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the older generation dont, smtin more across age

malificent:
Earphones included.

Gideongreat:
FTC

now EDIT

we pray for her safe return home to loved ones,..


CHECK OUT MY SIGNATURE -. lol

sad news - I hope they all survive eventually

See for yourself ooh lalasticlala

THANKS corrected...

adeniyisamuel59:
What kind of non sensical caption is this: ....addiction to or addicted to... Nawa o!

Which of 'these' are You Addicted to?

Weed
Money
Music
Game
Movies
Phones
Tattoos
Books
Alcohol
Water
Sex
Food
Football
Twitter
Instagram
Bible/Quran
Porn
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facebook
twitter
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Instagram
Snapchat
BBM
Youtube


others - specify

seun and lalasticlala - u must answer oooh, we wan know.

God bles your hussle

Rorachy:
True talk especially the taking argument to heart part,

if human beings were God eh

, I no no wetin we for do.

im - no go there oohhh - the world for don scatter patapata

dsaintJ4Real:
Firstly, I want to appreciate this thread, @Saydfact. It helps small monthly earners like us who want to own a place of our own. If I cannot make it 3 bedroom, at least 2 bedroom or self contained, with the necessary calculations, as guided here.
So I am impatiently waiting for updates.

I have a question: I plan to start after the rainy season, although that's when the savings go 'plumb' to start meaningfully . But when is the best time to build: during the rains, after the rains, or harmattan?

Thanks

Its a lot cheaper to build during the dry season and easier, so start after the rain..

goodluck

Ladies are a unique creation from God and it's infact true that God didn't rest until he created the woman on the 6th day, then on the 7th day - he rested.

Below we look at those items that most lady carry along with them on a daily.

1. Hand bag - These is perhaps the most important of the 10, it is a house for almost all other items.

2. Purse - The purpose of the purse is primarily to hold their cash, but most times they put their phones in there too and complain about missing calls - why won't they.

3. A camera phone - this serves many purposes - If they're not receiving call, making calls, they're uploading pics to istangram and other social platform.

4. Mirror - This had been a friend to the lady for a long time, if you're asking why? Read 5 below.

5. Make-up kits - With the need to rush out of the house most times, the comfort of the car (public or private) is a good time to add colours to the face... You know now.. #wink

6. Spare Footwear (flat sole) - What did you think the big hand bag was for? They high heel is to make a statement, while the slippers are to feel comfortable when they in their comfort zone.

7. Comb - whatever the type of hairdo they carry, the Comb could range from small, big to styling Comb and even dryer if possible.

8. Jewelries - This day for security reasons, they don't wear them but carry them in their bags - they put them on at a save location or at the party venue or in the office and remove them before leaving for home again.

9. Sanitary Pad - This is a necessity, maybe it should have been No1 but because it's occasionally it's down at 9. It is infact perhaps the only reason guys are told not to search a girls bag.

10. Novel - For those that love reading, a novel is the perfect companion, while the not too good readers substitute that for music, or social apps.

Do you think we left any important item out? Share below.


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issokay

hmm. a case of what a man can do?


THANKS to the Nigerian Army and JTF - They're doing a great job

congrats - now take it to 20

God Dey

This guy was walking to the bus stop at falomo Lagos and had a RED sock on his black suit.

Where are the fashion pros - Right or wrong?




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That Garden Egg confirms where the wedding took place... .

Great job he did.... Good luck for the future

Teewhy2:
Nice write up

I agree.. it's intend a great article.. .. Had to share..

Are you or is the writer saying God's creation is not perfect.... ?

HOW ARGUMENTS RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
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POSTED BY: LOVEFACTORY

An argument is something that is inevitable in most relationships inasmuch as it builds a relationship and makes partners grow stronger and bound more, if not checked properly can ruin the relationship and leave you to heart broken. Below are 5 ways arguments can ruin a relationship.


# Stop arguing to convince people

You might be right, but arguing isn’t a great way to convince people. Why? Because if they’re defensive and angry, they’ll be unable to hear you. People are like radio transmitters when it comes to communication. They are either set to ‘receive’ or ‘transmit’. This is known as ‘a waste of time’.

