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Misterdhee1:
What is the easiest ways to meet good girls in ATL?

There are no good girls in Atlanta Oga. Just lousy, fake class prostitutes.

a8180421:
Atlanta is 80% Black or let me Fulton County is 70% Black and Democrat stronghold

Too bad. It'll be a long time before I visit there. Democrats disgust me.

How do I completely eliminate the useless Democrats from Atlanta??

A completely finished man.
May the good Lord have mercy on your soul and deliver you from your tremendous stupidity.
In the land of weak men, you'll be the weakest.
You disgust me man.

truthCoder:
Dont hang out with girls like this.

Trust me, they can only waste your time and give you STDs.

The girl billed you based on her immediate analysis of your psyche.

You owed her only drinks. Any thing afterwards must be earned. She wants catfish, then she must be giving something in return at that moment; an unspoken guarantee of intimacy. If she won’t, then let her pay for her catfish herself.

You should have asked her wassap while s he was drinking the origin. If she wants to bill you, it is at that point. There is no further allowance for billing afterwards.

If she forms girlfriend for you at drink level and changes to prostitute at room level, tell her that you didn’t know she was into runs and that you dont do runs girls. Allow her to get out of the room calmly. Dont even negotiate downwards. Learn to respect your self and act disciplined.

If she does girlfriend levels, flow with her. When going the next morning, you give her what you want to give her. Dont ask for amount. If its transfer, ask for her account details and transfer.

See her off to the park, hug her, keep in touch.

Act like a man.

Make sense

Tranquility2345:
Fat Prince, first of all just stop wasting your time responding to that mental troll. You suppose don know am by now from that other thread. Read up on his old posts and you won’t bother ever responding to him.

Secondly, if you continue with this myopic way of thinking you will continue to be lonely, even after making money. Why do you want to make money so that you can flaunt in women’s faces? How will that give you satisfaction? Guy work on yourself to make money for your own happiness and don’t tie it to women. Women will naturally flow and you will have your pick without having to play any stupid games.

Thirdly, I been think say you talk say you get babe. What happened? She left you? Is that why you suddenly swallowed the red pill? Omo as one guy above mentioned, red pill is not about rage o. You sound angry. Chillax and use this rage to make your self a better man. Forget women and their gimmicks and manipulations or whatever you want to call it and work on your self for your self!

For the most part I agree with you.
But then, it is a fact of life that you attract more women when you throw money on their faces. By this I mean, when you flaunt enough wealth, not necessarily giving money to anybody.

Just the way women flaunt their sexual appeal in men's faces by wearing skimpy dresses, make-up and thing like that; men can also flaunt their high SMV by displaying affluence.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CAPITAL LETTERS AND SMALL LETTERS IS CIVILIZATION (UNDERDIG THIS)


REMEMBER YOUR KINDERGARTEN1 TO KINDERGARTEN2 DAYS IN PRIMARY SCHOOL WHEN YOU WERE LEARINING THE FOLLOWING:

A FOR APPLE
B FOR BANG
C FOR CASH
D FOR DOG
E FOR ELEPHANT
F FOR FINGER
G FOR GUN
H FOR HORSE
I FOR IYÁ LÁ YÀ ÈÈ
J FOR JUMP
K FOR KITE
L FOR LORRY
M FOR MONKEY
N FOR NIGGA
O FOR ORANGE
P FOR PENIS
Q FOR QATAR
R FOR RAT
S FOR SNITCH
T FOR TORTISE
U FOR UNICORN
V FOR VALOUR
W FOR WATCH
X FOR XYLOPHONE
Y FOR YAM
Z FOR ZEBRA

YOU DID NOT COMPLAINT FOR ONCE TO YOUR TEACHER BACK IN THOSE DAYS

WHEN YOU WERE LEARING THE FOLLOWING:

Aa, Bb, Cc, Dd, Ee, Ff, , Hh, Ii, Jj, Kk, Ll
Mm, Nn, Oo, Pp, Qq, Rr, Ss, Tt, Uu, Vv, Ww, Xx, Yy, Zz.

