flokii: South Africa still doesn't come close... you're fascinated about the digitalized election process, I understand. Their popultion there is about 64 million while Nigeria's population is about 232 million
So What are you trying to say Are you making sense
NairaOcean: A police officer was caught on camera grappling with an Uber driver while the vehicle was in motion. The incident, which lasted for over 10 minutes, has sparked outrage and raised serious concerns about road safety and police conduct.
The altercation was captured by a female passenger, who was in severe panic throughout the ordeal. The video, which has since gone viral on social media, shows the officer and the driver engaged in a tense struggle as the car sped down the highway. The woman can be heard pleading with the officer to release the driver, fearing for her life and the safety of everyone in the vehicle.
In a shocking response, the officer allegedly stated that "Oga" (a term commonly used to refer to a superior or boss) was more important than their lives combined. Despite her continuous begging and the evident danger, the confrontation continued unabated.
The situation escalated to a frightening climax when the terrified passenger felt compelled to jump out of the moving car to escape the chaos. Miraculously, she survived the leap, but her traumatic experience has ignited a firestorm of criticism towards the Nigerian police force.
Jeon: She did well, she didn't want to be harm like those women that passed away in their abusive relationships Just because they were the breadwinners and earning high than the men.
And I advise her to move far away from you or your friend .
Dpharisee: The guy is an ally of Putin despite being in NATO, he feels that Zelensky is a clown for listening to America and provoking Russia into war and wants an end to NATO supplying weapon to Ukraine but to start negotiations. This is possibly the work of CIA
Lukmanraji: My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.
Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.
So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.
I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.
To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.
So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.
Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.
After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.
Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.
I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.
I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.
I took my time to read all these nonsense you wrote. First of all, you are a big fool. Only fools beg women. You and your father are SIMP 3rd, you don't deserve that woman, she is far better than you. Never, never in your life beg woman, any day you do that, You have killed yourself and your soul as a man. Who does that? It irritate me when I see men do that shit
One of my best friends who is expected to get married this year just called me for hours with regards to his plans.
He met this babe 2 years ago and things were going fine. I even know the girl as a nice lady and very homely. I don chop her food, she cooks well. Both of them attend RCCG church. My friend is a casual member while his fiance is a serious member and doesn't miss weekly services.
So my friend to take his relationship more seriously decided to visit his fiancé's family so they know him. Before then, the fiancé had told him that her father is a former Baptist but has stopped being religious and sometimes does traditional practices. On the day of him visiting her home, he was welcomed even bought gifts for the dad and mum. But he said his spirit was very uncomfortable in that house.
There was an standing portrait of the father on white with beads and regalia to show he is Ogboni. Also in the house, there were a few funny looking art works which looks occult. My friend played cool, the father even asked of his church and he told him. The father proudly said he is a traditional man. After the meeting, the next day he asked his girlfriend if her father is an ROF member and she said yes that she told him before that he is a traditional man.
But my friend is showing signs of doubts. He told me he loves the girl, but that he wants nothing to do with anything occultic in this life till he dies. His family may not agree but even if he insist to have his way because of love, he wants to be sure it will not end in regret.
I told him what really matters is the heart of the person he is marrying. My guy said yes but family background matters. Foundation matters, which is true.
House, what do you think?
He should proceed because he is covered spiritualy and the wold today is full of Evil
Reality3080: it will surely end in regret cos when they give birth the father might say he wants to give the baby a traditional name or perform traditional rites on d baby n u don’t have any right to deny him cos that’s his grandchild n don’t forget the lady will always support her family n she will always win cos “she told u before”
Beeb1e: Hello everyone, I got a call from a man in the Village (Elele, Rivers State) on Tuesday night, that we should look for a way to come and carry our mother as she has slumped and was rushed to a hospital, where she was in coma.
He explained to me that my mother went to demand for the payment of the debt the man is owing her and he angrily beat her up, he stripped her , tore her clothes, her underwear was torn too. I’m literally crying as I type this. Everyone that tried to stop him he chased with the machete. Now my dad is late , else he won’t have tried this.
