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Politics / Re: Rivers: Inime Aguma Resigns As Social Welfare Commissioner by CelestineNelson: 3:47pm On May 15
vanitybutiwanti:
shut the fhuck up low life
talk is cheap Mr. 'High Life' 😅😂🤣, send me your account number let me show you how it is done here
Politics / Re: It May Be Difficult For Opposition To Stop Tinubu’s Re-election -Monday Ubani by verygudbadguy(m): 3:46pm On May 15
Roger3D:
You're living in a fool's paradise
It’s easy to identify a fool when they talk (type) much better than when they are silent.
Romance / Re: Part2 Of My Experience Working At Hotel Will Make You Fear Dating by Fiscus105(m): 3:43pm On May 15
Odebayo4010:
I can't forget how i saw my mathematics lectures and secretary in a lodge coming out frm a room.
Sweating
I once saw a married woman with her about 3years old son and another married man came in for short rest smh
Caught a lot of my married neighbors they didn’t know I worked there
There was a night my Bea call me saying sweet word I was just nagging but I couldn't get mind through what I saw. relationship that year to me seems like world of deception the love I have my girlfriend then reduce drastically.
Even staying close to a lodge..makes you feel things like the eve gender are nothing to take serious.
Working at a Lodge is where u get the ultimate challenge of minding your business and also get a lesson of the type of person u want to settle with. I worked at a Lodge in Ogun State when i was at Uni years ago, the thing i saw ehn. Pastors, Prophets, Herbalists,drug dealers,scammers, Married men, Married women.
Your girlfriend can't be faithful to you if she works in a hotel...from experience
Working in a Hotel will make you hate marriage with passion.
I work as a receptionist in a hotel, one very Sunday, one married man wit 5 different girls
As one girl was leaving another girl was coming in, nd u knw u gats Inform d guest of his visitor
Omo it got to a point I got tired of calling d room, wen dey come i ask Dem to call their clients abeg
I once pimped a girl for her boyfriend and it wasn't funny. The guy wan mad. He was like bro. Na my serious babe you control for me so ooo. That Day I run kitikiti.
If I open mouth talk watin my eyes see 3 home go breakas I see of the Aunty after few month with belle I open mouth because me and she know say that belle nobe for her husband..na them dey first greet me for street I go just pass jeje single girl lyk me watin I know..watin dey vex me most na those women way dey feel say them decent pass.
Ashwear.... Na person wey never work for hotel dey carry girl matter for head.
Lol that's how I nearly cast one guy , then I was working in a guest house as a receptionist and he came in with a lady and lodged then the next day he came with a lady but I didn't know it was a different lady so he was like which room is available I now asked him that do you want the same room of yesterday.🤦
I quit hotel work d day one guy carry my gf come lodge…na me still clean the room wey dem use, I was crying while cleaning…na dat day I make up my mind to make it in life.
Any day wey I remember say I go marry I they fear 💔💔one thing is for sure I no see myself marrying one woman, two wives 3 side chick I can't come and kill myself.
as a hotel Receptionist,i don see things.
there’s this particular guy that lodged for 2 months.
He was always bringing in different girls everyday,I don't know maybe he's doing it for ritual purpose

And there’s one married man that do lodge,u will see people’s wives coming to see him everyday
As my gf tell me say she wan start working, and the place she sort out to work was a hotel Omo
I nor fit for emotional cramps
We both went out separate ways oh
Because I know weyin eye done see for hotel worker
Was I so insecure yet I was because they said karma is real.
I witnessed one back then... My perceive innocent looking teacher with another teacher... It's not surprising again
Omo no just loud a m I don see married women wey carry him pikin come collect gbola and the worst be say the pikin still Dey breastfeed.
A friend of mine that is a Bolt driver. Once told me that will never marry because of the things his seeing when picking up client.
Receptionist job at the lodging post is not for the weak.
One married woman came to my Lodge with someone when saw me she tried to run away had to tel her to calm down as the staff of the place, told her am just making my money that you Don need to be Afraid.
I once worked in a hotel.. Thr one that surprised me most was the married women that came down short time before going to work.



Keep on writing fiction just because you want to hit front page.

When age mates are doing great in their careers and businesses, you are doing boy boy in one guest house, yet you are not ashamed of urself.


