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KyberTHEGREAT:
Hello guys
This is my first thread here

My so called girlfriend cannot do what other girls are doing

She resides to follow me on all my social media accounts saying that her phone is bad
She said she can’t make videos cause she’s busy making cash
Other girls are busy vibing with my sing and making videos

She claims she loves me but can’t support my career
What do I do ?
I just dropped a new song and she still refused to repost or play it

Don't be a simp.
It is obvious that the girl does not have high interest in you.

A girl that really loves you will be your number 1 promoter.

Prepare to serve her breakfasts before she serves you.

But I know you're such a useless simp and will not take my advice.
Lovestruck fool.

You'll soon learn the hard way.

MisterKennedy:
May thunder fire you bastard!

May Boko Haram , Fulani herdsmen and gunmen mutilate your fucking body.

Useless simp.
Maybe if you wash her pant, she'll accept to be your girlfriend.

Stupid, dirty simp.

Romanoff:
On top how much abeg?

For a family of 5 people. Ask about their standard of living first before you conclude his wife is doing ajo.

If she's working or have a business, she should augment maker the man no die.

Mumu how much is the average disposable income of the average family in Nigeria?
And you tell me that 80k isn't enough even when the man takes care of provisions, rice and other things.

Yet 80k isn't enough?

Don't be stupid and useless.

Even if the OP says he gives her wife 200k monthly, you'll still come here to justify how 200k isn't enough.

Curb your misandry, Ode.

Oga let me tell you this before these man-hating misandrists will come here to confuse you.

Your wife is a spend-thrift.
It is obvious that your wife terribly lacks management skills.
I put it to you that even if you give her 100k monthly, it'll never be enough for her.

Believe me when I tell you that she is diverting part of that money.
With all you explained, if you are actually shouldering that much, then 80k should be more than enough, by far!!!

It is either she isn't managing the money well or more likely, she is diverting your money.
Know this and know peace.
Amy other contrary story somebody will tell you here is a blatant lie.

You wife is either mismanaging or misusing (looting) your money.

This is the problem with marrying selfish, narcissistic or jobless women.

Irritating simps disgracing their failed families here.
Tueh!

MisterKennedy:
Baby please let me be your boyfriend. Baby please don't snub me. Please reply me baby.

Here's my WhatsApp number 08100553547

Foolish animal don't you have self respect?
Disgusting simp.

Tellwhat:
So many people wouldn't have bothered voting if the race was between just atiku and tinubu. Unless those that mostly want to receive something for their vote

I mean why on earth should I spend my quality time to stand on the qué just to vote for either of this men. It's between choosing the devil and the deep blue sea and it's hard to even tell which of them is which

Peter obi followers are organic and working class citizens that are fed up of the state of leadership. We're tired of I don't care leaders that can't even address the citizens or represent our best interest even when abroad

The good thing about Peter obi is that if he wins it will be fully obvious that the Nigerian people elected him there..and if he messes up (which I don't see happening) then the citizens will kick him out in the next election

For goodness sake we need to not only uplift ourselves but Africa and the entire black race. We're the number one black country in the world and it's a shame we're failing so much when we should be competing with USA, China etc or atleast close. Peter obi is not a magician but atleast he will usher in a new era..An era were we have thinking leaders. An era were power belongs to the people

It's time that Nigerian leaders realize power belongs the citizens. Any government that underperforms needs to be voted out

We're not puppets. We want better leaderships

Frank talk.
I just hope Peter wins.

RaymondHarmony:
You are posted to a secondary school for your NYSC, which subject can you teach effortlessly ?

Redpill. But I'll only teach an all-male class.

Kobojunkie:
Doing your best in what exactly?
You are married, no longer a loneranger! If a pat on the back for doing your part of the work is what you need, better go see a mental health counselor at this point. No one force marriage and children on you, so open your eyes and continue working on communication between you and wife until you both begin to get the real gist.

You're such a disgusting animal. Fool.

Dirty tribal bigot.

Nairaland is perfectly okay the way it is.
If you want more features, create your own site and add the features there.

The only thing bad about Nairaland is the tribalism. But sadly seun is a Tinubu (drug baron) supporter and a sick religious bigot (Islamic fundamentalist).

odinson1:
Women are incapable of Love,they only date or marry you for The money,status, security or if time is no longer on their sides after many years of Prostitution.
I will never pity Men who fall into their traps,women use them as you like but dispose of them when they are no longer useful abeg

Correct

Find a good assaisain and assassinate your cousin.
It won't cost that much since he isn't a high profile individual.
I hate injustice.

Obi 2023

The Mosquito would win.
Mosquitoes always win.

elimsun:
Good day great people of nairaland. I'll make this as short as possible and forgive my typo errors.
I've been working in this construction firm for the past five years together with taking care of my family and my girlfriend who has been in school but due to ASUU strike, now at home.
I'm usually busy and spend less time at home except on weekends - Sundays.
Recently, my girlfriend has been talking me into changing the nature of my work to another job that will afford me the opportunity to give more time to my family and her. I insisted that I'll need more time to be able to find another job but she will not have it that way.
Seems to spoke to my mother about it and it's now hell in the home with my mother threatening she will kill herself if I don't quit the job. This job is something I have used in completing my house and paying the fees of my girlfriend.
Lest I forget, I got the hint that my manager is considering me for a promotion and my quitting the job might just spell doom on me!