STILL, YOU AIN'T COMPLAINING TO YOUR TEACHER FOR IMPACTING CAPITAL LETTERS KNOWLEDGE IN YOU, YOU ACCEPTED IT WITH JOY AND GLADNESS HOPING TO BE A LITTERATE SOME YEARS TO COME




BACK TO THE FUTURE:

YOU CAME ACCROSS A NIGGA LIKE ME IN TODAY'S FUTURE WRITING STUFFS IN CAPITAL LETTERS, YOU START TO COMPLAIN, NAGG AND WHINE FOR YOURSELF

WHO ARE YOU DECEIVEING WITH YOUR DOUBLE STANDARDS?

IF YOU CANT READ MY STUFFS THAT I POST ON THIS THREAD THEN SIMPLY FVCCK OUT OR BOUNCE AND READ THE NEXT STUFFS BELOW MY POST

WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO CONTROL OR TAME TO BE WRITING SHHIITS IN SMALL LETTERS

YOUR CONTROL AND TAME GAME WILL ALWAYS FAIL YOU (UNDERDIG THIS)

YOU MUST BE VERY STUPID FOR QUOTING ME

Abetterperson:
Have actually tried that, but he seems to sink into a huge depression, any way I can help with that.
Yesterday would have been a month he stopped intake, but his brother request for money and he was so depressed on how to get the money he wanted that stuff again.
He's the one paying for his brothers university fees, his mom lapo debt, his sister school fees.
He's carrying the responsibility of a father at the age of 22
Mind u his not into Yahoo, he works from morning till night, sometimes I see the pain in his eyes but I feel helpless, I'm still a student
How can I help with his depression with telling him to cut his family off, they clearly the problem, his mom as even advised him to enter Yahoo, imagine

You're such a big fool.
You better leave that young man now before you kill him with your constant nagging.
Animal.
You want to cut him off from his only coping mechanism bc if your selfish, narcissistic desires.
Stupid bitch. You didn't also mention how he carries your liability. Fuckingg retard.
Please leave that guy and allow him focus on himself and family.

Eric247:
Martinez39s, CaveAdullam, I'm a silent follower of this blessed thread, I'm just opening this new account because I have a problem, my peniss is controlling my frame,I have strong sexual urges, but my SMV is low as I'm still a student, I have never received greenlight and virtually all my cold approach leads to zero closure,the ones that leads somewhere make me end up in the friendszone and when I behave thirsty try to escalate to sex they reject my advances or create rules for me telling I only can press breast, the best I got was to finger ones pussy, penetration is a no no, these frustrating me, I watch a lot of erotic tv series, porn and WhatsApp TV's, I'm invisible to all women since I don't have status and I'm not into yahoo, it's frustrating as I masturbate alot, then I decided to patronize brothels does it make me less redpilled, I feel like an hypocrite viewing redpill materials and paying to get sex that other men get for free( I believe majority are paying )

I don't know what to do although I have drastically reduced the way I visit the hooker because they have attitude, I lack cash and they give poor quality sex, but I see it as a quick fix, but at least that one-titis of having one girl as a pedestal has died in me due to redpill as any lady I see around me is strictly as sexual object or necessary work colleague

I am getting the sex but I feel degraded but there is no option for me as my status is very low, do you still think I can be redpilled like this, I'm doubting redpill can be used to subdue our innate biology of sexual libido, I'm scared that by paying for sex I'm subconsciously admitting I'm in the long run I'm going to be used to pay my way to get the best of women emotionally, may be paying to win her love when she's not into me, I'm scared please I need guidance, I'm 25 yrs

Hehehe
You didn't quote me, but I'll try to help the much I can.