I pity hole that born a useless son sha
Education / Please, Who Can Support 3 Intelligent Kids Out Of For 5yrs? by TruthinAction: 3:43pm On May 15
I do know that a large percentage of families in Nigeria are going through difficult times. I am also aware that it's not quote easy getting help especially when you are not known by the person you are requesting help from.

But I also know that there are kind-hearted people on this forum who value the education of kids.

This is not a scamming post and I am not asking anyone to send money to me. If you are interested in helping, please let me know. We will get a school for them and you talk directly with the principal of the school and make your contribution.

If they had unhindered education, two of the kids should have been through with secondary school.

So what we are looking at is putting the 3 Kids in JSS 2, JSS 3 and SS 2.

Please, no insult. These children could be you.
TV/Movies / Re: When The Epic Cartoon, Voltron Made Its Debut (Throwback) by zedman1(m): 3:41pm On May 15
Form arms and feet...and now the head, form blazing sword....FORM VOLTRON. Lol, I no remember how dem de take talk the forming sequence again. Sweet cartoon that year. Then there was that scientific cartoon called thunder Sub. That one no be for pikin like that but we still enjoy am too.
Politics / Re: Between Sanwo-Olu, Prince Harry And The Special Pen by Midehi3(f): 3:41pm On May 15
FreeStuffsNG:

It's obviously a forensic-sensitive and security pen for the Governor. It's not much useful to Harry beyond being a memorabilia so why gift him such a pen.

The Governor may later gift him a pen but not that particular one he is using as a Governor. LASG is not your regular state.

May God bless Lagos State Government and the Federal Republic of Nigeria for ever! Check my signature for free stuffs!
For your mind now, you don talk cheesy chai grin
Business / Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Fibel(m): 3:37pm On May 15
BAZ001:


God bless you real good,
I’ve been saying this things them turn me to talking down on the hustle.
I will never talk down on the hustle that put food on my table and help me to pay bills while Nigeria was happening to me.
My point has been don’t dwell on it, at long run it won’t pay you.
Dem drag me sotee I no fit talk again.
Did you see the face of that fiverr Lasema worker He no get job at all. Just ignore him

so you Jappa low key … congratulations

Thank you brother.
I don’t honestly have anything against him. Most times I’ll just ignore comments but the fact that he is all over nairaland at most times of the day when he should be making use of his time is discouraging.
He is a young man and has a right on who to support . The problem is if he is doing it for free, l’d actually respect him if he’s actually getting paid handsomely and not peanuts as even the so called patriots of other developed nations have multiple reasons to feel patriotic.

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Sports / Re: Why Are Bet9ja Odds Small, Is There Another Famous Betting Site by Angelinegt: 3:23pm On May 15
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Politics / Re: It May Be Difficult For Opposition To Stop Tinubu’s Re-election -Monday Ubani by DaTruths: 3:09pm On May 15
Goodvibes007:

And LP rigged in the SE, hence the magic numbers that came from there unlike other parts of the country which was more balanced.

Its not magic number, easterners are very emotional.
If they hate you, they can kill you, not to talk of voting for you.

Tinubu is hated heavily in the East, more than Buhari even.
Romance / Re: NAKÉD Picture: What Is AI Turning Into? This Is Baaaad! by spencekat(m): 3:07pm On May 15
Everyday247:
Na wa oh, So no one else is going to talk about how the AI pic is hotter than the original?

What you ordered Vs what you got. shocked
You are intelligent.
Sports / Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2023, 2025 And 2026 World Cup by TheGoodJoe(m): 3:04pm On May 15
Timixion:



He isn’t insanely productive when you compare him to players that played same role as him. He is more of a 2nd striker /false 9 than a midfielder. I wonder why some of you keep sneaking him into conversation he doesn’t belong

He is playing in the same position as Muller, Baggio, Di Stefano , Zico , Platini etc . When you compare KDB’s stats to these guys … he is the lowest of bunch.

His comparison to Zidane is so funny because Zidane was midfielder who dictated play, control tempo and connect defense with attack. Something KDB is extremely poor at. Most times KDB just wait at the final 3rd or drift to the RW to cross… how is that a midfielder ?😂. Even Pep knows he is poor on the ball, always begging him not to lose the ball.. Midfielder una !

