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O what a loss! May his soul rest in perfect peace

Ibadanpikin:
I am a 31 year old man i have never been in a relationship with any lady talkless of sex. I stammered a litttle bit so i find it very hard to toast a lady. Any time i try talking to a girl i begin to stammer and my heart beats fast, its so embarrassing, some of my friends think i am impotent or gay.
How will i marry, guys how do u do it?

Mister nothing is wrong with you. You are fine and for now focus on how you will be successful in life and forget woman matter although you can be praying to God for a good wife later. God bless you

As a right thinking person and a serious Yoruba man, Ayade must be be mad to have decamped from PDP to APC.Abi were ni man yen ni?
If he had move to Labour, SDP or any other party I would have said he must have genuine reasons but no right thinking person will or should join APC now because they (APC)) starting from Buhari have set Nigeria 50 years back.
Nigeria is collapsing today because of Buhari and his useless associates.

Shameful

O what a loss!. May God comfort his family and may his Soul rest in perfect peace. I sincerely hope his family will be able to locate his corpse.

FalseProphet1:
I see ibori being heavily celebrated and collecting chieftaincy title across Nigeria when he comes back home. This I have seen.

LOL you this man sef

Omo Ole. Thief. Alapa masise.

O Pele dear. So sorry.This is very touching.

God bless him.

O Lord. I am short of words o

They must all be caught and castrated. Rape is evil and dehumanising in every form.

Spark2:
Dear Nairaland,
I am in a state of dilemma now. Choosing between going for masters and pursuing my passion of studying medicine is quite difficult for me.

I studied chemistry Education, graduated well, served and I'm now teaching. I am barely two years into the profession and I am already tired of it. I feel I deserve a career not just a work. A career in medicine for me is something that I belive will make me happy. it's something I can do even if I'm not paid for....I'm 25 years and I feel I have no time again.

I hope to go pick up a JAMB form this week to pursue my passion and happiness. I will not want to make any mistake here. So I believe hearing from people who have been in this shoe will guide me.

Have you been in this situation?
Did you pursue your passion?
Please share your story, age at which this decision was taken and how it has impacted your life.

This will go a long way in guiding me through this critical decision.

Thank you

Pls pursue your dream. I read about a guy in his late 30s in a medical school either at Babcock or one of those universities in Ogun state. Don't let anyone discourage you pls

Nice one. Don Jazzy wa dagba. You will grow old well for respecting your Elders. Humility pays

Vickyvice:
That his son in last pic has to go for checks. DAT body wet dey like that so. Na signal.

Bro I agree with you.The weight is not healthy at all

This is good development.

Techguy96:
If u are a student of history and don’t know those areas were actually under Biafra then ur education was a waste of money.

You must be a young man with your fiery nature. Your agitation for Biafra Republic is okay with me as I would have resisted Lord Luggard to merge my tribe with other nationalities in 1914 were I to be born then but the Enobongs, Asuquos, Ebongs from Akwa ibom state that I know have consistently argued that they are not Ibos(I don't have problems with Ibos as 4 of them are my tenant in lagos) just as I cannot force the the Bini or Warri people to be part of a future Oduduwa Republic even though our history is intertwined together.I wish you well. God bless you.

Bialegend:
Segun, what is strange about that. Keep deluding yourself from your Benin republic IDP camp. Rivers state and Akwa Ibom state are Biafraland and what is happening in those places are expected

Deluding myself! Thank you for your response.

Bialegend:
Segun, what is strange about that. Keep deluding yourself from your Benin republic IDP camp. Rivers state and Akwa Ibom state are Biafraland and what is happening in those places are expected

Really? Then I must be a poor student of history. Wishing you all the best.

Unknown gunmen operating in Akwa ibom and Rivers? Quite strange. Nigeria has gradually turned to Somalia before our very eyes.

Wao. Owerri is a beautiful city.

Oga o. I think El Rufai doesn't comprehend the dynamics of Nigeria's present situation.
He is living in a fools paradise obviously.

It is well. The way of the transgressor is hard.

O what a loss! It is so sad to lose a child o. Very painful.

WhiteRuler:
First of all, apologies for any errors you may come across as I am not at the right frame of mind now.

Secondly, this post is 100% real about my life. So nothing is fake in it.

I'm a man, precisely 33 years old. I graduated from the University in 2019 at age 31. You may ask why I was still in school till that age. Well, I have realized that family/parental background matters a lot in a child's life no matter how people try to twist the fact. My family/parental background wasn't a good one educationally and financially as my parents were just petty traders and this has contributed negatively in achieving my goals and aspirations in life. With the above, you can deduce that there was no sources of funding for my tertiary education so I had to find a job after my secondary school while very ambitious about my furthering my education because I always believed in acquiring education up to university level. This led me to doing several odd jobs such as construction site labourer, security guard, cleaning, barbing, hawking, even to remove soak away and many others just to feed and see myself through school. Let me also add that @33 now, there are some jobs I can't do again because of some changes in my health system occasioned by some of the odd jobs I exposed myself to. For example, any strenuous job now is not for me as it makes me breath heavily like an asthmatic patient; any job that requires standing for long or bending down not for me due to broken waist (although these might be solvable issues but for now, I can't tell cos I have no money to visit health facility).

