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We still live in a patriachal society. What this means is that, whether we like it or not, men hold the key.

So dealing with the man, doesn't really hold water cos nigeria is a traditionally male society.

YourMain:
Lol I know how you feel :').
? = Question Mark.

So ? Crimson is Question Mark Crimson.

Now I feel really stupid......I fully understand how Watson must have always felt

MizMyColi:
I didn't say No sex bro.
I said do it when you are ready.
Not because someone threatens to leave you.

My bad!!
I see red whenever 'no' and 'sex' appears in the same sentence on nairaland, n just blur out everything else.

Okay, everything she said is wisdom, including the "no sex......."part (that's so damn hard to do. Errythin is blurry again).

MizMyColi:


Simple.

Stay Connected and True to self.
Give your best in your relationship, your utmost best....either way it ends, it is for your own good.
Forgive easily. Be wise.
Train yourself to remain happy and boisterous, with or without a man in your life.

Forget the weird sex gospels, a man who truly loves and is eager to have a life with you will wait till you are psychologically and emotionally ready to share the cookie

Giving in to pressure is never okay.

Errrm
Okay, now that I read what I just wrote, i think this is me advicing myself

This is wisdom. Except the 'no sex' part. I believe in the YOLO theory.

My advice, have fun and play games. Hopefully ur partner would be someone who's confident, secure and intelligent. He/she would get the games and even play them too.
N.B: this advice is not for people ready to marry. This is for the YOLO crew.

MrsChima:
The world is being consumed by gayness!
Sodom and Gomorrah 2015

No offense, but I thought you were pretty open minded.
@op.....it's in the air. If you breathe the same air as gay people, u'd get it.

The start of a beautiful relationship between @suxxman and @yourmain.....isn't youth wonderful??


@mencade, I feel ur point, but na onto say she pobably dey into blacks. Foreigners that like black don't front. They are usually open n straightforward. Not all foreign ladies are like that.

@yourmain, I don't like confessing to stupidity, but ur d.p got me pretty stumped. Which crimson brother does sherlock need to whack?

No offense, but u seem to be really insecure. is everything okay??

chemystery:
Yeah, french curves

French curves.....wicked

Childishness/naturalness/playfulness.........do not take things too seriously. If you have a chill personality, chances are she's gonna want to chill out too.

And what was ur answer again

Nigerian men are still men. We still need to sow our wild oats......doesn't matter if ur asian, caucasian, african, blue, green, alien...so long as u meet the standards (which for MOST guys is having a hole, tho I have nfin against that), we'r game.

This was beautiful........
Bless your heart, man. You know how to treat someone's fuckup.
I'm sure you'll be a good lover. Most imaginative people usually are.

No biggie....this kinda thing happened to me when I first started, so I'll my story. All you have to do is to draw parallels from it, and think of a solution urself.


There was this one girl I liked. You know how the story goes: boy meets girl, boy likes girl, collects her number, is scared of rejection so he never says anything, and waits too damn long. So anyways, one day, I grew a pair and went to meet her, and instead of asking her out, I said "........ I like you, and you know that (she denied). But I feel like you don't want 'us' to happen. So for my sanity, here's what's gonna happen. I wouldn't call you, or text you, or talk to you. Pls don't call or text me. Its for my sanity. Have a lovely life". Then I left. A MONTH later, she called me and I picked up. Then she said "do you think I'm not gonna call you??" And she cut the line. Immediately, I went her apartment, and we lived happily ever again. Just kidding. But it was the start of a beautiful relationship, with lots of games played on each other.


This is not exactly the same as your story, but I'm sure you can learn a lot from it. Good luck with ur love life. Cheers

olasmith10:
Hmm, gud points op..Buh to be very honest with u, dis modern day setting, top on d priority list of women is financial security. I mean money, more money and so much money.. A lady will conveniently ignore d qualities u pointed above wen she feels d cash isn't der..and conversely submit to someone dat lacks dos qualities buh has a lot of money..Before, some ladies ll tell u he has a bright future, buh now..deh want to c d cash flowing, go on expensive vacation, take her out in ur ride, and what av u.

It's all about the money, money, money....

Nigerians and funny behavior sha...

This made me lol so hard

I'll download this when I get home....

Damn!!! You mean he should have carried her bag I mean, it is obviously so heavy that she can't carry it and walk well.

It all depends on what phase you are in life....

Her booty is really nasty. One only has to watch "boy next door" to get a reminder......

Well she's latino, so its a no-brainer..

MrsChima:
Make I go wooze you Yoruba p1mp.

Yoruba p1mp ?? ROTFL....

These ones are "akatarised"....... Hoes everywhere in search of the dollar.. Gullible men keeping flocking the temple in search of quality pvssy..
Keep searching, bros, keep searching..........

wtfCode:
wanted to call it doggy style, but the gal is sort of standing, so i'm gonna call it The Kogi style.

The kogi style.......hahaha

CSTR2:
Yeye country.
4 years after buhari tenure, the inhabitants of that zoo will still be talking about rampant corruption and poverty, when they could have just solved both by implementing regional governance with absolute federalism and a death penalty for proven thieves.
Cosmetic politicians.

I swear, I'm tired......
We have a problem, the solution is right in front of us......fvcking implement it.

I'm just about ready to give up on this country

Interesting article....

So fayose won this battle?? He's more influential than I thought

I don't mean to be a d!ck, but the question should be "money OR sex", not "money and sex".

Obviously, its money.........
Money makes the world go round..

I hope the dude is flexible,manipulative and on top of things.....

One of the things that worked against president Jona was his PR team. We didn't hear enough of his positive work.

Watched it.....twas funny

Make him dey happy say nor be OAU.......shebi dem still gree make him play??

For some reason, I doubt the authenticity of this news