boys. Ever since we started dating, she's in 100l then, all her school burdens are on me..I take care of her and mine own...with this people around who knows about our RELATIONSHIP ask me to marry her to avoid story that touches the heart..which he has accepted , her mum nd dad have accepted it too.
My major concern about this girl is that those his brothers are not willing to do anything, istead the came asking me for small small money when I'm back, knowing fully I'm just dating thier sis....most times the my girl always feel ashamed of her brothers nd keep cursing them. The can't even call her on phone unless she calls them...nd the will keep asking why she didn't call them all this while knowing fully thier sister is in school nd not working.

I have thought about this over and over again, how do I marry from a family that can't even assist in anything...I know marriage is not always Rosy, what if something happens tomorrow nd I needed thier financial support..the can't render to me.
I discussed with my mum nd she told me I'm marrying thier sister who is well trained nd not the brother..that I can decide not to give them money again... But I'm very sad over this.
It's only the father and mum that acknowledge I hay been trying to see their sister through school expenses, including food and wears.
I discussed with my woman, she started crying, saying she knows her brothers are such a disgrace, telling me how she may commite sucide if I didn't marry her... She cried that she can't visits her house again... that her only hope will be to start prostitution which she can't see herself do that nd that's why she is going to commite sucide if I eventually leave her, all her social media handle is full with my picture, including her profile pictures.

Please what advice do you have for me.... should I let go of this girl, I don't mind letting go all I have already spent...I just want to make sure I won't regret the marriage tomorrow...I have already discussed with my mom nd we plan on going her house officially by August ending..but I'm still very worried.

Matured advice please

It's a celebration of life my dear..you can do your own show off so we can see too..you think show off is for the poor..levels

Asquare84:
Sorry to say this the way some people behave make me to reason that they are not o.k, a burial that is supposed to be a period of surber reflection has become a carnival and the names of people that are donating posted on social media all in the name of show off. Ok ask very well during the life time of the deceased was she taking care off.

By going to join them in oba.. donate yours
and look at the list if it's real

Karlman:
Lovely!
But how do we verify the list?

Ewu

Lattop:
Ode

Your life has already been hijacked by buhari

Lattop:
No to Protest... It will be hijacked by thugs

Shameless idio..t..when are you going to talk about your people being killed a daily basis?

Use all the energy you have been using to ask her out to work hard for money..she is waiting for a big miracle in your life and once she sees that you have made good money she will be the one to remind you that you have been asking her out and that she has accepted..so for the four years you have been asking her out I believe you have been giving her things to soften her mind..all the things you have been giving her is actually enough to use and build yourself to the kind of man she wants to be with..

Igbojihadist:
Good day nairalanders there is this very girl I love so much. I have expressed my feeling to her but she keeps telling me she is not ready yet. It has been four years now and am finding it difficult to move on or love any other girl.

Its ruining me as all i do each day is to think of her, atimes I might decide not to call her again within three days or what she would call me telling me is this the type of love I have for her. I am overwhelmed but she doesn't understand how i feel (please i need advice) plz anyone who would remind me of the present economy should stay off as ur problem is not mine.

Madam you old..what do you mean saved..does he not go to church?so you want to tell him how to worship his God and if it's not your way then he is not saved..I guess that your pastor that might be f..ucking most of the girls in your church in secret is the one that is saved..like I said,you go oil..let him go and he will marry someone better than you..who will not be asking for something as stupid as religion..this church you are talking about is it not the one that we read online..the ones that f..uck everyone in church?the ones that kill for power or you are sure your pastor is different because he has not been caught..like I said..you go old by the time you realise you are making a big mistake..you will get old and single at the end..

mugnmuffin:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other. We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, i.e acknowledging Christ as lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life.

Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too. They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction,I regret it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about kids and how we’ll raise the, with such differing views about God and I’m discouraged. I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me because anything that involves him,I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.

At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms...

Talk to him about what really? because he has refused to join her now church..he is good in aspects then she is looking for more..she go old.

aanuoluwami14:
Broken relationship is better than broken marriage. Talk to him better. I don't see any joy in not happy in a relationship.

Oh wow..thanks

bigl:
Yeah she did ... An average doc will recommend augmentin but erythromycin would fix it ... And also, warm water + salt gargle till it goes

And my wife's own is triggered by taking cold drinks ...

Contribute to your brother's wedding?did your brother contribute when your father wanted to bill him to death..this is what happens when you do things without thinking tomorrow.. you can go if you are tired.

You need serious help for telling him to see a pastor

kjsunday3:
culture and sensitivity stool test.U need pastors prayer since there's no output of the result as u need to have anal discharge and prayers will cause the anal discharge and test will bring output.so combination of prayer and sensitivity test

Lol..silly fellows..keep fooling yourself

KingKingKing:
Join NLP by pastor Bolaji idowu on Instagram.. The infection will be gone in 2 days

You are a goa.t..no go find work..that is how you people kill ignorant people with your wicked hearts and fake miracles..you and I know that you don't have any power at all but because you are hungry and need money to feed you want to take advantage of his sickness.

kalmebad:
While seeking for Medical help..also get on d alter of fire #NSPPD#7amPrayer..Monday-Friday. WHAT GOD CANNOT DO DOES NOT EXIST.

I have people testify to miracles that looks like a lie.

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May God heal you.

Did your wife experience fever too..a friend of mine has been experiencing same thing and actually tired of going to the hospital..she did herbs.. antibiotics many types recommend by doctors..at first she had those two whitish things and it was painful..from there the pain moved to her chest..then cold..fever and burning stomach..she has since been going from one church to the other thinking her problem is spiritual..your reply can help.

bigl:
Its tonsillitis.... and has nothing to do with suckinf toto as claimed by some people ... I'll ask my wife for d drugs she used for hers ....

There's nothing to fear bro