I'll start by giving you this powerful quote by the philosopher Plato; "The first and greatest victory is to conquer yourself; to be conquered by yourself is of all things most shameful and vile."
Again, another philosopher, Paulo Coelho said and I quote, "If you conquer yourself, then you conquer the world".
Finally, Napoleon Hill posited; "If you do not conquer yourself, you will be conquered by yourself".

These great statements from very great men of the times past, at different points in history, underlie the utmost importance of having total control of one's self.

Bro, you must go into yourself. You must go on a soul searching journey. Now is the time for a deep introspection and sober self reflection.
Get a pen and a paper (preferably a personal diary), write down your weaknesses and your strengths. Get to know who you truly are.

The first thing you need to do after that is to thank yourself for your strengths, your unique/positive qualities.
You must draw on your strengths to make up for your weakness.
Begin to develop a healthy self esteem.
Make resolutions about stopping your bad traits, be it porn, masturbation, etcetera. You must be resolute in keeping to your resolutions.

Do you have friends? What type of friends do you roll with? How social and out going are you?
Begin to hang out more with your socially active friends/course mates. Try to live an interesting life even while you're in school.

How do you dress? Your dressing and appearance says a lot about you. You don't have to wear the latest designers before looking good. Dress neatly, smartly and fashionably.
Your mannerisms, demeanours and composure in public says a lot about you.

Women most often will determine your social status by judging your mannerisms, dressing, composure, and self esteem. This will either increase or dampen her attraction towards you.

I'm of the opinion that a lot of the problems you face has to do with your sense of self confidence and esteem. I can deduce that it is drastically low.
You must begin to work on it without delay. Learn the art of not giving a Ffuck.
Do not live your life walking on egg shells, wandering what people around you think of you and your actions. Do not live for female validations. That is a very speedy way to lower you self confidence.

I won't tell you whether to continue paying for sex or not. But personally I don't. I'd rather use that money on myself, with an attendant effect of attracting even more women.

Finally bro, I'd like to remind you that change is a constant, gradual journey.
You won't experience change overnight, it only comes when you keep putting in work, consistently and passionately.
Its okay to fail. It's okay to falter. We're all humans. No one is infallible. What is not okay however, is to remain where you have fallen.

May the force be with you as you start out in your journey of conquering yourself.

TheDarkGamer:
Thank you for reaching out. I'm alright.

I was just very busy with school and I had little time to check out the thread. However, I'm currently done with my first year and I have about four months for the summer vacation.

I'll soon start making contributions here more frequently, but for now I have to catch up on about one hundred pages. I'm also working on Amazon Kindle publishing and I've published a few books. I will also take on a summer job soon, and I'm working on making a YouTube channel.

So, I have some things going on right now.

I hope you're fine as well. Nice to hear from you again.

You have quite a lot going on. Keep it up bro.
A holistic self development strategy is an important aspect of the RedPill.

Nyascobar1414:
Pls house...

Whats about this Hidden agenda to emasculate the male gender?


Anybody with more Information

Is it really hidden?

JESHAL:
DON'T SPEND TOO MUCH TIME TRYING TO FIGURE A WOMAN OUT. PEDESTALIZING A WOMAN IN YOUR MIND, LEADS TO PEDESTALIZING HER WITH YOUR BEHAVIORS. ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION: "WHILE I AM SPENDING MY TIME THINKING ABOUT HER, IS SHE SPENDING TIME THINKING ABOUT ME?"

I feel the need to quote this comment.

This is an important concept that men must internalise.
The subconscious greatly influences the conscious mind.
When you start day-dreaming about her, fantasising about her, pedestalising her in your thoughts, you've already started losing.
The key is to stay stoic, both physically and mentally.
Continue to remember, AWALT.

Trolls come and go.
As always, ignore them!

Winnerly:
As a former proponent of cold approaching, i now support you 100% and i apologise for my part in encouraging men to cold approach. Don’t do it. It’s a new day, it’s nolonger the 90’s and even 2000’s.

