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Akpamuaka..Please weep not...God is not sleeping concerning your case and that of every mothers and fathers in this forum..I truly understand the emotional pain,agony and torture you are going through at the moment...We are bound to feel discouraged as some point in time either by crying our pouring our heart out or asking questions or even looking back to our past life's,either good or bad.
Believe me,as strong as i thought i am faithfully,for the first time in my life,i cry over issue.I am a very adamant person.I wept some 2 weeks back...I have to call my Mum,Dad,brothers and Sisters..They were all consoling me like i am a baby.someone that is over 40years.
Importantly,i pick up again by crying to God in prayers.
So my Sister,after pouring your heart out.Which will make you feel light from the feeling of being discouraged,wipe the tears off your face and move on.The TTC journey is a race..Tell yourself that until you get your BFP and desired number of children,you will not give up.
I decided not to drive to church today.On my way back from church,a woman was sharing her TTC experience inside the church bus.She waited for 5 agonising years.That her in-laws were already arranging for another wife for their son.God blessed her with BFP after the 5th year with a son..2 years later,which was 2013,she had another son.Some months after she had the 2nd son,she got pregnant again.Today,she is blessed with 3 sons.Now,her in-laws hold her and children like egg.Funny enough,they are now begging her to stop with the 3 children she already has.

@Olubankemi,please do not despair.Hold on to God.We all understand all what you are going through.
What problem are you facing that is bigger than you are?Are you offended with God because he allowed this to happen,even though you have been faithfully serving him?Just keep on praising him for the omnipotence of Jesus Christ.He is greater,more powerful than any problem or situation you or I will ever face.Did you know that Jesus draws near to those who are suffering? That when you experience problems,he is close beside you?
I know sometimes we feel depressed,lifeless and find it hard to get out of bed in the morning.We seem to have no energy to do even the most routine functions.At moments like this,you need to continue to study the word of God.That is where you find help and joy.Let the rushing waters of the living word drown out all other sounds and voices.There is life-giving power in the word of God.
Let me give you a true life experience.I have a friend that his only child(a boy), is 7years old now.My friend just agreed to go for check up after how many years and the result finally came out as low sperm count.It took him years before he agreed to take drugs.
Another case is a friend that has been married for 4years and has zero sperm count.He has been very supportive in taking his drugs,going for deliverance programs for spiritual cleansing.He is eager to get a solution.But his wife's faith is very low.It is either she is crying or asking God questions etc.She is even depriving the husband of sex.Can you imagine someone TTC doing that?It's not as if her husband is infected by any STD.They can stay for over a month without sex and she will not be bothered.Maybe, because my friend is not ready to cheat on her.
So,my sister count yourself lucky to have a husband that is willing to get a solution for whatever situation that your marriage is facing at the moment.

Isaiah 53:4-5
Surely he(Jesus) hath borne our gries(sickness,weakness and distresses) and carried our sorrows(pains);yet we thought his troubles were a punishment from God for his own sins.
But he was wounded for our transgressions,he was bruised for our iniquities:the chatisement of our peace was upon him;and with his stripes we are healed.
Read Mathew 8:17 and 1Peter 2:24 also.

Many times,this is where folks miss it.They say"I know God promised to heal me,but he hasn't done it yet"This causes folks to become confused.But God didn't promise to heal them SOMEDAY.He said in his word that they are healed NOW.
To say that God has promised to heal us is like an unsaved person saying"I know God has promised to save me."
the above scriptures on healing are not really promises,they are statement of fact.
All the best to every member of this thread.

@Adorablemum,Congrats!!!!! Heavelny father,we need more BFP..The spirit of the Lord is upon this thread...I love this atmosphere..Everybody grab your BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We will not be left out from this showers of blessings in Jesus name.

Oh Yesssss!!!! The spirit of God is going round this thread distributing BFP's..Grab your own now!!!! So happy with this pleasant news of BFP's.
Congrats to Mrs2u,MGeey and Sen tempest(Mum4all)....You will all carry to term and deliver with ease as you migrate to pregnancy thread..
MyChildishere...Do no be weary..Just get yourself ready because you will smile again in no distance..Try as much as possible to be joyful at all times in order to allow the spirit of God dwell inside you.Then he can plant another baby in you.