Another question is , what has his statspadding done to help Belgium or Mancity? He ghosted in the Euros, Worldcup & even nations league. He still ghosted in CL final which his team won without him. So how can you prove KDB’s impact on the team? Can his team do without him? Obviously yes!

Zidane has more G/A’s in these big games than KDB because of his excellent ball handling & leadership mentality. His job wasn’t even to score but he still did it when it mattered most.

Come on. KDB is a big part of our success. Guardiola is talking of him still improving. KDB only has Ryan Giggs ahead of him in assists in the history of the EPL. Giggs has more games and playing more of a forward.

KDB is mostly listed as a midfielder and it is his interpretation of the game that makes him unique.

Leave Manchester City out of the talk because he will be remembered as one of the Greatest to grace the game and grace the EPL.

As for Belgium, it is like saying Luis Figo is not amongst the greats because he won nothing with Portugal.

Football is a career and not a big game thing. Career wise KDB ghosts him.

Finito.
Sports / Re: Jazz In A Bet9ja Shop by Angelinegt: 2:56pm On May 15
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Politics / Re: If Size Of Land Was Important, Lagos Would Not Be Important by BentizilL0: 2:54pm On May 15
gidgiddy:


That same Ibadan is the only city in the South West. I don't want to talk about Lagos that was federal capital of Nigeria for 75 years. Ibadan was capital of the Western for decades and is now capital of Oyo

But SE did not wait for places such as Onitsha, Nnewi or Aba to be capital before developing them

So forget about grabbing capital territories of Ibadan and Lagos as reference points of development. Mention one place in your area that you developed without waiting for it to be made capital, everything is not about waiting for government money. Onitsha, Aba and Nnewi were never capital of anywhere and never waited for government money
Lagos as it's known today was not the capital of Nigeria, only a small portion less than 10% was Nigeria capital..
I hate when people like you try to attribute Lagos development to being Nigeria capital.. Lagos was left to die but it's still thriving.. If you don't know anything, it's better you keep shut instead of writing nonsense online..

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Politics / Re: Gift Worlu: Another Rivers State Commissioner Resigns (pix) by Greatex90: 2:51pm On May 15
True talk. Even devil has followers. Lol
Vyzz:


Wike no be God

Even portable and speed darlington has followers..

Some people just want to follow
Romance / Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by luminouz(m): 2:48pm On May 15
Gerrard59:


There are exceptions to every phenomenon. I am not interested in that minority. My focus is strictly on the majority, and yes, there are lots of ugly people in Kogi. Poverty is one cause of ugliness. Kogi is one of Nigeria's poorest and most deprived states.
Stfu.... How dumb can you be to claim majority equals totality in states with millions of people? Have you personally gone to these states and verified all the men are ugly? The way you make assumptions show that you don't anything about these states. So coming from someone has visited these states, there are many handsome dudes in these states..so stfu

I think it's because you are ugly, that's why you project your own shiit to others. I have noticed you are always touchy on the subject of getting girls abroad as a Naija man and always claim we don't get the girls.

If only you knew mudafucker how easy it is to get women there, you would never believe it. Girls are the same all over the world...you look fit, smell good and talk good game..and you'd have them eating out of your hands. The funny thing is you are in oriental countries where the girls should be the easiest to smash but you weren't even getting any...because you are ugly...and it scarred your mentality.

Stop projecting that shiit on to the rest of us. Because men like me, never had issues getting foreign women.

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Romance / Re: I'm About Leaving My Father's House To Stay On My Own. Please Advise Me by akube34: 2:41pm On May 15
GeneralKoko:
Good day Nairalanders!

I'm 21 years and would be 22 this year. I would be finishing school by September and I plan to leave my parents house totally by the end of this year.
Although staying with my parents guarantee me free food and comfort I think on the long run it would limit me.

What's your advice??
nobody Dey pursue you. Go back home if you don’t have the resources yet, plan yourself while there and move out later. No follow these people wey Dey talk leave your comfort zone, na so them tell me but I no send them. I left at 26, and I am doing well. Paying bills no easy ooo and you have the most part of your life to pay

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Foreign Affairs / Re: A Japanese Boy Waiting In Line At The Crematorium With His Deceased Baby by mysticwarrior(m): 2:31pm On May 15
advanceDNA:


Pele ... grin grin it's like calling ur talk village talk dey vex u.....u seff read what u wrote....warrior, soldier, US knows it cannot do this, Us cannot do that, bomb is a lazy man fight....what's does that even mean??

