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ABANGWABOI:
You are a fool and a coward for not fucvking that Volumptous and beautiful girl..
Shame on you for not shagging that Cunt..

CAPSLOCKED:
THE ABOVE ALSO APPLIES TO MEN SUFFERING ALL KINDS OF ABUSE; PHYSICAL, SEXUAL, EMOTIONAL. ANYTHING AT ALL.
PEOPLE WILL QUICKLY SAY "BE A REAL MAN AND WALK AWAY", "WHY NOT REPORT?", "YOU HAVE NO BALLS", "PROBABLY YOU'RE WEAK AND HAS ZERO GAME??", "ASK AROUND NOBODY CAN TRY SUCH WITH ME", "WHAT IF THEY SACK YOU?", "PLEASE LET HER DO AS SHE PLEASES IT'S JUST HOW WOMEN ARE".

NONE OF THOSE THINGS WILL HELP YOU UNLESS YOU TAKE ACTION AND RELATE TO ABUSERS/MOLESTERS IN THE ONLY LANGUAGE THEY UNDERSTAND. LOOK AT DEPP AND COUNTLESS OTHER MEN. THE MORE YOU LET THEM ABUSE YOU, YOU EQUIP THEM WITH CONFIDENCE AND TOOLS TO LABEL YOU THE ABUSER FOR THE SAKE OF CASHING OUT AND RUINING YOUR CAREER/BUSINESS/EDUCATION COMPLETELY (THE FINAL ABUSE). AND YOU KNOW WHO ALWAYS WIN IN THE END, RIGHT? THE ABUSER.

Someoneschild2:
While hiding your suffering, endeavor to create networks of high value individuals.

Play the courtier!

Regex:
Thank you nna

TriCee:
Not nice. Priest for my church go just embarrass you.
I'd rather leave my phone at home, than allow it ring out in the church.

Seun:
Brave lady.

Someoneschild2:
Now that you're here, it means you want truth. I will tell you that it is a very long yet sad and lonely road, this truth.

Phillyboi, what you must do is that you must be willing to learn and forego the modern day BS (you're likely to fall out of favour with your peers )

You should learn the secrets of the ancient men for they understood human nature better and acted accordingly.

You must be careful the movies you watch and the music you listen to.

You must read books to advance your knowledge of our different natures.

You must understand that women should never be at the top of your list of priorities yet you must mingle with them to learn and observe that which you read here and in the books.

You must understand that you should have confidence in your self and protect your honour as a man. Your ego is your sword, use it wisely.

You must also understand that you will not always get it right but if you really want to be better,you must give yourself time and pardon your errors when you make them and never repeat.

You must never sell your knowledge because you will not be understood lest you endager your fine future. Act it but don't tell it.

I will continue but that will spoil the thrill of finding truth for yourself.

From one brother to another,
Cheers!

NewSoul:
You are still a simp hiding behind redpill from what I just read above

Chikeluba25:
Meanwhile one of the youngest real estate developer in Nigeria Arch. Chukwudi Ezenwa is doing great job at Dubai estate Awka.

BluntCrazeMan:
You contradict yourself.


When you said that “No sensible person would do this and that”, you were implying that the woman is not sensible.
And now, you came back to say that “she was aware of what she was doing, and that she planned out every step”, that means, she is still sensible for making plans, and yet planned to do things that only insensible people would do, and yet you didn't give any good reasons why a sensible person would sit down and plan fully on how to do things that only insensible people would do..
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Your comment didn't flow well.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 146, REDPILL 2022

Bro, see sex as food - you love it, ate it and after sometime forgot about it.

If you keep holding coitus to a pedestal in your heart, she will give you sex and manipulate you alongside. Just fvck and move on.

Let the woman be doing the attaching, not you my man.

(Alright, I know testosterone is your damn! Fine, quite alright, but make sure you don't fall for any sexual carrot and stick manipulation). Be vigilant.

Authority: Maintain frame.

Godoverevery:
So this my personal story.(long read)

I got into the university in 2008 for 5yrs course.

200lvl I wanted to get really serious so there is this girl in my class I really liked but she was a 4/10 ....I told my friends about her and they all didn't feel her at all infact my roomie who was free spirit didn't feel her but I just liked her naturally.
So one day after lectures I approached her and few weeks later she accepted.
That was the beginning of my foolishness.....I really spent alot on that girl, she was on 4k per month from home (foodstuff always sent to her) ,I started to give 5k every month from my pocket money...bruh I did alot of things up to the point her roommate bf called me one on one that am making his relationship difficult with my spending.
I was just happy doing those things even tho sometimes it wasn't easy because I had to dupe my parent alot.

So in our finals (alot things happened after IT)...she decided to show me her true colors.
After our final exams I had some issues with 2 courses in my 2lvl (dept course) so I needed to bribe the lecturer to waive them since it was AR .....bro I sold my phone (iPhone 4s) to raise cash to pay them so I was really broke...I couldn't call home because I just collected my pocket month.
She was staying with me then ,she couldn't pay her rent so I house her since we are done just project defence remaining.