@Miraclebaby,thanks for being transparent in your explanation, and others that gave a breakdown what they did to improve the male factor aspect of their challenges,God bless.
Miraclebaby,you sound more like Omonikiba..I may be wrong..Just my observation.Your explanation is just too direct and explicit.Thanks..I like the idea of you and DH bding thrice in a week..
@All,let's be more prayerful when it comes to TTC..Some challenges might be spiritual unknowingly to us..So,it is necessary we battle it from both physical and spiritual angle.
Good news shall be our portion this new week that we have entered.God let the BFP start to flow like the river in this forum.

Goke7 and Godsgrace..You are blessed in Jesus name.@Sister Rute,Just believe that there is light at the end of the tunnel.This whole trials shall pass.
Sometimes,I look at this TTC challenges like a school certificate leaver that have been seeking desperately for an admission into the university for some years while his/her mates are already in the university or some have graduated and working thereafter.Some get admitted with ease while some despite their intelligence(Virgins) still face difficulties before they finally get admitted.Before then,your friends(the undergraduates) will try as much as they can to calm you whenever you feel depressed and complain about the delays.
I can imagine the joy that will be all over you the first day you lay your hands on your admission letter or your first day in school as an undergraduate.
That is the same joy you feel when you get your BFP after TTC for years..A lot of our friends conceive and deliver with ease.Some go through challenges(academic challenges) before they deliver.
We have a lot of our sisters and brothers here that went through a lot before they got their BFP(admission).Today,they are confirmed and approved mothers(graduates).They can still decide to go for advanced course if they choose to.lol...For example,Beloved,Favoredgal,Udoka and so many others
Basically,we should all remember the word of God,the grace of God and the Holy Spirit is what will empower us to achieve all our desires.Let's try as much as possible put God first even as we take our drugs,go for check up,treatment and all.It is well with all TTC,pregnant mothers and nursing mothers.God bless.

Can God entrust you with the best? Then you will have to trust Him with every bit of your life in the time of trial. Zacharias and Elizabeth kept serving God even when they were having delay, they were not discouraged; they did not compromise and they did not allow the delay to distract them. "So it was, that while he was serving as priest before God in the order of his division, 9 according to the custom of the priesthood, his lot fell to burn incense when he went into the temple of the Lord." Luke 1:8,9. It is actually in serving God during the delay that God serves you with the best.
What is your delay? No job? No healing yet? No spouse? No child or what? As long you are a genuine child of God, God is reserving you for the best, get it clear. So, don’t be discouraged. Everything works together to good for them who love God. But you may think, “But is there any good that can come out of my worst situation? Things have gone beyond retrieve, I’m embarrassed and ashamed already, it is already sealed and no solution anymore, all I care for now is just to make heaven, after all”
Beloved, your thinking is humanly right, but bibically wrong. From the history of the world till the world will come to an end, there is no crime as worst, as evil and terrible as the killing of Jesus Christ, to kill the only sinless Man ever born and ever existed on earth; for creatures to use their created hands to slap their Creator and crucify Him on the cross in a painful death. Oh how terrible! But out of the worst historical event, God brought out the greatest historical blessing – salvation of humanity. So, if God could bring good thing out of the killing of Jesus, if God could make the greatest crime on earth to bring about the greatest blessing of justification, then the same God can work good thing out of your worst condition at the moment, if only you can trust Him and stay faithful to Him.
Romans 8:28, 31, 32, 35, 38, 39.
“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32 He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things? Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or unclothedness, or peril, or sword? For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, 39 nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
God’s delay is to determine if you deserve the best. So wait, and I say, wait on Him! Just wait and trust Him, and see the wonders of God in your life.
Stay blessed in Christ