Cold approaching is like a confidence transfer. You leave the situation feeling a little worse about yourself if she acts snubbish (which happens most of the time) and she leaves feeling a little better about herself, hence many ladies walking with an exaggerated sense of self.

It’s true that if you talk to 6 ladies, 2 may agree but you don’t really remain thesame guy you were after the 4 rude encounters. Your self esteem will take a hit. Now for the 2 that gels with you, you’re starting off from a disadvantaged position, thus making it super hard to maintain frame.

Cheers

Twitter na rubbish abeg.
Fb better by far.

CAPSLOCKED:
50 PUSH UPS A DAY + CRUNCHES AND JUMPING JACKS WILL HELP ANYBODY MAINTAIN BODY STRUCTURE. SQUATS AND MORE PUSH UPS, EVERYTHING 30 MINUTES.

HE'S EXPECTED TO STOP WORKING OUT THEREBY BECOMING SHAPELESS AND UGLY. BUT SHE'S EXPECTED TO BE LEFT TO KEEP MAKING UP AND GLOWING MORE, BECOMING PRETTIER AND ATTRACTING OUTSIDE BIDS. Y'ALL GIVE WOMEN AND MARRIAGES TOO MUCH POWER, AND THIS DISCUSSION IS GIVING ME DEMENTIA.

UNLESS YOU'VE NEVER WORKED OUT IN YOUR LIFE, ANY MAN WHO'S IN LOVE WITH EXERCISING KNOWS HOW EASY AND ENJOYABLE AND IMPORTANT IT IS. WHERE I LIVE THERE ARE MARRIED MEN THAT PLAY FOOTBALL (GYM, HIKE, WRESTLE, BOX) EVERY WEEKEND AND WILL NOT DROP THAT LIFESTYLE FOR ANYTHING. SO WHAT'S YOUR EXCUSE EXACTLY?

I love you bro

pappilo:
Bro whatever you do, do not, I repeat, do not get married! You will always regret it. I love my late dad, he was the best dad anyone could ask for but if I see him in the afterlife, I will ask him why he never told me the truth about marriage and advise me no to get married.

Love someone (with sense), have children, live together but never ever sign your life away. Finally do not let any woman you are with know everything about you.

The first thing that deteriorates after marriage is your sex life. I think its a psychological thing. Maybe the subconscious feeling that you've both got each other for 'life' messes with the brain.

I was married for 14 years. My ex-wife started a relationship with a work colleague and a month after using the police to kick me out of my house, the dude left his own family and moved into my house.

I was charged with several offences for an altercation I had with the guy when I caught him in my house. My ex-wife (we were still married at the time) the mother of my children came to the crown court to testify against me on his behalf. The jury saw through their lies and determination to send me to prison and acquited me on all charges (over 5)

Its been a few years but I still shudder at the thought that I believed so much in this woman and chose her over my own siblings.

Attached is msg I got from her this morning. This is despite her taking the house which I put
down 66% of the deposit. This woman earns almost double what I earn and I pay her over a quarter of my net earnings for child maintenance.

You'll probably still go ahead and get married but its almost guaranteed that one day in the future you will look back and wish you heeded the advice of many people who told you not to

Omo x1000

If I marry for this life Mek I bend.
Jesus!!!

Nigerians can be so dumb and stupid.
The OP raised a topic of discussion solely focused on the issue of 'wokeism' in the West.
But dunnerheads are trying to misrepresent the facts of the matter.

The issue the OP raised is a salient one. Nigeria has had very bad governments successively and is bedeviled with a lot of problems that seem insurmountable. Does that mean Nigerians shouldn't have an opinion on issues such as homosexuality, necrophilia and other nonsense the woke Demon-crats and Leftists keep pushing for?

Because Nigeria is a bad place, Nigerians should accept all policies of the Western world, or at best hold no opinion concerning them?