I am in Lagos so I’ve not seen her my sister that was able to travel to Elele to see her sent me the pictures.
She is out of coma now, but still unable to sit or stand or talk. We also noticed she is bleeding from her private part.
We arrested the evil man with the Elele police but the community Igwe bailed him, he is a known person in the community and owns a hotel there.
I really want this man to receive this level of Physical pain or more, because my mum almost lost her life.
I don’t know what to do or how to go about getting justice for her.
We are at military hospital port harcourt now.
Raise money gather military and pick him up. Keep these evidence. In short make sure you hit this man so he feel the pains, any how you do it.
Iykegodslove: Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as i type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her. There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but i keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much. Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation. It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all. Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice. Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?
Young man, you don't need advice again na. You have the answer, immediately I read you can forgive her and you don't wish to divorce her, so what type of advice do you need again? I keep on telling young Men before marriage, condition your mind either you loose your future wife one day or you grow old with her. But immediately you have the mind set that I can not live/survive without my partner, that will be the day the Devil will visit you. So now, it is your choice to make. You don't need advice because any cheat will always be a cheat any time, any day and with anybody tomorrow. Peace
SAMBARRY: another enabler.you are part of the cancerous tumors of Nigeria.fraudulent behavior whether done by politicians or the people is bad.what is bad is bad I don't care if it's from politicians or not
If you want a corrupt Free society,stop enabling criminality irrespective of who perpetuates it
SAMBARRY: Nigerians.must you rub the name of Nigeria in the mud? Na swear? Won Fi Ole ATI IWA jibiti sepe funyini? Can't you go to another man's country and behave yourself?
Will you shut up there. Why are you talking like a poor rat, do you compare it to what your politifiens are doing both here and abroad? Who started it first
OnionBandit: Na small pikin talk be this. Obviously, you still see having sex with girls as an achievement. The more girls you lay, the better for your ego. I repeat, na small pikin dey worry you
Of course immediately I saw the post It down on me he MUST be a small boy
but what skin colour got to do with this now? But for real I am curious to know wy you asked bcus it seems I see where you are driving to and you could make sense
Valoromega: I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave. she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.
She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.
I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
Just man up, never in your life beg her to stay, any day you do that she will never stop using it So next time she say such, use your hand and pack her bag for her, but before then call her Father ONLY and tell her attitude and swear to him you would send her packing any time you hear such nonsense from her. In fact threat her with careless attention and make fake calls around her. Break her wings, if she is your wife she will stay but if not yours, brother never you beg a woman to stay in your life, I repeat never and never
I started work for this organization in December last year and I am heading my department. A new manager, a female was brought in January from a different state as the overall head. It wasn't easy for her as a lot of junior staff fought against her decisions. I was her go to person even though there are other people heading various departments. As time went on, some junior and senior members of the organization began to disassociate from her. This made us come more closer. We hug each other every morning on resumption of duty, she visits my office, eat there if she came with food and most times, will sleep on my office. She is always jealous whenever she sees me holding other female colleagues. I don't go beyond the hugging because she is married and I respect her marriage. Even the hugging, I don't hug in the front, but at the side. With time, she was able to push a lot of junior staffs away and new ones were employed. One of the new guy employed last month, knows the game to unlocking women's leg. Within last month and this month, he has slept with almost all the girls in the organization and even the girls I usually play left me, both the one that has visited me in my house although, we didn't do anything. Some weeks ago, he began coming close to the overall manager, and the woman, started developing emotions for him and becomebtoo attracted to him. Last week, I and the guy were having some good time then she appeared, came to the chair where I sat and looked straight into the guys eyes. I caught her, and she became uncomfortable. She left my office and then closed work after 5 mins even though it wasn't her closing time. She lives with her husband and I do go to visit them. I never knew I had feelings for her all these while until that particular act happened. Well, after that act, I restrained her from coming to my office. She came begging me. She asked me what was wrong. I couldn't tell her because she is married but i was dying. She even asked me if i am in love with her but i kept mum. Two days ago, I was with her in her office when she heard the guy's voice and how the other women are happy, chanting and laughing. Immediately, she became uncomfortable and after 5 mins, she told me that she was coming and left. 10 minutes later, I went out and caught she and the guy in a happy mood. I became very angry and hurt, the only friend I had was gone. Yesterday, I called her to her office and asked her if she loves the guy. She was furious but I continued by pointing out all that I have observed about her and the guy. She became cold, and her countenance changed. After i left her office, she sat there without stepping out the whole day except the time she closed for the day.