The reason why God delayed in any aspect of your life as a child of God is not because He is trying to denying you, He is not trying to disappoint or destroy you, but He wants to test your love for Him, because He has a special copy of what you need for you, and He wants to know if you actually deserve it. In such a delayed period, if truly you love and trust God, you will keep praying and keep patience before God, and keep working for God. You will not allow the need to drain your love for God, you will not allow the urgent needs to discourage you from working for God with all your strength, and you will not allow the need to drift you into sin against God.
From the Genesis of the Bible, wherever there is a delay for children of God, it means there is a peculiar portion on the way; what it means is that, delay usually serve as a sign for something special for the people of God, from Abraham to Zacharias. In the New Testament, this man called Zacharias was a just man, serving God. He married a godly woman called Elizabeth from a good home of Levi. They were both serving God. Now, who do you think is suppose to get the fastest blessing? Is it not the families that are serving God? Yes, but not always the way we expect it.
Luke 1:5-7, "There was in the days of Herod, the king of Judea, a certain priest named Zacharias, of the division of Abijah. His wife was of the daughters of Aaron, and her name was Elizabeth. 6 And they were both righteous before God, walking in all the commandments and ordinances of the Lord blameless. 7 But they had no child, because Elizabeth was barren, and they were both well advanced in years."
Probably Elizabeth was a virgin, kept herself for her husband, no premarital sex and no abortion; while her friends were messing around, she was only serving God and keeping herself. She was faithful and fervent in the Lord. Now she is married and no child. But her friends who were messing around before marriage, whom she was preaching the word of God to, were easily having their babies in their different matrimonial homes; these friends committed several abortions and slept with so many men, yet they don’t have problem with childbearing. But why is Mrs Elizabeth Zachariah barren while her unbelieving friends are bearing many children? The truth is that all her friends can give birth to many children but none of them can give birth to John the Baptist, the greatest man born of woman.
Only Elizabeth could give birth to John the Baptist, because her womb was reserved for that special child. But God would not just give John the Baptist to any woman to give birth to, God would want to see if Sister Elizabeth really deserve it. So, God’s delay is to determine if you deserve the best.

Good morning all fruitful mothers and fathers.Our children shall surround our table in God's appointed time.I know a lot of questions concerning our fruitfulness will be running through our minds at every interval.Please,let's not be weary but believe in the unrefined word of God to perform it's wonders.

@Alwaystrue..Thanks for the spiritual food you have been feeding us.Your effort shall yield increase in Jesus name.

A message for our spiritual edification.
THE TEST OF TRUST
Exodus 15:22, “So Moses brought Israel from the Red Sea; then they went out into the Wilderness of Shur. And they went three days in the wilderness and found no water.”
Before God can entrust greater things into your hands, either in your personal life or in the ministry, He will first teach you how you must trust Him with all your heart, and then test if you will eventually trust Him with all your life. The Lord taught and tested the children of Israel in the wilderness, but unfortunately majority of them failed and so they fell in the wilderness.
Do you know that God knows your needs before you are aware of them? Yes He does! God knows you needed a life partner even before you saw the need for it, He knew you would need children when that was like the least thing you thought about. As a woman, God gave you womb since childhood, even when you did not need the womb, because God knew you would need the womb to conceive; God did not give you womb after you are married. And so it’s applicable to all our needs. God knows what we will need and He has made provision for them even when we do not see the needs.
God brought the children of Israel from Egypt to journey in the wilderness to the Promised Land, as all-knowing-God, would He not have known that they would need water to drink in the wilderness? But God wanted to teach and test them to trust Him, so He delayed the provision of the water. If the children of Israel were to trust God, they would have cast their need before God in prayer, who just delivered them from the Red Sea and from the bondage of Egypt; but if they were to doubt and disbelieve God, they would complain. Unfortunately, they doubted God, and so they complained. “ Now when they came to Marah, they could not drink the waters of Marah, for they were bitter. Therefore the name of it was called Marah. 24 And the people complained against Moses, saying, “What shall we drink?”

