Ah ahh
Village people dey discuss you go scattered them come burn their money on top. Uhh God no allow them make them get you.

Lol

you see these women ehh, they are difficult to understand. All I can tell you now is 'please take heart'

I don't support school owners owing salary. It is also important for teachers to have other sources of income.
When I was teaching, I have different sources of income in fact I usually don't know when they paid my salary. Most of my colleague always complain.

The problem with counting 3 days from the day Jesus died (Good Friday) is how cultures count days.

Back in Jesus’ time it was customary to count the current day as day 1, as soon as the sun set it was day 2, and as the sun set on day 2 it became day 3. Yes, I know we don’t count days that way today, but you have to understand the Bible in its historic context.

So Jesus died around 3 p.m. on Good Friday (day 1), and they had to rush to seek permission to bury him before sundown because Saturday (the Sabbath) would start. Saturday (the Sabbath) counts as day 2. At sundown on Saturday a new day starts Day 3 (Sunday). Early that Sunday morning the women came to anoint the body of Jesus because they didn’t have time to do it earlier. The Bible clearly tells us it was on the first day of the week (Sunday).

It’s important to know that in Biblical times they didn’t have clocks and didn’t use a solar calendar, and didn’t do many things we take for granted today.

AdesewaAde:
So recently, I’ve been having this feeling that my fiancé is a cheat, I’m not a type of woman who do choke my partner or check his phones cause I respect his privacy, even though he has always been checking my phone, going through my social media accounts and all other things, sometimes he will use my fingers to unlock my phone while sleeping just to go through it.

We’ve been dating since 2018, we became best of friends and our families are cool together, he is caring and jovial, he doesn’t hide things from me most especially financial issues, our social lives are almost the same, in short we are good together. We planned to do our engagement last year December but due to the way things were last year we postponed it and decided to pick another date, though I now spend half of my days at his place.

Fast forward to January this year, I started seeing some red signs that he is a cheat, many times I took his phone to unlock and go through since I know his passwords but I will drop it again cause there is no way I will check his phone without seeing things that will tamper with my peace of mind, since then, I’ve decided to open my eyes and ears more wider.

Later on , I discovered that anytime I am around, his phones were always on airplane mode, he only works on system, my heart started asking me different questions but I kept calm and I continued with my quest to catch him red handed, though I confronted him that he is cheating but he laughed at me and said 95% of men do cheat but he is among the remaining 5% that doesn’t.

Last month, we both decided to go on vacation, it was then I saw that I was actually in a relationship with a dog like person. There was a particular number that kept calling him, maybe he forgot to put the phone on airplane mode, at first I overlooked it but the number kept on calling about 59 times, it was then that I decided to pick it up and I heard a female voice, she said “you asshole, so you decided not to pick my calls because she is around, come online, I left you a message there” my heart skipped, who was she referring to as “she”? It was then I decided to unlock his phone for the first time and I just wish I didn’t do that, my eyes were heavy with tears as I was reading all sorts of conversations between him and different girls, not one, not two, not three, about ten of them, some even sent him nude pictures, he already bleeped some, some are still under format, two of them are new preys. I cried, many of them even know me, one even referred to me as his witch, I wept bitterly, I was on this weeping when he entered the room and saw me crying, all he could say was that how will I touch his phone in the first place.

He later apologised, after the much argument, I started parking my things to come back to out state, I told him I am done with the relationship, he started laughing at me and started shouting at the top of his voice “ babe you must be crazy, you are definitely out of your mind, how on earth must you think you can leave the relationship that I summoned up so much courage to ask you out? Listen woman, even if I cheat everyday, I can’t leave you, the truth is I will always cheat, I will apologise if been caught but I can’t ever place any woman above you,vI met our pastor in the hotel with another babe the last time I went to hotel for quickie with one chick, if pastors do cheat, who am I not to. At least you have the key to everything I have, if my parents can’t reach me, they will deliver the message to you, are you hungry? Are you looking rough? Do you want sex and I denied you? So what else should be your problem with me cheating “

I was short of words, he wasn’t even remorseful, I left there angrily and he kept calling, later he called his parents to explain the issues to them and they called me and pleaded, to make the situation worse his mom also said all men cheat. He has been threatening me that he won’t allow me to marry any other person, guys I’m really confused, please what can I do now, I don’t want to spend the rest of my life with a man who doesn’t have taste.

If you want peace of mind , leave that guy ASAP cause for him to be justifying his action shows he is not ready to change. The risk involve is far more than the benefits, and thank God you have not yet married. There are good men, pray to God for one. Life is beautiful!

I wish you all the best .

KingAzubuike:
The African mentality is so messed up. Why would you want a child to suffer and see hardship before he knows what life is truly about?

Well, I think the word suffer in this contest is been miss use , rather the right word should be discipline, or rigorous learning process. Personally, I think the chances of a child having good moral up bringing is high is africa compare to western countries because the child learn about our culture and other things. The child can be taken out of the country during vacation for more exposure. No one want his or her child to suffer.

Bad experience!

Some guys(men and women) are just bad, don't comite yourself financially more than necessary to any relationship, the person that really love you will not leave.