Lol....This one think having an upper hand tech is about being humane.... U are comedian..

. Go and read about the atrocities of Japan during the war.... Lol.. humane indeed
Being a man of war history myself I have read about the Japanese attrocities of ww2 in nankin China, Philippines, Indonesia and Singapore, most of those who committed those attrocities were trialed and executed after Japan surrendered.

It should be noted that chances of the US to solely, successfully invade another nation and bring it to a total subjugation without nukes and any allies is very slim.

Look what happened to them in Vietnam, the Korean war, Somali and Afghanistan where they fled from that country without their weapons.

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Properties / Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by twinskenny(m): 2:29pm On May 15
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Business / Re: Bet9ja Shop by Angelinegt: 2:27pm On May 15
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Romance / Re: 'I Would Rather Sell My Mom Than Arsenal Winning The League' - Tottenham Fan by Ezmans: 2:22pm On May 15
PerfectStranger:

Assnal no go see even spoon carry this season talk more of 🏆

They always be chasing shadows grin
one day they will win the title, it's there business not yours
Crime / Re: Lawyer Faults Portable’s Arrest, Says Police Not Debt Recovery Agency by uvie66: 2:19pm On May 15
jubrilELsudan:
SOME OF YOU NIGERIANS ARE REALLY VERY STUPID PEOPLE AND MOST DAFT SAYING THIS IS A CIVIL CASE

I DARE YOU ALL WITH YOUR FLAT BRAIN TO GO BUY A CAR THEN MAKE PART PAYMENT THEN SIGN AGREEMENT TO COMPLETE THE PAYMENT IN INSTALLMENTS THEN FAIL TO PAY THE INSTALLMENTS THEN WHEN THE SELLERS CALL YOU ABOUT YOUR NONE PAYMENTS THEN YOU GO AHEAD AND INSULT AND THREATHEN THEM AND TELL THEM YOU WON'T PAY THEN WHEN YOU ARE ARRESTED YOU SAY IT'S A CIVIL MATTER

GO ABROAD AND DO THIS AND SEE THAT YOU WON'T GET MINIMUM 25YEARS JAIL

HERE ABROAD THAT YOU FAIL TO MAKE PAYMENT FOR A MONTH THEY ALREADY FLY TO REPOSES YOUR CAR THEN talk MORE OF NOT PRODUCING THE CAR....YOU WILL BE ARRESTED AND CHARGED FOR CAR THEFT
if na abroad they will jejely come and take their car with the spare key.
Crime / Re: Lawyer Faults Portable’s Arrest, Says Police Not Debt Recovery Agency by uvie66: 2:15pm On May 15
Nonsense talk....and how will a debt recovery agency get the vehicle or money from that agbero that flew over his gate like an agbero, violence begets violence.
Politics / Re: 1.6m Nigerians Applied For Consumer Credit Scheme - MD by tuzeriouz(m): 2:13pm On May 15
Paraman:
Wetin this one dey talk 😕
it is not for your consumption
Romance / Re: I've Had Enough! Bet9ja Addicts Come In Here by Angelinegt: 2:12pm On May 15
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Politics / Re: 1.6m Nigerians Applied For Consumer Credit Scheme - MD by Paraman: 2:10pm On May 15
tuzeriouz:

Why creditcorp when banks of agriculture, industry and MFBs, the supposed players poised to drive SMEs. The domino effect of properly driven SMEs will catalyze the market and increase consumer purchasing power. Truth be told, creditcorp falls under the purview of "palliative democracy"
Wetin this one dey talk 😕

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Politics / Re: Fubara's 1st Year Anniversary: Rivers Gov hosts Alex Otti, To Commission Road by bentenny(m): 2:06pm On May 15
PureNigerDeltan:



I don’t only base in Rivers I am an Ijaw Riversman. All your talk here no point! Majority of Rivers are supporting Sim to make Wike useless. It’s nothing concerning APC PDP or anything you’re talking about. Wike stole all the treasures of this State and kept us impoverished. You are not a Riversman.. maybe you just live here.
Wait are you either blind or you cannot read to comprehend?

Did I mention majority of rivers people or apc supporters in my previous comments?

