mcgaius:
The problem is a lot of people rush into conclusion.People should learn a simple secondary school comprehension.The guys were drinking and smoking Indian help in a bar Yes!The police went and searched an apartment behind the bar and recovered weapons.My question Is,does the apartment belongs to the guys?Because I cannot find anywhere in the report that says otherwise.

God bless you oooo my friend... abeg help me ask them ooooo cause i cant find it in the report either that the apartment belong to the boys...

LionDeLeo:


Before you bet, pls read this part of the report.

even in the report you posted yourself there is no where in the report that says it the boy apartment or house all those stuff is recovered... so dont say what you dont know... police are very dubious and can frame anyone anytime to show that they are working and take false praise from the public...

chuksanambra:
Segun wire ko, Shuku battery ni.

Segun wire wey be say na SARS go still kill am.

Did you even read what you wrote? Wishing human being like you death? What happen to been apprehended by the law? And tell me what will kill you since you wished him to be killed by SARS? I just pity people like you cause God is not human... change your thinking before it too late never wish anyone death if you don't want to be the one that will die the horrible death... Enough Said

NwaAmaikpe:
-It is obvious the guy has seen your gf náked before and was not impressed when he saw her bra and panties.

So he is helping you change her undies.

Guy I swear u no get sense and you are too savage. Can't you even be diplomatic about it? Na now I know why people they always de find your comments on threads upandan... cos you fit make person laugh die

Billyonaire:


You have met a bad type.

The heart is for love and the brain is for reasoning, but it seems you have fallen in love with both your heart and your brain. When this happens, you become a slave of your own emotion. There is no point hurting you more by emphasizing that you are in a relationship with someone whose emotion is not with you. Ask yourself - Before she demands Porns from guys, what is going through her mind ?

The love emotion is one great force which unites the world, but it is also the greatest trap. Know when to love and who to love and when love betrays, its best to terminate and move on without ruining your dignity and pride.

She is meant for the street. Wish her luck and cry for the pain. It is something you must face on Earth before Death calls.

Sir the Gods have blessed you with plentiful brain and may it never depart you for this your comment

Lolz this is funny so after the whole wayward life she's not fooling the next victim.... But who am I to judge...

cheapgoals:


na onli them oo, money dey scratch dem fo hand na

Funniest part is they are my team but I don't know what prompt them to do that deal when you know players can loose form anytime

cheapgoals:
Spanish champions Real Madrid and Flamengo have authoritatively made an official agreement for Brazilian prospect Vinicius Jr, with the youngster set to join Madrid in June of 2019.

At no other time had a club made such a payment for a 16-year-old, and his games performances at a high level are as yet a riddle, as he didn’t make his top-flight big appearances for Flamengo in the Brazilian league until the 14th of May.


READ MORE ON

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Na only Madrid de do that kind crazy deal I just hope Madrid won't regret this....

nurshah:



Clearly ,its evident that you are a good man.. So am sorry too

Peace Bro.... have a blissful afternoon

LePrezident:


Yet you can't even type English but you're here hating.

OH MY ENGLISH TEACHER SORRY, WHEN IN SCHOOL I WASNT PAYING ATTENTION.... OMINI KNOWEST,, YOU MUST HAVE BAGGED FIRST CLASS IN ENGLISH FROM THE OXFORD UNIVERSITY OR YALE OR HARVARD.... FATHER OF ENGLISH.....

nurshah:



You make reference to my parebts yet you dare to say I lack manners ?_how can u say my parents brought mW u badly ..do u know you insulted them?
How would you feel if I had insulted your dad? I won't stoop to the level of insulting patents with you. CLESRLY WE CAN C WHO TRULLY NEEDS MANNERS

ANYWAYS SORRY ABOUT THE RAISING PART, just don't know why you started insulting me without insulting you, it was a clear state of misunderstanding but you couldn't even calm down to explain things better... Am sorry anyway

nurshah:




See who is talking,playing the innocent card..did you first comment sound polite to you and u dare to state I Lack common knowledge of communication
Educated illiterate ..slow poke

I think you need to read my post again.., what I wrote there was just SERIOUSLY DID YOU READ WHAT YOU WROTE SO TELL ME HOW IS THAT INSULTIVE ?

nurshah:




You are sooo dumb you could not even see whether I ststed tiwa. Is an entertainer ... Don't u know that entertainer and be a true singer are different ? ..
Am sooo irritates at your level of intelligence.wawa kawai

FOR GOD SAKE WHO IS FIGHTING WITH YOU? HENCE WHY YOU SPITTING YOUR IMBECILITY SALIVA ALL OVER THE THREAD? YOU DON CHOP? GUY ABEG I NO BE BHARI OOO CARRY YOUR FRUSTRATION GO FRONT... THE WISE ONE...... OMINI KNOWEST

nurshah:




Mumu please read again I meant Adele is fat better than Tiwa
You level of comprehension is very bad.I won't dignify you further slow poke

I WILL NOT STOOD TO YOUR LEVEL OF IMMATURITY, YOU COULD HAVE MADE YOUR POINTS WITHOUT TANTRUMS I NEVER INSULTED YOU SO WHY SO MUCH HATE AND VULGAR WORDS ? I THINK WHO SO EVER RAISED YOU RAISED YOU BADLY AND YOU LACK HOME TRAINING SERIOUSLY, AND YOU ALSO LACK COMMON WAY OF COMMUNICATIONS.... MAY GOD HELP YOU....

nurshah:




You are sooo dumb you could not even see whether I ststed tiwa. Is an entertainer ... Don't u know that entertainer and be a true singer are different ? ..
Am sooo irritates at your level of intelligence.wawa kawai

BUT WHY THE INSULT I THINK WHEN YOU ARE GROWING UP YOU ARE A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE OR BULLY CAUSE WHAT I SAID HAS NEVER WARRANT ANY OF YOUR INSULTS AND CANT YOU PASS YOUR MESSAGE SENSIBLY AND AMICABLY WITHOUT THE SPEWING OF TRASH AND ABUSIVE WORDS, I THINK YOU NEED TO CHANGE YOUR ORIENTATIONS A LIFE OF VIOLENCE AND FIGHTS LEADS TO EARLY GRAVE CHANGE YOUR WAYS OF COMMUNICATING WITH PEOPLE....

nurshah:




Sing better than Adele ?abeg Adele and tiwa canmver be on same level ... Tiwa is an entertainer ,Adele is a singer

Really can you read what you just wrote? Adele and Tiwa Savage? Do You Even Know Music At All? How Many Grammys Tiwa Savage has As in am so disappointed in your comparison, Can you please Google it for yourself own sake?

AND THIS IS SOMEONE WIFE AND SOMEONE MOTHER..... SMH........ IRANU.... EVEN THOUGH SHE WALK NAKED SHE CAN GET AWARDS OR SING BETTER THAN ADELE... JUST PITY AFRICAN SINGERS COPYING CRAZY WHITES SINGERS IGNORING THE DECENT ONES...

obikirinoni:

Guys please read carefully


WHY FATHERS ARE NEGLECTED IN OLD AGE.
-ITS A MUST READ FOR ALL FATHERS! (and mothers too!)

Take ur time and read through.

1. In the lifetime of most Nigerian family settings, there are 3 Dispensations of Power.

2. The 1st is the first 25 years in the life of the family (father, mother, children) where power indisputably rest with the father.

3. The 2nd is after the kids have grown & started working when the power shifts to the mother.

4. The 3rd is when the kids move out of the family house or start their own families when the power moves to the children.

6. We'll start from the 1st Dispensation. Total dominance of the father. He is the Lion of the Tribe of his House. The boss.

7. During this dispensation, the father rules with an iron fist. He barks orders & determines what does or does not happen.

8. The father often mettes out corporal punishment to the recalcitrant children. They grow to fear him more than they love him.