This is the problem of Nigeria. A lot of people are tremendously stupid and it is evidenced by the comments here that are so out of context.

Back to the matter, the extreme Left has gone mad and they will stop at literally nothing to achieve their ill-intended goals.

The same people who believe people should be injected with an experimental, novel vaccine are the ones now screaming "My body, my choice" - even when a foetus, an unborn human being is involved.

Sleepy Joke Biden nominated a supreme Court Justice based on gender and the same woman couldn't define who or what a woman is.

The examples abound, but I am not chanced to list all of them here. Its a circus. The world is going crazy.

As a sensible commenter opined, the least you could do is to protect yourself and your children from the raving madness.
People like us, who are courageous, will continue to speak out and fight against this madness.

Yes I am homophobic. Yes I am transphobic. Yes I am necrophobic. And what about that??

As a man's future is important to a woman, a woman's past must be important to a man.

Vet thoroughly. Before giving her the ring, be sure to vet her, investigate her past.
Often times than not, the past determines the future.

Vet any woman whom you intend to make your partner. Investigate thoroughly.

[quote author=NamelessOGBENI post=112520592][/quote]Lol. I wanted to also quote that same part
It makes a lot of sense and men must realize and act on this truth.

A woman's past should be very, very important to any man who is an intending partner.

mousery:
I applied for software developer roles, but will also be working at the intersection of data engineering and software engineering.

OK. Thanks.

The dude made the right call.
Bad company corrupts good manners.
The traits you display on this forum clearly shows you are very, very bad company.
Can't marry a girl that is dumb enough to have you as her friend.

The arguments about poverty vs wealth has been over flogged, please let's put it aside and focus on our major purpose here.

Lifestyle seems to be here to cause trouble or to foster very unnessesary arguments.
Guys should learn to ignore him.
His arguments here are solely about poverty vs wealth.
I believe everyone knows what they want. Therefore they should follow it.

This thread is strictly for Redpill (as the title suggests).
A little deviation here and there is okay, but when it takes up much of the spaces then its time to go back to our focus - Redpill.

sgtponzihater1:
Just coming in now. I am married already with 2 children in a foreign country. My wife manipulates everyone, disrespects me, cooks once a week, but acts like an angel to neighbors and friends. How can redpill help me. What pages can I read from.

Thanks

Wahala.
You've got to start from the very first page bro. Carefully read and assimilate as much as you can.

Your case is peculiar though. One thing I wish to tell you is that the Redpill might not be a panacea for all your marital woes, but it'll greatly guide you in the right directions.
Read everything, especially the first fifty pages. A lot of knowledge is deposited in those pages. Even I myself do go back sometimes to revisit the pages.

Like I said, the Redpill might not exactly be a a panacea to all your marital woes, but at least it'll guide you in your future decisions.
One thing, know that you cannot flog a dead horse. A woman who has completely lost respect and love for you - coupled with the gynocentric (and misandrist) laws over there - may never respect you again.

You must know when to walk away, call it quits if you continue to get the short end of the stick.
Divorce can be disastrous for men, but you can save yourself.

Try to convert most of your assets and cash to cryptocurrencies.
Sell your car, buy a less valuable car, save the remaining money. Do you own a house? If you do, try to see the possibility of selling it off, without making her know your real intentions.

What type of work do you do, can you trick her into returning to Nigeria with the kids and divorcing her here?
What of moving with your kids to another country??

My point is, you must prepare for the inevitable and you have to plan it in such a way that you do not get raped (figuratively) by the courts.
Plan with TRUSTED FRIENDS, maybe your close family, consult a lawyer.
See how you can circumvent the law as much as you can, such that the divorce process - if it happens - doesn't cost you all you have worked for.