At the risk of sounding like a broken record to slow folks like you,my initial comments had to do with the hypocrisy of apc supporters who became emergency lovers of Wike simply because of his support for Tinubu in the last election forgetting that this same wike had previously insulted and mocked their paymaster Tinubu!

My comments had absolutely nothing to do with rivers people!

And this isn't about whether I reside in rivers state or whether I'm more ijaw,it's about your inability to comprehend a simple comment that is the problem!

Next time,try to peruse properly before reacting!
It doesn't speak well of the schools you attended...no pun intended!
Family / Re: My 6years Old Does Not Have Retentive Memory by Kobojunkie: 1:51pm On May 15
1Sharon:
∆ Well OP hinted at her intelligence/ IQ here:
You can't really retain what you don't understand. What gives OP the right to physically discipline his daughter for not being "book smart" ?
The child does well with smartphones and figuring out passwords so IQ is OK. Memory, particularly short-term which deals with recalling what you have recently experienced, seems to be where the complaint lies. undecided

Of course, I don't support OP flogging the child but I fit talk today till tomorrow and OP no go care. undecided
Crime / Re: Lawyer Faults Portable’s Arrest, Says Police Not Debt Recovery Agency by jubrilELsudan: 1:48pm On May 15
SOME OF YOU NIGERIANS ARE REALLY VERY STUPID PEOPLE AND MOST DAFT SAYING THIS IS A CIVIL CASE

I DARE YOU ALL WITH YOUR FLAT BRAIN TO GO BUY A CAR THEN MAKE PART PAYMENT THEN SIGN AGREEMENT TO COMPLETE THE PAYMENT IN INSTALLMENTS THEN FAIL TO PAY THE INSTALLMENTS THEN WHEN THE SELLERS CALL YOU ABOUT YOUR NONE PAYMENTS THEN YOU GO AHEAD AND INSULT AND THREATHEN THEM AND TELL THEM YOU WON'T PAY THEN WHEN YOU ARE ARRESTED YOU SAY IT'S A CIVIL MATTER

GO ABROAD AND DO THIS AND SEE THAT YOU WON'T GET MINIMUM 25YEARS JAIL

HERE ABROAD THAT YOU FAIL TO MAKE PAYMENT FOR A MONTH THEY ALREADY FLY TO REPOSES YOUR CAR THEN talk MORE OF NOT PRODUCING THE CAR....YOU WILL BE ARRESTED AND CHARGED FOR CAR THEFT

Foreign Affairs / Re: Biden Announces New Tariffs On Chinese Imports by t2luv1: 1:46pm On May 15
WrriterNg:


And who do you think owns this so called US wealth?

The Saudis, Qataris, Kuwaitis, Japanese, Chinese and other countries. They own about 70% of all US reserves and major shares in the top companies in the US.

So all these talk of GDP is useless because it doesn't even belong to Americans. It belongs to the people who owns these shares.

Even a cattle herder in Mali with lots of money can own major stakes in a US fortune 500 company.

Psst !!! Let me get your attention. US External outstanding debt is about $33T. The amount owned by foreign interest is about $2.9T , the biggest owner of US outstanding debt is the Social Security obligation fund. Fortune 500 portfolio does not have anything to do with USA overall wealth status. Apple is a USA company but its tax-registered address is in Ireland same as Coca-Cola. The USA has a $34T economy, the second country is China with a $13T economy. This your so-called dying empire might be sick but dying I don't think so. Ask yourself this question why does the rest of the world prefer to keep their external reserves in Dollars even China or Russia still does.
Family / Re: My 6years Old Does Not Have Retentive Memory by 1Sharon(f): 1:42pm On May 15
Kobojunkie:
OP dey talk Memory here not IQ. A person with low IQ can still have excellent memory. undecided

Well OP hinted at her intelligence/ IQ here:

this smartness and sharpness does not reflect on her academics, I just found out from her today that she copies her classwork from her classmates.

You can't really retain what you don't understand. What gives OP the right to physically discipline his daughter for not being "book smart" ?
Romance / Re: She Didn't Want Me 2 Years Ago And Now IN 2024 This Happened.... by Vyzz: 1:40pm On May 15
CapitalBank:
I was going through my account and found a piece that I shared in 2022...