10. The father is the provider for the family & everyone is aware of that fact with all attendant consequences.

11. Then the 2nd Dispensation sets in. The children have finished school and have started working. Power shifts to the mother.

12. When the children start earning their own money, for some reason, it's their mothers they decide to look after. They are closer to her.

13. While the father was in charge, he was busy with the business of providing. He didn't have much time to be a friend to the children.

14. They spent more time with their mum and invariably grew closer to her. They also see their mum as co-victims of the father's tyranny.

15. The mother takes centre stage at this point. She is the first to know what's happening with the children & she has advantage.

16. Should any of the daughters give birth, she is the one that goes for babysitting and the children spoil her with gifts.

17. At this stage, the father is wishing for some bond with the children like they have with their mother but that boat has sailed.

18. Because the mother doesn't rely much on the father for her needs at this stage, she is less likely to tolerate his lordship. Friction.

19. Then the 3rd and last dispensation. Power has shifted to the children. They are self-sufficient, live on their own & have own families.

20. More often than not, whenever there is a quarrel between father & mother, the children side the mother.Years of joint-victimhood at play

21. Children have been known to come to the house to warn their father not to 'disturb' their mother. Next thing, extended visitations.

22. Woe betide the father if his finances are precarious at this stage. You will be humble by force. The gang-up is real.

23. This causes most men to fall ill & develop different complications. By the time the forces are arrayed against you, you will think well.

24. Stroke, Hypertension, High-Blood Pressure. The man has a large family but no relationship with them in later life. Troubling thought.

25. Moral, dear men, while the power lies with us, let us wield it with posterity in mind. It won't be with us forever.

26. With the way you are treating your wife now, how will she treat you when power shifts to her?

27. What relationship do you have with your family? Loving dad or despotic, tyrannical provider?

28. Remember, the children always side with their mother. Aim to do enough to at least get a fair hearing in future moments of family strife

30. Invest wisely for the future so that you won't have to beg to be taken care of if despite your best efforts, you find yourself alone.

ADVISE TO CHILDREN:- IT IS NOT GOOD TO ABANDON YOUR FATHER WHO DENIED HIMSELF TO GET YOU PREPARED FOR LIFE & WHO SACRIFICIALLY SOWED TO MAKE YOU WHO YOU ARE. HONOUR YOUR BOTH PARENTS AND TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEM IN THEIR OLD AGE. THAT IS HOW YOU TOO WILL SOW INTO YOUR FUTURE. DONT LET NEGLECTING YOUR FATHER (PARENTS ) BE A CURSE ON YOU INTO YOUR FUTURE.

ADVISE TO MOTHERS :- DON'T INCITE YOUR CHILDREN AGAINST THEIR FATHER.

*Parenthood is not easy despite its joys. There is no manual on how it works. May God help us

OP YOU WANT TO MAKE ME CRY AGAIN TODAY, WHAT YOU POST IS GOOD BUT MAY BE IT YOUR FAMILY OR OTHER PEOPLES FAMILIES.... BUT LET ME TELL YOU I LOST MY DAD SINCE 2015(2YRS AGO) BUT EVERYONE OF MY FAMILY STILL CRIES TILL TODAY, THE MAN DIED AT THE AGE OF 74 AND HE HAD 7KIDS(4GIRLS AND 3BOYS, WHICH AM THE LAST BORN) BUT TO BE SINCERE I THINK MY FATHER IS THE MOST CARING MAN IN THE WORLD TO THE EXTENT THAT EVEN MY SISTERS AND US LOVE HIM MORE THAN OUR MOM, WHAT WE CAN TRY WITH MY DAD, DEM NO BORN US WELL MAKE WE TRY AM WITH MY MOM I REPEAT DEM NO BORN YOU WELL IF YOU TRY AM IT MEANS YOU DON DIE BE THAT FOR THAT DAY, MAY BE IT SOME MEN SHA BUT MY DAD IS AWESOME AND TOO GENEROUS AND NICE, HIS GENEROSITY LED HIM TO WHERE HE IS TODAY... R.I.P MY MAIN MAN, MY BACKBONE WE ALL MISSED YOU SO MUCH.... REST ON DAD PA OLUKAYODE SIMON ODUKOYA....