Good day everyone..Wish you all a week of inexplainable testimonies.
@Lodar2000 and RipVanWink..Thanks for the mention.I am doing just fine by his grace.
I have a message for our spiritual edification.
FOUR STEPS TO RECEIVING YOUR ANSWER FROM GOD.Mark 5:25-34

1.. SAY IT
The first step the woman with the issue of blood took was in verse 28.."For she SAID,if i may touch but his clothes,i shall be whole"
There is a Godward side and a manward side to winning every battle,every victory and to receiving anything from God.You have your part to play.There is something that you must do.God is not going to fail on his part.If there is any failure,it has to be on our part.
The woman could have made a negative confession instead of a positive one and that would have been what she received.She could have said,There is no use for me to go see Jesus.I have suffered so long.Twelve years i have been sick.All the best doctors have given up on my case.I have spent all my living on physicians.I am not better but growing worse.I have nothing to live.I might as well die.
If that had been what she said,that would have been what she received.But she did not speak negatively but positively.
2.. DO IT(Mark 5:28)
For she said,if i may TOUCH but his clothes,i shall be whole.
it wouldn't have done the woman with the issue of blood any good if she had said"If i may touch but his clothes,i shall be whole and then hadn't acted upon what she said.
3..RECEIVE IT(Mark 5:29)
And straightaway the fountain of her blood was dried up;and she felt in her body that she was healed of that plague.
After the woman touched Jesus clothes in faith,she felt in her body that she was healed of that plague
4..TELL IT(Mark 5:33)
But the woman fearing and trembling,knowing what was done in her,came and fell down before him,and TOLD him all the truth.

Hello!!!!!! Mothers and Fathers of nations..Please,enough have been said.Let the insults and foul languages stop and the purpose of this thread prevail..

I have a message for us..

At this point,let's build our faith in God..Chew,study and meditate on his word daily.So many of us are trying to make hope do what only faith can do.We are hoping on mere mortal for the solution of our desires instead of believing in God while some are in between.
It is good to hope but remember hoping is a future tense.That is why you hear people say"I belive i am going to get my healing someday or get pregnant someday/carry my children someday.That is not believing at all.It's hope,not faith and hope won't bring healing to you.

Anything that points to the future is hope.Because faith is a NOW force.Faith always says"It is mine.I have it now."
So,Mothers and Fathers of Nations,let's start BELIEVING and acting like God's word is so.Your faith will work for you in Jesus name.

@blessedDiva,go to modify on that same message and delete your email.
@Beloved,Congrats on your twins..Good to hear that you are doing fine.

Very funny how this people invade people's privacy.I wonder how they got my phone number.
Just when i was reading through the comments in this thread,i got an alert now and here is the message.

Telesource
Hi,come with your CV/passport to 77,Opebi Road,1st floor,Salvation B/stop,Opebi Lagos State.
Be prepared to undergo 2weeks training before proper job begins.Job placement opportunity after 2weeks intensive training.Call Odunayo on xxxxxxxxxxx..1st come,1st serve..

Sometime last month,i was sent a text from (M.R.C) somewhere in Challenge B/stop,Mushin to come for an interview.The message was almost similar to this..I did all i could to get information the company on google but all my effort was dashed.Call the number they gave but the person refuse to disclose what the company is into..So,i decided to give it a trial.On getting there,i met 2 other guys and we had wait for the interviewers for like 30mins.That was when i started having doubt about the company.When they finally came,they gave us a form to fill our Name,State of Origin etc and some funny questions like Where do you hope to be in the next 5 years?? A lady came out to address us with plenty,plenty motivational talks on why we should forget about sending CV's to Oil company,Banks etc.Not quite 15mins,a guy stood up and walk out.Immediately,i joined him because i have been to one around Unity street,Ikeja..What really annoy me is the fuel i wasted by driving down there.
Note:M.R.C means Medicure Resource Company.

A deep revelation..Nice one bro.

Congrats to Nezzel,Abibaby and Noblewife..Heavenly Father,let the showers of testimonies keep flowing in Jesus name..

Congrats Sotum..May your baby grow in wisdom and stature..I tap into your blessings.I am expecting mine soonest in Jesus name.