Solution

Find a safer time when they are not emotional to drive your point they will offer more audience, and also do it in a manner and place where you do not attract attention.


# Don’t argue about the past

If partners are having arguments about something that happened at a friend’s party 2 hours ago and then suddenly she says that is how you insulted me in 2013 and then he says that’s how you left me stranded in 2010 at the park and so on, then you know something is wrong.

Solution

Apologize when either of you is wrong and move on don’t keep hurt in your hearts as it can really be toxic to your relationship. Constantly going back to stuff someone ‘did wrong’ weeks, months, or years before is toxic. What’s done is done apologize and move on.


# Victim and the aggressor

One person plays the aggressor and the other the victim.

E.g you’re always so mean to me! I don’t know what I’ve done to deserve this!” “Well, if you weren’t so pathetic, maybe this wouldn’t happen!”

Solution

Rather than put yourself in the position of the aggressor or victim go to the root cause of the issue and address it by simply asking some vital questions about the matter at hand or suggesting you visit a marriage counselor if the issue persists.

“When the victim says, ‘It’s nothing to do with me, it’s always you who decides,’ rather than the aggressor yelling, ‘Well, that’s because you won’t take any responsibility!’ they should try, ‘I don’t want to be the one who always makes the decisions — can we find a compromise so we’re both involved?'”


# Defensiveness

When you feel under attack, you become defensive, protecting yourself from criticism by refusing to take any responsibility for the issue instead of facing the root cause of the issue you will rather attack in an attempt to fight back. An example of such statement “You never spend time with the children!” “I always look after them when you go out with your friends. If anyone is a bad parent, it’s definitely you!”

Solution:

Instead of the above statement, you can rather say something like I would love it if you stayed home sometimes to help take care of the children they loved it the last time you did. Or try saying, “Why don’t you take the kids to the pool on the weekend? They’re always talking about how much fun it was last time”.


# Stop taking it to heart

Lastly argumentative people tend to take things personally, even when they certainly weren’t intended that way. This leads to a breakdown in communication. If someone is very critical then either they have never learned a better way of communicating or they are so angry that they are over-generalizing out of control. Either way, it’s their problem.

Solution

Don’t take things too personal arguments happen it will pass and the emotions and anger you feel at that moment will pass. So be careful the words you utter and don’t ruin your relationship in an attempt to protect your ego.



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Invisibleojay:
Hi good morning nairalanders please I need your help I don't really know how to make friend with a girl for the first time. When I approach them all they do is to turn me down telling me that am rude even if I walk to a girl to talk to her in the end she will give me fake number help a friend I really need the first sweet talk statement that will make them laugh and get along with the conversation thanks

THE TRICK IS DON'T WALK UP TO STRANGERS YOU'RE JUST MEETING TO ASK FOR FRIENDSHIP - APPROACH GIRLS YOU MEET AT VENUES, OCCASION, FRIENDS IN COMMON OR IN A GROUP - eg You meet a girl at a party, let your friend introduce you, then continue from there.


Goodluck

@ Bigboyz32

Great post.. Thanks for sharing....

I've tried the Blogger app and it's not cool... The normal browsers are better... See some already mentioned above.. Plus Evernote is the bomb

Happy Birthday Star Comedian

PromiseUche:
Leave love out of this, most female graduates will neva give u a fair hearing if u r bricks layer but d moment u bcom a practising civil engineer with luxuries, u get attentions.

I am not saying u shldnt marry from another tribe but for some of us looking for same tribe, their real names will help us.

Anyways I don't want arguments ova these.
Believe on what U want. #na man u be#

I respect pple views and we're all learning and interacting.. . No argument, just learning.. Thanks

Cutezt:
1. This was Twitter's first ever homepage. The site opened to the public on July 15, 2006.


Zuckerberg (@finkd)—also not verified— has 330,000 followers but has only tweeted 19 times and just once since March 2009.

Mark now has 433k followers and tweeted last in 2012.

Nice info.. thanks

showing off - and in their building they do that with the[b] HIGH POWERFUL COLUMNS[/b] and detailed Terraces

kilojoDesigns:
lol probably true, why are you hashing out Nigeria. own your statements, that's how things get done.

ask him.. lol