I'll appreciate all your suggestions, advice and criticism. I'm really in a fix!

It is only a very stupid fool that sponsors his girlfriend through school.

Like, don't you get it?
Why are some men so stupid and daft?

Never you invest in a woman that is not your wife.
Even your investments in your wife should be carefully measured.

Smh
Lord of simps

iamphenomenal:
HYPERGAMY DOESN'T CARE - 2
Hypergamy doesn’t care that you moved across 4 states to accommodate your long distance relationship.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how ‘supportive’ you’ve always been of her decisions or if you identify as a ‘male feminist’.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about the sincerity of your religious convictions or aspirations of high purpose.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about those words you said at your wedding.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how you funded her going back to college to find a more rewarding career.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how great a guy you are for adopting the children she had with other men.

#RM

Cold facts.

Martinez39s:
Both of you made good red pill points. However, AntichristXXX isn't saying you should seek female validation or put yourself through too much stress to appear attractive to a woman; there was no indication of exhorting men to endanger themselves to please women.

That being said, what women find attractive, how they are wired and how they perceive things are part of the discussions here. They are part of the red pill. Receive the report for what it is.

That's why I said, it is not ALWAYS about what a woman wants. That is an implicit acknowledgement that men naturally try to look desirable in order to attract mating partners - which is not bad in itself - but at the same time it makes a clear warning against chasing validations.

Courage, strength and boldness are desirable attributes that every man should possess.
But just like Kingsince95 rightly opined, a wise man must know when to confront danger and when to retreat.

It is an important point to make for others who might be naively reading through, that unnessesarily endangering yourself in order to appear cool to women is dangerous, foolish simping that could lead to death.

AntichristXXX:
Among many other qualities, a woman wants the “killer” in her man. She is turned off if her man is afraid and wants her to kill the cockroach or the mouse while he stands on a chair and watches. She is turned off if her man wants her to get out of bed in order to check out the strange sounds in the house to find out if a burglar made the noise. Fearlessness, or the capacity to transcend the fear of death for the sake of love, is a quintessential form of the ultimate masculine gift.


The way of the superior man

Fair points.
However, a Redpill man knows to prioritise himself.

It is not always about what a woman wants.
It should first and foremost be about who you are, and what you want.

Unnessecarily endangering yourself for the sake of cheap validation from women is dangerous simping that can lead to death.
Every wise man should avoid that.

Kingsince95:
Every woman wants a confident man, that can protect her in terms of danger. Being confident makes you attractive as a man.
That being said, a wise warrior is better than a strong warrior.
You don't have to fight every battle that presents itself.
Only fight when the odds favor you.

He will win, who Knows when to fight and when not to fight - SUN TZU

Nice

adambeatz:
Classic programming!!

A man would suffer through the hardships of the world and then lay his profits at the feet of a woman, is he mad?.

My achievements/legacy would live long after I’ve departed the realm and I should throw that away just because of a piece of waist.

The problem with men is we fail to see the dynamics of this world has changed, it ain’t what it used to be, since they fail to notice they get fooled into undertaking responsibility they shouldn’t incur.

Why dash a girlfriend a million Naira when I can be chilling on a beach somewhere and watching my investments grow. Why because I want to help a girl settle her debts, my account would now be debited massively, with Buhari as president I’ll not have sense.

The problem once identified no longer falls on the woman but the man who subjects himself under her. A woman would forever be a woman no matter what’s happens but it’s expected from a man to be able to observe and adjust accordingly.

Very apt!!!

Prechgold1180:
Shoutout to all Mumsi who acted as popsi

My mum gave me life
All my life it’s been her
She singlehandedly took care of 5 children

Sorry it’s Father’s Day
But I can’t stop talking about momsi

Momsi did not go to sch but made sure I nva lacked academically

Mumsi went thru pains just to make sure things went well for me
Thanks for all the sacrifices

Expect more cars and gifts from me

Mumsi your son is now a made man

Get the hell out fool.
Today is fathers day bastard

Obama is a useless man.

Most girls have the brains of a rat.
This is the result.

OMOJOHN001:
This is the angle I do see it from all this while, And again I can't let her stay with me I am studying a course and needed no distraction to study and come out with good grade.

I am not ready for marriage yet, maybe two years more I will, But for now I needed to achieve all my plans, I am the type that travel a lot too.

Guy I'm bewildered that you're trying to consider very terrible, horrible advice by some people here.

Bro, take it or leave it, that girl will do you no good in the long run.
Don't stunt your growth for someone any woman.

You don't have standards or what? There are thousands of girls that are well-behaved, God fearing and will stay loyal at the same time having something doing for themselves.

Resist the spirit of oneitis.

When dealing with women, it's either you're the predator or you're the prey.
Also, the dynamics rapidly change while you deal with them as women are inherently manipulative, constantly scheming. Therefore you must never loose guard.
Its always a game for them. It's either they're winning or you are.