The babe left me and move to one her friend's place because one guy who was a yahoo boy was asking her out and he was taking her out......she just come once in a while to pick few things.
I later got to know when guys played me the tape and it broke me.....she moved to lagos few weeks later and stated working on the island.
One day I was so hungry that I started running fever I called her to pls send me 1k(1st time in 4yrs of dating her) and she hang up on me.
I cried that day in my spirit, so choice I called my kid sis played her what was happening maybe she could just borrow me change, few hours later my phone rang it was my mum ....omo see blasting I just took everything, she told me my dad must not no about my phone..the next day I got alert of 10k ,tears rush down my eye.

I have never bought my mum anything before but I make sure anytime am going home I got my sister something....I did alot of thinking that day and I vow to ever put my mum and sis before any woman until I get married.(2013).

I started working in 2014 (nysc)....my first salary in my ppa which was about 30k I bought everything I could get took it home.
I first approached my dad showed him the money he prayed and told me he doesn't need it but I should give my mum half of it.
I went to mum room divided the money into two gave her half....she prayed for me and ever since then my mum is my priority.

Before I spend 10k for any lady am dating I must have spent 30k on my family.....Alot of ladies have complained about this but I think that the most sensible thing to do.

Guys in uni please I beg you don't make the mistakes we made .....focus on empowering yourself and get the degree.

Learn from this......feel free to date but don't waste money or spend on any lady.

#Relationship is for companionship not a monetary scheme#

Elliot2:
No just worry. Make Nigerian girls just get a hold of this term fess. Una go collect wotowoto.

SultanOfPuna:
These SIMPS dive into marriage without knowledge of female psychology.

She is testing this fool to see if he is truly a man.
And he failed the test woefully

For the man to beg her to come back, has made the girl lose interest and respect for the guy.
Op wife is a strong manipulator. She is enjoying the fact that her man is willing to climb mountains to bring her back.
But she has list respect for him for begging her to come back

If Op stood his ground, and instead of begging her.
He should have clearly not React or respond to her stupid tricks and if she wants to leaves he should call parents to return his bride price. And tell them he is marrying another wife.
Carry the baby and find a nanny to help

But the main issue is that the woman married a SIMP. She just got so bored of him that she had to leave the SIMP.

Imagine a man that cares what others say about him. That is female behavior.

Dremca:
Please, just to remind you

ve0992a:
First of all, IPOB is indeed a terrorist organization. If you can stop my right to free movement then what is the difference between your organization and Taliban? If Nnamdi Kanu was so loved why is the support not organic? Why do you have to kill people who come out during your sit at home and force everyone to live in fear.

I live in the South East and decided to write this for those living in diaspora or Lagos who believe their e-warriors on their cheap online campaign to always deny their actions and blame DSS.
We are all scared here. Every one is being careful and mindful of who they speak to because you don't know who they have brain washed as a supported and the next thing they label you a sabo and burn your house or worse kill your family and nothing will be done by the authorities, hence the silence from a lot of well meaning Igbo's. I was speaking to one of them who believed he will be made Minister of Finance or at least governor when Biafra is achieved, I just laughed but couldn't say my mind before they label me sabo. These guys are fighting for their pocket. Some of them think they will be political appointees when Biafra is achieved. This kind of violent and destructive Biafra if achieved will be worse than Nigeria. Do you really think Nelson Mandela would support this level of terrorism on his people while he was in jail? Think about it.

feranmi888:
Bro you know I just thought about something! Because in as much as I have really lost feelings and just broke up with her yesterday, my mind isnt at rest yet as it keeps wondering why all of a sudden the spewing of the thrash and all? I now got to calculate the time frame and all the incidences that occured during that time. Days before this whole thing,we have been having issues with trust matters, I saw a chat on her phone which supposedly was between she and a guy I have been warning her about probable cheating, after all the accusation and all, to sort of like reach a conclusion between us, we opted that we get a polygraph test done and I was to pay. Damn! So i confessed that sometimes january last year when we had a 2weeks break from each other, I cheated, and there wont be any need for me to do the test, it will be a waste of money, but that she wey still dey form HOLY, make she run am i go pay. We are yet to do the test though. however my confession made a teary and sad. And i can recall it was after she got herself back together she started saying all those kunle this and kunle that.
Could this be the reason? If it is then maybe it gave her the audacity and the confidence to spew what she had kept in mind way long before, or shes saying it just to make me feel jealous?

Anyway sha I dun break the relationship, and this was her response, though she tried to twist the whole talk back on my head, saying things I never said, omo fear some women.