Just let go the moment you start feeling unconfortable. Don't hack into any body's phone, nobody worth it the trouble!

snowball11:





Don't mind that one running his mouth yhen, yhen, yhen! Because they managed to carry the league after 20 years of draught,.....he thinks other teams would sit and watch Loserpool carry it again!

It's not going to be easy for liverpool to retain EPL title but do you know that it took Chelsea 50 years before they won their 2nd title?

You girlfriend family get k leg, they will give you problem abeg. Run for your life abeg!

ebukajay184:
"Your Money Is For You And Your Wife. But Her Money Is Not For You" - Reno Omokri To Husbands

Reno Omokri has stated that a husband is not supposed to spend money that belongs to his wife, IgbereTV reports.

He wrote on Instagram:



https://www.instagram.com/p/CFaYJ5vjyln/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

But they said marriage is a union between man and woman but how come the woman's money is not part of the union?
I understand if the woman is not working which is not the best, but if the woman is working what will she be spending her money on?

I think Mr Reno is trying to encourage men to be a responsible father and husband, but this nugget no balance at all

Zealoy:
Hello guys pls I will like some advice from mature minds here, there's this girl am dating she's very pretty, sexy and hard working, she loves me so much that each day that she didn't hear my voice it will seems to her as if the world is coming to an end

The problem is I didn't love her equally the same way she loves me, initially I only wanted her for sex but she's getting too attached to me, and there's one certain man of God that warmed me to dump the girl am dating, which is her, my problem is how am I going to let her go without actually hurting her feelings cuz I know quite alright that she might hurt herself if I end the relationship between us. She's dangerously in love with me and I fear it will end in tears for her.

You have had what you wanted and you want to dump her without hurting her, how is that possible? Haven't you heard the statement 'don't start what you can not finish'
Best of luck bro

obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

Well done mr obembet. Oga bestie without benefits

Water is not black and yet it is colourless.

On a more serious note, the black is a reference to the skin and not the character.

iamadonis2:


I can safely say I'm a force to reckon with in my current business location.

In this case I will advice you to remain in your present location since you are a force to reckon with there.

It is good if you want to open another branch in Abuja but if you don't have enough money to promote your business you will end up wasting you time, money and effort. Abuja is a good place but business is expensive to run there. Type of business and location are also important.

Obsession4u:
It's so funny how the same Chelsea that denied us in 2014 are now the one that helped us in 2020.



Lesson derived: Never look down on anyone,the one you despise today might the one to help you in the future.

Congratulations to us Liverpool fans

They didn't help liverpool bro. If Chelsea lost that match they might not make it to top 4 cause Manchester United is right behind them. Either chelsea win or lose liverpool will still win league.

Confusedgirl869:
Hmmm bae, what about my parents? Especially mum after all the home trainings she gave, wouldn't she think I disgraced her? Being the first daughter, you know how our parents think na.

Uhh, so what you are saying is that if not for your mother you would have taken the baby mama stuff. You will have yourself to blame not the guy if you take it.

Please don't become USELESS
You are more than a baby producing FACTORY.

slyfoxxjoe:
some maybe. But I tell you that majority of successful men marry late because they do not want the commitments that marriage brings to interfere with their career or what they are trying to achieve in life. That doesn’t mean they didn’t have ho’s they were fvccking at the time. I’m just telling you they purposely avoided commitment so they could focus.

Uhh, okay.

slyfoxxjoe:
there are many men out there who put women aside to focus on their hustle and start hunting after they make their money so this is false. Do you wonder why so many successful older men have young wives and kids? It’s because they spent years toiling and nor chasing skirts like majority of broke guys on Nairaland. Y’all think this money comes easy.

well, this is not entirely true, some are just victim of bad ladies

Instead of advising ladies to marry responsible guys you are advising them not to marry broke guys. Rich guys dont use and dump girls abi? A guy might be broke now but if he is not lazy,has vision and God fearing, he will treat his woman right. Ladies should spend more time thinking on how to assist their men and not what to gain joo.

I know of someone that is earning 30k, his wife is working and they are blessed with children. I think a man that with 30k salary can settle down if the wife is ready to support. The problem is that most of this ladies that are not ready to settle with a man that is earning 30k are slay queens who are only interested in what they stand to gain, they are not ready to contribute anything at all. What if the man that is earning 100k and above today suddenly lost his job and now earning 30k or below, should the woman devorce him or what?. I think the most important thing is for the man to be responsible, with the help and prayer from the wife their financial status will change.

Some people lack respect sha, see the way they are abusing the man of God for expressing his opinion. For the fact that he is even older than some of you he deserve some respect abeg.Please stop the insult.

obembet:

Olowo layemo

I dey ya side babe

uhh , hope they invest wisely

Good Job npower. My name is not properly arranged, I've edited it and click on submit but the correction was not effected, please attend to this issue so that it won't affect my deployment next week. Thanks

This post is misleading, why virgin when the points you raised also affect non virgin?

please I need the video and other materials too. email: segun.salami2@gmail.com. wish you success sir.