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Oga the worst think any man would do to me is to finger me without my consent..I can dash you some bullets while at it if I have the means to...

Well this is what the girl wanted to achieve..to make you get so attracted to her so when she leaves you wouldn't be able to stay without her...she was enjoying the attention,it puts her on the mood watching you misbehave for her sake..if she was sure that you loved her she would have had sex with you..

She is angry now because you can stay without her..she feels you came that day and that is all you wanted and she is feeling used by someone she loves..

Well if you want to stop her from threatening then you need to start telling her you actually love her but she is messing the feelings up but you may need to keep dating her until you leave jos or you can call her bluff and forget about her threat but you have to keeping telling her that you didn't have sex with her in your chats and how she is the one that sexually assaulted you by putting her boobs on your face and sitting on your dick immediately she entered your house incase she wants to arrest you but why would you be dragging her jeans is it yours?why would you even be fingering someone who is telling you to stop?

Please I want to get some information from you..can I send a DM if you don't mind?

Totilopussylick:
I left Nigeria 23rd September 2020 to Spain, and my flight was 'Air France' so I landed in Paris airport.

I boarded Flix Bus going to Spain, inside the bus was a white man and a woman seated by my right side, and a group of Indians seated in front of me.

I noticed that the white people don't like seating next to black fortunately we are seated according to the numbers on the ticket, so they has no choice.

We had several stop by during the journey, the only thing that unit both of us was cigarettes.

You can ask a white person for cigarette, they are not stingy.

In Spain, you are not attended very well if you don't know Spanish and worst of it all if your black.

You can be walking towards a white person to ask for a direction, they'll begin to walk faster away from you

Destroyers...you want to destroy more lives

I invested in a buying and selling for more than 8 months now and I have been making profit..you can invest too..I'm not saying something will happen and I'm also not promising that nothing will happen because business is a risk on its own..I invested 500,000..if you are interested I can put you through.me sef na risk I take so if you want to take same risk let me know.

Lyydia:
Hi Nairalanders,
What is the best way to invest funds without actually being engaged in doing anything? I have what I do that brings in money, I just feel like some funds are idle in my account and Naira - dollar fluctuations isn't helping matter.

For example fixed deposit accounts, which Nigerian bank has the best interest rate?

No cryptocurrency
No forex
No betting
No scam investment
No PM

Thank you.

You and who are cool?I can't be cool with a person like you,just don't want to banter words with you..bye.[quote author= post=111183794]Egg and sweet banana theory .

No worries darling. NIGERIA go better whether una like am or not.
Stay blessed beautiful
We Kool now.[/quote]

I wouldn't waste my time replying you because you are doing the work you are paid to do..[quote author= post=111182649]Children of hate, frustrations and perdition go cry and die for dis thread from now till 2023.

All our darling Super Eagles players that visited will suddenly turn to their enemies instanta.

But assuming it is their lord and god Atiku that these players visited, social media no go rest again.
They will be celebrating it till election day.
Hypocritical animals.
Frustrated 2 time losers.
Supporters of corruption.

Miserable and frustrated swines and cannibals in life.
All enemies of Nigeria no go ever die better.

God bless all good, honest and hardworking Nigerians.

(Sane Nairalanders, you will see people that see themselves as swines and cannibals quoting this comment now, They know themselves wella..... una go know dem today today)




Nwankwo Kanu, Okocha, Taribo, Peter Rufai, Dosu Joseph, Ikpeba, Finidi and all our Super Heroes has suddenly turned to fools in your eyes.
But Nnamdi Cownu the murderer (that killed our relative "Miracle Nwobodo" and thousands of other innocent Nigerians, especially igbos) is your mazi and savior!
We talk am.
Na dem
E pain am

May God help and save you... in Jesus name we pray.
AMEN.



All ipob cannibals and murderers go cry tire.
Perennial losers they are.

God bless all good and safe igbos out there.
May Amadioha strike down anyone supporting the brutal deaths of bright igbo sons and daughters.[/quote]

Shameless bunch of fools

In order words?abeg go and retire this old man.. saviour of PDP.

No she wouldn't change..infact it will get worst so I advice you to get some else now,do not listen to her when she cries and begs that she will change because she will only drag you into the marriage and you will see the real her. Let's put it this way..a girl who has not started making her own money.. someone that depends on you on everything is doing all these what do you think will happen when she stops depending on you for anything..make your choice wisely now.

bewov:
Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.