JamieNaija:
Actresses Ebube Nwagbo and Juliet Ibrahim were looking hot as they went about their hosting duries at the Glo Mega Music Tour at Port Harcourt.


CHECK SOURCE: http://www.jamienaija.com/2017/05/ebube-nwagbo-juliet-ibrahim-shows-off.html


Lalasticlala missyb3 fynestboi

Someone please help me with that lil Wayne pics of OLOSHO

Emerald557:

Friends, how long will friends harbour/tolerate you with 2 children.
He has relations in Lagos but they are of the opinion that I die in his hands. They are on his side. The won't let me leave him.

The only solution now is to endure everything for a while if you have a lucrative job that pays you well then you need to start saving some money to secure an apartment for yourself and your kids or try go to your church and talk to your pastor about your predicament and see if they can help you and ask friends and family also may be you call back home for help, for them to assist you at least they won't want their daughter to die in one mans hand. This is why we have families ooo call them and tell them what you are going thru ooo

Emerald557:

Amen. I will leave but no place to go as my parents live in Benin and I work here in Lagos.

Dont you have any friends or family in lagos at all? and i think thats more reason why he is treating you bad? what about him does he has family in lagos?

Emerald557:
My marriage is 3years as we speak with 2 kids(a boy and a girl). I took in for my daughter when my son was 1 year 3 months old. Now when I told my hubby I was pregnant, there is nothing he did not say or do to me, he said that he has people looking up to him and I am bringing extra burden on him. ((This is a man that agreed with me that we will have 3 kids God willing)) throughout my pregnancy he tormented me to the point that he wanted me dead with the pregnancy or that I miscarried the pregnancy or that I die with the pregnancy.He told people that I always disturbed him for s*x and that I planned the pregnancy. I fought to stay alive for my son. He beat me twice with the pregnancy on one occasion he blinded me in an eye from a punch from him for one week I didn't go to work, my job was astake. I kept praying and hoping I sailed through this pregnancy. On another occasion I needed to go out to my school's graduation with my son considering that i was heavy and am going with my son who is less than 2 years old, so i needed to go with the car (we both contributed money to buy(the family's car)) and we had both talked about my going with the car for my graduation the previous day, only for him to take the car keys and zoomed off to the car when I was ready with my son to go out. I tried to remind him about what we agreed on, he said and I quote "if you don't get out of there, I will jam you with the car", I was perplexed, still looking at him, he entered the car drove it and hit me with the car. Came out, slapped me and went back into the car and he said that he will kill me and marry another woman. It then dawned on me that he wants me dead. I had to start threading with caution knowing that am alone in this world, with my son and with pregnancy. I became more prayerful and I paid alot of sacrifices to stay alive. Sacrifices in the sense that I never demand for money from him as that will infuriate him to pounce on me. From the start of the pregnancy to baby items, hospital list, hospital bills after delivery till date I never asked him for money and he never used his mind to help out with money. I promised myself never to ask him for money again, I spend my money when am in need and I don't have money, I borrow. In the midst of this saga, he was always having s*x with me whenever he wants to, which mouth will I use to say no. And most of the time, he gets rough really rough during s*x so as to make me miscarry. Prior to this pregnancy I never refuse him s*x, even when I am too tired. When I am sick, he wants s*x, I tell him I can't because I am not well, he will force me. We can quarrel throughout the day and not talk to each other, but at night he must have "his" s*x. I tell him am not safe, he will tell me he will withdraw until I got pregnant for my daughter. Now I have put to bed. My son is 2yrs 4months and my daughter is 5months. I pay my bills and my kids bills and now he wants more sex. I can't do family planning for personal reasons. I plead with him to use condom, he says he won't that he does not like it. He uses withdrawal method which we both know doesn't work, and then I refuse him sometimes but still he over powers me and gets his s*x. I fear I will get pregnant again. Now he is threatening, raining fire and brimstone over s*x. That he will bring in a woman who will drive me out of the house. Please I need your candid advice on what to do. I am going crazy