I don't know if it was wrong to have told her about the guy since I'm not the husband.
As it stands now, I've decided to cut close ties with her as I know clearly, the guy has won.
Before she went home yesterday, I went into her office and noticed that she was crying and then, her hand shaking. I asked her why was she crying and why is her hand shaking. She did not say anything, so I told her to do what's on her mind, because I know clearly that that I've lost her.
Ever since yesterday, I've been feeling jealousy towards them.
She didn't come to work today but I'm worried about her, me and the guy tomorrow.
I took my time to read your post. My conclusion, you are such a pathetic and useless as bad as the foolish woman, including the new guy. Don't you have sense of reasoning?? Punna your fellow man is pounding every day and then and you are busy frolicking for to have, don't you see single girls that have not born babies? Are you normal??
Freshtruth: I am the Manager of a Hotel , there is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal, All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone. Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she we say may may u are a very handsome guy o . during my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too . I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut we lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well. The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors . my supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel I told them I will handle the issue. Pls advise me what to do pls.
My advice is that you should repeat that same thing you guys did on your off day and both of you will regain senses, thank me later. Married man oshi
Spring2025: People of God I just need your help on this issue. I can't bear it anymore. I'm a 35-year-old man with a bachelor's degree and plan to pursue my Masters degree in the US. I'm married with a kid and my wife is 25 and our son is 1. This year makes it two years after getting married to my wife. I started with my wife peacefully until the day I expressed my interest in pursuing graduate program in the US, my wife accepted the idea readily and I was happy. However, just a day after I made my plans known to her she started disturbing me to apply to the US and jet out. It wasn't time because I plan to apply for Spring but she's all over me all the time. Next, was her attitude of not cooking again. She complain of stress even when I employed two sales assistant to help her in the Super Market where I opened a shop for her. So literally, my wife goes to shop and watch over our employees then come back home. I didn't mind. My wife stopped cooking, washing my clothes or even the kid's. I do the cooking and wash out baby's dresses. She yell at me for any mistake or misunderstanding. But what pained me most that made started investigation on her was coming back home very late even hours after she must have closed from shop. My wife answers calls at odd hours and wouldn't want me to hear. I once came back home one Sunday unannounced and she left her phone charging in sitting room, a call came in and the me she saved it with was 'my joygiver' so I let her knew she had a call and pretended as if I saw nothing just to observe her, she declined to pick but went away with the phone. The next day I went to the shop leaving my office early and discovered she wasn't in the shop so I asked the two sales assistants but they said madam always leave early. By this time the feelings in my instincts were becoming evident. I decided to call her right there and pretended I was in the office and she told me she was in the shop. I confronted her then she laughed and said she came to visit a friend. Few weeks ago, I decided to investigate her phone but I was skeptical of her password because she might have changed the one I know but luckily for me, she didn't. Men, to my greatest surprise I saw my wife cooking in another guy's kitchen while she dropped my kid who was crying without giving him attention. They kissed and romanced and did all they could, I was patient enough to bear it. I read her chats and discovered that she was telling the guy that I plan to go to the US so when I leave he will migrate to my house to have her in full. This is where I almost committed suicide. I just need your advice, should I divorce her or let her be until my son is grown? I'm feeling the pain of this woman remaining in my house but on a second thought, my son. If I divorce her she may run away with my son because the kid is not old enough to leave with me only. My brothers please help advise me.
What if she die, won't you and your child survive? Do fast send her to the guy before she send you early grave, if at all this story is Real
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