These might be long, but please bare with me

There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!

After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.

My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.

We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.

I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.

So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.

January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.

This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.

She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".

She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?

She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?

Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!

Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.

When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.

Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"

Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!

She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".

Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.

Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?

Please guys, I'm very confused here

Your wife should be the number person to offer her kidney..there is no love in the marriage that's why she is even allowing people to talk to her about it..if she doesn't want to give her kidney let her just leave because if they get the kidney somewhere else the husband will never value her after the treatment.

What should we do with the latest information?is that the reason why you are in court?did or did you not touch the girl?abeg shift with this your emotional blackmail

5 days to her wedding she came for goodbye f@@k you said? Well I don't pity women with fish head and no self worth..

She has to live with her stupidity..better tell the woman you are about to marry now before she finds out from your ex,tell you ex you will take care of the child but that should be after DNA but you can't be with her any more but if you like you can go and give her your own goodbye f@@k and finish your life too the way she has done to herself.

Then pull your Putin out of Ukraine so that they can stop the supplies or you mean they should fold their hands and watch while being killed?

Svlla:
Easy pick for S300

EU should stop funding this war with their hypocrisy and is there any agreement with Russia to transfer Russia made planes to Ukraine?

I said it here earlier that the West is in a tearing race to re arm Ukraine and resupply it with military hardwares because of the effective demilitarisation of Ukraine and the elimination of almost all Ukraine military hardwares, including over 300 tanks and armored vehicles, 30+ aircrafts with most sitting duck, and 29+command centres, bringing to a total of 1211 military infrastructures destroyed by the Russia military.

Why the need to restock Ukraine if not wanting to prolong this conflict.

Well Russia still controls the Ukrainian airspace and is unbothered by some obsolete 2nd generation fighters.

You are a goat for believing such nonsense..if I were your wife I will divorce once I hate such betrayal from you..so someone that stayed with you for years while you were sick.. manages 20,00/ monthly income with you is the person you are saying all these trash about?it's not your fault.

Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

You are evil..may such be brought open you and your household.

DoggoneDogg:
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Ukraine will fall by Sunday.
Rest.

Thanks for your response..I'm actually talking about UK..I heard Spain is rejecting visa any how with the language thing too..
It's UK visa I'm talking about please.

Gentlesoul3268:
You can visit France section since is Schengen visa is almost the same requirements,because UK Visa requirements is totally different to Schengen.



https://www.nairaland.com/1106291/securing-visa-france-applying-nigeria/216

Good morning house..

Please if I'm going on a business bases hope it's just my company account I need to present?I intend to go and buy goods then come back,sell and go back.do I still need to present my personal account for a business trip when I have a business account?

Ok..thanks.

Cousin9999:
There's already multiple threads. Do a search.

Please who can put me through on how to go about Spanish visa..people don't apply for it and I wonder why.

Send me a private message let me give you a group name on Facebook where you can ask and get a better respond..I'm also interested but some people know me there that's why I can't ask.

sandra50:
Good day house..I'm wondering why no one is talking about Spanish visa..I'm thinking of applying for it but I want to find out from those who have done it in the past if it's advisable I apply for it..

Good day house..I'm wondering why no one is talking about Spanish visa..I'm thinking of applying for it but I want to find out from those who have done it in the past if it's advisable I apply for it..

The only point you made is that they trust easily and that they should keep doing good even if the people you are doing to does not deserve it..

Talking about they refused to read the hand writing on the wall,is it everyone that comes their ways that come with a hand writing?no one genuinely loved them and later turned bad?

To me the reason for the heart breaks is because they are too good and too soft..we tend to take good people for granted.

See who is talking about innocence and unity..blood auckers that have been going around killing innocent people in their homes and innocent farmers..bloody killers.

EmirGold:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/02/abia-cattle-market-arewa-youths-give-last-warning/

This is what it means..your wife is deeply involved with another man..she is not just trying to but she is already involved with a man she loves..

Do not go to a pastor to ask for the meaning because he will complicate issues for you and make you very confused..find a way to real your wife's phone messages,there truth is there..I repeat,do anything within your power to read your wife's messages,the truth you seek is there..thanks.

neo25:
Hi all a friend of mine tells me he sees his wife always in dreams with another strange Man like she is married to him and he as the husband would stand by and watch them both like a stranger in that dream.