Tobijays:
God bless you bro. Imagine ooo saying postpartum, have you seen a mad woman with a baby? have you seen the way she tends for her baby? So what excuse does she have. Bro take your kid for her family to support you and ask you to come with soldiers, it says a lot sir either she dy maltreat the baby or abusing the baby. Save the child now later when she is better she can access

CaveAdullam:
Your pee-pee is 0.5inches.

InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!

Pukkalolo:
When you say a person as dark Traids personality, that person has a behavior that consist of the following:
* Lacks emphaty
* selfish behavior
* highly manipulative

Men who have these dark Traids personality don't really struggle with women: they get women easily. But if I advice a simping nice guy to adopt this dark traid personality, then I'm not giving him a reasonable advise. In the long run no woman wants to around a dark Traid man. No man even want to be friends with a man with this kind of personality.
I wanna ask you, would you wanna be friends with a high manipulative, deceptive and selfish person who doesn't really care about the well being of the people around him?

Women actually love a man with dark traid personality NOT because of his highly manipulative tendency or lack of empathy or his selfish behavior BUT because this man doesn't give a shit.

Men with dark traid personality often exhibit a I-don't-give-Bleep attitude; that's why women seem to love them. But their love for these kind of men is only short-term. In the long run, Women don't really want to be around this kind of men or grow old with them. These men will ultimately cause them more pain in the long run.

You won't even want your sister or daughter to date/marry men with dark traid personality. You will want your sister or daughter to date/marry a honest, compassionate and mature guy.

If you think of the obvious, you'll realized that most girls have these dark Traid personality. Many girls lack empathy i.e they don't give really care about you, they only care about themselves(selfish behavior), and that's why they are all about manipulating you and getting what they want from you. But men ignore this girl's Dark Traid attitude because she's a "Girl". A lady will "get away' with exhibiting bullshit and crappy behavior, simply because she's a female, but men will be judged and crucified by the society for exhibiting that same behavior.
That's just bad.

Like I said, I won't advice any guy to adopt the dark traid personality to improve his dating game. You don't need turn yourself to an evil person just because you want to get girls.

Instead here's a more mature and simple advice: "Play Hard To Manipulate."
A girl is always told to play-hard-to-get and not make it easy for men to get access to her pussy because when she play hard to get she's more attractive and sort-after than a girl that easily open her legs for every dick and Harry.

Same for men too: A man that Plays hard to manipulate is more sexually attractive and sort-after than a man who is easy to manipulate and exploit. Women pussy naturally gets wet for a guy she can't easily wrap around her fingers. But her pussy get dried up immediately any time she's with a guy she can easily fool and manipulate.

If a girl thinks of you and what goes through her mind is "this guy is caring, nice and sweet," then it means she view you as someone she can easily manipulate and exploit. Forget it, your chance of fucking or dating her is very low AF because her pussy doesn't tingle for a guy she can easily manipulate.

But if a girl thinks of you and what goes through her mind is, "who the hell does he think he his" or "what is he even feeling like self" or anything along those lines of thought, then it means she view a someone she CAN'T easily manipulate and exploit. She view you as someone who ISN'T going to tolerate her bullshit and disrespectful behavior.. Watch out, that girl is already falling for you.

Be a Man and Always Play Hard to Manipulate.

LifestyleTonite:
He didn't say anything bad. Only broke people will find something wrong with what he has said.

Do you just want to be enjoying wifey roles from your girlfriend without playing husband roles too? As long as she's submissive, do those things he suggested. However, don't overdo or do it to your won detriment. Also, don't make it like a salary thing. Only give when you can spare some change or when you want to surprise her. Also, make sure she deserves it, not because of what she has between her legs.

Many people will call that guy simp, even those who have swallowed Red Pill overdose. However, he's not a simp but a realist. You need money to maintain any kind of relationship. It costs money to take a girl out. Go and make money, then you will see that you are not being a simp spending on a deserving girl.

BritishNaija:
Religion have really messed you up.

Kingsnairaland:
Thus, a note verbale submitted to the United Nations in 2009 states: “China has indisputable sovereignty over the islands in the South China Sea and the adjacent waters, and enjoys sovereign rights and jurisdiction over the relevant waters as well as the seabed and subsoil thereof.” [Emphasis added.]
https://www.csis.org › npfp › chines...
Chinese Domestic Law in the South China Sea - Center for Strategic ...
Again, China doesn't have sovereignty over the South China Sea. Moreover, many parts of it are being contested by neighbouring countries.
A statement by a bulky doesn't change facts.
China is the bully. The entirety of the South China Sea doesn't belong to the Chinese Communist Part


You can't tell China who owns it after all that how England stole Falkland from Argentina.

Kingsnairaland:
I said it like... I did not say China has.. You know the difference...

The picture is to show how submarine accidents happen.

You know I don't do fake news.

So trying be harsh on me is not fair.

If you continue to support USA then we all will head to third world war which is bad USA is the tyrant here in this scenario.

Going near China waters and near Russia border in the name of nato in Ukraine.