OP MY OWN ADVICE FOR YOU IS TEMPORARY SEPARATION FOR NOW, GO BACK TO YOUR PARENTS HOUSE FOR A WHILE, THANK GOD YOU ARE WORKING AND YOU PAY YOUR BILLS YOURSELF SO HE WONT BE MISSED, CAUSE I SEE THAT MAN KILLING YOU SOON IF YOU CONTINUE TO STAY IN THAT HOUSE WITH HIM, MAY GOD FORBID ANYWAY, TAKE FEW THINGS WITH YOU AND LEAVE FOR A WHILE.... I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU HERE... MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AND YOUR KIDS...

adajoe555:




Lol..No I'm from Rivers state

Adaku ...we answer igbo name too

Hope you get out of the shell too

Amen ooooo have a blissful day

adajoe555:



Lol...OK I will
I just feel happy now
Thank you

That's the spirit, am happy that I could put a smile on your face this morning even though am going thru something similar to yours at least that's a sign that today is gonna be a different, your moniker sounds Igbo I hope you are not one of those tribalism bigot on here, cause the person God just use to put a smile on your face is a Yoruba and my name is Olamilekan Johnson and yours ?

adajoe555:



Lol...OK I will
I just feel happy now
Thank you

That's the spirit, am happy that I could put a smile on your face this morning even though am going thru something similar to yours at least that's a sign that today is gonna be a different, your moniker sounds Igbo I hope you are not one of those tribalism bigot on here, cause the person God just use to put a smile on your face is a Yoruba and my name is Olamilekan Johnson and yours ?

adajoe555:




I pray today should be a start of a new day ..I'm tired of everything

Sorry the Lord is your strength

adajoe555:




That's what he always say . I'm a fault finder because I called his attention to what I don't like ,he said I shouldn't talk to him .today is making it a week he haven't called ..I'm just broken inside ..I'm trying to move I can't

Heyah sorry Dearie I know how you must have been feeling, try to go out and mix with people at least for that moment you will forget about it and gradually you will move on Dearie..
Although mine called twice in the morning yesterday after a week or two but I didn't pick cause I see no reason talking to her if I actually wants to do this I think it needs to start from communication but I know she might appear in my house one of this days without invitation and am waiting for that, I don't know what she wants she doesn't love me and she doesn't want me to go kind of frustrating,
Dearie just stop crying and try go to your friends and even if they are going to make jest of your situation it better than staying indoor all day crying, it might even help you heal cause that has helped me, I was heartbroken and when I couldn't stand it anymore I went to my friends and by the time they started making jest of me that the girl puncture my heart with those sharp rod on the gates( you know those things that they always do on every entrance gate for security reason) and another saying the girl hit my heart on the rock and all sorts at the end of the day that's how I got heal seeing them everything jesting about my situation and laughing about it, I think you can also try that, all the best

Toks2008:


If you truly desire someone,you can't help but show it...cos it comes effortlessly.

Yes that's what am saying and it the same reason am believing she doesn't love me, she just don't want me to leave may be because of what she's getting from me but definitely not love

adajoe555:
One sided expectations hurts a lot ..just as am going through right now..I'm really depressed. I can't go a day without crying. I'm trying my best to pull out but it still keep coming. For one week now I've just been in my room ,I haven't gone out ( crying)

Heyah sorry Dearie I know how you must have been feeling try to go out and mix with people at least for that moment you will forget about it and gradually you will move on Dearie

adajoe555:
One sided expectations hurts a lot ..just as am going through right now..I'm really depressed.