They both have been married for 10 years now but these dreams have been occurring at least every week since last years November 2021.
Can anyone please advise, both the Spiritual and Physical implications.

Thanks.

Fucking just shut up your stinking mouth there..listen,that divide and rule isn't working again..don't think he is going to use tribalism to win again like he did with buhari.. Yoruba's don't want him..as Igbo that I am I want Osibanjo or someone else than Tinubu and his APC pampers team.

NGpatriot:





Your worthless and inconsequential ipobian votes don't even matter to start with so why waste time on you?

They can marry mother harlot for all I care..as if they value the ones that sleep in their houses every night..if you are not into dating multiple men at a time..I mean if you don't make their blood pressure to go up and down they never value you..they will still leave and then come back later to ask if you can both get married..Oga go and marry those people.

Munamoqel:
With the high level of prostitution, runs hookup, how do guys cope when getting married to avoid marrying a run girl. Some sites have increased the tempo of transactional sex by ladies. This has increased the probability of marrying a woman that has slept with hundreds of men.

Lagos men how do cope?

I don't know why you people are so stupid..why are you mentioning igbo now..we the youths are talking about having a youth as the next president..someone his brain is still working.. unlike this one that is close to his grave.. health-wise buhari will even be better than this one because buhari wasn't as weak as tinubu when he started.

SlyDev:
I want Igbo to come out and tell me why they hate Tinubu? Can they enjoy the level of freedom in Yoruba when they go to the North? Why are always on Yoruba neck?

Oh ok.. thanks for your assistance.

beryour:
It is good practice to back up any actual or intending grey areas with your letter.

I also still recommend getting docs from the seller business.

Thank you so much..I have some receipt I used in purchasing the goods..the receipt from the shipping company..the chats I had with a friend that helped buy it and how he said he wouldn't be able to continue because he has other things doing.. picture of some of my goods.

Do I need to write a letter to them to address anything that might confuse them and submit when I'm submitting other documents?

beryour:
Firstly, you need to understand that you will not be present to explain all the excuses to the VO and decision will only be made from the proofs and documents available to the VO to decide on.

If the 250k payment has been on for a long period (a year and above) then it might be no problem as you need to prove that and also show all documents of the business and then show those payments as your salary from the business.

For any month that was skipped, you need to give a detailed explanation on the reason it was skipped and how you intend to fix it.

Finally, if it appears complicated to you, then it will most def be more complicated to the VO and that is an easy route for refusal. If it is a business trip, then you should be able to show all documentation regarding that, previous trips made, your contacts in the UK and proof of them doing business, they should also be able to give you a cover letter for the business and finally your registration and operation as a business in Nigeria should be proved.

Once your home work is done properly, nothing can refuse your application.

Move out..what did I say,move out.

Look for a house outside because it's either the poison your food or they gather and choke to death..if you don't get out of there 3 of them will gather and kill you and nobody will know what happened to you..I repeat,move out and don't keep friends.

Brownygold002:
Hey, Nairalanders

Something has really been eating me up, I think I need to share. I'm a young gal of about more than 17, I'm brown, tall, slim, have a long curly hair (I'm from a mixed race - Lebanon and Nigeria), brown eyes and nice lips I'm endowed (no be mouth).

I'm a fresher at UNIZIK. I know I am attractive which I don't deny, I don't boast nor make anyone feel inferior. I have 3 roommates. I respect them cos I'm the youngest amongst them. But they don't seem to get along with me. I have tried everything I Can.

Each time we go out, I'm usually the center of attraction which is not new to me, nothing special. They just hate me. I don't boast. I try 2 look as simple as possible. But guys do come for me and they get jealous.

I have tried talking to them but they said they're fine but deep down I know they don't like me. The other day they intentionally frustrated me, they hid my assignments and burnt a new gown a guy at church got me. I'm tired of all these attitude everyday. I feel lyk taking my life, the hate is much. I didn't make myself. Help me guys!!

Very evil man..he was long gone..he is in love with the girl.

Who is he threatening with divorce?he should go to hell.if that is what he wants then let him have it..he is actually trying to kill you emotionally,if he succeeds in what he is trying to do,which is to make you get comfortable with his cheating the next is to bring the girls home and expect you to be calm as usual.this is how evil they can be.