Congratulations Julieton...Your baby will grow in strength and wisdom of the Lord.
Zainaba..You are welcome here..The Lord Almighty will attend to your case in Jesus name.
Godsent,more anointing of the lord to you.
Wish everyone here both Old and New members a positive story this week.Father,Let the testimonies flow in Jesus name.

Good morning fellow conquerors.It is good to be back.Thank God for not allowing nairaland to go down.Just that a lot of life transforming stories/post have been wiped off.If only seun can get them back.A lot of us did not know how transforming those true life stories open the eyes of some of us that are about to fall prey to fake pastors,prophets,prophetess and all..Some of Godsent's post and that of Vilachi were wiped off.
Please,let's keep on believing in God.He promise that he will not give up on us if do not give up on me.Let's take our faith to the level that if our blessings,favours,breakthroughs is not from God,then it should remain.
Thanks as i wish you everyone here a testifiable blessing.

Good day all..Miraclebaby,thanks for the mention..I am fully around.Just observing and zooming from one corner.I wish everyone here a happy new month.Let's be ready to receive our BFPs.Above all,be prayerful and believe your desires have been met by Almighty God.

@Iyabetajos,Take heart and continue to BELIEVE that God will give bless you with double of your loss.It is well with you and DH.You will announce your BFP soonest in Jesus name.

@Adaroable..It is well and God will bless you with a BFP for your effort.Just keep on meditating on the scripture Mark 11:24 and see situations turn around for your good.Same apply to every conqueror here in Jesus name.

@Yetseyi,you are welcome to this wonderful thread.Shortly,you shall testify.

@All,we thank God for success of today's program at CCT.Our breakthrough is around the corner.So,let's position ourselves for a grab.

Congrats Putu4..Have a stress-free 9months.

@All Fruitful Mothers and Fathers,I say good morning
@Honiepie,please take it easy with whoever you feel have offended you.Like our sisters have said,let all Glory be unto God.God does not like sharing his glory with anyman.God who sees in the secret will definitely reward you in the open.I dont believe in the idea of waiting for your testimony to mature before you share it especially in this thread since it is a faceless thread.The little step you take to move you from the level you were to a certain level which you never expected to get to at that point in time,SHARE IT for others to benefit.It is by the grace of God that it happened.So why keep it?I understand that some people will not want to share their unripe testimony(ies) because of our Nigerian factor.Like being afraid that someone might do something to avert or nullify it.
Somehow,i feel the major cause of this whole thing is the idea of sending inbox mail to you on every little issue(Honiepie).Dont get me wrong,i didn't say it is a bad idea.It is good but when it is too much,some people will just feel relaxed that since they have shared it with you,there wont be any need to share it publicly.@All,please share your testimony here no matter how small.We need it to encourage and give us hope.It could serve as a soul rescuer.Someone that is contemplating commiting suicide might have a change of mind after reading your testimony.Yes,some people may be afraid because of their past experience but i do not think such will happen in this faceless thread.
@Dreams,you self take am easy ooo..Though,you are right to an extent.Honiepie should have mail them to express her disappointment.So you dey vex like this?
That is my take.

@Godsent,A big,big Amennnnn to your revelation.It has come to pass in Jesus name.Cant wait to testify.

@Mydesire01,Congrats!!!!..Your faith in God has yield a positive result.The next 6months will be a smooth ride for and your family and you will finally deliver your twins with ease in Jesus name.Expecting more New year gift in this forum.