Never ever for one second think they love ideally - the way men do.
Women only love opportunistically and as dictated by fast fleeting emotions.

Guard your heart always. Guard your pocket too while at it.

OMOJOHN001:
I have been Dating this babe for the past three years and it has not been so easy funding the relationship and other expenses, but God do come through and I still do achieve lots each year.

But this year have been so worse on her own part, because as for me my income still comes on a steady but I felt I need more money to do lots of things at the moment.

Since January this year, I have be the one Financing this babe, To an extent that each week I will ask her to go withdraw money and prepare what she will eat throughout that week, But to my surprise her family will join her in consuming the dish before mid week, atimes Wednesday, a times Thursday, and She will start crying again of not having anything to eat, They do not have anything in the house, No gas, no oil, no garri and all sort of Nonsense...

Her family is just to broke, She has a single mother, though her dad is dead. RIP to him,he was responsible while on earth.

She has been loyal, good and supportive to me the best way she can, I don't even have sex with her on regular bases, Reason is that I am on a course in UniIlorin presently and she stays in Ile-Ife so the distance is another issue, but we still see at least whenever we feel like.

Guy's, I am planning of getting a car this year and start a new life in another state, all my effort have been stagnant a bit because of this babe, She does not just have #5 on her own, She's not working because there is no work in ile ife that can fetch her above 12k, unless she wan add olosho to it though and the only work there is Filling station attendant and Hotel work couple with part time olosho.

Ordinary weaving of hair, I will carry it, Every Penney she has spent this year is my money,

Her mom too, lacks maturity. Imagine her having the gut's to demand me for meney as in-law few weeks ago that she's sick, though I sent her little cash sha, but I decided that same day will be the last day she will hear from me, as I have a plan that very day to break up with her daughter this month and I have choosing today.

Guy's I love this babe and I really want the best for her, For the past three years most of her friends have try to convince her that I will break up her heart and Jilt her, But she was adamant and keep believing I will not, seriously I didn't have such thought in my plans for her.

But with her level of reachedness and Level of needs and Demand and I deserve better, I am moving on with my life, My pastor said something in church today as per fathers day... HE SAID PRAY NOT TO MARRY INTO A FAMILY WHEREBY YOU WILL START FIGHTING ANOTHER SPIRITUAL BATTLE OF POVERTY AND BROKENESS. .

I felt so down, cuz the prayer is the definition of my babe's Family. local man is tired, But the only fear and my concern is (How she will be mocked and laugh at among her mates that told her this prophecy before, This babe so much love me and she will cry hell today,).

I am feeling guilty, How will she cope without having an helper, No Father and Mom is useless. She will have no choice than to start fucking dicks up and down to survive, that's certain, and she knows it.

PLEASE HOW CAN I STOP FEELING GUILTY, because she's really put all her hope in me and my plan us to help her with a shop once I am through with my course,but Omo the billing no be here oooo, I will still send her money today to prepare this week food and her family will devour everything again before Wednesday.

What's the best way to approach this issue. Help a brother.

You're nothing but an irritating simp. Your post too is irritating.

You just don't have sense or what?

When dealing with women, it's either you're the predator or you're the prey.
There's nothing like true love with them.
Women don't love the way men do.
The fact that you've not realised this simple truth says a lot about your personality (a huge simp).

Women only love opportunistically and if she finds a man with better prospects than you, she'll dump you like a hit pot. As a corollary, if you were broke and not able to finance her, she'd have also served you premium breakfast.

The fact that you waited three years before realising that that girl is of no good to you is a pity.
It simply portrays you as a pathetic simp and I'm sure you'll make the same mistake in your next relationship.

Oga leave that girl and block her everywhere.
Focus on you, so you can rise to the top. And when you do, always remember - Women do not love ideally as men do, their love is always opportunistic.

immortalcrown:
If humans are God...

But why do people start what they cannot finish? Why not support her to the end since you have already made her to be so dependent on you?

When you were desperate to have sex with her, you did not consider her type of family. Now that you have satisfied your lost to an extent, you have suddenly begun to relate your pastor's words to her family. Would you have listened to your pastor if you have not removed her pant? If not that you have sexed her many times, wouldn't you have seen the mother's demand as a sign of getting what you want?

Your case would have been different if she hid her family condition from you and you just made a new discovery. But in this your case, you knew the situation before you went far with her.

I will not talk about her and her mother here because she is not the one who created this post and she may not even come across this post. So, no need to talk about her here.

The most stupid comment if today goes to this guy.
Dirty, disgusting simp.

Jokerman:
So Teacher will not marry again or what?

This question cracked me up

Most Nigerian women have always been as useless as that.
This is why a man must guard his heart and always stay redpilled on his dealing with women.

When dealing with women, if you are not the predator, then you are the prey.
Its always a game for them. Do not forget this.

Tensa you simped by following her up on all platforms after she blocked you. I can deduce from this that you are bluepilled.

I pity you bro. Change now or these girls will make you suffer.