Just as me, move on is even more difficult than staying cause of the stupid hope of someday change that pose but still not the best cause I know how people that are begging for love is treated, if you call they will say you are calling too much or you are stalking them, they give you rosters of DOs and DONTs cause you are the one begging for their love and if they did something bad and you call their attention to it they will say you are nagging, It actually bad begging for love.
But me ooo am trying my possible best to move on no matter what, may be it because am always alone and introverted that is making the moving on hard but I will get thru with it

Toks2008:
There is one absurdity i have seen in romantic affairs...it's the act of unbalance feelings of love and affection from both parties which usually leaves one party feeling unloved and in many cases will lead to sadness, depression, anger, nagging when they feel they are not getting the love and attention they deserve....If you find yourself expressing the aforementioned then you are clearly begging for love.

If you ever observe this just pause and ask yourself why you are begging for the love and affection...if there is something you are doing wrong then adjust but if it is just your partner who is not just connecting with you please move on.

Stop crying and begging for love from someone who is not willing to give it. Stop begging fot attention,compliments, praise,admiration,hugs,kisses because at the end it will lead to serious depression and you will start thinking you are not good enough and this destructive mindset will prevent you from attaining your goals and dreams in life.

If you are dating someone who makes you beg for love and affection please close your eyes and leave that union...*MOVE ON* cos you are too special to beg for love from anyone because in the real sense. ...such person is not worth it but if you go ahead to marry such with the hope that he or she will change then you are on a wild goose chase cos it will most likely get worse.

And if you are married yet see yourself begging for love and affection please get a grip of yourself and channel your energy on yourself and your kids if any. ..
the constant nagging makes you look desperate. Deal with it by learning how to love yourself, and take care of yourself (mentally, physically, and spiritually).

Stop waiting for that other person to grab your hand, and motivate yourself by moving forth in your life and acknowledging that you are a dynamic, unique, beautiful, talented person with or without the love or attention from another individual.

The problem is that rather than move on,many people would rather remain in that affair hoping things will change thereby sinking deeper and deeper into a sorry state.

Remember that there is always someone out there who is ready to give you all the love and affection you can ever dream of so stop wasting your time and life with someone who does not deserve you.

The strange twist is that in most cases,if you care less and focus on yourself,the other party will realize how valuable you are and will most likely give you more than the attention you deserve.

Always remember that the wrong person will make you beg for affection, attention and commitment but the right person will give you very effortlessly because he or she truly wants you.

Don't know if this makes sense.

Toks my guy as usual you just nailed it again, it just like you are seeing my present situation. I don't even understand anymore and moving on is very hard I must confess.
This is someone I love truly and she's not reciprocate the same love back to me but one thing about me is even if I love her to the moon I will still never beg for love cause Am once a victim of that and I know how they are treated. Have stopped calling her and even when she called I don't pick cause I see there is no point furthering the relationship when love is not coming from her, although she always claim she love me and she is just not the showing love type but still I believe it a lie nobody loves and hide it...

greatgod2012:
@op, Kudos!

I always love reading your posts, even though I may not agree with all but I'm quite sure I agree with bulk of your posts most time!


@post, I agree with you and the best way to move on especially if one is already married is to love yourself a great deal!

Anyone who truly and greatly love him/herself will find it easy to move on without feeling bad about the other person, there will not be any need begging for love from anyone because you're already full with self-love! And believe me, that's when the other person will realize that you can actually survive without him/her, by then, he will spontaneously learn how to show love!


However, it's somehow difficult for anyone who's dependent on the other person to find it easy moving on or loving oneself truthfully and greatly, therefore, it is advised that each and everyone be independent, especially ladies...... every lady should be self dependent, so that no man will think you can't survive without him!


Love should not be forced but flow freely!

May God help us all!

Do you think it only ladies that beg for love ? Am in this situation presently and although have stopped calling or seeing her but still it very hard for me to move on, she is always on my mind and sometimes I would have picked my phone to dial her number but I just manage to shrug it off, may be it because am always alone and introverted. But I must say it very hard for me to move on but am very sure with time I can pull this over..