@All the great conquerors,our sister JECU have narrate majority of the happenings in CCT yesterday.Let me add a little to it.
We need to save souls for the creator.On the last day,God will not handshake you alone all in the name of welcoming you.When you get to heaven,God will ask you how many souls you saved while on earth.Some of us have spent 7years in the house of God but have not been able to win a soul.They are just working for themselves alone.Some brothers and sisters even use their character to chase people away from the lord because their character is questionable.
We should understand that the devil is using a grace.We need to be using our own grace by asking for forgiveness every 3hrs.He made us to understand that Jesus came to expose the tricks of the devil to us.Before the new testament,there was no evil spirit.
We should alway be ready to serve God.Going to church is not serving God but interceding for people.Exod 23:25
There are takeaway promises when you serve God.
Any item(Dreams interpretations,Deliverance DVDs etc) you get from the tabernacle of God(CCT) has the spirit and presence of God in it.It will attend to any challenge we are going through.You must ask for the forgiveness of sin at all times.Call on the spirit and presence of God on the item after asking for forgiveness.You dont need to ask aloud but can say it inside you.The devil cannot ask for forgiveness of sin.
Servant Vic also ask us to put our baby items on the hanger and put a bible beside it because the bible contains the word of God,presence of God and promises of God.Pregnant women are to pray like never before so that the anointing off God will flow into the baby.
He gave an example of why we must agree we have a challenge that needs a change of story.A woman married for 2years that is supposed to be called mama Amina,mama Biola etc is still being called by her own name,Nkechi,Kemi etc.
Finally,impossibility is possible when you believe in the God of possibility.

@All the great and triumphant conquerors,Exceeding grace!!!!!!!!.I and my DW wish you a fruitful,outstanding and remarkable new year,2014.I believe God will surprise a lot of us beyond expectation this year.

@Goldenbaby..Happy birthday..Waiting for your testimony to start flowing.

MackieB..Congrats..That is a wonderful gift to take into the new year..May you carry your baby to term and deliver like the hebrew women.

@Orekelewa123,welcome to this thread.

Good morning great conquerors.Exceeding grace to everyone of you.Let me narrate a little of what i can remember about yesterday's deliverance before our other brothers and sisters do the finishing.The topic of yesterday is still FIGHT FOR YOUR FAMILY.Servant quoted 2 verses Ephe 6:12 and Mathew 10:1..He said Anyone that is not good today is under the influence of the devil.We must fight for our family for them to be delivered.If you do not fight for your family when you make heaven,you will be asked that why did you not fight for your family.He quoted the verse Jude 1:9 as the reason why we must fight for our family.Satan was not ready to release the spirit of moses to let him go.There is this particular verse Zechariah 3:1-6 that opened my spiritual eyes about satan accusing the people before God.Servant Vic said some people dont fight for their family because of their "I dont care attitude"He went ahead to remind us that everybody need deliverance for one reason or the other including himself,servant Vic. His(Servant Vic) reason for going to shiloh2013 is because he needs deliverance.He went there to possess his possessions.He talked about how God ask him to stay back in the toilet and do his work when every other person were rushing to the tabernacle to receive the exceeding grace anointing oil.God instructed him to put his anointing oil at the back of his pocket and continue with his work for God(stewardship).Some people will even go as far 2meters close to the bishop,all for their anointing to be extra active.He defined deliverance as (1)...being free from the captivity of the enemy.e.g evil dreams,dogs chasing you,man/woman making love in the dream.(2)...Deliverance as possessing your possession by fire by force.
what need to do to fight for our family..
1..To put God first in anything we are doing.Luke 12:31
2..To understand that you need a prophet for your spiritual walk.
3..Obey and follow the ways of the lord.
4..You must give God all the glory by testifying his goodness in our life.Luke 17
5..To serve the lord our God with our heart.Not serving our Pastor,Bishop.etc.
As per the manifestation,i remember the woman that her elder sister said she is the most intelligent in their family.She has 2children.She is the same woman that her mother-in-law is behind her predicament.She angrily kicked her mother-in-laws potty in the toilet because they told her about what her MIL did to her.So the demon descended on her.Servant Vic told her that she shouldn't have done it.It is suppose to be a spiritual battle and not physical battle.He warned everybody not to make such mistake.
The other woman on glasses from Abuja,dont know if she is floxxi.She came with her DH.Floxxi,if you the same person.Please,i want to know how you were able to convince your husband.I told my wife that i am happy with the development.That is if you are the one.Even Uteh came with her husband.A man that uses clutches and his wife came too and some other couples that i cant identify.