You can read it here: https://www.nairaland.com/6956617/what-killed-feelings-someone-madly/3#109702078

And here: https://www.nairaland.com/6956617/what-killed-feelings-someone-madly/7#109712641

Well, it is 2024 and I have dislodged myself of any emotional attachment to her but I did notice that she has been making some compliments on my pictures but I didn't move.

Previously I didn't share my pictures much but I started doing that more often started in 2023. And the compliments kept coming whenever she saw my pictures... Of course, it was a sign, I knew what it was but I didn't move.

On the other hand, when upload hers, I just view them and never say a word of compliment, unlike what I used to do 2 years ago.

Then I decided to probe and find out what was happening because all these compliments can't just be for no reason.

I teased her that I had wanted to marry her and she chose her job for better or worse. She then responded with a meme and said she was just trying to get back on her feet and things were hard (excuses she used to give). I told her she would have communicated with me and not that I would have hindered her in any way but would have supported her.

Now, I have opened the window for her to come out openly (with that thing that has been making her compliment my pictures) and she took it....

Guess what? She said well I am expecting your wedding invitation soon.

Now, a novice would think she meant wedding invitation, but I knew it meant something else and had to reply by playing along. I told asked her if she does not want to get married that it is her I want to marry (just pulling her legs lol).

She then asked "But you are in a relationship". She is trying to see if the window is still open for her to come in.

This further confirmed what I was suspecting. I revealed that I had one before but pulled out because she did not want to cook.

So I asked her, do you want to tell me that you haven't been in a relationship all this while? She said she tried talking to SOMEONE NEW AFTER ME BUT THE GUY LEFT TO THE UNITED KINGDOM

Hmmm..... Now the picture is clear. Her plan A failed, so she wanted to fall back on me as a backup plan, hence the reason for all those compliment for which she didn't do more than compliment because she thought it was enough to get me running back to her.

Anyway, I told her she messed up and that at a point, I had wanted to even relocate to her base because of her...

She then asked "Do you still like me that much?" hmmm So she knew all along that I liked her but was intentionally sabotaging the whole thing.

I later told her that it is too late now because I already had someone I wanted to marry. Her tone of message changed and you could feel the regret coming from her end.

I told her she messed up big time and I only did what she wanted me to do, which was leave her alone. I reminded her of how she sabotaged two attempts I made to see her and let's talk, even last year 2023, I tried again. I said a lot and told her and told her that I am only revealing all these to her cos I wanted her to do better.

She promised to do better and change. She expressed she has learned her lessons and will do better.

At one point, I was forced to ask her and said I thought it was not important to her like she was not interested in a relationship(cos that was the impression she was always giving as per busy busy, work)... She queried why wouldn't it be important. She admitted that is important to her but she was just trying to clear up before throwing up her emotions again (excused from backfired plans). I say excuse cos I was patient enough... At a point she said God will bring her own... Oh really? Bring your own? I thought you weren't ready for a relationship?

There were other things she said... but I was satisfied that I had gotten the information I needed at last. Unfortunately for her, I do not give such ladies a second chance, ladies who consider me as backup... I never take that backup option. If you read the two links I dropped above, you see where I told her to delete my number

Summary is: A girl telling you she is not ready for a relationship or she is busy is lying to you. She is saying all that because she has her eyes somewhere else. She will only consider you IF the one she is aiming for is no longer available and you as a man MUST make sure you do not take her back. A woman who never wanted you in the past cannot want you in the present.

She will only pretend and mask it because she needs to procreate and you seem like the only available choice to help her achieve that, it does not mean she suddenly loves, like or want you. Women are expect at sacrificing their desires at the expense of getting married and having kids. This means they can furk a guy the don't love and bear his child.

Another thing they do not consider is that as much as they are aiming for that richer, more comfortable dude, over 50 girls are aiming for the same... the competition is high and does not favour their usual "shakara"

I just felt like sharing the ending story... I am glad it happened, I am glad to find out that I was actually a great dude (according her lol). grin

I do hope the smart ladies who will read this piece will pick a feather of wisdom from this... Sorry for the typo.. I am just trying to type as fast as I can because I have some other task to handle.



Congrats brother


No secret that a woman's value decrease with age while a man's value increases with time and age...


If she didn't want you when she was still the deal...

While should u settle for her now...

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