Moving on, while I may be thanking God for the academic success (even though the school is yet to issue me certificate) but I'm having strong feelings about myself. I feel like I have failed in life. I feel like I am a failure. My mates who got admission into university immediately after secondary school are gainfully employed today, living in comfortable apartment (built or rented), married with kids, have their own car and generally doing well. Even the ones who didn't further but venture into learning trade are doing well too. On the other hand, at 33, I have virtually nothing to show for it. Still living in one thatch house, poor, hungry and starving, no wife, no kid(s) (not even a serious girlfriend), no job, no car and nothing to show for my 33 years on earth. This is why I'm feeling like I have failed in life and it has made me to always be ashamed of myself and always trying to avoid meeting my mates who are doing well.

Also, looking at the country Nigeria, most employers recruit under 30. @33, what are my chances of
landing a good job if I refuse to forge age and go for service but collect exemption letter? What are even the possibility of getting a job as I have no capital for business? Note: between 2019 and now, I've learnt several online money making skills but yet to make a kobo out of it all. Note also: ordinarily, I wouldn't seek employment (private or government) because I'm multi talented e.g in football, entertainment or business but these talents need money to develop which is what I'm lacking.

My questions:
Please what do you all think? Do you think I have failed or I'm a failure in life? What is the future holding for me? As at today, the only thing I can boast of is "I am a graduate". Nothing more...like I said, poor, hungry and starving.

Help me with good pieces of advice please before my mind begins to consider evil as fastest way of making money. Thanks.

My beloved brother,pls kindly ignore any negative experiences that you have had since you were born. Look first banish the thought out of your mind that you are a failure. You are not a failure bra. Failure is not a destination but an event. At 33 years, the best of life is still ahead of you.
Thank God vehemently that you are still in the land of the living bro.
My advice to you is that stay close to God and then read books.I read 'tough times don't last last by the late Robert Sucheller and it really transformed my life.
Bishop David Oyedepo made a statement years ago that cause a revolution in my mind
when he said' 'do not let your certificate dissapoint you. There is something that God has deposited inside of you that the whole world is looking out for'.
You are not an abandoned project bro. Look for something productive to do and seek business opportunities while looking up to God for divine assistance. God has you in mind.

Lol

O what a loss

foxton:
If am to advise u, ur best bet will b hawking, no dulling. Buy half cartoon or quater cartoon of gala and sell for bonny camp. U go sleep for underbrigde wella oo, if u fit avoid 'okpo' u go survive

Lol

MejiLoyon:
So what is he preaching?
All these men of God sef

Na so I see Austin wey dey always post cashapp and wire wire for status for crusade poster.
He say na God call am. How many minutes God take call? Which network? Austin wan use azaman money open church.

Pastor wire wire.

May God have mercy on you LOL

Lousymouth:
This video is old now... Misinforming people is even worse than Bad govenance shay you know?

You are right jare

obidevine:
This is old news. This video by timaya was made in 2017.

Indeed you are right. The Op is just twisting the fact.

Chukwute:
Dirty looking Igbo smoker, stop blaming people, go and work — Timaya blast Eedris Abdukareem

Following the release of a diss track targeted at Festus Keyamo, ace musician Timaya has come out to condemn Eedris Abdulkareem.

Focus Naija can report that “Senior Advocate of Nonsense” is a follow up diss track against the minister of state for labour and employment.

According to Timaya, he was a back up singer for Eedris Abdulkareem for many years but was never paid for his services.

“I was your back up artist and you did not appreciate me. You regarded me like a nobody, I paid my transport to your shows because I was learning. You have never paid me one day. You disregard people, how many people don blow through you”, the Dem Mama crooner asked.

“Where are all the people that were with you before? You come on social media, where the f**k are you? Don’t blame people, Go and work. Dirty looking Igbo smoker“

Watch the video on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/COaRpOLn4Ct/?igshid=13kymyaqebyjd

Without being disrespectful, you are nothing but a mischievous fellow. You can deceive some people but you can't deceive everyone. This Timaya video is not a recent one but a video that had been released about 3 or 4 years ago when Eedris and Timaya had issues. No matter the problem Eedris may have but pls ignore the messenger for now and take his message in this season. Is Nigeria not upside down now? Pls this is not the time to wallow in parochialism and mockery but this is a time for serious business. If you don't know we are in a state of war already.

I don't see Boko Haram people here. As you know they normally fly that their demonic black flag whereever they go.

O my God! I thought she will be found but this news is heart breaking.

How long Lord will this senseless killing continue?

Lord why? Lord why?