Having said all this, you must commit yourself to a lifetime journey of internalising the Redpill and its tenets.
Do not think the Redpill will magically change you overnight. No, that's not going to happen.
Its a gradual process and only your consistency will make you internalise these teachings.
Start from the first page. Read, assimilate and meditate. Try to see the things you may have done wrongly in your relations with your wife, how bluepilled have you been? How have you been succumbing to her manipulations?

The more you read and meditate upon these tenets, the better you get as long as you put them into practice.
Lastly, I'll recommend you read these two books - The Manipulated man and The Rational Male.

The Redpill is no magic wand, but by committing to a lifetime journey of learning and practicing its core tenets, you'll become unplugged from the matrix.

I hope this helps.

Nyascobar1414:
Nigga,this your monicker ehh

Lool..

sajmark:
Tips for Kings

These pictures, especially the second and third pictures are very important truths.

Body language and appearance tells your story before your even open your mouth.

A poplar quote goes "Act as if you are the king or act as if you do not give a damn who the king is".

The importance of a very high level of self esteem and self confidence cannot be overemphasised. Most of the time, your level of self confidence and self esteem is portrayed by your body language.

However, developing a good amount of self confidence isn't an overnight process.
Its a gradual consistent effort to internalise it into your subconscious that you are the prize.
Read books, especially on self development.
Work out daily.
Double your efforts - business, academics or otherwise.

Constantly remind yourself that you are a really great guy and act like it.
In no time, your levels of self confidence will grow astronomically.

Just be good in whatever you do. You'll still attain the top level tiers of salaries and incentives

I've seen mid-level network engineers earning 120k dollars, I've also seen system administrators that earn above 150k dollars.

Just be the best in what you do.

We must continue to ignore trolls and females on this thread.
This is crucial to the longevity of this thread. Resist the urge to reply. Ignore them and they'll get tired.

Redpill forever.

You fuckkked up bro.
You should have told the dad that you will not entertain threats of any kind.

That's a manipulative move by the father to make you stick with her daughter even if she misbehaves.
So if she cheats on you, you will stick with her because of her father's threats?
So if you get tired of her or she likes another man tomorrow and begins to display nasty attitudes towards you, you'll suck it all up and stay?

Oh! Perhaps you'll seek permission from her father before breaking up with her in such circumstances.

The ultimate measure of a man's courage is his ability to take decisions on his own and stand by it. The ability to protect himself and his loved ones from any threats whatsoever.

You should have instantly stepped up to such intimidation by telling him to his face that you will not entertain threats and you'll take decision solely based on your best interests.

Be a man bro. No man should entertain intimidation from his fellow man or any other person.
You sound like a simp. I hope you don't make stupid decisions, such as putting up with your girlfriend even when she start misbehaving, or maybe seeking her fathers decision to break up.

Be a man. Set your own rules and live by it. As long as you are not going against the law, no other motherfuckker should dictate how you live your life.

Swallow the Redpill bro.

PS: Remember, if she's from a damaged family, she'll likely be damaged. Do not invest!!!

IT IS HIGH TIME THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT DECLARES AN EMERGENCY OVER THIS SIMP PANDEMIC OVERTAKING THE COUNTRY.

If this is the mentality of an average male out there, then the boy child is doomed. Nigeria is doomed. And we are all headed towards the bottom of the ocean.

I mean, how can only one person be this stupid. This is like the stupidity of twenty persons put together.

You are a lost fool and will remain lost if you do not, as a matter of complete urgency, help yourself out right now.

First things first, cut that bitch off your life. That will be the genesis of regaining your senses out of the tremendous stupidity, disgusting foolishness and utter idiocy that has shrouded your brain.

Secondly, embrace the Redpill like your life depends on it.
There is a Redpill thread here, "Reality every guy needs to know, strictly Redpill".

Start from page one of the thread, read and assimilate it like your life depends on it.

If you can't do this, then I'm sorry you are doomed. And you are a danger both to your self and to other men in Nigeria. You should please do us a favour of taking your own life. One less low-life simp to worry about.